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How confident/insecure are you about people seeing your body? | AskRedditNSFW | 11ehg1m | 24 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I've become far more confident as I've gotten older - or maybe it's just that I care less lol | Very confident. I'll show anyone as long as they're female | My confidence has been destroyed by people most of my life so I was terrified to show myself to strangers. It took everything in me to start showing myself online and when I did so successfully, even not wanting to show my face, I came to tears. I'm proud of myself for stepping outside of the box. | One on one - if you want to be naked with me, I want to be naked with you. Groups and folks that I'm not on a more intimate level, I have no desire to be naked in front of you. | Pretty insecure tbh. I feel like my tummy is too squishy and my tits are small. I do have nice legs though lol |
Would you date interracial? | AskRedditNSFW | 11f22oj | 1 | null | true | true | 0.67 | true | Yes | Absolutely why not. Is this even a question? | I would because I have. | Absolutely | If you vibe you vibe racial of religious stuff doesn't mater than |
What do you think about people who like feet/have a foot fetish? | AskRedditNSFW | 11enzsv | 8 | null | true | true | 0.91 | true | I think they should enjoy what they enjoy without judgement since it doesn’t affect anyone. | I think maintaining a fetish like that is quite a...feat...😎 | I can see feet as attractive and hot just like almost everything. I think my main “judgment” is those who have it as their #1 get off. But then again I could get off with a girl with a big ass, crop top, and track shorts so I think it’s rooted the same | I thinks it’s weird but there seems to be a lot of hype around them. I was surprised when I heard how popular this topic is. | Not a foot fetishist but I can understand why it's so common. |
What is okay to fantasize about but not okay to actually carry out? | AskRedditNSFW | 11en8bm | 6 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | Public sex. Love to think about it, will not subject unwitting bystanders to it. | [deleted] | I'm having difficulty coming up with things that not okay to fantasize about. To take non-sexual examples, it's okay to fantasize about killing a room of baddies or marrying a rich bastard that \*you can change\*. There's plenty of sexual fantasies that fall in line with that, say step-sibling stuff or public stuff. There are a few things that I think are not okay to fantasize about, say animal stuff or necrophilia on top of some other things. But I can forgive someone who enjoys fantasizing it so long as they don't act on it. | fucking your sister-in-law | Oof |
Have you ever went nude in public? In places you shouldn’t have? | AskRedditNSFW | 11eqsho | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | More than a handful of times just stripping on the long drive home so I can enjoy the car ride naked. Streaked a few places in random places like the Lesner bridge and somewhere else I don't recall and I'm naked in my unfenced backyard at least twice a week. | Yes and Yes.
I'm in Germany, nudity in the Sauna is expected not just normal. I've also been on several naturist holidays with my wife and kids.
Strangest 'sauna' encounter was in Finland with my boss and my severel members of staff from my customer(Both male and female, mix of ages), that one was a challenge for me.
In places where I shouldn't, that has happened rather less often, but I have been skinny dipping a few times in a closed outdoor pool in the UK as a teenager. | null | null | null |
Spit or swallow ? | AskRedditNSFW | 11dzjpr | 3 | null | true | true | 0.81 | true | Depends how you like it | Swallow by preference. It’s easier to clean up. I don’t like to spit. If he doesn’t want me to swallow I’m happy for him to just cum on me instead. | Swallow is the only way to go, other wise don’t suck dick. | Swallow 🤤🤤 | Swallow for sure |
Anyone else have a preference for older men? | AskRedditNSFW | 11drlbf | 7 | null | true | true | 0.89 | true | I don't have a lot of hook ups, but yeah they tend to be quite a bit older than me. Anywhere from like 10 to 40 years older. I'm not sure if that's because I have a preference, or just that I'm more attractive to older men and they're just statistically more likely to hit on me. I've only had relationships with people who were within my age range though. | I do. But oddly enough am with someone only a year older rn. Every long term relationship prior to this was a 6-8 year age gap | i still like older men now i'm in my early 20s but i'm more open now to guys my own age. but when i was younger i thought the older the better. for me it made me feel sexy, grown up, and mature to have grown men be into me but now i'm old enough i dont go for the same kind of validation | Definitely! | Yesss |
Is clean up afterwards ever a deterrent to you for sex? | AskRedditNSFW | 11difmk | 10 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Nope, with great sex comes great responsibility. | Nah, sex is meant to be messy | No having a partner clean me after is one of the best parts | Nope, it goes with the territory. | No. I don’t mind getting messy. The pleasure is always worth the cleanup |
Am I wrong for wanting my sister in law to suck me off? | AskRedditNSFW | 11dpa33 | 3 | null | true | true | 0.8 | true | A little fantasy never hurt anyone. Actually pursuing her would be wrong. | Nothing wrong with attraction, acting on it would be a different story though | Alittle? Depends the reasons they’re an in law really | Ok follow up question. Is it ok to jerk off to some ladies on the internet? | Not at all |
share your Fevorite Porn Video with Us? | AskRedditNSFW | 11dfuya | 6 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | Rebecca Linares Oil Overload gangbang scene. | https://tegram.me/o3hatzB969EyZDg8 | null | null | null |
for girls would you have sex with someone younger? what do you think about it? | AskRedditNSFW | 11dt09x | 1 | null | true | true | 0.6 | true | i dont tend to be attracted to guys much younger than me. maybe 2-3 years younger is fine. i am bi though and i dont really feel the same about girls. younger is maybe better for me, or maybe not and it's just the same. | I did it,but they usually not enough experienced to give me the same pleasure what a guy in my age..anyway,the two is incomparable | nope 'cause i'm 19, and guys my age do nothing for me there's a boundary. | null | null |
Why are most guys so silent during sex? | AskRedditNSFW | 11d4nj0 | 26 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Years of masturbating in silence or mimicking porn where the focus is on the woman?
… But I personally let out my moans | Most of us are doing mental maths so that we do not cum so early 😂 | [deleted] | Because i'm german | I like being vocal. Especially when she needs to be spoken to like a bad girl |
Why do I like to dominate others and inflict pain on them? | AskRedditNSFW | 11dljse | 2 | null | true | true | 0.75 | true | Unfortunately that is unknown. There is no good explanation with actual evidence of where or why kinks happen. | This is fully a presumption, of course, judging from my thoughts about me.
I would think it does come from those places and experiences. Now, you are attracted to BDSM-like situations because you subconciously want to be the one who has control and do what he wants with another person (kinda like re-living the experience from the other side).
On a different side, this could also be you trying to put yourself in situations similar to your experiences, but in a safe and playful way (where all participants enjoy it), to try and experience that these things are not horrible in themselves, i.e. re-live but show your mind that you should not be afraid anymore.
