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I (f) have had a friend (m) since before the womb. His parents are the reason mine are together.
They are best friends and have been for years. We’ve been friends for forever and even went to preschool together.
We lost touch during our middle school years so I didn’t see him again until we were in high school.
Then covid came and we didnt see each other for 2 years. We met up with everyone last night and I definitely felt something.
I don’t know if he feels the same way but I am too nervous to do anything because I dont want it to end badly but I feel something. How do I go about this? | Crush |
I’m always like “I’m never gonna be one of those people that fall for their best friends.” Well look at me now.
Head over heels for them. We’re both genderfluid, attracted to all genders, and polyamorous so the thing is, it could work.
And we just fit so well together. The last time I saw them we were constantly touching, smiling, and laughing together. And I think there’s a chance they like me too. | Crush |
Okay I don’t think I like him I know I like him. It took me ages to be able to accept that. I’m not sure if he likes me or not. A few months back I knew for sure that he didn’t but I was hanging out with me with a group of people one day and he was talking to me and staring into my eyes and I noticed something change. Like a switch clicked on and ever since then it’s been different. He’s been showing signs he likes me and is flirting with me but I just can’t figure it out. | Crush |
So the guy I like is finally being a lot more open and talkative and participating in stuff with the people we hang out with. For context he’s typically pretty quiet and normally doesn’t hang out with our group. Well last Friday we had a group cookout and he came and he surprised all of us with how interactive he was with al of us. We even ended up hanging out with each other most of the night and I think it’s really just showing that we’re getting closer which makes me happier. | Crush |
So I am college student and she was in my class now she is in different section. But we are good friend we have sometime good deep conversation.
Most of the she only dm me when there is any problem or she want something to be done.
Due to covid we don't have face to face talk so it feel uncomfortable to talk to her in real life and she also never bother to start conversation.
We have only talked WhatsApp.
And one time we were talking so she told she always have problem in friendship because boys always try to get in relationship and she just want friendship.
So should tell her that I have crush or I just be friend | Crush |
i (28f) was crushing hard on a guy (23m) at my workplace, he was from a different department, and has left the place since may.
last few weeks i found out that he badmouthed me in front of his supervisor, i knew this because she (the supervisor) accidentally told me.
it reminds me that he did badmouthed his friends and others in front of me.
it left me crushed and disappointed for wasting my feelings and emotions to someone like him.
he should never have to pretend as if he enjoys listening to my stories and all, if he never enjoyed our friendship, he could have just say it straight to my face and i would have just ignored him, simple as that.
never pretend to enjoy someone's companionship when at the end of the day you are going to bad mouth that person, just say it as it is. | Crush |
So this girl I (sort of) met back in Halloween added me back on social media, she knows of me, and I have a crush on her, the problem is we’ve never had a full on conversation, she leaves for another town in a month, how do I approach her on snap? | Crush |
So I exposed myself on Instagram.
I posted on my story that I had 7 crushes during my 11th grade school year.
Then I said who my actual crush is, and I FORGOT TO PRIVATE MY ACCOUNT!!!
LITERALLY ALMOST EVERY POPUAR PERSON SAW IT, INCLUDING HIM!!!!
NOW HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM!!!!!!!
but dats chill, Im like AHHHH HES SO CUTEEEE!!!
LIKE NOAH , LET ME EAT UUUUUUUU, AHAHAHAHAHAHHHA | Crush |
So my work crush , he comes to my job every now and then . My friend messaged me and told me this guy bought her food and then proceed and saying he knew me and he though I was a sweet heart .
Low key heart broken he bought her food. Happy for her because she got free food .
Someone help my little heart heal from this | Crush |
hey so I met this guy on discord and I really really like him. seeing him online makes me so happy. Ive been wasting all my time just watching him listen to songs and play games as it displays on his profile.
The thing is he isn't much active on the chat so I don't know how to talk to him. I really really like him but don't wanna confess because things might turn weird you know ;---;
Idk at this point it feels so heavy on me. He'll leave for Canada in a few days for higher studies. Im confused I don't know. Im listening to his Spotify playli rn and crying thinking about him 😔 | Crush |
Add my discord - averageboi#0500
I’m actually a genuinely a good person! Give me a chance ! :-) | Crush |
So I don't wanna constantly friendzone him like ayoo broo or like cool mate or something so how do I dodge that, I either need some neutral words that indicate neither friendship nor romantic interest (I'm a coward) or I need to just not say those words | Crush |
So I had a crush on a coworker for about two years while we worked together. I think he’s part of the reason I like certain physical features, like eye color. I was so sad when he moved on to work at a different store, but still the same company. At the time, I think dating could have been inappropriate if we had ever gotten together since he was in a position of authority above me. Assuming he was interested in me back, of course. We’re pretty close in age though, like 4 years?
I tend to be more on the reserved side, so I was pretty awkward all around plus so much of the time we worked together was mask mandate.
I like him because he always felt so easy to be around and I enjoyed his presence. Plus he was nice to me overall.
I guess because of staffing issues with our own store he’s back for at least this coming week and I’ll get to work with him for three shifts. Plus I worked with him yesterday, and I enjoyed being around him again. I thought I was over him but I guess not. Plus now I am like, the lowest management tier now so it would be less weird if we dated and we don’t work at the same store regularly so a break up would be less awkward. Assuming he even likes me.
This is like, the main crush I want closure on: Does he like me or nah? Is he interested? Would we even be compatible if we dated?
I really don’t want to make things awkward between us. 😩 | Crush |
So i'm a bisexual female and i've been texting this girl i like who's lesbian. She always seems happy to talk to me and we usually talk for hours. We were playing truth or dare through text once and i asked her about her crush. She answered my questions about her crush's age, hair color, hairstyle (i have short hair), sexuality, personality, how they met and few other things and it ALL matches me (she was hesitant to answer them though). A few days later (today) when we were playing truth or dare again, i asked her if her crush is me, since it seemed like she was describing me when she was talking about her crush. She, as usual, sent me a voice message, saying there is NO WAY she is going to answer that question and how she prefers to leave me wondering. Her tone was pretty playful but she was drunk. It was really late so she went to sleep since she felt sleepy, telling me goodnight. Does she like me? I don't know what to think.
She's the kind of person that will not reveal their feelings to their crush. | Crush |
I've known him for years now. We got a lot closer lately and think I have never loved someone that much.
When I'm around him I just feel so safe.
I love the sparkle in his light blue eyes when he talks about something he's passionate about..
He tells me almost everything and I love listening to his stories.. I never get tired of him.
but
I'm afraid that to him I'm just a good friend.
even though friends have already told me several times that they see that he cares about me and that he acts extremely nice towards me...
he often tells me about those girls he meets every other weekend or sometimes even who he hooked up with...
and in addition to that I can't tell him what I feel because I don't want to destroy our friendship...
his happiness is more important to me than what I feel.
I also can't distance myself from him because we share many hobbies and I see him regularly. that makes it almost impossible to get over him.
it breaks my heart.. | Crush |
Okay so for context a month and a half ago my girlfriend broke up with me. She’s done this before when we’ve been together so I’m kind of just done with it. I still love her but it’s complicated.
