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I had a crush on a girl from my spanish class for like 3 months now and from the first day that i met her she caught my eye. The first weeks we were having small conversations about different topics but i didn't know much about her and she never sat near me at that time.One day i had the opportunity to sit near her and we had a pretty good conversation so we started to know more about each other and the more i know her the more i develop feelings for her cuz she's by far the nicest person i've ever met like she always care about my school results and encourages me like not many friends that i know for years. I don't know if I'm a funny guy or not but she often laughs at my jokes. Ones, i didn't go to the class cuz the next day i had exams but she went and when she got home and for the first time she sent me a dm wishing me good luck and when i read that msg my heart started racing and i didn't know how to react and how to respond to her so i texted her back and told her "hope you do well too" and this was the first time that a crush remember me ( ps : we never met outside of class ). And after that we had pretty good times together in class the other days but I'm feeling confused these days cuz the last time she completely ignored me and we didn't talk like we used to do and i just wanna know if she maybe has a bf.
Please give me some advice how to know if she has someone in her life. | Crush |
I tried going out on a date with a friend, but she brought her little brother along to the movies with us. Then I tried going in to hold her hand and she well denied it then was pretty honest about us and what we are which is really good. This girl I liked a while back ghosted me and she didn't want what I wanted. Now, I just feel hurt. A lot of it actually. I just keep failing. What's wrong with me? Why doesn't anyone want me? I'm ready to give my all to someone, and yet I fail. Why? | Crush |
OMG Today, i finally had a real conversation with my crush laughing and talking just like she used to do with other boys in school breaks but instead of being with them she was with me and also her friend and we were talking all three of us, but after i got home, for some reason got me feelings like, this is only going to happen once and was just luck and tomorrow i'll find her with the same guy and her friend and i can't even initiate a conv with her, so i really need advice for tomorrow so i could keep it how it is or even better, i know her friend and i can easily initiate a conv with her friend but i can't initiate it with my crush, i was thinking i can just jump in while she's with her friend and make a joke and hope it goes well but overthinking made me think i'll look weird and annoying and made me abandon this idea
For the context: me and my crush were having small talks and sometimes even flirting with me (somehow about my grades cuz ye i'm a nerd) but never actually had face to face conv in school breaks , those small talks were usually just in the classroom until today when i had my first face to face talk in a school break but that was because i was sitting next to her and when it rang we got up and still were talking
Hope my english makes sense, but please i need advice for tomorrow just to keep the succeeding events (i don't want a day where i don't talk to her or it'll only go back to zero) | Crush |
I couldn't think of/find another subreddit for this enigma but, I might have a crush on my bestie? But I think it's just platonic like it always has been, I feel like I'm tricking myself bc I just wanna like someone I have a bit of a chance with. We hold hands sometimes especially in the cold but it's just bc we like handholding in general, and we're affectionate friends and Comfy with hugs n shit, it's annoying bc I don't think I like them but, ugh | Crush |
I just moved to a new school and I have a crush on that one girl obviously out of my league but i'm falling hard for her, and sometimes she does things i don't know if it's her kindness or maybe likes me back, for example we were on a school trip as we got on the school bus she preferred sitting next to me than next to her friend and heard her as her friend told her "will you sit next to me?" Raised my head and had a brief eye contact and she turned back to her friend and said no it's fine i'll sit next to him (me), another one just today, our maths teacher was giving out grades and i got a pretty good one (first in my class) and she told me "congrats you really did improve congrats again" and asked me to help and explain to her an exercice that gave me butterflies ngl and after, it was her turn to get her grade, i didn't know what to do and kind of did the same thing, and lastly this also happened today, as it was lunch time my crush was sitting right behind me, our teacher spotted me from far not eating and sitting alone (cuz i'm still new there) and came to me and told me to eat my lunch i told him that i forgot it home, and then my crush pinched me from back and her hand holding a biscuit that she had and willing to share it with me told her at first no it's fine but she insisted telling me that she didn't liked that biscuit anyways and gave it to me all, and that really gave me butterflies, and idk if all of this is just kindness out of her heart or is she really into me or all of this is normal please let me know, and idk how to keep the connection like this, cuz i feel really shy around her and can't initiate a conversation with her. | Crush |
Last March (2020) I met this guy I barely knew at a yearly event. I haven’t seen him since that day but I caught the feels for him the instant he gave me a high-five. We barely know each other and only saw each other briefly at the past yearly events (I was never interested in him then). I can’t seem to get over him and it’s been almost 2 years since I last saw him! Can someone give me some tips on how I can get over him?!?!? | Crush |
Getting 101 mix signals and I’m almost prepared to ask him what he thinks of me :/.
How did you initiate that conversation? | Crush |
Who else thought she was adorable | Crush |
So guys i recently met a girl, she got a pretty unique personality and we also share a lot of hobbies and interests. I'm at that point where i dunno if i should just let my feelings go and rly start manifesting them or if i should just stop my friendship with the girl, because i'm afraid of the rejection. We told each other we have a "kinda like crush" on the other one.
I rly like her but the problem is that i've heard a lot of bad things about her, i mean she is mentally broken (like all my girls i've had) and i don't know if i'm rdy for that burden. She good mood swings here and there and also gets random energy bursts but i like that she is always real. Sometimes it feels like i'm the only one who got feelings but then i randomly get a nice comment and it bounces me back.
Today is my day to overthink a lot and i wanna hear your opinions. Doing the decision making all by myself. | Crush |
So basically we both got crushes on eachother at my friend's birthday party. We dated a few years ago but it was a right person wrong time kind of instance. The time seems right and we are giving it a second chance. I forgot how much I loved texting him till the end of the night, staring into his milk chocolate eyes, and just being in love in general. We held hands in our english class and in our 5th period class. I thought I was in love other times in my life, but this time feels way different and more real. He's so sweet, cute, funny, caring, great at making me smile, and my favorite person in the whole world. | Crush |
My crush is definitely straight. So i don't have a chance. I guess i'll just try and get over it and stick to keeping our platonic relationship instead. But i'm still very sad :(((( | Crush |
So school ended, it’s winter break. I planned to ask out my crush. I dressed a little differently, combed my long hair back, and wore green Jordan’s matching with a nice button up shirt. I normally dress nice so I didn’t go over the top I just tried a little harder. She sits a seat away from me in class, and my friends were like “do it” “ you need to do it” loudly. Since we sit near the back of the class we got up a little fast when the bell rang and waited outside. I asked my friend to keep a lookout for her when she walked out. My crush is really quiet and has no social media, and my friends being as loud as they were about it, I’m preety sure she got the notion. Anyway we waited, and then my friend spotted her crossing the street where she never walks, did she run away from me? Or am I just overthinking it. Even worse it’s winter break, so I won’t see her until January 3rd. | Crush |
not only towards my crush, i feel like when i open up to someone, im too much. I feel like noone actually gives a f- and just want to move on with their thing. Had this moment with my crush today, it hurt. Just tell me if you dont care, dont act like you do. Saying brb and never coming back hurts more. | Crush |
So over the past month or two things have gotten messy with my crushes and I’m don’t really know what I’m feeling atm.
So there was this girl who I’m friends with and really liked for a while but then things didn’t really play out and I thought it was fine and we’re still friends-ish but I kinda still find myself doing things to get her attention which has laced a seed of doubt in my mind.
Then when things didn’t go as planned with that girl I found myself looking in the direction of a girl I liked a few years back but my problem is that I don’t rlly know whether or not I like her or lust her. She might also be a rebound or something but then I also do feel genuine things for her I think.
Finally there is this girl who was introduced to me a month or two ago by a friend and with her I feel like there’s a connection we talk a lot and she’s really nice but I also feel hesitant about trying to take things further and I think that’s because I kind have feeling for the girls previously mentioned.