It can be both of these, or leaning to one or the other, but I personally think that these are the core "why-s?" of me beeing so fascinated in this topic. Maybe they would also apply to you.
You can ask the same in dedicated BDSM channels here, folks there would have much more experience to suggest their vision. | Hi, I don’t think that any of us should start throwing out theories willy-nillie, because that can cause more harm then help in case of a misguided approach. Redditors aren’t professionals in this field generally, and even if someone were they’d much more information and several long conversations to come up with a “possibly maybe accurate” answer.
You no doubt have a lot to unpack, if you can afford and willing then I suggest you go and seek out professional help at least just to see if you can get an answer.
Oh, and please don’t be afraid of therapists, they won’t try to change you. They’ll just help you unpack that beautiful and utterly mysterious object called a human mind:)
It might worth a try if you’re truly curious about it! | null | null |
Unfaithful wives of reddit, why do you cheat? | AskRedditNSFW | 11d3f0z | 2 | null | true | true | 0.75 | true | They cheat because they dont respect their husbands. | null | null | null | null |
Whats your opinion on threesomes? | AskRedditNSFW | 11d1rch | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I think they're fun | The last one was FFM and I was black out drunk and don't remember anything... | 50m I've had ffm and fmf and prefer fmf. | Absolutely into it- have been since I was 17. I've had quite a few since 😁
As for preference, the answer is Yes. I haven't experienced an FFF though and I would like to.
I'm 30F. | F33. Really love the idea of an FMF as a fantasy. I don’t think I’d ever do it though. |
Does being drunk affect how sexual you are? | AskRedditNSFW | 11cpxd6 | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I don’t know if it affects how sexual I am, but makes the inhibitions/insecurities go away! Gets me out of my head | Absolutely..!
Alcohol forcing me to do crazy things what normally I would never.. | 100%. | Im not of legal age to drink so idk lol | Definitely alcohol brings out the real person within |
Masturbation - how does it help or hurt, your mental health? | AskRedditNSFW | 11cgfzz | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Imo of course. Done as a quick tug every few days when single or once in a while when in a relationship is perfectly healthy. Good way to relax, relieve stress, pump out those older sperms.
Doing it everyday or spending hours jerking it while watching porn is not good for your mental or physical health and a symptom of an underlying issue. Ie depression, anxiety, shyness, ... | null | null | null | null |
¿How i can make my fetish possible? | AskRedditNSFW | 11cbobb | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Scarring can be done at some niche body mod shops.
Do a Google for your area perhaps. | null | null | null | null |
Gals, why do you hover in public toilets? Can't you give the seat a quick wipe? | AskRedditNSFW | 11chnse | 0 | null | true | true | 0.5 | true | no it’s vile. a quick wipe will not stop a uti 😭 | Still gross. When it comes to public places - If I don't feel like eating a sandwich off the surface, I don't really feel like sitting bare ass on it either. Same with shorts and skirts btw - my bare leg ain't touching public seats. | You don’t know where other people’s asses have been. Plus I sleep in short shorts and my butt ends up touching my blankets. That’s like having other people’s dirty asses touching my blankets. | null | null |
is your nsfw reddit secret from your spouse and why? | AskRedditNSFW | 11boes0 | 13 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | She knows most of my NSFW secrets. There are a couple I keep to myself | Secret? No. She can open my phone at any time and browse to her heart's content. She's more than welcome to. I have zero to hide and don't care at all if she wants to look for whatever reason.
Do I tell her about everything I write? Also no. I'll answer if she asks. But I don't go out of my way to tell her about every single topic I respond to, nor my opinion on the matter. I only tell her about the really juicy ones or ones I want her opinion on.
She doesn't use Reddit... yet. So some of the threads become at home conversation starters. | Nope. I feel like there’s nothing to hide. We are in a lot of the same nsfw subreddits, though he isn’t on as often as me. | I too like to tell on myself | Yes. She’s a prude |
who is you're celebrity crush? | AskRedditNSFW | 11c09rx | 1 | null | true | true | 0.67 | true | Julia Stiles. She could be my mom but holy fucking hell is she fine. | Ryan reynolds and I’m 100% straight haha | Segorny weaver | Chris Evans | I know I'm super trendy in this lol but pedro pascal |
Why is "people of color" ok to say but everyone loses their shit over "colored people"? | AskRedditNSFW | 11buckh | 2 | null | true | true | 0.55 | true | when white people decided to oppress people on the basis of skin color, they needed terms to describe those people. Colored, coloreds, and colored people became prominent options.
at times when fighting this sort of oppression the antiracist groups have simply used the same terms, hence the National organization for the advancement of colored people NAACP.
others have decided they don't like using the phrasing of the oppressor/hater and decided to use other words. People of color is about the simplest reworking of colored people possible. No teaching necessary for someone already aware of colored people, to understand who you mean when you say people of color.
Also a lot of the language used by oppressors is meant to dehumanize the oppressed, and so antiracism advocates will say things like "people first language is better because it emphasizes that we are talking about people". this is seen outside race when discussing other sorts of differences, person with autism, little person, etc
In short, historically racists said colored people, and antiracists said lets say people of color instead. | I think because e.g. a black man is not coloured, he is black (one colour). People of all skin colors are coloured next to each other (several colours). | Because they aren’t their skin color. They are a person who has that color. It dehumanizes them and marginalizes them by saying they are colored. It’s like an psychology when framing someone with a mental illness or disability. You are suppose to say “person with schizophrenia” not “they’re schizophrenic” as that implies they are only their symptoms and genetics rather than a human being. | Welcome to western civilization, a society consuming itself in isolation yet semantics propped up on false morals and signals of virtue. | null |
Are good things good? Or is it just bad things are bad? Does anyone really good things? | AskRedditNSFW | 11bw6fb | 0 | null | true | true | 0.5 | true | How bout things can be good or bad, depending on the person | null | null | null | null |
Would you ever let someone watch you have sex? | AskRedditNSFW | 11bewim | 6 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Yes! That’s a huge kink for me. My wife…not at all | Yesss would love to have sex in the same room as another couple having sex | 100% | Yes | Yessss |
Do you just ever hang out naked? | AskRedditNSFW | 11ba9tn | 11 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | Quite often. I am currently at a nudist resort. | Yep: Every morning after my wife leaves for work and whenever I’m in the hotel room on trips. | Like, with other people? | All the time | [deleted] |
Anyone else thinking about threesomes? 💞 | AskRedditNSFW | 11bfego | 4 | null | true | true | 0.7 | true | Fuck yes love em | I'd love a threesome with twins | Yes 2 girls, preferably bi. But not to often because it's so unlikely to happen, it will just happen by chance if all. I don't want to push it to happen and I want to be really into at least one of them not just get it arranged with whatever 2 girls I can find willing. | Yes! I’m bi so I really don’t mind what sort of threesome, but I’m desperate to experience one! 🥵 | I'm living in a mfm throuple, I totally love it that way. |
Women: Do you insist on condom use when you have sex? | AskRedditNSFW | 11bil8s | 2 | null | true | true | 0.67 | true | A random encounter/guy I just met? Almost always, unless he can prove he's squeaky clean.