Anyway, so I work at a fast food place with my neighbor and best friend and a few other people from around my area. There’s this one guy I really like who’s only a year older than me, he’s graduating this year. I just think he has a nice smile etc. but the thing is, he’s extroverted + secretive and I finally got him to talk to me more when we had a closing shift together, it just takes him awhile to get used to you, you know? Anyway basically I’m ashamed because he’s a republican hick who competes in shooting competitions and before this I was exclusively almost always into women. He’s a nice guy but I don’t think he likes me. We look at each other a lot but by that I mean that we just know how to make eye contact and sometimes we just…look at each other I guess? I don’t know any other way to explain it besides we’re bored and so we just sit around you know. Anyway, the other day I made a heart for my friend that works there and I set it down on the counter, he also made a heart and I asked my friend if she took the heart and she said no. It’s a definite possibility that I swept it up or it got thrown away but he might have taken it?? That’s just a funny theory though, what’s not a theory is the fact that we would work in the same room together which he’s never done before. Usually we just separate into different parts of the store and close them separately. Of course maybe the back was clean and I wasn’t paying attention but he’s never done that sort of thing before so it surprised me. Of course maybe he’s used to me? I just want helpful tips. How do I flirt? Should I flirt? He quits in May and he’s sort of just got finished talking to someone that he is most likely not over. I don’t want to overstep a boundary because I’ll be honest I genuinely don’t care if he doesn’t have a crush on me too because I just want him to be happy, he’s a super nice guy! | Crush |
I have a crush on my online friend. We’ve been friends for about 8 months now and I started liking him a few months ago. I’ve been wanting to tell him how I feel but in past conversations we’ve had, he’s expressed not being interested in anyone at the moment because he’s been trying to focus on getting his mental health better (which I 100% understand) and I wondered if I should just keep my feelings to myself? Or should I just tell him how I feel and move on, just staying as friends? | Crush |
i confessed to my crush last month and he said he’s not interested in a relationship right now and that he has commitment issues. He recently broke up with his ex and is recovering ig. I really want him to like me i don’t know what to do . We have the same interests and everything but i’m too nervous to talk to him | Crush |
Met this girl in one of my college classes, we started talking one day and really seemed to hit it off. She gave me her number and said that we should study sometime, and to text her. I did, and I asked her to study twice and she was busy both times, but had legitimate excuses she had a class and then had to work at the times I was available. We still talk whenever we see each other, but she will not talk to me in front of her other female friends. Also I texted her yesterday and she didn't answer me, but today I was sitting at a table studying and she came up and stood real close to me and poked me and started talking like normal, until her friend came and then she stopped. When should I text her again and what do you think her deal is? I am really into her and would like some advice, maybe she is interested but maybe she isn't? Any insight would be appreciated. | Crush |
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What is something attractive from girls? (Not physically, more like personality and body languages in class) | Crush |
Sidenote: I don’t use reddit that often so sorry if this post is confusing and sorts. We’re both in high school btw.
So I’ve liked this guy in 3 of my periods for about 4 months now. (Let’s call him J). I used to stare at J while passing him in the hallway or try to talk to him (always failed bc i would back out). Ive only EVER talked to him 2 times and both those times it would be him asking me what I got on tests. The first time he asked was in history where I got a 43/50 which isnt bad but he’s my friend’s friend, let’s call her T, so I already knew his score before he told me. This mf got a 49/50 so obviously I wouldn’t tell him my score bc that’s embarrassing. The second time he talked to me was about a math quiz which I got a 33/32 on and he got a 32.5/32 on. Both times did he come up to me to show me his score?? Or did he just want to compare his scores to other people? (Keep in mind he doesn’t talk to any girls except T and she’s known him since kindergarten so they’re like siblings to each other).
I got humbled recently because his friend is in my math class and was passing out papers with our names on them. THE FRIEND DIDNT KNOW ME OR MY NAME SO WHEN I WAS THE ONLY ONE WITHOUT A PAPER HE CAME UP TO ME AND WAS LIKE “sorry” while handing me the last paper with my name on it💀. That means J doesn’t talk about me to his friends or anything when I already have to my friends.
I don’t want to like J if I never talk to him because that just means I like him for his looks and he took off his mask recently…IM SORRY BUT I DIDNT THINK HE HAS ONE OF THOSE MUSTACHE THINGS OH MY GOD
Should I continue to chase him/stare at him?? Or should I just get over him and move on? | Crush |
So my crush is like kinda popular at school and i'm not. we talked sometimes but not enough to be considered friends. anyways he's started acting different.
1 - We wrote an exam and he was sitting in the room where we would write the exam. he was sitting on top of a table and talking to his friends and i was like going past him and towards a table at the front of the classroom. but than he called my name and said "wait, you can sit here" and he pointed at the table right in front of him so i took a seat there.
2 - he dident actually write the exam (he was just in the room for some time) and i had two physics lessons with him after the exam. so i go into the physics room and take a seat and there is this other guy in my class (lets call him sam) who also wrote the exam. and my teacher asked sam like "what was the exam about?" and all kinds of questsions and sam couldn't answer them because he doesnt put much effort into school so my crush turned to my teacher and goes "you better ask (insert my name) these questions if you want a proper answer".
So now I'm thinking why he is behaving like this out of nowhere? any ideas | Crush |
Hi. Yes I know I’m playing a risky game trying to date my coworker but hear me out. I (16F) really like my coworker (18M). I’ve been working at my job for about 7 months now and started catching feeling for him about 3-4 months in. There’s been a few things that make me think that he likes me but other thing that kind of make me think he doesn’t. For example, he teases and tries to scare me, like, a lot, like he teases my other coworkers in a friendly way but for some reason he does it a lot more to me. He also asks me to do just random things like hold his phone while he was on FaceTime with my boss trying to fix the register when he could have just as easily held it himself or set it down. That and he is constantly asking me to do favors for him like get him waters when he’s clearly not doing anything or do “supervisor” jobs (btw he’s a supervisor). Along with that he’s been making me a bit late recently so it’s just the 2 of us leaving together at the end of the night.
But I also sometimes think he doesn’t like me. Like I’ll hear him telling another guy coworker that some customer is cute. Or I’ll see him and my other girl coworker talking to each other and they seem to be able to talk to each other for hours.
Idk I feel like I want to tell him that I like him but at the same time if he doesn’t like me I don’t want to make things super awkward at work for us and my other coworkers.
Pls help me decide what to do | Crush |
Please help me get over a guy I feel like I am going insane
I hate everything about him but for some reason I like him so much | Crush |
We met and now she is always after me and sometimes we just send winking emojis. Think she is into me? | Crush |
whenever i was in a class one time, my crush was talking to his friend about something and i turned around to catch him looking at me from the corner of his eye but he quickly looked away. then when i came back from the bathroom he looked up at me and then quickly looked down. he then played a game with his friend and everytime we made eye contact from across the room he quickly dropped his head down and resumed his game.
i mean he only looks for a prolonged time when i’m not even looking. like when he was talking to his female friend and he just paused to stare at me for a few seconds | Crush |
Okay so, I was sitting at lunch with some friends from my English class. And, there’s 4 girls and one boy. The said boy I sort of know, he’s in my study hall but that’s pretty much it. Today, he wished me luck on my debate earlier in the morning and then at lunch he drew a smiley face on my lunchbox. I was sort of shocked by it lmao since I never really talked to him and he never really made an effort to talk to me. Does the smiley face mean anything?