I don’t know what I’m feeling cos the first girl knows that I liked her and only likes me as a friend this and I think I’m ok with that but then I also feel no real closure with my feelings for her and the thing with the second girl is that because I do have some feeling for her it’s mentally blocking me from trying to move forward with the third girl who I’ll be honest is probably my best option.
I really don’t want to hurt anyone but this whole thing is really hurting my mental well being and I don’t really have anywhere else to turn too abt it other than here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. | Crush |
I (17M) had a close friend recently tell me that the girl that I have a crush on has been quite toxic to her friends (lying and using them) and that they are not friends anymore. However since I don't talk to her often I had no idea and had talked to her earlier this week through dms. She seemed quite nice tho.
Anyways, this is actually the second friend tjat jas told me to stay away from her in the past year. I still find her attractive and her personality is quite fun and unique.
Should I still continue approaching her or move on? | Crush |
(Both 14, me female, him male) I got out of a toxic relationship a couple months before I met him. We met in a class this school year and became friends. I started growing a small crush on him. We texted more and became closer. We became best friends. One day he texted me out of the blue and said hey bae. That day was when we started texting literally every day. We said good morning and goodnight and had names for each other. Then one day some guy at a school meeting I was at stole my phone when it was unlocked and texted my crush’s bestfriend and said something that made it seem like I liked him. My crush texted me about it and I tried to tell him it wasn’t me but idk if he believed me. Now we don’t text as often but whenever we are together in real life he tries to touch me and he put his arm around me. He asked me who I wanted to date and I said idrk and I asked him but he said nobody. Now he’s moving schools and I don’t even know when I’ll see him again. Does he like me or is he just nice? How do I deal with him leaving my school? | Crush |
My crush rejected me over text. Not in person. I feel so horrible. I care about her a lot still. I still want to be her friend and be there for her. | Crush |
I love stalking the hot girls at my school. I constantly stare at them and sometimes even take pics when they’re not looking. I constantly admire their perfect bodies and fantasize about us together | Crush |
I am starting to go to table tennis and most of the people are boys, I want to talk to them and be their friends but I don't know how, I am quiet and shy, but when I am comfortable I can be chatty and fun, I have 2 friends that play there one of them is the only girl! she has been 'accepted' by the boys. I want to learn how to play ping-pong but idk if they will feel okay abt it, I feel like I am disturbing them. | Crush |
SHE LIKES ME BACK!!!! and I guess we are kinda dating but in a few days she is gonna receive a Christmas gift from me in the mail and another part of the gift is gonna be this funny PowerPoint I made and in it I’m gonna ask her to officially be my girlfriend!😆I seriously cannot believe this happened to me y’all! | Crush |
today, i accidently became known that my bestie have same crush w me.... what should i do?!! i told to my friend that it is not a big deal, and we are goanna be fine... but i don't really know what i should do. she thinks that my crush like her, but i really know that's not... and today, He even gave me a back hug today!!!!! how should i talk to my friend that he don't like my friend and i like him too?? omg im sooo confused 😭😭😭 | Crush |
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I've known this one girl since the 4th grade and she switched schools and I've never forgotten her and I saw her again in high school and I feel so drawn in by her but I've switched high schools but I want to tell her how I feel should I? | Crush |
So basically one day they're going to ask me who was your first celebrity crush and im going to answer my partner | Crush |
So I wanna ask out a friend but they are moving at the end of the year and I don't know if it's a good idea. This week is also the last week till winter break and neither of us can drive. | Crush |
Should I ask my crush to see Spider-Man no way home because tomorrow is the last time I see her until next year or should I wait until 2022 | Crush |
So I went to school for a few days for a competition and there was a guy there. He seemed cool and fun to talk to. He was getting along with everyone making jokes and stuff too. After a few days I kinds started growing a small crush on him. I saw him staring at me a couple of times also when I was singing in the choir practice fir the competition he came and was making fun faces. But there’s a girl elder than me who’s good friends with him, so I I’m not sure if he came for her or me. Today was the last day I was going to school physically now I’m gonna be back to online school, I have his number from a group. Should I text him? | Crush |
firstable, im korean student.. so my english is not perfect at all. please understand. im 16 years old girl in korea. i have same class student, and im crush with him. he is really cute... soooo cute... i always think about him. he is 15cm taller than me, and he's eyes are really sweet. he is really kind to everyone. and he always think about other peoples think. one day, i came home with him, and he say to me come fast!! i asked why, and he said that there was car. and he say to me that i have to be careful. i really melted... ooohhh i really like him 😭 and i hope he would like me tooo | Crush |
Sometimes I hate how selfish and highly emotional I am. I’ve always been a selfish person; there’s no doubt about it. When I was a kid and my parents would take us to the amusement parks, I would always be looking at other rides because I wanted to know what’s coming next and I want it all planned because I want all of it. My dad always commented on that, reminding me to enjoy the present, but as a kid, I never took it seriously because who does. but today ; I am seeing the consequences.
A little background on this chapter. I always loved women, it's almost like a weakness. because they’re beautiful, and so feminine. They're quick learners, and very appreciative. My chemistry with the female gender has always been natural. I didn't talk to a lot of girls as a kid, but as I started, I realized that women always loved me. They liked that I was driven, passionate, and knew what I wanted.
I grew up with aspirations; and would always work day and night to get what I wanted. My dad had a huge part in it. When I wanted a new smartphone, I would show up at my dad's shop and work as an employee for a month or sometimes more. At the end, I'd negotiate a new phone in exchange for a fair wage.
My confidence grew, I got more and more greedy because life has been good to me; sooner or later, I managed to mostly get what I desired. Greed felt good, but I was pretty lucky at the same time. I always wanted more and better; better toys, better food, better women. And every time I wouldn't get it; it would hurt physically and emotionally because I couldn’t have it.
Today I’m twenty six, and I’ve achieved a fair share of what I wanted. I live thousands of miles away from the place that I was born in. I'm in my dream city, working in the major leagues of technology and am able to fully support my family.
But I still feel that there’s something missing. Maybe this isn't where I'm supposed to be, I have to achieve a lot more. I can't stop here. I have yet to find the right person to share my life with. I dated multiple women in the past and eventually realized that this isn't exactly what I want. Deep down in my heart, I feel that I’m responsible for breaking their hearts, for committing into relationships that were probably not gonna go anywhere, but I assure you, at that time, I wanted them to last.
I am a dreamer, and dreaming big comes at a cost. It doesn’t always have to be a dream about financial success or a better apartment or a better car (which I am consistently daydreaming about). The dream is also to be with the best person out there, the perfect person for me. Which is almost superficial at this point.
So far in my life I managed to suppress the feelings when I would feel unsettled; not getting what I want always hurts but I think that’s what drives me, I replace my emotions with more work, more hobbies, chess, guitar, gym, friends, all of it. I ran as fast as I could; But as they say, you can’t run forever.
Now you have a glimpse of my personality, and the kind of mindset I lead. Let's talk about why I'm talking about greed all of a sudden.
Life is full of ridiculously unexpected experiences. I was lucky enough to have a few of those good experiences. It's 7PM, and I'm just playing chess with my buddy while on facetime. The game takes forever, and my competitive nature took over, resulting in me completely forgetting about my building's Christmas party I'm invited to. The party starts at 6, and I'm already an hour late. On any other day, I would never go to a party for just one hour. But for some reason, I decided to get ready in 5 minutes and leave my place.
As soon as I get there, I see a packed floor. Everyone's already here, and they're already socializing. So I make my way to the other side of the bar, and stand by myself. I kept my calm, talked to the bartender, and ordered two drinks. I was in a solid spot, people would come to get another drink, and end up having a conversation with me. In 15 mins, I was in the center of a group telling some story about my move to Chicago. In the middle of the conversation, I see a pack of beautiful women walking towards me (towards the bar).
Picking out the most beautiful one was easy. She was the nearest one to me; tall, blonde, European, stylish sense of dressing, wearing all black which complemented her blue eyes.