A guy I'm seeing regularly? Hell no, I want that cum inside me! | I only have sex with one person so no..no condoms or birth control 😂 | Husband, never....anyone else, definitely | Never | No. I am on birth control and I find condoms really unsexy so I pretty much never insist on using them. |
Gals why the fuck are women's bathrooms so nasty? | AskRedditNSFW | 11btrco | 0 | null | true | true | 0.31 | true | From my experience mens are usually worse, but bathrooms aren't generally super clean. | “Bloody plugs” I’ve never heard it referred to as this but I’m here for it | the piss on the seat is from not wanting to sit on the dirty seat, so we hover haha | null | null |
What do you think about being naked/topless on public places | AskRedditNSFW | 11b9bod | 4 | null | true | true | 0.76 | true | Anyone should be able to go to topless. But you should always cover your ass.... | I don't care. Your body, your business. | Everyone should do it. You're born naked. Not sure what baby comes out wearing Gucci button ups and Versace shorts.... What is there to hide? It's another thing to do these things around younger people. But if you look at it as being tribal, yes. There's just some people who just make things weird. | I envy those who can do it, for me there's nothing more terrifying | Nudity is natural, it should be widely accepted.
If G-d wanted us to be nude, we would be born that way. |
Ever go whaling? | AskRedditNSFW | 11bl4t9 | 0 | null | true | true | 0.41 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Do you ever fantasize about women other than your gf? | AskRedditNSFW | 11ay39j | 2 | null | true | true | 0.63 | true | I fantasize about women WITH my bf | nah. she’s perfect and all i’ve ever wanted personality, looks and sex-wise. dk why so many people get into relationships just to use other women to get off still 🥴 | Constantly. Sometimes she's included in those fantasies. Sometimes she's not. Great thing about fantasies is that as long as you keep them to yourself no one gets hurt. | Is water wet? | Haha of course! |
People who live in apartments have you ever heard your neighbours? | AskRedditNSFW | 11awgfv | 3 | null | true | true | 0.81 | true | We were the neighbors that were heard | Apartment in college, all the time. It was a running joke in the building. | All. The. Damn. Time. | Yes. I live / have lived in 3 different apartments. \[1\] Young couple next-door banging against their front door. \[2\] Next-door MILF worked as webcam performer and invited co-workers for nightly sessions. \[3\] Downstairs couple fucks almost every Sunday morning in bed. Sometimes I felt embarrassed, but mostly I just chuckled. | No but they heard me lol one time I was in the bathroom afterwards and I heard "Now why the fuck can't you make me sound like THAT?!?! You want me to go ask him for advice for you? Get him to teach you some damn thing?"
Omg we laughed so hard... Then I yelled out "Sorry".. she yelled back "Yeah me too!" 🤣 |
Do you completely trust your wife/husband? | AskRedditNSFW | 11au7nc | 1 | null | true | true | 0.54 | true | 100%. We're not married yet, thoguh so maybe I shouldn't have answered? Either way, yes, absolutely. | my girlfriend is the most trustworthy person i know | yup. neither of us would betray the trust of the other. | 100% trust my wife. Married 19 years. | null |
Is it weird to want a masturbation partner of the opposite sex, while not being “sexual” about it? | AskRedditNSFW | 11amvv9 | 2 | null | true | true | 0.63 | true | When I was single, I wanted that too haha but the guys were always like "I want to fuck you", so it didn't really work for me | i want that too, but finding someone to do that with is difficult. | I honestly like that. I have multiple times,when lucky, masterbated with a female. It's so hot just enjoying each other satisfy themselves. There is no need to ruin the mood and say "let's fuck" it's more intense. | Are you talking about online stuff or irl as well? | You like it, so it's not weird. No problem there.
For me (male), masturbating with a female partner would be a major turn-on and I couldn't keep "sexual" out of it, but that's my personal feeling and why should that qualify as the norm.
I'm sure there are partners that feel exactly like you. |
Found my Cousins dick pics on reddit what should I do? | AskRedditNSFW | 11alg9c | 2 | null | true | true | 0.76 | true | Enjoy 'em | [removed] | Don’t do anything. Now you’ll randomly think about how big your cousin is and feel conflicted which will both excite and shame you | Stop kissing them, for starters. | Share them with me. |
That's a good 'tell' to recognise a girl from a trans-girl? | AskRedditNSFW | 11avpms | 0 | null | true | true | 0.24 | true | I've genuinely never seen a trans person's profile where they didn't mention it directly. They don't want to surprise you any more than you want to be surprised. People have been beaten and killed for that. If you aren't looking at profiles, then swipe at your own risk. | What the Hell... | Our server at a very nice restaurant identified as a woman. My wife and I both knew fairly quickly, but whatever. She was extremely stiff and anxious so going out dressed was perhaps new to her. She was attractive, the food was excellent, a good deal all around. | Bulge in the pants | Well, generally, men have stronger features. For example, the jaw line. Men also have square shaped or elongated bodies; shorter legs and longer torsos. |
Is it just me, or should friends be able to perform sexual favors for one another? | AskRedditNSFW | 119qx1k | 17 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | nothing stops anyone from doing so. its YOUR PARTICULAR friends that dont want to. | We have this thing called ‘sexuality’ lol | I have a few FWBs and have no regrets. It’s nice having someone that’s on the same page and understands that it’s just mutual. | I agree...
Life and all the joys it has to offer, boiled down, really is that simple. Be happy being you and accept the differences that make individuals! It's people that make it so unnecessarily complicated. | If they're open to it and can handle everything that goes along with it, I don't see an issue. Personally, I'd be open to that and it wouldn't be the first time for me either. |
How do I meet older women? | AskRedditNSFW | 11a8y1a | 1 | null | true | true | 0.67 | true | Go onto any porn website, there's always a flashing bar informing me that there's a number of desperate milfs in my area. Try that | 1. Get your own place.
2. Go to the bars, clubs, places where older women attend.
3. Be charming. | 22M here. Had a few close calls with several older women but haven't struck the gold just yet.
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Where to look:
Public gym at 9am. Single mom central. You might get lucky and find some at 9pm but most go in the morning.
Find more chill clubs around your town. Most older women don't want to party like they were in their 20s and would prefer a drink and some chatter with friends and to go home by 10 to 11pm. Show up to these places around 7-8 on a Friday or Saturday night.
Don't be afraid to go for one in a grocery store. Never know what you'll hit off with someone.
Couple tips.