😭 I just got out of a relationship so I’m a bit out of touch. | Crush |
There is this guy I'm interested in but I have no idea hot to initiate a conversation with him since we don't have common friends and literally bever see each other,I know it's weird to have a cursh on a person you don't interact with but it happens I guess.So what should I do?Just text him on instagram?and say what?I'm really lost in this situation | Crush |
I have a slight crush on a physio I see but embarrassed as I have a disability and psychological issues. I'm scared he will find out about it..he asked me if I had a partner and I said no asked him if he had one and he said no but he's seeing a girl and she's 31..asked me if it's normal for them to want to settle down etc at that age..asked me if I wanted kids.. I dno if he's just making convo or if he's slightly interested? He's so freaking hot. I'd be so embarrassed if he found out about some of my past regrets as well or knows someone that knows me and he's just taking the piss out of me.. | Crush |
Basically, I’m not sure how to interpret my crush’s behavior. He’ll do random things that make me question whether or not he does. I’ve liked him for a while now and I’ve been trying to hint to him, but I started giving up because I didn’t think he’d like me. But after I gave up, his behavior changed which makes me wonder if he picked up the hints and maybe feels the same way. I’ll give some examples:
For context, we compete together on a competitive Drumline team. At one of the comps, I went to go sit in the audience, and he could have sat anywhere else but he came and sat super super close to me. It felt purposeful but I can’t tell. Also, he commented on my hair having new highlights, which made me wonder if he was noticing my hair or NOTICING my hair if you get what I’m saying. After one of our rehearsals, he asked me to drive him home, which was super odd, especially because he lives right next to our school. Maybe he was wanting to spend more time with me, or maybe he just didn’t want to walk home. I’m so confused. He’s also started trying to start conversation with me, random stuff like “Soooooo, anything exciting going on in your life?” I would love to just know if his behavior is a sign of anything or just in my head. I’m also wayyy too shy to actually admit how I feel. Any help/tips? | Crush |
Thank you guys I’m 17m btw | Crush |
Im in a situation that I need help with, me (13) has a crush on this one girl (12) Who has a crush on me back, the only time we see each other is after school and in the hallway, she has no phone, so i cant get her number, as i said, we bolth like each other back, but neither of us have enough social capabilitys to ask the other back. Please help | Crush |
I like a girl for over 5 years and she had a crush on me for 2 of those years. We were in the same class for 3 years and now we are only in the same school. In the 3rd year I know her I tried to get closer to her and talk to her daily , however my best friend started talking to her a lot and they became best friends.
At that time I talked to her about her relationship with my best friend, she said she felt something more for me than for him. However, I suffer from stress and anxiety and whenever I get into these situations of talking to girls about a serious relationship, I try to run away stupidly. It's been 2 years of some flirting but nothing has happened either because she and my friend were best friends. This friend of mine who used to hang out with her told me that she was always talking about me. After these 2 years we changed course but we are still at the same school. This friend of mine who was always with her left our school. I felt that this could be my opportunity. However it was too late, when I realized, she and boy who had entered the school started dating. Another year has passed and he has now moved to an island outside my country. She is still at the same school and we have classes together at a “secondary” school where we are both taking a Music Graduation . In music classes we talk a lot, she keeps eye contact with me and physical contact like holding my hand or touching my shoulder while talking with me . I think she still feels something for me and I feel something for her but I don't know if she knows because I don't show it much due to my social anxiety. She continues to date “at a distance” with the other boy. I don't know if she is happy with her relationship. Should I try to tell you how I feel? Or should I leave her alone in the relationship she is in?
I'm afraid of rejection but I'm always thinking about her.
If you think you can help me pls do it :) | Crush |
But i am also socially very awkward! I saw him for the first time last year while we had class on teams and have liked him since (back them i just thought he was kinda cute nothing else). During summer i thought it was just a silly crush and i was over him but when this year started, i realised i was more into him than i thought. As i got to know more things about him, i was more n more invested and wanted to know more about him. The thing is i have anxiety and i can’t just go and talk to him. I’m trying to be friends with his friends (i was already talking with them before bc we always have class together) to get closer to him but it’s taking too long and i’m scared i’m doing all this for nothing. This week-end, i found his instagram (yes i was looking for it) n followed him. He also followed me back. Just doing this already make me so anxious i am scared to go talk to him bc i fear he’ll find it weird that i added him on socials n now come talk to him when we have never really talked before. What should i do? I would really like some advice on how i could go n talk to him without dying from anxiety. Right now i just want to be able to talk to him and maybe become friends and see if we can get anywhere from there. Sometimes i feel like he’s looking my way but i don’t want to get my hopes high n be disappointed.
English is not my first language so i’m sorry if i made some mistakes ! | Crush |
So I've always had this crush on this boy like for 3 yrs nw. He asked me out 3 yrs ago bt I told him idk im scared to get hurt. But he made me feel like it will be ok, so I said yes. We met up and kissed. like its on and off with him like he j wants to hook up but then he says he wants to date..then gets a gf and then comes back to me. And im thinking of asking him if we can maybe date. Should I? How do I tell him I dont wanna j hook up but Id like to go on a date and see where things go between us? | Crush |
Y’all i will include all of the information I have about this situation so you all can help me fully please thanks.
He is an extrovert and has many friends. That leads me to think many of the stuff he does which makes me have butterflies is probably normal for me to do on other ppl aswell like say them bestie etc.
Does he like me?-
-He patted me on the head saying I was tinny.
-He never talks about hanging out in school but when we both have time we do hang out.
-He teases me saying me tiny dumb stupid and also adds in good looking.
-He flatters me by saying I’m so sweet or how I’m the only person he’ll talk to this late.
-He sends short messages nowadays.
-He is very extroverted and slowly with everyone hence maybe he does all this in his normal way.
-He doesn’t text me much Altho we do speak a lot. He texts once to twice a week nowadays Altho nowadays it’s way less then before cause of exams.
Should I confess?-
Problem- he’s leaving school which breaks my heart because I know I’ll miss him a lot and I want to keep texting him so I’ll miss him even more when I see him on the farewell party. The main benefit is I can propose on text and if he says no then I don’t have to worry about facing him. If he says yes then we’ll go bad but I’ll be happy he does like me. Only three days left in exams finishing and the party is on 25th March. So I propose after or before the party?
My feelings are intensifying more each time I see or think of him that now I can’t stop and my heart hurts gifkfifidd . | Crush |
Hi, I'm a male (16) and I have a crush on a girl who's also 16. She's in my class and I talk to her on text but she replies to me after 5-6 hours everytime. Whenever I call her, we talk for 15-20 mins then she cuts the call with a lie. For example, yesterday she hanged up because she had to bathe and sleep(it was 11:30pm on a holiday for us) and the other day she went because she had to do some work related to school(this was during holidays too). I was unable to conclude that these excuses were real or a lie. I feel like expressing my feelings to her but at the same time im scared she'll avoid me and stop talking. She does not openly share stuff with me while I pour my heart out. Today, I found out that while she did not reply to me on text, she was messaging my best friend. This has broken me and has led me to post on this subreddit, asking you all for help. My best friend is extremely ripped as he is a gym freak. On the other hand, I am posed as fat and unattractive. I am feeling envious and angry at the fact that she does not like me while I feel more obsessed with her. I really wanna be closer to her but she does not show any interest in me. What should I do? | Crush |
I don’t usually have crushes but when I do, it is a really intense crush. I am able to adjust my mindset and get over it after a while but the process is a little bit saddening. I am having a crush on this guy who I barely talk to or work with. He is just amazing! I admire his work ethics and intelligence in different aspects. He is also a sociable and funny guy. I know we won’t ever associate with each other except for certain work areas and I am okay with that. I just have this usual thought process of “It will not happen but it is okay to have a crush” but the slight longing or wishing to be closer to that person makes me sad. I am not putting down myself or anything when I say it will not happen I just know in a practical way that we are not on the same path (not that one of the paths is bad but just different). | Crush |
I've been liking this girl since last year and we have hung out at school alot and always talk. Recently she has been asking who my prom date is and who I'm going with and just asking and showing interest in my relationship side of my life. I told her I'm not going with anyone, but was thinking about telling her if she was down to go with me tho I didnt tell her since I got rejected before I even asked. Anyways my play is to ask her to dance with me at prom and later that night confess my feelings for her. My friends encouraged my to do this since we only get one life and I should do it instead of thinking what if later on. What do you all think? | Crush |
I can't tell if he likes me or not
I, 18F have been talking for the past month with my classmate 19M. We've always been sort of friends, always bantering with eachother or very ocasionally send eachother texts, but I seems like I developed feelings for him.