My back was facing the bar, so I could see the crowd in front of me. As she came closer and stood right next me, trying to order another drink. I felt a little intimidated, but it was now or never. I turn around, and start with a stupid joke about how we should order more than one drink because the open bar is closing. We've all been drinking so she definitely enjoyed the joke more than I expected, but that only helped my case.
All of this is still very unexpected, I wasn't even gonna make it to the party because I forgot about it. But I made it, and I’m kind of glad that I did, because she’s incredible!
As I saw her walking towards the bar, I had already started admiring her beauty. I was into her, and I made it very clear. We talked for five minutes and it felt like we’ve known each other our whole lives. It was almost unreal, and as we talked more, I could not stop but notice that she’s into me. Which was unbelievable, considering that she was possibly THE prettiest girl in the room. I consider myself a passionate person, so when I talk to someone that I like, I naturally express that passion in my voice. Which definitely was one of the things that she liked about me.
The room was full of people talking to each other, but with her, I felt like we are alone. In addition to her attractive face, she was also very expressive; she listened, acknowledged, and cared about what I had to say. Her eyes would light up every time I talked. She complimented me more than I complemented her. I could not put into words at the time that how beautiful she was, and I was afraid to come off too strong.
Immediately, I decided that I want her, not in a creepy way but in a respectful long-term way because I experienced that connection that always seemed missing. Her blue eyes, golden hair, and polish accent was almost magical. The more she told me about herself the more I fell for her. It all felt so perfect, the conversation was smooth, and the chemistry was impeccable.
Then she told me that she is seeing someone.
Something died inside of me at that moment. But my years of training in hiding my emotions made it easy to act unbothered with that information.
She's someone else’s, but I couldn’t accept that. My subconscious quickly decided to seize the moment and appreciate the time I get to spend with her because it may be the only occurrence.
Even though she's with someone else. Our chemistry never took a hit. She told me she loved my hair, kept brushing her hands in my hair, complimented my smile; which is something I never expected from her. Considering that she is literally perfect. I was on an emotional Rollercoaster.
Worst part about all this is that deep inside, I knew that she can’t be mine. It felt like winning a lottery but not getting to keep the price. My logical brain kept trying to interrupt me but I didn’t want to believe that she belongs to someone else. We talked about life, good and bad times, and our journeys. She related to my stories, and I hers. The energy was unreal. We didn't even have to try to converse, it was natural. She observed the energy too, and so did everyone else around us. Her friends were leaving for another bar, but we both had this unspoken understanding that we're spending this night just with each other.
"I wish I'd met your earlier", She said. While mentioning that she has to behave because she's dating. Casually hinting that she's stopping herself, just like I'm stopping myself from kissing her.
I'm now leading a ship full of false hope, which I am more than happy to work with at that moment. Because it meant that I can continue spending time with her. I felt like the six year old version of me who kept denying the reality of my parents' long distance relationship. I waited for my dad to come home everyday, even though he was thousands of miles away working hard for my future. It was difficult to believe that I won't see him for months, sometimes years. But I guess I've always been bad at accepting.
We both acknowledged that we would become a Sterling couple, and she would’ve chosen me if I had met her earlier. Doesn't solve any of my problems, but it kept me going.
She had a beautiful smile, almost hallucinating. Her eyes felt more intoxicating than the wine, and her voice was music to my ears. My world had stopped, and we were the only ones alive. She'd laugh on my jokes, and would grab my hand. Every single touch would turn into an explosion of emotions in my head. I was falling for someone who’s not mine, But the pain is worth it. As we walk back to the building, she puts her arm in my arm and I held her like she was mine. It was indeed one of the best feelings I've had.
In teenage terms, we were crushing on each other, but the complications of the adult life stopped us from becoming one. "It’s very difficult to not kiss you", I said. She smiled and asked me to not do it. She looked deep into my eyes and told me that she’s getting lost into them. Which is exactly how I felt about her. We liked the same things about each other and we hated the same things about others.
I may be flattering myself, but we did push some limits. In a way that would not be considered cheating. But our souls connected, because they are not weighed down by the pressure of the physical world. I did not want to keep my hands to myself, all I wanted was to hold her, kiss her, And tell her that she’s mine. I wanted to appreciate her existence, And celebrate that she's mine. I was selfish, I wanted the reality to change, Just like I always have. We parted our ways, I could not resist so I gently kiss her on the cheek, secretly hoping that it'll turn into a real kiss. But I couldn't break her trust, and did not make any rash moves. I still remember how it felt, her skin was softer than my lips, and her smell could be described as what heaven would smell like. I played it cool but I didn’t want to let go, I didn’t want the hug to end, just like I didn't want this night to end. But reality hit, it was late at night and we both had work to do in the morning. The societal responsibilities once again had taken over.
It’s been less than 24 hours since I’ve met her, and I haven’t stopped thinking about her for a single second. I woke up with the same unsettled feeling. If it'd be up to me, I would walk to her apartment right now, knock on the door, and kiss her soon as she opens the door. Not caring about her boyfriend, because you gotta take your chances.
Unfortunately, this scenario is as unrealistic as a time machine. My greed once again has hurt me, all I think about is her now and no one else. I keep thinking that I'll bump into her in the building, which again will lead to no fruit. | Crush |
I think this guy who comes into my work sometimes (I work in retail) is really cute and I want to get to know him. I don’t know much about him except what I’ve observed. I don’t know if he’s smiling to be polite or not, and I don’t know how he feels about me because we only interact briefly when he comes through my register line. It does make me feel happier to see him, yet he also gives me anxiety because I want him to like me. | Crush |
I recently became friends with this awesome girl in one of my classes at university. We clicked from day 1 and we talk often now but she didn't tell me
she had a bf (25m) until recently and turns out I know this guy from a mutual friend. He cheats on her on the regular and she's too innocent to know. Her boyfriend is a scumbag and not right for her anyways, he's 25 and dropped out of undergrad
and working minimum wage while she's really smart and going places but he's just holding her back, fights with her, and cheating on her.
Semester is over now so I won't get to use the excuse of studying to see her anymore but I wanna tell her my feelings for her and tell her about her bf. What should I do and how? | Crush |
So one of my coworkers out of nowhere texted me what I like because she wants to get me something for Christmas I don’t know if she’s being nice or if she likes me we text alot about random things when we joke around customers are like ayyyy and we just laugh and ignore it but I have a feeling she likes me,like for example one time she grabs my arm and looks at my tattoo and then starts doodling on my tattoo with a pen and or one time she makes fun of my hair looking odd and then she combs it for me with her hand.I mean either I’m really dumb and can’t take a hint or shes just super nice.help I really want advice before I catch feelings especially that combing hair gave me a warm feeling and I don’t wanna ruin anything. | Crush |
Need a second opinion
Ok this my first time really trying to get with a crush and take it to the next level I like her a lot and I think she likes me when something funny happens where we are at we usually make eye contact and I talk to her pretty often and when we both had a lot of free time we talked together for like a half hour. All the in person signs look good but on snap she sometimes leaves me on opened especially later at night ig and she doesn’t do streaks. Online looks like not interested in me but in person does. What should I think about this? She has told me she doesn’t use snap a ton so is it just that or am I being to optimistic?