1. Dress a wee bit nicer than when meeting someone your age. My go to is dark jeans, nice shoes, a button up shirt with the top 2 to 3 buttons undone. No undershirt. Will look good anywhere.
2. Always control your breathing to stay calm in a social situation. They know you're young. They understand this will be a temporary relationship. They're not stupid. She wants an enthusiastic fuck buddy with a fully functioning cock and you're trying to score some mature pussy with a woman not afraid to fuck with the lights on. Always make it a point to have intelligent conversation. If you come off as uncontrolled, high energy, they'll be repulsed. | Go to your local Bingo club, bound to have many older women there. | null |
Why do short men want to see their wives with tall guys? | AskRedditNSFW | 11a1p28 | 0 | null | true | true | 0.33 | true | I have never heard of that before. Maybe you're talking about cuckold but I've never heard of specifically short men having a desire to see their wives with taller men | Is that a thing? I guess you learn something new everyday | null | null | null |
How fluid is your submissive and dominant desires? | AskRedditNSFW | 119r270 | 5 | null | true | true | 0.86 | true | I would say pretty set for me. I consider myself a pleasure Dom, so I'm all about controlling/using my sub to make them cum over and over again. I use the variety of tools I have, man made (mostly) and god given, untill they essentially tap out and can't take anymore. Then using the wet puddle Ive turn them into I have my way until I finish.
However, every once and while, maybe every couple months I like to give them that control and have it all about pleasuring me. | Some days I want to be tied up and fucked proper, choked, spanked.. all the things. Then the next day I want to use them and choke them and spit on them. Goes from one extreme to the next. I'm not sure how to identify myself or put a label on it. | [deleted] | I'm almost completely a sub | Very fluid, it depends entirely on the person I’m with. |
Why do Black men have bigger buttocks than White girls? | AskRedditNSFW | 11a3dfj | 0 | null | true | true | 0.33 | true | I was shot in the buttocks | null | null | null | null |
Would you rather have sex with your cousin in secret or not have sex with your cousin but everyone would think you did? | AskRedditNSFW | 119vrf4 | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I'd fuck my cousin idc | Do i get to pick the cousin? | Being that I use to fuck my cousin I'll go with option 1. We never told anyone, though her sister found out a few years later after we stopped. | Not taboo everywhere | I’d fuck her |
What’s another name for an asshole? | AskRedditNSFW | 119l89l | 4 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Dad | u/becusiwantto
Lol sorry. It was just too easy. | Balloon knot | If you’re Squirrelly Dan, it’s a buttshole | Brown eye....
Chocolate starfish... |
I'm I weird for getting turned on smelling a woman's armpit? | AskRedditNSFW | 118wbpo | 16 | null | true | true | 0.84 | true | i know it's weird, but it happens to me as well. Hairy armpits, hairy pussy, armpit smell turns me on like crazy | You do you! Enjoy what you like. | Hey man if you’re not infringing on anyone - do you. Just like don’t be following her around all up there constantly bc she might get suspicious | Eh theres weirder turn ons out there | What I've realized is that kinks are weird. If it's not conventional then it's weird. But lots of people have kinks so it's alright as long as it's not the hella weird stuff. If it's not shameworthy then it's fine. This isn't too weird. I have my kinks and so does everyone
I know some people will probably be offended and "no one deserved to be shamed" but let's be real, some kinks deserve to be shamed. |
How to be honest about a kink/fetish? | AskRedditNSFW | 1194zvp | 5 | null | true | true | 1 | true | You’ve just gotta go for it I guess. | null | null | null | null |
Please explain why men touch their crotch so much? | AskRedditNSFW | 119426a | 3 | null | true | true | 1 | true | either we're horny, have an itch, or our hands are cold (the crotch is the warmest part of your body | Mainly because of sweat which leads to itchiness. | Adjusting. | I try to avoid doing that whenever I’m in public, as I have some decency. When I’m alone, however, it’s usually either because I’m itchy or need to re-adjust. If my Johnson isn’t hanging a little bit to the left, it’s rather uncomfortable. | To make sure it is still there |
Do girls prefer shaven guys or unshaven? | AskRedditNSFW | 118tv2g | 5 | null | true | true | 0.86 | true | As a man I shave the cock and balls and leave some hair above that’s trimmed short. I don’t like the Man-zilian all shaved look personally | Shaven though a little bit growing in is okay - I stay groomed, I prefer when my men do too | I like him to have a little bit of hair. But I like to to be neat and controlled. | Some like hair some don’t | Shaved completely or super trim. No interest in the unshaven look |
Are there girls who like to send nudes just for their own fun? | AskRedditNSFW | 118fwmt | 9 | null | true | true | 0.91 | true | Yes, I used to do it because it felt thrilling. But maybe it's because for me personally, there's nothing hotter than making the other person excited. | My fiance lets me send her nudes to people for fun if that counts.
Edit: link https://imgur.com/a/6vD9TJQ | That's like the main reason why I created this account 😂 | I love sending random strangers nudes. No strings attached. And everyone’s happy | To people that they know and trust in real life . No real woman (verified as a woman) is sending nudes to random people online unless they’re compensating them for it |
Would you be a sugar daddy without having sex with a woman? What would be your terms? | AskRedditNSFW | 118q7zy | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | That she would dress the way I wanted. That's all. | Hell nah | Yes! She would need to come over and hang out with me (fully clothed) while I was naked. Watch and encourage me while I jerk off. | Terms | null |
What noises during sex do you find irritating? Seeking advice | AskRedditNSFW | 118nfn0 | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | That’s a tricky one because you don’t want to make him insecure - that could be crushing. Maybe suggest other vocalizations to add to the rotation? Like say, “it really turns me on when you moan too, can I hear more of that?” | Communication is key in any relationship, if you cannot communicate without either of you getting angry without managing to talk it out and come to an understanding at the end of it, then chances are that the relationship may end up badly somewhere down the line.
Communicate with your partner about this very topic, you might even find that he's not actually much of a talker during sex, but was just awkwardly attempting it by repeating the "Oh yeah" for your sake cause he thought you were into it, while he'd much rather remain silent or stick to moaning or grunting alone.
You won't really know what your partner likes - or vice versa for your partner - unless you talk about it, so talk to your partner about it, simply tell them that you aren't really into the repeated "Oh yeah" and you'd much prefer moaning and grunting, or simply the expressive face by itself, or ask him to switch it up a little by including other things or phrases you suggest to him. | null | null | null |
Is paying for sex worth it? | AskRedditNSFW | 118i862 | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Not when yo can get it for free | Depends on whether or not connection matters to you and how highly you value sex. It has no appeal for me personally. | Depends on a lot of things.
What you want, who your provider is, how much you willing to pay ect.