About a month ago we had a class party where we spend a lot of time together, and locked hands for a few minutes when we were walking to the bus station. He also had a fight with his bestfriend with whom I am friends with, apparently over a girl (very complicated, not getting into it)
Right the next day we went out again for a beer, I expected it to be awkward but it was really fun and we held hands for a brief second again.
Now they were still in the middle of the fight and he didnt want to tell me what it was about, but his bestfriend told me that it was apparently because his bestfriend made a move on the girl and also got really touchy with me, which the guy didnt like. He also told me that hes inexperienced, and very very shy(he doesnt appear that way, but its true)
We went out the third time, which was about a week after the first one, he havent seen eachother all week and it was all going great and he decided to tell me about the fight but made sure to specify that he "didnt like the other girl anymore" which was sort of weird since he got mad over her.
We then moved on to talk about past relationships and I told him something where I mentioned that I had a boyfriend at a point in time, and he got really surprised by that and told me that he thought I was a lesbian(im bi). I thought he was just joking so I brushed it off but then I asked him if he was being serious expecting a "no" but he said that he was serious and that he thought I was one the whole time. Now he is proper dense, he is very bad at noticing things, so I sort of credit it to that, but at the same time that was the point where i started feeling really bad because i thought we were going out on dates but he was just going out with a friend of his who was a lesbian. But why else would he always insists on paying and treat me very different (like an actual girl) while we were alone? Anyways, the same day he told me that he wants to tell me something but backed out of it and got very embarassed, at one point he wanted to write it on his phone and show me but he stopped in the middle of doing it and got very embarassed.
A week after that we went to the theatre together, he got all dressed up, used cologne (which he said he doesnt like) and again, nothing happened.
This weekend he had a house party planned with just our classmates and he begged me to come. When i told him I don't have a way to get there and that I feel awkward going there when I would be the only girl, he contacted all his friend and made sure I could get a ride there and insisted that it's totally fine for me to come. And then he hardly talked to me the whole night.
I had a lot of fun but I was very sad that he didnt talk to me while I was there. We played videos games the same day I got home and the next day too, but I feel like a lot of our friendly banter disappeared and I feel nervous around him and I'm scared that I somehow either ruined any interest he had or that he had none in the beginning and I mislead myself into liking him.
TLDR: some of the things he does/doesnt do
Always insists on paying
Treats me nice, but different when with his friends vs when we're alone
Doesnt iniciate touch but likes it
Usually isnt the one who asks the other out
Tells me personal things
Asks me to play games with him
Shares his favorite music with me (we have the same music taste)
Has nicknames for me | Crush |
You've been an amazing friend to me these last few months. You made me feel welcome in a country that wasn't my own during a time of my life which quite frankly sucked. Thank you very much! I guess, I haven't been the greatest friend to you though. You're a gregarious, driven, and frank person -- not only do I admire you for these qualities but I'm also deeply attracted to you because of them. I also think you're very cute! I ended up developing a crush on you, a crush which I continued to nurse despite me deciding I wouldn't. I guess I've just gotten very good at lying to myself. I hope this letter that you'll never read will prove to be enough of an outlet for my emotions and prevent me from messing up things between us in the future. I'm sorry, I'll try to be the friend you deserve. | Crush |
hi ok so there is this guy i really like, he followed me last year and somehow i felt that the things that we put up o our stories spoke to each other. i know that sounds stupid but somehow i felt like the lusic we listen to, the art we appreciate, poetry etc. so he one day replied to my story and ofc i lost my shit. and this ' replying to each other's stories ' went for a while. then he started sending me funny reels and posts some being a bit flirty too. however, time and again he would leave some post i sent on seen. but came back a week later only to send me another post or sum. so like what the fuck noe. i like him but im not sure if he does | Crush |
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I wanted to share since I feel people are afraid of conflict. What's important is to not run away from conflict and instead be willing to be uncomfortable for a bit. Afterwards, you'll be able to fully overcome situation.
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I've been noticing this guy from the supermarket just near where i work (cafe) and i think he's pretty cute. the only time i've ever talked to him was to ask for the
directions to where they put the coconut juice and that's about it. it's been months now since i started thinking about him and i've been wanting to talk to him but i dont know how to start a conversation with a total stranger without making it seem creepy. i think he also notices how i look at him whenever he passes by the cafe because sometimes he would look at me too (or maybe that's because he has nothing else to look at 🤔)
i'm resigning by the end of this month and i really want to atleast befriend him but i have no idea what to say or how to start a conversation that has nothing to do with coconut juices. i’ve thought of “hey, i’ve noticed you around and i think you’re pretty cute” but i dont have the balls to say that and if i just straight up ask for his instagram that’d be weird as well.. HELP 😭 | Crush |
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**Introduction**
I wanted to contribute my thoughts on the looks debate. I will add much more depth in future articles. However, I wanted to make my stance clear. I believe looks matter very little. I have seen how average looking guys can get laid with only game. While good looking guys get nothing. I would say "looks" are more like your "opener" for most chicks, they'll say, "Oh he's alright." and it will be the opportunity to approach. I would say that you can get the same result by using, "Perfume."
**1-Game matters 80%**
It is your game and confidence that matters the most. You can be the most good looking guy and act low value and most chicks will get immediately turn off. I was hanging out with a male model and he would stand there and do nothing. Sooner or later the girls got bored of him and left.
**2-Looks are only 10-20% of the equation**
Why would you spend so much time obsessing over something that's more like the "icing on the cake." Looks might give you a bit of an edge at the beginning of the interaction, however, for the most its your game that will determine how the interaction goes. If your game is tight you will be able to move the interaction forward. For instance, once you are on an instant date most chicks are not going to care about your looks.
**3-Most chicks are more interested in your confidence and skill**
Most chicks are going to care if you approach them and if you can move the interaction forward. Looks won't do any of that to you. How are your looks going to help you when you need to strategize how to move the interaction forward. Or how are looks going to help you when you have to
**4-Good looking guys get more attention from other guys who want to be like them than from girls**
This is both funny and ironic. However, most of the guys who become obsessed with the gym as well as maximize their looks soon realize this. These guys end up getting more attention from other guys who want to look like them. I've seen it when I was hanging out with my personal trainer. Guys would come up to him to compliment his looks and wanted advice on how to get jacked. Meanwhile, most girls would see him as a co-worker and treat him like everyone else.
**5-The guys who obsess over looks do it as a excuse to not approach**
I have met a few guys who believe in the blackpill as well as guys who were obsessed about looks. The main pattern with all of them is that they all believe that there's nothing to be done and it's "hopeless." Hence, they should not even bother to approach | Crush |
English isnt my first language, but i try my best. I have a problem.