Edit: Saw her today after being left on opened over the weekend and we talked and stuff and still glancing back and forth I really don’t know what to do I mean I think she likes me but how do I hang and talk to her when she doesn’t really respond well on snap | Crush |
I’ve been called pretty or beautiful by friends and strangers in public. I’ve always been told I have a good body. But for some reason I keep getting rejected by guys I like. I know I’m a good person and I’m kind. But I don’t know why I keep getting rejected. All my friends have been in relationships and they are all so beautiful with good personalities, but no guys I’ve liked ever liked me back. Maybe it’s because I seems stupid? Or desperate? Or maybe I’m actually not attractive? To he honest maybe it’s the environment I’m in, I’m black in a predominantly white community and maybe no one is into black girls? Some of the guys I’ve liked are Asians and maybe they’re not into black girls either? I also don’t have a big social life and have like only two friends that could also be the issue. Lol bruuuh Idk | Crush |
Hello! So first of all thank you if you read this, and maybe answer because I just cant figure it out. There is one girl in my class that I am in really love with, and I think she loves me back too, but she is confusing so I need to know others opinion. So the deal is that I dont really know if she is in live with me or not. We always look at eachother in class and catch eye contact for a long time. We sit together in English class and her body language is very positive I can say because her leg and her toes is always towards me. She smiles at me a lot, laugh at every joke I make. We talk a lot after school in snapchat or instagram, in snapchat we even have a yellow heart (if you know what im talking about). She sent me goodmorning and goodnight text. Like a week ago I had a feeling that another boy had a crush on him, but when he touched her she said “dont touch me”, so i already knew she want someone else. She also had a small crush on someone but at the cafeteria she said that boy can kill himself idk…She is a bit confusing as I said. When we were at the school gym there was no teacher so the class could do anything so me and and some other classmates choose to play hula hoop and she always tried to be infront of me all the time where i can see her. When I introduced her to clash royale she suddenly started playing it too. I think thats pretty much it. When everyone left the cafeteria she stayed with me until I finished my lunch even if i didnt mention her to stay. During class i asked the teacher that i can go to the bathroom, after that she immidiately said the same. We became classmates this September. If someone can help me out of this chaos I will be thankful. | Crush |
She asked me to dance with her and she called me cute. Even after that I hadn’t realized. Another girl also has a crush on me at the moment and I realized this after 4 months and she was constantly hitting on me on the bus. I am just stupid. | Crush |
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i didn’t even have a crush on him when we were friends but after quarantine started and he graduated and left for college, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him. He always knew how to make me laugh, and would tease me but also be super caring. We would always walk the halls together, share inside jokes, and compete with each other in academics. He even snuck into one of my classes to say hello to me once. I admire how smart and charismatic he is, how we could banter with each other but also have more serious moments. We were such good friends, and I was also his wingwoman when he had a crush on another girl. When quarantine started, I began missing him more than anyone else. That feeling developed into a crush, and 1.5 years later, I still think about him. I briefly had a crush on another guy and was so relieved. But that crush only lasted like 2 weeks, and now I’m back to the first guy. We barely even talk anymore, and when we do, it’s just a quick snapchat reply to one of our stories. I can’t even tell him how I feel because it’s been so long since we’ve seen each other and he lives across the country now. It’s just so sad to think about :( | Crush |
Me (17M), my crush (16F) and her friends (who I don't know) went drinking yesterday and 2 things happened that day that confused me.
For context:
She has a bf but he wasn't there and they haven't been together even a week
1. So the first thing that happened was that her friend's teased her about holding hands with me and pushing her towards me
2. She could have sat next to anyone there were 9 other people but she sat right next to me
So right now I'm confused if she like me back or not. any advice or what do you guys think | Crush |
My crush texted me first for the first time!! | Crush |
So my crush's mom is planning to go out to some arcade or something like that (my mom and her mom are close friends). I wanted to see if i can maybe play to games with her 1 on 1. Any tips?? | Crush |
i have liked this guy for 2 years and the worst problem is that he is exactly my type but he gives a lot of mixed signals which gets me confused af! he treats me like his really good friend, calls me whenever he feels like, shares a lot of his personal preferences with me but has a lot of girls around him. we met through a mutual friend (who is pretty important to me), and i dont want to hurt either but i know i can't go on living like this - my head filled with thoughts of him, imagining things that will never happen, remembering every single detail about him, his likes and dislikes and worst of all - crying over him (even though he was never mine in the first place) i am someone who gets very emotionally attached easily, so it is very hard to put a stop to this :'((
it would be great if you guys can drop some supportive msgs and/or advice here, im finally taking a strong step for myself | Crush |
so i think this girl viv likes me possibly? she is my crush and in my opinion (not bragging) i may be the best looking in my grade (i go to private school so we dont do lockers and move to a different class) soo my parents think shes my gf (my life sucks rn) but as you know its summer right now and im fixing myself up. rn im 130 pound soo if you have any tips for losing 10 or more pounds please tell me and i can do something for you…that sounded so wrong ew | Crush |
How do I gain the confidence to talk to them. I already made a little vow and told my friend that if he’s with me and I refuse to talk to her then he can slap me. | Crush |
My friend’s guy friend has been following me on insta for a few years but we’ve never talked to each other before but this past year he’s been liking literally all my insta posts. This weekend my friend and her guy friend were in town and I met him in person for the first time and he was like it’s really nice meeting you and we hugged etc. as I was driving I caught him looking at me through the rear view mirror but it could just be a coincidence and I’m overthinking lol. And during the car ride he was teasing my music choice a few times etc. I need help lol am I reading too much into it or does he seem interested? | Crush |
This is meant to be a silly post, not serious at all.
I went to a soccer game last weekend and the opposition team has this player that is just wow! Remember how that chick was looking at Curry? Yeah that's how I was looking at her. I am in love with her. I can't stop thinking about her.
I just needed to get this out lol | Crush |
I have a crush on my cousin's cousin. He is 6 months younger than me.I told my cousin that i have a crush on her cousin and she helped me know about him more. So he definitely has lots of girls around him and he is NOT my ideal type. I tried to forget him because we're exact opposite and don't have anything in common but I still want him and it's almost been a year and I am not over him yet. What should i do??? | Crush |
It seems to be the norm nowadays, but with teenagers. I always see adults or 20-30 year olds online asking them for their numbers etc etc, but not focusing too much on building the relationship over text. i always hear to use text as a means to meetup. But when i read about teens and shit yk, its always "we snapped everyday for 3 months" yata yata yata. Is it truly OK to progress through and have most interactions via DMs or is the Gen Z being stupid. My take on this is, as a species (looking at the whole of our evolutionary life span) we have had access to Direct Messages for, not even half of a percent of our time span. Is sticking to person person interactions ,albeit the new surge of online messaging, still the way to go, or should most interactions be hosted online as this new generation seems to be addicted to. **TL;DR- Should most bonding and interaction with a crush be done via messaging or is it still the better option to confront and bond person to person? despite, what seems to be, the normalcy among teens.**
I guess to make this question more acceptable in this subreddit I would have to ask: With the girl im currently pursuing should I use texting as a means to meetup (if, when i do ask for her number, i get her number) or to further bond. Maybe a mix of both? completely one or the other? If i could get a vague percentage that would also be helpful | Crush |
i (28f) have been rejected by my crush (24m) about more than a month ago but i still can't move on... thank you for reading my ranting. | Crush |
So the guy I like has recently begun jokingly picking on me. It’s never anything mean and it’s always funny but he’s never done it before.
Just realized that there isn’t a lot of context here. So he and I. Have known each other for just over a year. He’s typically more shy and reserved but every know and then when we’re talking he’ll kinda just come out of his Bible and have more energy. | Crush |
*screams* | Crush |
As the title says, I've had a crush on and off again over the past five years for a guy friend of mine. Every time I think I'm over him, I'm smacked with the face with these damn feelings. I've had the warm fuzzies, nervousness, and even now typing this I feel nauseous thinking of him (sorry if TMI). There's really no one I can talk to about this.
Here's the background: We met through social media. I thought he was cute and slid into his DMs. We live in different countries but we have met and hung out before in person a couple of times. We both work in the same industry, have similar interests and are around the same age.
Over the years it's been a rollercoaster of emotions (like the title of this thread). The first time I decided I would give up on him was after he ghosted me for three months. He eventually reached out and apologized. He genuinely felt bad about it, but it took me some time before I forgave him.