Honestly if you're just looking to get your rocks off, I might suggest looking into Asian Massage parlors. Get a typically decent massage and depending on where you go.. get a handy to full service. | NO | I think it’s worth it. The taboo of it and the animalistic nature of just getting your rocks off with no strings is fun. |
Is cheating different for guys and girls? | AskRedditNSFW | 1187elq | 7 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Huh??? Cheating is cheating regardless of the sex of the person. It's a breach of trust. | It's a horrible thing to do and it doesnt matter which gender. | Cheating is different from person to person, regardless of gender.
I have "heard" online a ton of different takes on what exactly constitutes cheating, and it isn't just guys that are liberal about their definition of what cheating would be. | Different in what regard? | Cheating is cheating? Regardless? |
Are you sexually frustrated in your relationship? | AskRedditNSFW | 118azq2 | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Yeah, but most people are 🤷🏼♀️ | Nope. Finally have a partner whose libido and willingness to experiment are compatible with mine and it's everything I dreamed it could be. Before that? Absolutely and nearly always. | I am not | Little bit. There’s spurts of lots of sex and then dry spells. Generally though, yea lol | I have a high libido which tires out my partners - literally every single one lmao. I am a woman. It’s okay, they all tried hard to keep up. I got myself an arsenal of toys to help with it.
If I’m unhappy ever about performance or reciprocation, which has happened, I try to to gently broach the topic and have a conversation to fix it but I also stress that they don’t feel obligated to do anything they’re not comfortable or 100% enthusiastic out. I give it a few tries with sex after the conversations and providing gentle feedback and I’ve gotten a lot of success.
I had a guy that never took care of me once after he came bc post but clarity or something. I explained to him the metaphor about orgasms is we both went out to dinner and got the starter, but you got the entree while I got an empty plate and that’s not fair bc I didn’t eat. And if they don’t see it like that or care enough to make sure you finish, I leave |
Have you ever cheated for revenge? | AskRedditNSFW | 1181imw | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Never had a gf to cheat on | *Nope. I'm not usually thinking about sex with another when my heart/trust has been recently broken. If I'm going to do all that... Why not just leave the relationship? I'm clearly not interested in working through it together.* | No but if I ever got cheated on and I felt I needed to stay in the relationship I would at least make it clear that I’d need to fuck someone else to put us on the same level. It might not work out in the end but at least we tried and there’s no way I could go on just being someone who got cheated on without sleeping with someone else myself. | null | null |
Does anyone here refer to their man as Daddy? Fellas, do y'all like the name or find it weird? | AskRedditNSFW | 117vrfx | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Nope. Never have and never will. | I do and he loves it | Weird cos my bf wants to be called daddy and Im not into it | It's weird, I wouldn't know what to do or how to feel if she'd say daddy to be (in a sexual context) | Seems weird to me tbh. |
What do you think about the public nudity? Some anecdotes? | AskRedditNSFW | 117tu0j | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Fine if skinny dipping with friends in an expected or less public area where random people could show up. Otherwise not really a good idea. | That it's cool if it's appropriate to the situation and setting, like no children and family setting.
Best - streakers on college campuses, skinny dipping, or nudity at a music festival.
Worst - naked person tweaked out on drugs in public. | As a nudist, I honestly wish it was acceptable to partake in. Even if there are exhibitionists who get aroused from it, it shouldn't be a punishable offense as long as they are straight up jerking it in front of people and getting their spunk everywhere.
[https://www.change.org/p/fully-legalize-public-nudity-in-the-u-s-a?redirect=false](http://Consider signing this petition to legalize public nudity.) | It's fun! | null |
Wife cheated ? | AskRedditNSFW | 117gwcs | 0 | null | true | true | 0.33 | true | I would be so freaking happy if my wife came clean about that lol | Well if you were caught cheating first you can’t really be mad at her for cheating because you also did it (not that either side is right, two wrongs don’t make a right). You’re both cheaters though so I guess ask yourself. Can you trust yourself not to cheat again? If the answer is no then you also cannot trust your wife not to cheat again. | My unhealthy poor advice… and how i think of it.
Its just sex. Not saying its ok, but the bigger problem is the emotional part behind it. Or why the other would stray (not satisfied?). I also get the thrill of doing something ya shouldnt.
Id say much more open communication and being honest with your feelings with the other is what itll take to make things work.
Also, at least ya know shes into this, so might be able to get in on the action w someone else together, but wait a while before ya head down that path | *Eh, once a guy draws first blood by cheating on me, it's open season at my own convenience. You should be grateful she even told you*.
*Emotional cheating is worse than physical.* | Idk if it helps with how you see her, but sounds like it may be worth discussing an open relationship as both of you are looking outside of the relationship anyway. Find some guidelines that work for both of you to build a trusting environment moving forward. |
Men, what is your opinion of armpit hair on women who choose not to shave? You’re entitled to an opinion and they are entitled to do what they want with their body, I’m just seeking opinions. Not what is right or wrong. | AskRedditNSFW | wrgs1q | 66 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | I’m a girl and I shave mine. Personally, I don’t like the idea of me having hair under my arms but power to all the women who rock it with a smile! ❤️ | Meh. I’m not bothered. What ever makes my partner feel most comfortable and sexiest I’m all for. Confidence in how she looks and feels makes her far far sexier than anything else. | Don't care. | I don't care. Armpits are the least sexy part of any woman's body. I couldn't care less what they do there. | I prefer when my partner is shaved. I generally don't like armpit hair or hair in the pubic area. I personally shave too. Would discuss it with her directly
But not my partner = none of my bussiness. Your body, your choice |
Am I the only one that thinks friends should be able to do sexual favors for each other? | AskRedditNSFW | z6ttxx | 66 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | We have a term for that, friends with benefits. And that will always be different for every person in question | Be real with yourself. The only reason you want this is because it would break the friend zone you’re in... | My friend blew me for helping her move (I have a van)
It wasn’t a big deal, just a thank you | Ive hooked up with some of my girl friends | This is something I'm thinking about for a very long time. How much of a stress relief it could be. How much of a way better world this could lead...
Or being on a party and if it vibes with a friend of mine (no matter if single or not or married) - why not have a good time and enjoy each other for the moment. The very best erotic stories are about those occasions. I'm realist enough to know that this will never ever happen. But just the imagination feels so right!!! |
Should I post my nudes on Reddit? | AskRedditNSFW | gm8otp | 61 | null | true | true | 0.9 | true | i don't see why not. i say do it | I’ve done it quite a bit. It’s definitely scary at first, but once I realized how big the world is I just went for it. Haven’t been recognized yet | It’s very liberating and exciting to do. We both enjoy sharing pics every now and then.