There is a girl that I know now for a very long time, more precisely since the 4th grade (7.5 years now).
We never really had much contact, but in recent months we have seen each other more and more often and I have developed feelings.
We got along very well from the beginning, the chemistry was just right. I also notice that again now. However, she now has a boyfriend (even if it's not going well as her best friend told me).
I had several girlfriends during these years, but it was never like with her. Also since I haven't seen her for a long time, my interest increases more and more and my imagination goes crazy. Also because i think she completly forgot about me after we finished school, i also don‘t have her number anymore…
Only the problem is all our memories fuck me up now, can not sleep. For me she is the right one, but I don't want to influence her life because of my feelings.
How can I forget her? Other women will come, I am convinced, but I am currently fucking myself up.
Thx for the answers | Crush |
Yeah she sucks at texting. She's really good in person, but over text she sucks lmao. I just asked her how she's been, if she has any plans for March break, and I invited her up to have a fire with some friends. She said she has plans with her friend the day I originally planned on having the fire, so I told her I'll reschedule because it's supposed to rain anyway. I'm stuck now. I have nothing else to say, but I wanna continue the conversation. I asked my friend to I've me ideas for something to debate, argue, or rant about just for ideas. He told me to just ask about music. I'm thinking I'll say "random question, what kind of music do you like?".
If you have any ideas please share as soon as possible. | Crush |
Hey, my situation is very very weird. I’m muslim and my crush is too but I think it’s fine w her since she’s fine with talking to guys and the same for me. Over the past year, we FaceTimed every now and then, so I kinda got used to it. This last month I asked her maybe 4 to 6 times that if she wanted to FaceTime but she kept bringing excuses and we didn’t. I asked her so many times to the point where I felt I was naggy and I think she saw that too. I stopped texting her for two days so far because I think that we both need a break from me basically. I really really like her, it’s not a normal “crush” or phase. Ive been through a crush before but this is so different. Please I need help as to how I can restore our relationship and start FaceTiming again. | Crush |
At the end of my schoolyear 2020-2021, someone who I didn't even know had waved at me, and I out of sympathy did it back. It wasn't just one time, but was repeated. So I came to know in the beginning of thís schoolyear (2021) that she confused me with someone else. After having said that, she still continued on waving at me. So that thing was still continuing. On a certain day of october (don t know the date) she looked pretty angry to me, as what the reason was idek but yeah, as I remember pretty well. And then the contact between us stopped, a lot of things happened in between but didn't influence the state between us two at all, so it isn't worth mentioning. I only spoke with her 2 times if I do remember correctly, and those were just brief introductions, once who I was and once when I asked her what her name was etc. (, so nothing special). She also started talking to my sister back then and sometimes even did it up till recently (they didn't know each other before that waving thing this year and my sis and I resemble eachother quite a lot, and the frequency of her talking to my sister was quite low, she always started the conversations (towards my sister) and not vice versa (this detail may be important idk)). Now my question is: "was I gettin played and was I just imagining things or are my feelings towards her mutual?" | Crush |
Details:
She introduced me as her cousin to her foreign friends cuz we share the same ethnicity. We talk everyday like besties, she’s also mentioned several times that she feels comfortable with me. But she calls me “brother” not even “bro”. She can’t move on from her ex and there hasn’t been a day without her mentioning him and honestly it hurts me but I try to comfort her with the intention that she’d feel better. Yesterday, out of nowhere, she said she wanna marry someone like me and sent “"I *her name* offer you myself in marriage in accordance with the instructions of the Holy Quran and the Holy Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him. I pledge, in honesty and with sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful wife. I knew she was playing so I played along. She’s also called me cute and said “I love you” several times, but I think she means it in a brotherly way.
What I think:
It’s quite unfortunate how she has no idea how much I’m in love with her and how far I can push my limits for her. I really want her but being a guy who has his self-control/self-respect as his priority, I think I have to bear with this forever. Whenever she feels down I really wanna tell her that I can and I will hold onto her forever. It’s really hurtful and oppressive. She’s always talking about her ex. “I love him still” it hurts me so much.
I just want to put it out there, I don’t really care if this gets any replies but if people relate to this, I hope y’all find a way ASAP. | Crush |
I told my crush I like her clothing style and how I like that everything match’s she said oh, thank you!! I said your welcome I only speak the true well I asked her another question and she has left me on seen all day and if I ask another question it is seen again no response I don’t know what I did please help | Crush |
This is a long story so buckle up. So this year, I've been having having the same classes with this one guy which we will call P. P was that typical new kid, we've all had those before. Anyways, he ended up befriending the teachers, and most of our grade, not including me. Of course I tried to be nice and help P in class whenever he was confused, but a simple compliment made a rumor spread that I liked him. Of course I wasn't fond of it. So out of no where I started arguing with P, and we've been like that ever since the first month of school. I even gave him his own nickname that made him mad. But things started to get different last month. P started greeting me in class and started being nice to me. At first I was confused. We've been always fighting, since when did he start talking to me. I thought he couldn't have a crush on me because he was already in a relationship. I found out a week later that his girlfriend broke up with him. At first I thought he was hitting on me, but then i thought he couldn't because people thought i was in a relationship too with another person , which was resolved and people knew i was single too. And since i thought he was hitting on me, i grew a slight crush on him which makes me end up having a full on crush. Idk if I should ask him out, or if he actually likes me. I'm straight up confused. Is he sending me signals? Or is he just being nice to me?
Edit: it’s been only been a month and he’s already got a new girl, the hell? | Crush |
I got tired of explaining over and over how I felt for you. I understand you said you didn’t want a relationship. We started to grow apart and texting less. Things started to get pretty sexually and then you left me on delivered. I’m tired of wanting something to happen. I’m letting you go I’m tired of always sticking around when you clearly don’t even wanna talk to me. Biiiii | Crush |
Sorry for format, on mobile
REASONS SHE MIGHT
We both are crew for our musical and she choose to sit by me for the while 2 hours, all 5 nights, and got me food on one of them without me asking.
Literally everytime she sees me she says hi in a super exited way (might just be personality)
I wasn't at a party and she asked where I was (after I asked "are you at the party", so I provocted it but she still noticed i wasn't there I guess)
She normally snaps back on snapchat slow, but for one night snapped back really quickly while with friends
REASONS SHE MIGHT NOT
Doesn't really flirt
Doesn't do stereotypical crush things, trying to get closer, seeming nervous
Mutal friend said she over heard her talking about a guy | Crush |
This is sort of a follow up to this [post ](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/sv6gr7/how_do_i_see_this_guy_more/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) but it doesn't have to be read.
I've saw him once since then and we've been oddly messaging, I do have to message him first however but that’s how he treats everyone. He does answer almost instantly and convos last for about 30mins to an hour and a half.
On the day I saw him, we spent 9 and a half hours together and honsetly forgot a lot about the others again, mostly getting really into what we were saying and ending up walking on.
He did imply he was ready for a relationship but also implied he was a little scared about it. He knows I have a tenancy to reject (never really wanted to date anyone yet and was mostly waiting to finishing school which I do in a month.) people and one of the times he replied,
"Why would anyone want to date you? You're a loser."
He laughed, smugged and looked at me, it was of course obviously a joke but that's a set it off sign in guys right?
We did have some pretty deep conversations with him telling me his fears and things he's been through and being pretty good about something I'm going through right now.