We talked on and off again, nothing serious just friendly but the feelings slowly resurfaced. Towards the end of 2019, I was traveling and asked if he wanted to hangout. He agreed. I thought it was just be super causal. When we met up he did something I never expected, he asked if we could hug. I tried to play it cool but internally I was like "oh shi-!!!" We spent the afternoon together, it was a good time. Before we went our separate ways, we hugged goodbye. (I gave him the pat on the back while hugging which I regret.) I was an awkward mess!! That night I was elated but also freaking out. He hugged me, he was the one who asked for a hug! My face was warm, I had butterflies in my stomach. That night I chatted with a friend of mine, who brought me back to reality. *"You live in different countries, it won't work."*
Then at the beginning of 2020 I was determined to get over my feelings for the last time. We only messaged back and forth a few times before I stopped reaching out. At this point it was mainly me initiating any conversation. I was doing good, I tried to date again. In August he reached out to me for some advice on a project he was working on. We start talking again, I supported his new venture. Then I got smacked with those damn feelings.
Fast forward to now. We still talk to each other on occasion. We've been supporting each other's personal projects. I haven't had any feeling for him for the past several months until recently. At this point I've had to mute all of his accounts and restrict his account too.
It's an never ending cycle for me. I fall for him, try to move on. When I think I'm over these feelings, BAM they're back. I don't want to date him. I don't want to confess to him because it's me throwing all this on him. I want to keep our friendship.
I hate it when these feelings resurface. I feel lost. I feel like an idiot.
If you read my wall of text, thank you :) | Crush |
Hey Im a 18m and have had a crush on this girl (17) for almost two years now the only way i can describe it is that Im in love with her in every way, but i have been feeling really bad lately. I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks from an early childhood trauma that left me with a bunch of insecurities band mental problems, I was medicated till 2018, anyway this girl mean the world to me and Im her best friend and she has helped me too much in an indirect way to fix my mental, shes just amazing in every way shape or form. But she just likes me as a friend. She likes to tell me Im her only real friend ( which hurts so bad). Anyway she has an online girlfriend they have been together for over a year and some time ago she told me that she liked me back but shes in love with her (my crush is BI). So i just don't know what to do anymore, lately we have been hanging out more but every time she lives i get all depressed, sad, and my anxiety kicks in its been going so bad I have been thinking of going back to therapy and they might put me back on medication. If you kind stranger have any advice or anything please do. I just need any help I can get. Thank you | Crush |
So I’m March of this year I started liking this girl and she actually liked me back (surprising), we kept talking, but she officially said she doesn’t feel like dating yet and that it’s best we just stay friends, I fully knew yet I still wish we could, and it kept getting annoying and I never realized until after, we stopped being friends for a bit, but we got back to being friends after a month in end of may. We have been talking since, but I started liking her again, and I told her thinking she would change her mind and say I like you too, but nope lmao didn’t happen, but after realizing that I don’t need her there’s other people, I forgot about her and stopped liking her, we are still friends right now, and after watching a movie with a bond between a girl and a boy on an adventure (castle in the sky) it reminded me of her because she likes anime and I’m general I pictured the characters as “us”, and I got very attached to the movie. I told her expecting the same thing, didn’t say I liked her cuz I don’t I think, but after keep talking and thinking I am now slowly going to liking her again and thinking about asking if we can go on a date and you can get the feeling of what it actually is like to go on a date, but I know she will say no so I feel like giving up, yet I keep thinking if I stick with her one day we’ll click. | Crush |
So I’m the fishing assistant at a day camp. And this counselor has the same music taste as me + she plays guitar. (This is really close to my dream girl lol). I think I see her at least once a week because her bunk has fishing once a week.
She’s a sophomore in high school and I’m a senior. I’m fine with that.
But I’m not the best at talking to girls. I need advice/tips on talking to girls. Also I plan on asking for her snap next time I see her. Whenever I talk to girls I tend to talk about what I like.
I’m also thinking about potentially asking her out once I get to know her a lot. But I’m scared of rejection.
Even if I do get rejected, how can I make it so that we are still friends? | Crush |
this is the first time we’re gonna be alone together its gonna be after both of our work shifts so pretty late at night, i cant really take her on a “date” so the plan is to just get super stoned by hotboxing my car. and i’ll play some music. but yall i need at least one more thing to do with her so its not just a run of the mill hangout. any suggestions for sumthin that we can do late at night (minors) that doesnt cost money | Crush |
So I started a new job a month ago and I'm the only girl there. I started getting a crush on one of the guys there but it bugs me that I'm crushing on him. It also bugs me that he does things that make me think there's a chance, like looking through what I'm doing for no reason(right in front of me) or doing something dumb/funny and immediately looking at me.
Today, specifically, he made me really mad by knocking over some of my stuff and not really picking it up before leaving. I kept ignoring when he was near me and somewhat glaring/looking annoyed. What really confused him though was when I didn't really laugh at his jokes. After that I kept noticing him looking at me then looking away when I looked. | Crush |
Years after finishing highschool , and years of crushing on this now man , Somehow finally my dreams came true. We got together just last night. It took some nerves for me to do it. I was super nervous. He met me outside my house and we went down the road in his nice red truck and talked and hung out. We had a glass of wine and when we got back and played some pool in the basement. Then I asked him if he wanted to come in my house. And he did. We talked more. And I put some music on Tracy Chapman Fast car , and then some Redbone come and get your love. I tried to get him to dance with me, and he said i can’t dance . And then I just stopped trying to get him to dance and started to kiss him on my couch and then I lead him to my room, which was messy lol clothes alllll over my bed I just swiped them off and then we just kinda had some fun lol and it was amazing he left around just a little over midnight he has work in the early am but I did ask him if he wanted to stay the night. When he left he said , he would text me or something and hangout some again. Soooo yeah 😌He gives me the flutters ever since I started crushing on him
And it’s kinda the feeling of having a crush on someone and then seeing them or being caught by surprise when you see them and it takes your breath away and makes your heart race :) | Crush |
Ight so a little backstory here ive like her since summer began and we have been hangin out the past week and my freind decided to be a cuk and told her i liked her so i was like well shii fuck it asked her out i got the response of bold move ur pre cute but i just got out of a relationship and i forgot the rest of what she said but were still hanging out and yesterday i got into some issues with my family which almost led to me being arrested and i was talking to her about this and we where talking fkr like a hour about our exs and other bs i was ranting about and i got dont talking and she said u cute but im sitting here like u rejected me and u finna fuck with me like that ig idk but im guessing im in the freindzone but like idk and im thinkin that what she said when i asked her out was true that she wasnt ready yet but i have no clue what to think. But sorry for this weird shit show of how i feel about this girl | Crush |
If you're lazy read the whole story tho I think might have some relevance you can jump to the tl;dr part
So a bit of a backstory: Last year I(M14 a that time) had a crush on this girl(also14) in my class for half a year when I finally asked her out. Well that was the moment I fucked up. I wanted to ask her when she was alone but I never felt like this was a good moment, you know the usual procrastination. Anyways so the days went by and it wasn't long until summer break so I put myself a bit under pressure and asked her out in front of a friend of hers and a boy with a crush on said-friend.
Looking back that wasn't the smartest move and also very inconsiderate since I put a lot of pressure on her.
Well she didn't reply with yes or no just said she would think about it. later she messaged me saying: "she doesn't feel ready yet but wouldn't mind if we would meet as friends"
I didn't know how to handle this message since it was the first person I asked out, and responded quiet weirdly which I still cringe on while thinking back so yeh in summary it was something along the lines that I am a clown
In the summer I was very empty maybe it was a depression maybe not.
So new schoolyear started I tried to ignore and get over her but it didn't quite work.
half a year later some days before a lockdown I had the feeling she was trying to say something to me but i had a very defensive and ignoring aura so yeh.
Maybe it was also nothing.
The lockdown was pretty long, 6 months I think. i thought i was over her
I wasn't thinking of her anymore.
Well guess what, I wasn't. All the feelings came back just when i saw her.