However the choose is yours to do. Don’t let anyone make you do it. | I mean sure | I’m not gonna be another jackals that says just do it, but I will say that if you truly are questioning it, weigh the pros and cons and do it if it weighs you should. |
Would u try threesome with ur partner and her/ your best friend? | AskRedditNSFW | 10r1w1l | 62 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | Only if third partner not our friend 😅💕 | We’ve had many threesomes but never ever ever play with friends . Make friends out of swingers never swingers out of friends is how the saying goes
Way too many awesome experienced people to find on lifestyle apps without the drama and boundary crossing of mixing your sex lifestyle with existing social circles | Nope it’s not for me cause I don’t like sharing. Now if it was with a FWB I wouldn’t mind cause there’s no emotional connection. | We are swingers. But friends, neighbours, colleagues and generally all acquaintances are ruled out because we don’t want any complications | Her best friend. Yes.
My best friend, no. |
What’s your kink or fetish that you thought was weird but actually quite normal and so many others love it as well? | AskRedditNSFW | 10odcpn | 58 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Being attracted to a partner's smell, even/especially when they're not all squeaky clean. Or even the very idea of that lol. I'd thought that made me some kind of gross creep before I found out how common and normal it actually is! | CNC, my first gf suggested it and every girl I dated afterwards was into it on some level | CFNM | watching my wife fuck her dildo instead of me | [deleted] |
Do you think it's okay for your partner to watch porn alone in a healthy relationship? | AskRedditNSFW | wb1ajp | 46 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | [deleted] | What people do with their own time is their decision. However it is a habit which can cause issues in a sexual relationship. As with anything in a relationship you are able to open a dialogue and learn about why they do it and how it relates to your relationship. Maybe you can learn something about them! | Yes, generally.
One major exception is if the watcher is watching porn *instead* of engaging sexually with a neglected partner. If it’s just occasional porn use or porn is an outlet because one person is horny more often than the other and is using porn to keep from feeling too frustrated, that’s fine.
Some people do have “rule” against a partner watching porn as they consider it tantamount to cheating. I find this perplexing, as “cheating” to me implies a sexual *interaction* of some type. BUT, people are allowed to run their relationships in ways that don’t make sense *to me.* I’m just saying, if a partner asks or tells you not to watch porn, I can say I don’t like that rule, but I can’t say they’re not allowed to make that demand. It’s up to you whether you agree to it or decide the relationship isn’t workable. | Yep.
We even tell each other about it and save to watch later | Yeah I dont see a problem! |
Guys.. how come some of you are dead quiet during sex? | AskRedditNSFW | t9jyf5 | 44 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | Probably how we learned to masturbate and not to make any sound when we're younger. Ngl, I thought I was silent for the longest time, but that was until my gf and some former roommates told me otherwise. | I have no natural inclination to make any kind of noise. I've been trying a bit more at request, but it's hard to do anything that doesn't just make me feel bad for making obviously fake noises. | Years and years of masturbating in secret has taught me to remain silent. | There was just a dating advice question where the girl doesn’t want to have sex with her BF because he says “wow” and “boobies” during sex. So there is that.
I think some guys just don’t want to screw anything up. | It is far more natural for women to vocalize during sex than men. Why? I'm not sure anyone has a definitive answer, but theories include:
1. When a woman is being penetrated, air is literally being pushed from their bodies. This would explain why woman vocalize far less when getting non-penetrative stimulation
2. Guys are working harder. Guys typically are on top and doing most of the work - and are often out of breadth (I'm an avid cyclist and in fantastic cardio conditioning - and I find it hard to vocalize during sex)
3. Women use vocalization to stimulate their partner - orgasm sounds encourage the male to finish faster. From one study:"The researchers found that many of the women did make noise but not necessarily while they were having an orgasm. Instead, 66% said that they moaned to speed up their partner’s climax, and 87% stated that they vocalized during sex to boost his self-esteem."
Brewer G, Hendrie CA. Evidence to suggest that copulatory vocalizations in women are not a reflexive consequence of orgasm. Arch Sex Behav. 2011 Jun;40(3):559-64. doi: 10.1007/s10508-010-9632-1. Epub 2010 May 18. PMID: 20480220.
4. Guys being taught not to show emotions or trained not make sounds during masturbation are interesting theories that are not backed by evidence. |
If I as a man am not sexually attracted to trans women like I am to cis women, does that make me transphobic? | AskRedditNSFW | k5hs7l | 43 | null | true | true | 0.85 | true | No, it just means you have a preference. So far, that's still allowed. Imagine pressuring women into dating someone they weren't attracted to. | No. Anyone who calls you transphobic is an idiot. That’s like saying gay men are afraid of women. Sure people have kinda tried to change what the word means, but phobic comes from phobia which is an irrational fear. You prefer biologically born women, there’s nothing wrong with that. That’s how you were born, what you yourself are attracted to. Just as they are happier to change their gender, you’re happier dating biological women. It’s what feels right to you. That doesn’t mean you fear trans people. | Depends who you ask. On twitter you'd probably be considered transphobic and racist with a side of sexism for that sort of behavior. #woke | No. You’re allowed to reject anyone for anything, because you’re not obligated to be attracted to everyone. I’m bi, but that doesn’t mean I have to consent to anyone that asks | That's not transphobic, it's just a preference. Transphobia would be if you *did* have something against them in general for whatever reason. |
May I be Bisexual, but just with the sexual things? | AskRedditNSFW | j43b1m | 42 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Bisexual girl here, I have also never been interested in pursuing a relationship with a girl, but I am 100% sexually attracted to females. However, don’t get too caught up in the labels, in the end it doesn’t matter. You like who you like and you should do what makes you happy. Your feelings are not abnormal at all! | I feel the same with but I'm a girl. I've done stuff with them but would never date one. | It doesn’t matter if there’s a proper label for what you are as long as *you* understand yourself and you aren’t hurting anyone. | Some men are bisexual but have no interest in any romantic relationships with men. I've also seen a lot of guys on reddit describe being into dicks but not the people they're attached to. They want all of women (physically, relationally, etc.) but only want cocks and have no interest in the people associated with said cocks. Might be what your situation is | Yes, the term is bisexual heteroromantic |
Would you take part in a bi threesome? | AskRedditNSFW | zap0bl | 39 | null | true | true | 0.91 | true | Want someone balls deep in me while I am balls deep in her | Isn't every threesome a bi threesome? Unless it's a gay threesome. Of the two options, I choose bi. | I have before and would do it again. I've had many open relationships and have been with two women. It doesn't work for everyone but when it does and everyone naturally lusts for one another, it can be amazing. | I have many times. It feels amazing to have someone balls deep in me, while I'm balls deep in someone. | Yes but with 2 guys 🤤 |
Do you think casual nudity amongst siblings is ok? | AskRedditNSFW | xbfktz | 37 | null | true | true | 0.89 | true | Much better than formal nudity. | Yeah I think so unless it gets creepy | Depends on ages and context and how long it's been a thing.