He said he'd come out to my house on the 17th and a few friends are coming along as well (I invited him)
Would it be ideal to message him maybe on the 18th, with a message like,
"Hi (name), this might be a bit odd but I think your pretty cool and I guess I just wanted to ask if you'd like to do something at the start of the month?"
I don't really know how to word things and that's the best I've got.
Thanks for reading! | Crush |
I have been having normal conversations like her favorite color food and everything I told her I liked a sweatshirt she wore to school then on snap I got photo sent to me from her in the sweatshirt then we kept on talking I said I like your clothing style I like how everything matches she said oh, thank you!! Do you guys think I have made any mistake or am I moving to fast, I have never been in a relationship so I don’t really know this stuff | Crush |
Gahk!! Yesterday I was watching with my crush and one of my friends... And guess what? My freaking crush was looking at me time to time! Few mins later we (me and my crush) exchanged seats when we were watching !! Do you think he has a crush on me? Lastly, we always mess around with each other and look I searched this in google, "How to know if someone secretly has a crush on you?" three of it said "They act differently around you than they do with other people" and "
* They'll stare at you. ..." "
* They will try to keep the conversation going. | Crush |
I don't know why am I writing this, but I just wanted to know if are there any more stupid people just like me.
I have been transferred to New school for 2 years now but due to the pandemic it was mostly in online mode .
It's getting better since 2021 November and that is the month we started having regular classes , I saw him for the first time in November It's been four months now I couldn't say anything or even talk to him there were moments when he approached and wanted to start a conversation but I was too nervous to reply . This month we had our last classes no more high school for me since he is my junior , I don't think i will see him again or not .probably not because I will leave the city soon, for further studies.
Thank you for reading my stupid shirt story | Crush |
Ok I have a crush who can play the electric guitar 😫✋🏻And he is a very lowkey guyyy. I can’t even stalk if he has gf or not. On march 3, I Intentionally reacted his story and I said ahh sry I accidentally reacted and then he said no worries that’s ok clam down. After we talked a little while I asked him to play my fav song for me then he said he’ll give it a try then he played it for me. The next day he didn’t started conversation. Then after that day he posted story again so I started conv again then we talked a little bit a lot after that I said sry i talked a lot. He said it’s okayy 2 mins later he said ‘but if we r like this my gf will not be happy she’ll be sad you know what I mean don’t think like that’. Then, I said “yess I know”. Then he said “u r really good to talk tho. Have a great day!!” I said “yeah u too’’ and he liked my message and that’s the end…. So what should I do now???? I know He has gf but I can’t move on:’) | Crush |
My gf’s mom isn’t letting me gf date and because of my culture I have to have the parents permission before I can do anything. So my gf put our relationship on pause.what can I do? | Crush |
I (13, don’t want to give away gender) have a mini-crush on someone (14, gender I’m attracted to). I may be moving soon from somewhere I’ve lived for over 75% of my life. I think it may subconsciously be just so I have a reason to stay, but idrk. I know this isn’t much info, but I don’t know what people need to know, so feel free to ask questions if you have them.
What should I do?
(Sorry, I’m on mobile) | Crush |
I (m13) have a crush on (f13) and I need your advice bc she has a boyfriend and I don’t know what I should do (fyi we are best friends) | Crush |
In my high school we have the opportunity to write a letter to our granparents. Mine passed away a year ago and this boy knows the majority of the story. I trust him and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to let him see that, just because he knows about what happened and just for have a second oppinion out of my friends/family | Crush |
Celebrity crushes can't turn into healthy relationships. If the energy is right then go for it | Crush |
what does it mean if boys look at you up and down then smile,
context:
we walk pass each other then he do that, i ask him why? he just walk away | Crush |
I’m a pretty shy person tbh every time I see him I get super nervous I tried convincing myself didn’t like him at first and it worked for some time but he just ruined it the day he made origami with me it literally just like idek I started liking him even more than I did at first he smiled and his smile kinda just made me attracted to him he’s a nice person and he’s my type. I thought I lost feelings for him llike not even that long ago but when I saw him it all came back I don’t wanna like him bc Ik I don’t have a chance with him but idk atp idk how to go about it. | Crush |
Sometimes I feel like when I have a crush on someone I feel so intensely towards them that I feel too much about them im learning to just let my mind ease itself so that if it happens it happens if it doesn't it sucks but at least I know I didn't feel too intensely towards them that they were hurt by it | Crush |
Hi guys I'm just trying to detach from my crush this person is pretty famous but like in one genre generally so I feel like I'm talented enough that eventually I will feel like I can securely interact with such a person but for now I'm learning to detach from this person and the fantasy I make up in my head. Thanks for listening. Its tough af | Crush |
So I (NB) Want to ask my crush (M) to hang together, but how do i do It?
I can text him. And I have a slight feeling that he likes me back but idk. Can anyone help? | Crush |
I have had a crush on this girl for a few months. We have always been friendly with each other, and we have occasionally messaged. She would often message first.
About two weeks ago, she swiped up on my Snapchat story, starting a conversation, and since then we have been messaging each other. The messages have been continuous, with different conversations, etc. occasionally she would take a while to reply, but we are both busy people.
I am really rubbish at recognising signs, and I really cannot tell if she is just being friendly or if she likes me back. I really wanna ask her out on a date. However, the problem is we have a lot of common friends. So if I have gotten it all wrong, it could create a really awkward situation for me and all my friends. I really don't want to risk that. But at the same time, if I am getting good signals, should I just go for it?
Edit: I have asked if she wanted to meet and do some work at the library. She said yes!! I’m meeting her tomorrow :)) | Crush |
So to give you a little background I think I'm falling in love with this girl. We've known each other since September and I've been talking to her a lot in school. I even got her snapchat. We really bond over a lot. She works at a farm which I know the guy who owns it. Recently I surprised her with a record she wanted. And she gave me a hug for it. I'm thinking about asking if she wants to hang out after school should I. Also do you think I have a chance with her. | Crush |
I have been contemplating this since the start of the semester. I am really attracted to her, but Idk what to do. I am a person who isn’t afraid of approaching a woman to have a conversation. I have been with girls my age & older women. I feel a little more intimidated with my professor. We have similar interest, and I like her energy. I want to approach her in a way that’s not inappropriate, yet serious. I also don’t want to do it a way that’s lowkey, cause I don’t want to risk her losing her job. I feel like this is a good time to ask her out since the semester is almost over. Pls help🙏🏾🙏🏾 | Crush |
I hope no one who knows me finds this comment Its way too embarrassing I'm 15,not that young or old All my life,I never was interested in someone my whole life,when I look back I also think I did not find anyone from the opposite gender attractive, I genuinely believed i was aromantic Until this There was this kid in my class,I won't go in detail about him,as it would be too cringey and it often makes me wonder if I should have shared this,ever ? I don't believe in love, I've never seen genuine love,never seen relationships work out Though I do believe in familiar or friendly love,my family and friends are really important to me But I think I have developed a crush in this same guy Its nothing but a crush that lasted way too long I've been liking him since I was 12,that is a very young age,I try really hard to tell myself its not love,it is not possible, at this young age atleast. I often find myself wanting to talk to him everyday and I never approached him,but recently I started talking to him,we've been talking since 2 years and For some reason I think he's got a slight interest in me too I am aware that I am deluding myself I am so very aware that its just a stupid crush,yet I wish to hold on I can not let go,I think I'll enjoy a little more Until its time to say goodbye I hope it wasn't too bad or mushy to read,im really sorry but I needed to tell someone and I would feel flustered if I told my friends about this,I barely wish I remembered this feeling as well I'm coming here after a conversation with that same person , we have been talking a LOT recently,its way too often,he also texts me a lot on discord,he just now greeted me with 'good morning',this guy is also rather shy and introverted and doesnt exactly talks to girls,and he talks to me and i am so grateful,yet i feel like I am ruining everything with these negative feelings. I hope I was not too bad with this :(
I had to make another throway account for this as my friends know my real account
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PS : english isnt my first language,sorry for errors | Crush |
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So i have a gym crush.