Anyways we had quiet a lot of eye contact bc well I couldn't take the eyes of her and aksed her if she wants to dance with me at a sort of prom-but-not-really-thing next year. she said yes.
Some days later I asked her if she wants to go out with me for a walk for actually today(Thursday) and first she said she's not sure if she'd have time but then when I changed the date to Tuesday (school finished an hour earlier) it worked out.
Oh and I forgot to mention last friday she approached me at the same spot I thought she was gonna say something to me six months earlier and we had a little convo.
Tuesday was awsome, I thought it would have some embarrassing pauses or something but we talked non-stop and it was 70% her that initiated the topics we talked about.
So asked I messaged her: Do you have time to meet next week or in the near future again?
And she responded with: No, sorry, that won't work for me.
That's the part where I'm stuck at thinking about, in the near future is such a vague phrase. Maybe she didn't read it? Also she doesn't show really an interest in meeting again like she just said no and mic drop/ but ig this is still kinda normal?
tl;dr: Last year I asked a girl out she kinda friendzoned me. Now after one year full of lockdowns and a bit of character development
I asked her to go with me to the prom. She said yes.
This Tuesday I went for a walk with her and it was awesome. After I messaged her today if we would meet again next week or in the near future she answered with no, sorry that won't work for me.
Now I don't know what to do, since asking again would make me seem desperate, wouldn't it?
Since english is not my first language I hope it was kinda understandable and enjoyable to read
And good luck with your crushes people! | Crush |
Ok so i am going to Missiouri Military school next year leaving my old school and their is the girl i like i havent asked to hangout with her. I am pretty nervouse And I was gonna ask her when school opens on september 1 also by that time i might go to germany and Like 3 months later i come back.
When the time comes that i leave my school in my home country to study abroad And at that time i would have entered the grade where i join high school but there i cant because i am leaving, Should I ask her before i leave? | Crush |
I like this guy that I work with and I don’t know if he likes me too but I’m leaving my job next week so should I tell him or just move on?
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How do you ask a girl who is also your friend and crush, to hang out. (This question is about my latest post here and the idea someone commented) | Crush |
I don't really have anyone to talk about this so i wanted to post it here
I have a massive crush on my coworker since last month and that only because he said "hey" to me every day with the kindest voice i have ever heard. Plus he is extremly pretty too. And even though we work at the same place, we have completly different tasks so we don't really work with eachother.
I had quite a few crushes already and normally my feelings for them disappear after 1-4 weeks of not seeing them but this time it's so much harder for me.
I haven't seen him since over 4 weeks because we have different work shifts and i miss him so much. I feel so stupid because i don't know anything about him. I'm not even sure if i know his name. And today i found out that he will quit working there and it made me feel even worse. I don't know when he will quit but i want to see him at least one more time
I don't expect anyone to help me here or something, i just hoped that i would feel better after sharing my feelings | Crush |
OK so this is basically just for me to talk about my feelings but basically I went to a frat party recently with my friends and I was really drunk. So for some reason I was on the floor and I remember I couldn’t really see well. But then I just hear a guy come up to me and in the sweetest voice he goes “awww hey what r u doing on the ground” and I feel him hold my hands. And then I can’t remember what he looks like exactly but I just remember him holding both of my hands and helping me up off the ground and I was like oh hello 🥰
But then right after he literally went over and help my friends hand to when I was like oh he just does that to everybody lmao. and then he asked us about her sorority and asked if we knew this one girl and now looking back at it I feel like he asked about her probably because he likes her. or maybe they’re just friends or some thing or he knows her somehow so he just brought her up.
but after that instance all I can think about is him. I even followed him on Instagram and he followed me back and I was looking at his pictures and I got a clear view of his face again and he is so cute. he literally has the brown curly hair and everything. And our first interaction was so romantic askdldk
I was talking to my friend about him and she told me she feels like if I could see him again at another one of his frat parties then I would definitely have a chance with him. And I’m pretty confident I will too but I just hope I have another chance to see him again. | Crush |
So a little backstory: I have had a crush on this girl in my class for quite a while now, and I've made multiple posts about it. A couple months ago, I thought I was over her, but things happened and it seems that I wasn't. The problem here is, she is a very good friend of mine, but we only talk through text messages, meaning that irl we don't really have anything. Plus, its summer break for me, so we're both doing things and the contact has severally died down. We have a lot less contact now, and on my other posts about this people suggested that: I should just ask her. To all of you who have read this far, thank you, but the problems don't stop there. In the very unlikely case that she does say yes, it'll be extremely awkward. We never had irl conversations. Plus if she says no, it'll probably ruin our friendship. So to the two people that read to the end I ask. What should I do? | Crush |
me (13f) and my boyfriend (12m) just started dating and he means the world to me. we met at our church, and we both liked each other pretty instantly. we just started dating, and even though we're young i can totally see myself marrying him someday. there isn't really a point to this post, i just like talking about him <33 | Crush |
I’d rather not delete any messages or unfollow them from social media if possible. Help? | Crush |
I just realised that she likes me back but my only way to talk to her is thru text the next time I will see her in person is in mid september and idk if I should say it thru a text and how to say it | Crush |
Im telling my crush!!! Ive been crushing for 2 years and I hope she likes me back!!!
After: Wow. She ain't straight. | Crush |
I feel like I am a pathetic loser. My manager hates me so much and wants to fire me and I hate her for abusing her power. But there is something about her that turns me on and I hate this feeling. I feel pathetic.
Like one day she was lecturing me and my coworkers about a mistake and I felt turned on.
Today she was digging a hole for me to look like a loser in front of the management but when she called me I got speechless. BTW she thinks that I hate her too.
WTF is wrong with me | Crush |
Lately I been having a crush I had on a dude , I known him for two months . He makes me happy sometime confused when he don’t answer for a long time 😅. Me and him flirt sometimes but friendly but like knowing me I catch feeling quickly I want to tell him but he might not like me lol? Need some advice :) | Crush |
He asked me out for the second time today, but he said when I don't want to hang out then I don't have to. Does this mean that he kinda knows that I don't feel the same? Btw I haven't told him yet that I don't feel the same, how do I do that? He's a very introverted guy btw. | Crush |
So in my class, there's this girl which I always did end up paired with in English group projects. She is both quite beautiful and also quite smart, so my quite introverted ass started to crush on her. Only recently (the school year ended three weeks ago, we have each others numbers so we end up chstting quite a bit) I have discovered that this may be a case of intentional pairing. Why would a teacher assign the same attractive girl to me in group project for a past year then? | Crush |
I have a crush on this girl for 2 years now.
So there's this one time when a strong earthquake happed here, i jokingly type "hey incase We will die in this earthquake. I have a crush on you for 2 years now." And screenshoted it to show to my friends, but i accidentally Pressed the send button. She saw it, then she thanked me for my Bravery. Now we Chat sometimes but sometimes she doesn't reply at all.
Dear people of Reddit, What to do? | Crush |
I have always liked this guy ever since high school (11th grade, I’m now college sophomore, he’s junior). I think he’s cute, mysterious (he doesn’t post that much on social media), and talented. He is a theatre actor. He also makes short films and has a talent in photography. We went to a school workshop once and that was basically the only time we “somehow” interacted. We’re Facebook friends and one of the things I like to share are films I’ve watched. He messaged me a couple of times about those (we seem to have a similar taste) and recently he even recommended films for me to watch. Every time we chat, I am super elated. The feeling of high doesn’t end until we end the conversation. I’m just so happy to have this crush. I don’t want it to go further and develop into something more, just this. I like this feeling so much. | Crush |
But I haven’t heard from him since yesterday afternoon which is very unusual. He usually texts several times a day or calls. So he must be upset. I’m not sure what about what I said upset him tho. Should I reach out to him? | Crush |
FaceTiming everyday and texting constantly, definitely flirting. We had a couple dates planned but she got sick & I had work. Meant to go out this weekend but I’m starting to realize I might have liked the idea of her and not actually her (I’ve never been in a relationship nor kissed anyone)
I’m 20 and definitely have been on some pretty horrid dates & liked somebody that lead me on. But I’m afraid I’m doing that to this girl.