All young kids are naked around each other. If nudity was never tabooed in your house growing up and it's just a natural progression of that, who gives a fuck.
If nudity has never been a thing in your household and you just suddenly walk into your Siblings room naked one day it's probably weird.
If it's just ducking past them going from the shower to your room because you forgot your towel or something again fuck it whatever.
Even skinny dipping in a lake with friends is whatever really.
It all comes down to context and how you/they both feel about it. | I think full nudity is okay and beneficial. It promotes body positivity and a level of comfort with one another and with yourself that people who wear clothes and are taught to hide their bodies are missing. If during the onset of puberty they feel differently, they should be allowed to cover up.
I'm a nudist who converted (not intentionally), my best friend and parents. I'm sure if I had siblings they would feel the same. The body is not sexual until something sexual happens. Nudism is not sexual, it's just a lifestyle free of clothing. So, yes casual nudity is okay among family members however I think it should begin at a young age for everyone to feel most comfortable with it. | Yeah sure, why wouldn’t it be |
Those of who you post nudes online with no intention of profiting from it, why do you do it? | AskRedditNSFW | wj50h0 | 38 | null | true | true | 1 | true | It’s fun and completely the opposite to peoples assumptions of me from my every day life.. | The Mrs. Gets off to being a tease to random strangers, and I enjoy showing her off. It kinda fun seeing how random people on the internet try to hit on her in the stupidest ways... | Teasing | It's fun and we are both exhibitionists | Just for the thrill. I was quite the exhibitionist in my younger days so this seemed like the next logical step now that I'm a little older |
Do I tell or not tell a woman that many nude photos of her are online? | AskRedditNSFW | vwu0lu | 37 | null | true | true | 0.95 | true | Its all weird as you dont know her at all but maybe just dm her a link saying Idk if you know this is out there but figured you should know in case you dont.
Revenge porn is illegal in many US states (if not all by now although I doubt it) so its not just a complete violation of privacy and intimacy if it was an ex but also a legal thing and she can get them taken down depending.
I get your hesitancy and weirdness about this but my vote is be discreet, blunt but as nice and short as possible. Dont try and make something big out of it to make it even more awkward and like I said just a direct link and a few kind words. | You should dm her i think, nothing bad comes out of if you do it since you dont know her | You should tell her because it’s the right thing to do. | Definitely tell her! It’s her body, she has a right to know. | That’s awful…..what website |
Showering with your partner, yay or nay? | AskRedditNSFW | rsb1dn | 37 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | Nay, I like to be alone when I cry. | Do it all the time. Sometimes it leads to sexiness, other times it's just nice to have someone to wash your back. | If there is enough space, Yes | We had our shower expanded and a second valve, shower head, etc put in so we could shower at the same time and with two different temperatures. | Yay! Makes for some fun foreplay! |
Does anyone else just love being naked? | AskRedditNSFW | 101xe4d | 35 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | Yes, it's good to be comfortable and free | I agree with the other comments. Nothing sexual it's just nice to feel free especially when it's hardcore hot during the summer. | Absolutely. I’m 26(M) and live alone. I spend every second at home naked and wish I had more time for it! | It’s so good having privacy to just be naked and chill around the house! | I do! |
Do you masturbate everyday? | AskRedditNSFW | sxw3k0 | 37 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | At least once to get it out. | I try to only do it maybe 1-2 times a week | [deleted] | [deleted] | Yea like 5-6 times a day. Also I'm a 31 year old man so I'd assume I'd slow down by now. Nope. |
Why do I love being controlled? | AskRedditNSFW | emqox6 | 39 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | I recommend you to watch a series on Netflix called Sex Explained in the first episode they explained fetishes and the psychology behind it and one the fetishes they explained is BDSM
and I think that's the fetish you have. | My wife owns her own business and has to be the boss all day everyday and I know she enjoys the submissive roll because its a turn on but also because she gets to not be the one in control, if I ever ask her to take control she will but it is almost a turn off for her because shes right back to being the boss, even if it is sexy times with her husband (me) | Message me with your kik and I'll show you why you love being controlled. | null | null |
Do you find chubby girls sexually attractive? | AskRedditNSFW | ytmjz2 | 34 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | Not to sound crude, but chubby girls just fuck better. So yes! | Depends on the girl | Not on appearance alone, not .... really depends on personality which is generally more important to me these days. | 🤔 well, I'm not everyone's cup of tea, then again I don't wanna fuck every guy. So it's ok to like whatever you like.
As long as you're not rude just to be hateful. | Right amount of thickness is >>>>>> |
Those of you who don't use porn - what do you fantasize about during masturbation? | AskRedditNSFW | oisagr | 34 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | I often close my eyes and just focus on the sensations I'm having | Truthfully? Porn isn't my main wank material. I usually go for steamy reads. Being able to read about someone getting dicked down with no regards for realism is really hot. | I think about memories of good sex that I’ve had in the past | Sometimes I watch porn, but when I don't I just fantasize about things I could have done but did not do for reasons. Things I want to do in the future, but haven't get the chance to do yet. For example I want my BF to find somebody and fuck me two of them. This normally enough for me to climax quickly. | Pff, that's a long list! All sorts of scenarios where I imagine experiencing my different kinks. |
I’m a male- I prioritize my partners (f) pleasure way over mine. Is that normal? | AskRedditNSFW | fbes77 | 34 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | Edit- she is horrible sexually even when I tell her what I like. It’s like her first time every time. | Fuck... I'm in this same exact situation rn.. it's gotten to the point where I just feel used now too.. damn, i thought i was the only one in this type of.. sigh.. idk what to do. Lolol | I can't be sure about you, but in my case, I only get pleasure once I know my partner is enjoying more than me. My therapist once said that is because of my desire to always please people around me. But frankly, female orgasms are a turn on for me and that's what drives me. Maybe you're the same? | same, point-blank-period. | I am a male and I do this as well, it gets me off to get her off |
Would you take part in a bi threesome? | AskRedditNSFW | zru4gs | 30 | null | true | true | 0.9 | true | I have a few times | Part one: am bisexual.
Part two: am PolyAm
Part three: have enjoyed threesomes in the past.
Part four: profit? | I’d love to do it | MMF is my total fantasy | Sure I’m the right situation |
Should you masterbate everyday? | AskRedditNSFW | zmt1u8 | 32 | null | true | true | 0.89 | true | they say a guy died because he masturbate 64 time in a row ,so the safe number is 63 ,your welcome xd | I mean, I do once a day. But I am definitely in the more often camp. | Whatever keeps you from jizzin while you sleep is what I always say | It all depends on you and how horny you are. Just never let it interfere with your life and getting stuff done. | You should masturbate however often you are comfortable with. That might be multiple times a day, or maybe never, or somewhere in between. There is no correct answer to this.