Yesterday she walked up to me, smiled and asked how about the machine a was using. Later that workout, i took the courage to talk to her, and she was sweet and i had a feeling that it went well. She was really just a normal girl, and she seemed a bit shy
We've said hello to eachother once since, but sometimes our eyes catch eachother in the crowd.
I need help to know the dirty tricks you girls out there use. She kind of ignores me in her bodylanguage, but i see her looking in my direction.
I simply can't stop thinking about her smile, but at the same time i'm aware not to be desperate and not to disturb her while she's working out and not to stare her down and be a creep, i really just want to get to know her. | Crush |
Why is it the more you try not to run into someone, the more you do. All day long today and yesterday I kept on running into him. Trying not to run into someone doesn’t always work. | Crush |
For context: I've never been on a date before [18F] or hung out alone with a guy so this is why I am asking. My guy friend [21M] wants to take me out to dinner with him on Saturday night but I am unsure if he meant it platonically or romantically. It's confusing because I have a huge crush on him 🥲 We have never gone out together alone before.
Long story short he replied to my instagram story offering to hangout with me around the city (after I complained about being lost). I jokingly said that we have to try this restaurant that he wanted to take me to first (because it is from his Country). And yeah, we both agreed to going there Saturday night - After our soccer games. I'll be sweaty and wearing a singlet and shorts so I'm worried about impressing him.
Is this a date? or just a friendly outing | Crush |
For context: I've never been on a date before [18F] or hung out alone with a guy so this is why I am asking. My guy friend [21M] wants to take me out to dinner with him on Saturday night but I am unsure if he meant it platonically or romantically. It's confusing because I have a huge crush on him 🥲 We have never gone out together alone before.
Long story short he replied to my instagram story offering to hangout with me around the city (after I complained about being lost). I suggested that we should try this restaurant that he wanted to take me to (because it is from his Country). And yeah, we both agreed to going there Saturday night - After our soccer games. I'll be sweaty and wearing a singlet and shorts so I'm worried about impressing him.
Is this a date? | Crush |
I have met him ( I will call him Blue) since we were 11 but we started to talk in highschool. I suffered from bullying and I had a little crush with him because I found it like a distraction from my bully’s insults. He was a such shy boy, he was with his BFF all the time back then and he was the newest in our class. He became very popular without a reason, maybe because his BFF was popular (?).
At first I only saw his grades, that were very similar to mine. I offered to help him if he needed and those things. It didn’t ended well, I used to go to see him in the weekend when he played and the result was that his mother went to talk to our teacher in order to complain about it, I understood but the situation went worse when my mother heard that she was telling everyone in our town that I was a stalker ( I went to see him play like, twice in my life?). So I decided to make a cross on him and move on.
We went to the same high school and everything changed again in the first grade of secondary. He started to talk to me and even helped when I was insulted. So we became friends. And even we messaged a lot that summer.
In second I began to hear about a his possible crush on me. That was very strange for me, I hadn’t received any confessions and i couldn’t imagine being the crush of someone. I didn’t say or ask anything so I hoped that it was only a joke. A boy “confessed“ to me by WhatsApp but I didn’t agree to become more than friends. After that, I told Blue that he tried and Blue block me during a weekend. He disblocked me and said that it happened by mistake.
In third grade I was walking down the street and he was with his friends. They, not him, began to shout saying things like: LOOK WHO IS PASSING BY! / YOU ARE SUCH A FLIRTY BOY!!!. I remembered that one of his friends laid on him and I was like WTF?!. I arrived home and texted him to ask what happened. I don’t think that he was who replied me, but “he” wrote me “He likes you” before a bunch of nonsenses. He blocked me (yes, again) on WA and IG. That year we were sitting together in Religion class and I felt that when we looked at each other we couldn't stop doing it (Our teacher changed us before that incident). He wouldn’t admit the block and I wouldn’t press him to disblock. I received anonym text about someone who was in love with me that was with me on class and that stopped talking to me because his friends wanted it.
On fourth our class decided to have a dinner. My best friend (now ex- best friend) told me that Blue didn’t want me there because I would annoy him. I wouldn’t have attended just for a personal event but that hurted a lot. She stopped talking to me but he remained and i didn’t know which of them was being sincere. I thought it was time to cancel him but before I even tried we had to go home due to Covid. My granny suffered from cancer and she fought during quarantine without chemo, I was very worried and he talked to me after he removed IG block. We spend nights talking and he become like a safe person for me. Unfortunately, she passed away on 5th July due to cancer complications. Blue worte a me the most precious text I received that day remembering that she was a warrior… I will always be grateful for that text.
Before secondary (I‘m from Spain so before secondary we have something called Bachillerato, divided by Science and Humanities) we splitted up. I go to Science and he goes to Humanities. He told me once that he could pay for me if I don’t have enough money. He made jokes about how an exam wouldn’t be difficult for me because I’m intelligent and I find the sense behind those jokes now. I thanked on Christmas Festival for his support during quarantine and he replied: “To you”. I pretend that I didn’t hear him well and he changed his response to “No need to thank for that jaja”. By the time, he was acting strange on social media. He wouldn’t see my stories if I don’t appear with other boy or if I don’t talk about romantic relationships (I suspect that he had someone passing him the stories in order to not appear on my list). I added him to close friends without telling him (he didn’t see my stories so, what could go wrong?). On may I met with a male friend and he obiously saw the story… And one of close friends. He and his friend, that I suspect she passed the stories, unfollowed me and Blue block me again. I began to hear rumors about that he was dating with a girl two weeks after, but there weren’t any proofs. We didn’t talked all the summer…
On my last year of high school I have heard about the girldfriend rumors once. A strange account has followed me that I suspect his second account and only appears when there is a male friend or in a random story…
Blue has told me about his problems many times and I know he doesn’t talk about that with other people usually. But he only does that when we are just the two of us, when there are more people we won’t talk or he will talk with everyone except for me. I know he was a shy guy so when he talks with other people I feel good for him because he socializes…
I can’t understand him. Someone could aport their point of view? | Crush |
nothing important, I'm just feeling bit blessed | Crush |
basically i like this guy, and i’m pretty sure he feels the same way, and we’re always like flirting over text and stuff but i cant tell if it’s in a friendly way or not :/ we’re rlly good friends and i feel like changing that would be kinda weird, but at the same time i cant just keep pretending lmao.
idk if he’s ever gonna say anything to me about it or not, and i’m not exactly the type to make the first move.