She’s pretty open about flirting and liking me, but as I’m getting to know her more I’m pretty sure I don’t actually fancy her in that way. What should I do?
It’s not that I don’t think she’s a rad person but I’m not sure I’d like to be friends either? I kinda feel like a dick, but she’s also coming off very strong knowing I’m inexperienced, wanting to kiss on the first date when I don’t think I’d be ready for that even if I had heavy feelings.
TDLR : thought I liked a girl turns out I liked the idea of her, not sure how to tell her?
Any advice | Crush |
So there is this person I work with that I’ve like since day one. The person is transgendered (male to female I think) I’m not sure. Idc tbh I just know as a person I like her. The only thing is I don’t know if she like boys or girls... and I don’t wanna knee wasting time and space in my head thinking about a person who idek like boys. I’ve been crushing on this person for a year now. And I got her Snapchat at work from other workers. They were asking everyone for snaps so I got it thru that way. Idk what to do | Crush |
you chased me down until i gave in, finally in love with you, but as my feelings grew stronger, you grew further. i denied every move you made towards me because i wanted something committed and long term and you only wanted me for [redacted]. maybe i was wrong, or maybe im still right, but my feelings are something i can’t keep ignoring. do you still think about me? or was i just another option? why do you still text me after you turned me down? maybe im just someone you keep around when your other options aren’t giving you the attention you want. but im cutting you off for good. whatever your intentions are, you should have made them sooner. | Crush |
I'm F (22) I have a crush on someone at my workplace, m(about 30 I think) I feel so stupid because everytime I see him i can't build the courage to talk to him and I end up sort of avoiding talking to him and I have talked with him a few times before, I just panic, and I feel so dumb cause of the way that I'm acting and since he's has an higher education level than me, and I don't even know if he's in a relationship or not and when I see him I just feel like it's useless to think there might be something out of this, cause why would he be interested in me, and I think I should just let it go but I can't.
Half of the reason I'm posting this is cause I needed someone to rant to, and maybe get an advice..
Thanks | Crush |
So i text this girl and i end up asking her dogs race and she immediately seems bored, why the fuck did I ask her dogs race. If you got any tips please share them | Crush |
I’ve had a crush on a guy for a while. I’m not sure whether he gives me mixed signals or he’s just friendly and it’s all in my mind. The mixed signals are…
- He usually says my name in a group chat to ask about school stuffs, even though his best friend is smarter than me. (But maybe his friend isn’t helpful.)
- When I say a bit funny stuff like “I’ll sleep for the whole weekend”, he laughs loudly at me, unlike the way he does for the others. (But maybe I’m a funny person for him.)
- He usually likes my fb posts. Once I saw that he’d liked my post then half an hour later he came back and commented.
- He uses ‘becuz’ in the chat after I started using it.
***He’s a shy guy. We’ve never texted about personal stuffs.***
Does he like me? Or it’s just all in my mind? | Crush |
Hello guys I’m really begging for some help here, there’s this really cute girl I’m crushing on her, I really would like to go and talk to her it’s been like a month or so and we never talk we just make eye contact and we smile to each other, but when it comes to talk to her I stop being myself; I become nervous, my heart beats so fast I can’t even think clearly and I got nothing to say, I’m really afraid she get bored and move on I don’t wanna lose her just because I’m a little afraid. Sorry for making it long, I’d really appreciate your replies. | Crush |
I have a crush on a work colleague. We are both female, but she has a boyfriend. The easy answer would be to “move on”, but it feels impossible. The other day, our bodies brushed past one another, and I felt a connection. I was likely imagining it, but since then she has been sitting closer to me, talking to me more, being friendlier.
Does she just feel more comfortable around me now? Am I just imagining it? Or am I just being hyper aware of things that were already happening?
My heart is stuck on her. She’s in my dreams, and I can’t let them go. | Crush |
So my friend messaged me saying that I should shoot my shot and she thinks my crush likes me. But apparently my crush sent that message. So does anyone know what that means? | Crush |
I fell in love with this guy the very first time he’s made me laugh uncontrollably. That was 3 years ago, when he used to be timid and quiet, when I was bubbly and expressive. Throughout the years we didn’t contact each other much, but when we were around each other it felt like we were best friends. In some ways I knew he liked me back, and I think he knew I did too. But some things happen and I distanced myself from him, and at some point he did as-well. When I was saw him again, I realized the quiet boy who I liked, grew up into the man he’s always wanted to be, and I’m so happy for him. And only recently we’ve gotten close again, but my feelings never changed. But I know that where not what each other needs right now, we’re just too different. I need to get rid of this feeling, but how? | Crush |
I (F) met this really cute guy in my english class last year. He would like always text me if he has a question about homework and shit. I know this sounds dumb but homie is so out of my league it’s not even funny. Mans is 6’2, blonde hair, blue eyes, sharp jawline and buff as hell and SO FUCKING GOOD LOOKING. We were kind of making plans to hangout at the end of last year but we haven’t talked since the beginning of summer. I really want to start talking, but don’t want to seem desperate or obsessive.
What do I do?
TL;DR I have a crush on a guy that’s way out of my league. I want to talk to him more but I’m really anxious and afraid that I’ll seem too desperate. Help! | Crush |
Before the holidays, my crush and I talked everyday and she borrowed me something at least one time per day.
The holidays felt like i was stabbed. I returned to school today (they just gave us papers to sign, and some other stuff, it only took an hour) and she don't interacted with me AT ALL, the holidays wounded me and this finished me. I think I don't even want to exist (But thank god I don't have suicidal ideas) | Crush |
i like her but i don’t want to dedicate everything to her. i’m not ready to date i don’t do well with that. i want to be just really really close friends but not friends but also not friends with benefits. AHHHH im conflicted. i know this is short but some other context is that we go to the same highschool, we share 2 periods (she sits literally right next to me in both (she chose to do that)), i’m a sophomore, and we really good friends (went to same middle school) | Crush |
this girl I have no idea why I like her even though she’s not the prettiest girl in our school | Crush |
I want to text my crush just don't know what to text her | Crush |
hi guys heres an update , if u havent read the original one , click on this : [part 1 ](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/pfc9g1/im_very_confused_and_getting_mixed_signals/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
okay so , i decided to confront him today as we were working together earlier and i did , his gf wasnt working today and this was the only opportunity i had , anyways i asked him if he had any issue with me , he said that he did not. i explained saying that i felt like there's a misunderstanding between us and i felt like he didnt like me. he denied and explained himself saying that hes okay with me and he doesnt hate anyone , and he doesnt hate me. he admitted to getting mad sometimes at me for fucking up , but he said be it anyone who pissed him off or made him hate on them on that day , at the end of the shift when hes out and he goes home and falls asleep and wakes up the next day , he'll be fine.
its quite weird , because according to my colleague , he had went around telling people that we hate each other. i just have a gut feeling that , hes half telling the truth and lying. i dont trust him at all. i dont trust anyone in this workplace honestly. but other than that , we talked about tattoos and other stuffs and he seemed nice today and as usual , he kept looking at me , that's pretty much it i guess. i dont know what to believe in anymore. swag | Crush |
Ok so this might take a while and if I miss anything please ask me in the comments and I'll answer. I am a first year at my University of choice and reached out to this girl on our class of ____ Instagram page where a lot of people post a short bio about themselves. I'll say her name is Amy for reasons of anonymity. We talk over the summer leading up to the school year and I'm interested in her, and want to meet in person to see if she's as pretty as she is in pictures.
I asked to meet for dinner on the 3rd day. She responds by saying she wants to bring her friends. I'm not totally cool with that, but no objections and say that's fine. We meet. Just us two. For dinner. Her roommates were "busy". Perhaps, but I think they got news that she was having dinner with a guy and didn't want to be there complicating things. Huge thanks to them, cause the next 1 hr was so awesome. I had just finished a bunch of classes and was looking forward to meeting her to just relax. And she's not as pretty as she is in pictures. She's prettier. Much prettier. Angelic but I think you get the point. We get food and start talking. About school. About life. Just complaining about random stuff. It was awesome to just talk naturally with someone.
We leave to go to an event at our college. Some games hosted by some organizations. Sort of boring, so we head out. We were weaving in and out of huge crowds in this event center, and I was walking behind her. Idk if this means anything but she looks back at me every couple of seconds just to see if I'm still there. Anyways we walk to the bus stop where I have to go back to my dorm, and split ways after she insisted that I get her snap to talk to her about meeting up later.
That was 2 weeks ago. We talk on snap, but haven't met since. One thing I'm not particularly happy about with her is that she takes hours sometimes days to respond even though she's on the app. Makes me think that I'm not worth replying to, but that's a different matter. | Crush |
okay so i’ve literally held this in for so long because i don’t know who to tell and telling someone makes it R E A L.
so basically there’s this guy i’ve been really good friends with for about three years now and idk like we never really saw each other in like a crush typa way. But i recently realized that i have “more than friends” feelings towards him. And i thought okay maybe it’s just a crush. But then i realized how long ive been feeling like this, and how all I want to do is just talk to him all the time and i know that he will never feel like that abt me (he currently has a girlfriend he’s been with for over a year) and i’m friends with his gf too like she’s super sweet i rlly like her but it just hurts so much to see them together and i’ve been recently avoiding him and just not talking to him bc i rlly can’t take it anymore like it makes me feel sad all the time. and all i want to do is get over him LIEK HIS PERSONALITY IS SO UGH BUT LIKE I CANT HELP IT i think this is more than just a crush it’s more like a first love which makes me mad at myself!!!! but anyways if you’ve actually read all this thank u, i just rlly needed to get this out bc its rlly bothering me ); | Crush |
somebody please help me , im genuinely confused. like really , its getting annoying. (and im aware that there is another post abit similar like this but I AM REALLY GENUINELY IN NEED OF HELP AND ADVICE LIKE IDK WTAF IS THIS , IM REALLY REALLY CONFUSED)
ok so basically , at my workplace , i work at an fast food outlet for afew months , and theres this guy at work and i think he likes me , i dont know. lets call him jack.
jack joined the place around the same time as i did and we never really talked to each other before at that time. but i always catched him staring at me. and i dont know what happen , but theres some sort of beef between me and him , its one-sided btw , he made assumptions that we hate each other , i have never spoke to him before at that time and i dont know where he got that idea that i dont like him but he went around my workplace and telling people that , i found out about this from my colleague and i told her that i never said that i dont like him , im okay with him. apparently he had talked shit about me , and he has mocked me before , infront of my face and behind my back. but after telling ny colleague that i dont hate him , he was okay with me and whenever we work tgt , he suddenly started helping me , he has never done this bef. fast forward to about 2-3 months later , shit got weird. he is dating someone at my workplace.
he started staring at me more , and started being even more helpful whenever we worked tgt at the counter. i was being nice to him and talking to him normally and he talks back but afew words. we have laughed and talked bef. and mostly its me initiating the conversation , so i eventually stopped. i always catch him staring at me , even if hes working with me at the counter , or from the kitchen. sometimes he bosses me around like a bitch. and he helps me. but he makes fun of me behind my back , and im very aware of it. and hes also aware sometimes that i know that hes mocking me.
like , sometimes hes really nice to me and helps me and everything and sometimes he shows attitude to me and snitches on me & gets me into trouble and purposely get me humiliated. its very inconsistent. and sometimes he tries to get my attention , and im very aware of that. and he always stares at me from afar. and somehow he knows im coming , because he will turn and look at me , and i look at him.
earlier , i was having break at work and i was omw to the break room and i saw him walking and i didn't look at him as i avoid him now , after what he done to me , even tho i didnt do shit to him , i saw him looking at me , through my peripheral vision , i always catch him looking at me through my peripheral vision alot of times , and with direct eye contact too. and me & him have break at the same time and he took his chair and sat abit far away from me , i didnt care , hes always like on & off. then after i ate finished , i went out to vape , he already left first , i didnt know where tf he went , i didnt care. but i was on my way to my usual spot and from s distance i saw him walking , that's bcs it was right infront of me and SOMEHOW , he turned and saw me. i just ignored him and he disappeared into the blocks and i went to my usual spot and sat and started vaping and texting my bestfriend , and then aft awhile , i got this feeling someone was staring at me , i turned behind and i saw him sitting behind me but afew feet away from him , his body was kind of facing me but his face wasnt , i turned back and just minded my business.
then i was doing closing and cleaning up , i looked into the kitchen , i always do this , whether hes there or not , because my friends are in there too so i wanna see what they're doing , and i happen to saw him and i caught him looking at me. honestly , i dont know why hes always staring at me if he hates me. im actually convinced that he hates me but at the same time not really. even when hes gf is there , he still looks and stares at me. his gf is not aware about this btw. but honestly , i feel like there is something there between us , like some tension. and sometimes the way he stares at me is just , i dont know how to describe it , but hes always staring at me , especially whenever im doing smth or when im caught up with my work. and whenever im nearby , HE LITERALLY SOMEHOW KNOWS IM HERE AND HE TURNS AND LOOKS AT ME , LIKE ????????? HOW TF ??
ok this is very stupid but , i really dont know what to do and im really confused and annoyed with him and wtv stunt hes pulling. its not cool at all like fr. its getting really repetitive at this point.
btw , i do not have a crush on him , i dislike him now because of his childish & unfair actions towards me. at first i was cool w him but now , nah. | Crush |
Do girls say this to guys they're interested in only or to guy friends as well? | Crush |
So there's this girl I've liked for like two years maybe now and I'm like madly in love. I've told her I like her but I don't think she's interested (she's single currently). She's omnisexual and has a preference for girls and I'm trans but I don't know if she sees me as a girl. I feel like I should just give up but it's hard, I need advice. | Crush |
Okay!
So, I guess I just want to get this off my chest and I want to ask you boys something.
Basically, I have this friend who I text every now and then. We're both in our junior year of highschool, and we met back in 7th grade. (Used to have a crush on him, but now we're friends! 😄)
Anyhow, a couple months ago, he texted me at like 2 am in the morning. And this is how it went
Him: Yo yo yo
Me: Ayoooo
Him: Before I go to sleep, I want to ask you something.
Me: Sure!
Him: Do you like sleeping?
Me: Yah, I do! Do you like sleeping too?
Him: Yea, I like sleeping too. We should do it together sometime.
AND BRO 😳 I- Okay, it was TWO AM in the morning, and he texted me THAT. Like, I was so flustered. I think I hesitated to respond for like a couple seconds because I felt a plethora of emotions. Confusion? YES. A bunch of that- along with a bunch of nerves and feeling flustered and a lot of adrenaline. I just, I don't know, for a second, it was like my feelings for him started resurfacing. 😅
Anyhow, after a couple seconds, he said, "Rate the pick up line."
And well, I guess I felt sorta relieved? But maybe a tad bit disappointed? Lol, I dunno. Anyway, it was just so random and out of nowhere. That moment is still with me, and I want to get my mind off of it. So, my questions are:
1. Why did he text me at 2 am just to rate a pick up line? (He's never done that with me before- in all the years I've known him.)
2. Maybe I'm just overthinking? I asked another guy friend about this, and he said it could mean he likes me. But, I'm not sure. Ever since then, he hasn't done anything like this, so I could be overthinking.
3. If you were wanting to get an opinion on a pick up line, would you do it the way he did? 😅 (If so, then yeah, I guess I am overthinking.)
But, I just want to double check because it's been bothering me. Any input/thoughts is very much appreciated. Thanks in advance | Crush |