DOES ANYOEN KNOW WHAT I CAN DO | Crush |
I have a guy friend. I just love spending time with him.. more so the past month than before. I like him as a friend which is rare because I am picky with friends even so it’s like he’s my best friend rn. I just didn’t think I was attracted until I had dreams about kissing him or him kissing me… I want to tell him that I had a dream like that because I just feel like I tell him most things… should I? | Crush |
So theres this thing that I think goes like, "If a guy facetimes/sends you a picture of them gaming/has their headset on, youre considered more- close?" IDK IS THERE A THING LIKE THAT? Am I delusional? Has anyone heard of that? Please help out this hopeless child here please. | Crush |
My crush and I looked at eachother in the eyes like for 2 seconds. School was done and we were on the stairs she was talking with someone and I was like higher up on the stairs and as we walked downstairs she looked back a little and we looked eachother in the eyes for 2 second. I know this propably doesn't mean anything but those 2 seconds felt like heaven to me :) | Crush |
So i have this friend and lately we have gotten kinda closer and honestly i starting to get vibes that they might like me. Not that long ago he (14 M) sent me a meme about mariah carey defrosting and so i sent a bunch of lyrics, i then switched to mariah’s fantasy and then to best friend from rex orange county. He sends me lyrics from can i call you or some shit like that, then he proceeds to say he wants to watch harry potter with me, i just dont know any more man, im a 15 F and i have been thinking lately that im a lesbian, (he is aware of this), I dont think i like him but im nervous that he does | Crush |
Okay so here’s the story, back in 2019 I met a girl and we started off as friends after a few months I developed feelings for her and she developed feelings for me. But she had a boyfriend. She talked with me about how she thinks she poly and wanted a relationship with both him and I. I was open to the idea. But she kept seeing me without telling her bf. We had both expressed that we loved each other and spent all our free time together. Eventually we had a falling out because we both suffer from mental illness and needed to take time to help ourselves. We didn’t speak for 2 years. A few weeks ago she reached out to me saying she wanted to be friends again. I’m like okay sure, but after hanging out a few times with her I realized I still have feelings for her. But all she talks about when we’re together is this boy she games with online and how she likes him a lot but is too scared to tell him. It hurts a bit hearing her talk about another guy. And I know it’s been 2 years since we had anything but it’s hard still having feelings for her when she’s moved on. I’ve debated expressing my feelings for her, but we only just reconnected. So I feel like I should wait a bit. But idk I’ve never liked or loved anyone but her. Should I just suppress my feelings for her since she likes someone else and just enjoy our friendship? | Crush |
I was talking to my crush and then he said I reminded him of a girl he talks to sometimes Im a bit of an over thinker so I’m not sure if he was trying to say he is not interested or if it was just me thinking that any idea on what it might mean? | Crush |
I don’t have my crushes number and I really want to get in contact with her. And the only way I can think of currently is emailing her. Should I email her? | Crush |
So I can’t wait anymore and I’m just gonna do it but how do I ask a girl(from my class) out via text? | Crush |
This girl is giving me mixed signals and I don’t know what to do. We have been talking for a few weeks and it has been good, we snap a lot, and talk a lot in school. Whenever she sees me in school she smiles and her eyes light up and she’ll go out of her way to talk to me. We talk in the hallway every day and she is super flirty and fun in person. Over text she takes forever to reply but she always does and she isn’t dry or boring. The problem is that when I try to set up dates she always says maybe or I’ll see, but we never end up actually going cuz she’s “busy”, but she always over apologizes when that happens and promises we’ll do it some other time, but never gives another time.I think I should just stop talking to her , cut her off and give up, but I’m not sure, so I wanted to see what other people think. (BTW: she is a 10/10 and literally my dream girl so this kinda sicks for me) | Crush |
So this girl i've been talking to this girl for a wee bit and shes the likes everything i like and we do the same stuff a lot and so i asked her to come watch a spider-man movies shes been wanting to see and while she waa over i told her i liked her but she explained shes in a relationship already but we still talked after that and today we were talking and she asked how i don't have a girlfriend. What do i say cause i still like her but i want to be respectful of her relationship and dont want to make it weird with her. What do i say ?? | Crush |
So I'm new to the school and I found this girl who is really hot and we know each other pretty well.
I know that she crushes back because she always wants to sit with me and I know a little bit of body language. Also she uses flirting signs frequently around me. But there are 2 other guys crushing on her and I know them both well, I'm not an egoist but I'll say that I'm better than both of them, plus I know that the girl doesn't like either of the guys. Once she said that I was the best guy in the class (there are 10 guys and 3 girls in my class). what do I do? I don't want to break other guys hearts cause I know that they wouldn't do anything good for me. pls help. | Crush |
So I wouldn’t say I like this guy but I have this insane attraction of “what if” with him. I met him when I was 19 - we’re both full adults now and only know each other because we used to work together..but I can’t help but wonder if there’s something more there.
Our convos at 19 were rapid, flirty, fun and serious. I just felt safe with him, we even had a “kiss” moment without the kiss but fast forward we’re in our 20s now and I still see him here and there but I never talk to him because we were only co workers but I can’t shake this feeling that there is something there still. However -
my ex is obsessed with me. I was with him for 3 years. I met him when I was 20 and I loved him with all my heart. He - to this day is someone I would go for!
From his face, to hair to him finishing my sentence to our sex life.. he was everything I ever wanted. However, he cheated and was a narcissist throughout our 3 year relationship - he would manipulate and gaslight me. I vowed when we broke up I would never take him back.
now he wants to come back.. I haven’t seen/talked to him in 2 years. He always wanted children with me.. he called me his wife from the moment we met, the world stopped around us and the wedding bells rung when we first met. He felt them too🙃
He was 19 when I met him, I sometimes wonder if immaturity was the cause. He is 2 years younger than me. (I have a late bday) | Crush |
We all know of the classic ; "Middle school relationships don't last." Never thinking of how far you can go with that person. The saying just stays in the back of your head. What if it lasts? what if its healthy and forever-lasting? The classical line always sticks to everyone, wanting to just prove people they can last ; but the relationship is usually toxic. With them it's something I know will go somewhere, They are the right person and there's that feeling that is irreplaceable. Just the sense of comfort when I communicate with them ; I feel like something. They know their way with words, and is understand. You know instead of you proving you guys can last, your just going to love each-other ; that feelings. I just know that with them I can soar, instead of run. Today they said they were in love with me ; I told them my feelings were mutual. The feeling is there, and its strong. Just hugging them ; I never wanna let go, I just wanna stay holding them forever. So about that stupid saying ; fuck it, If it doesn't last then it doesn't last, but I know we will. They give me constant reminders | Crush |
I've been madly in love (i cant call it a crush since its been 6 years) with his girl and i never had the balls to walk up and talk nor confess to her,
Im too shy, any advice ? | Crush |
i really like him and we’ve know each other for almost 2 years (same class in college) but we’re both shy and i don’t wanna waste any more time just speculating if he likes me back or not, it’s exhausting:,) so i’m thinking abt finally asking him to hang out or smth but i don’t want to sound desperate or lame. if anyone has been in the same situation id appreciate ur help with this | Crush |
My crush called me ‘baby’ over text for the first time. Then he texted ‘I love you as a friend’ so what zone am I in rn? | Crush |
Okay so we’ve only talked a couple of times and it’s been kinda awkward. And I really don’t want to come off as creepy but we have mutuals on instagram including another person I work with. Also I’m pretty sure he knows I have a crush on him, since he’s seen me staring at him. | Crush |
So, I’m in the middle of the hallway. I’m in 8th grade so this was kinda weird but everything was relying on my kissing. My crush had passed me a note that said to meet her in the back of the school for a surprise. At this point my gears ⚙️ were turning so I get there… see my crush and she grabs my hands and shoves her lips into mine. I pull back and kiss her for like 3 seconds until I see a teacher and we both just run around the corner off to class.
But yeah after this me and her sat in the back seat of the bus making out. Whelp goodbye Crush subreddit.👋 | Crush |