As an aside, masturbation has some health benefits and is a great way to learn about your own body. Do with that info as you see fit :) |
What’s the thing about nudes? | AskRedditNSFW | glayyy | 32 | null | true | true | 1 | true | For women wanting men's nudes, it's about connection. The majority of women in populated areas can have sex within an hour or two anytime they want to, but that's generally casual sex with a stranger, not much different than the beefcake (or dadbod) available freely online to ogle at
Getting a nude from someone suggests that the nude is for her, and is related to her efforts, presence, etc | As a female who had a side account for posting nudes it’s was honestly about acceptance of my body type. I started posting because I’m super self conscious about my body. I’m overweight, mom of 2 and my husband always tells me I’m beautiful but I felt like he has to tell me that because he’s married to me. So after I got the nerve to post nudes (with his permission) and got overwhelmingly positive feedback it was just an attention thing after that. I will admit it was a turn on knowing guys and girls were getting off to me too. | I just like the attention and comments. It's also been an unexpected self esteem boost | null | null |
Do girls watch porn as much as guys ? | AskRedditNSFW | z2kh4p | 31 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | How should i know?
I mean i warch a lot of porn and hentai but how can i compair it to a number i don't know? | Probably not ‘as much’ as men but there are a lot of us who love porn and more discovering and enjoying it every day
Here’s porn hubs statistics for 2021 with some great info on the viewing habits of women (we enjoy threesomes, bi males , gangbangs more than men ) and every other category
https://www.pornhub.com/insights/yir-2021 | I would assume not, seeing as the majority of ads on porn sites are targeted towards men specifically | Before everyone had internet at home, I took my GF to a sex shop where you could choose a film to watch in a private booth. She'd never seen any porn before. She chose a hardcore gangbang film. Some of the action was pretty shocking to me - a dozen men being degrading and rough. I almost felt ashamed just watching it. She got REALLY into it and said she had fantasies about the kind of sex we were watching. Up until then, I hadn't realised how powerful female sexuality really is. | I think that women do watch porn at somewhat lower levels when compared to guys, however I think that more women consume other types of porn, like written, or comics, as opposed to mainly videos.
Edit: I think I should specify. I am very much not saying that women do not watch porn, or even that women overall are way less likely to watch porn. I'm fairly sure that women make up almost, but not quite the same amount of porn viewers as men, according to studies that I have seen.What I am saying is that women as a whole are more likely than men to use comics, audio, written word, etc, which may account for some of the discrepency. I may also be wrong on that count, so if anyone has links to statistics, I would love to see them. |
Do you pee while taking a shower? Have you ever? | AskRedditNSFW | xmtt3b | 31 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | Yes. I just point my dick at the drain and fire away. There’s a primal freedom to that. | Yes, all the time. | If im in the shower alone i do but im way to shy to pee in front of my bf and hes usually in the shower with me | Daily | Do it all the time |
Is it normal to cum this much? | AskRedditNSFW | kb2g47 | 30 | null | true | true | 0.86 | true | You my friend are a hentai protagonist | Depens also of what you eat/drink.
Zinc and some vitamin can add to the thinkness and the amount . | You may have a condition called hyperspermia. | You might have a rare condition called hyperspermia. I wrote rare (not abnormal) and condition (not disease), because it is a rare variant of normal. This should only concern you if you ever decide to become father of biological children, because very big amounts of semen in an ejaculation can be diluted regarding sperm cells. That said, it happens sometimes but not always, so just ave your sperm count checked if you ever decide to fertilize :-) | I also cum massive amounts for my first load, 2nd and 3rd time are always considerably less though. |
What to do when your sexual desires will never be fulfilled. | AskRedditNSFW | fxedm0 | 30 | null | true | true | 0.93 | true | My wife was once like yours, but after more than 20 years together, I’ve learned how to coax her out of her shell a bit.
First off, you have to be open and honest about what you want. Dropping hints doesn’t work. But you have to bring it up in a neutral, almost non-sexual way. Like have a talk about when you’re having your morning coffee or over dinner. Talk about your likes and interests, but ask her about hers. Explain them as calmly as possible. Don’t make it seem like you want to do those things at that exact moment. Keep it casual but serious.
Make it clear that it’s all about her consent. She can say no to anything and you’ll understand. Just as you can also say no to something. If she’s into trying new things, go at whatever pace she feels comfortable. Eventually you’ll get there. | Maybe ask her what you can do to try to fulfill her sexual desires. Ask not what her nookie can do for you...
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Seriously though I think it would be a good way to open the discussion and get the subject out in the open. | https://youtu.be/oRdxUFDoQe0 | You need to find a way to break the shell on her. Unless if she's super religious or has been abused, almost everybody is into something on the kinkier side here and there.
Let's say for whatever reason you can't break her shell, you're left with two options. Stay or leave? If you leave, you may get to fulfill your fantasies but it could require several things.
1. Many different casual partners.
2. A lot of dating and heartbreaks
3. Potentially a lot of travel if your fantasies are niche.
4. Not being able to get married again and/or having children until a later age.
5. If the divorce goes awry, you can lose out big time on alimony and getting just dragged over the coals in court.
Consider which one you may want and what the pros and cons are.
For now, work on breaking her shell but these would be your options if you chose to leave. | Just surprise her one time with a blindfold. Maybe she'll like it. When she likes that, then youll know shes not as vanilla as you thought. Just be assuring and romantic. Have her watch 50 shades haha |
How illegal is it to sleep with my principal? | AskRedditNSFW | s9dl8k | 26 | null | true | true | 0.81 | true | Everyone assuming principal is a he when it states it's a she. | You are an adult, it's not "illegal" to sleep with her if everything is consensual. However...with the power dynamic of her being your active principal it is unethical on her part and probably a violation of policy for her employer. If caught, her career in education of any type anywhere would probably be over | A lady I knew growing up had sex with an 18 y/o student and was charged with some sort of child rape charge. Most law include a section of the code that still meets the criteria for people who have/are in control of children. | Assuming you were older than 18 at the time for all of those times, probably no legal trouble, but the principal could lose their job if ever it was found out. | It depends on the laws in your state. Your principal would most certainly loose his job if the information were to be discovered. |
What are your weird fantasies or kinks? | AskRedditNSFW | gu3gnr | 30 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | Not really weird, but my longest standing fantasy since I was in my early teens (I'm 40 now) if for a nun to willing give herself to me. | I don't know how weird mine is but I love a freeze kind of fantasy. Like the world if you could freeze and go around fucking whoever you wish and whenever seems cool | I want my bf to use a knife. Like I dont want him to actually cut me but the threat of it is hot | [deleted] | [removed] |
How do I respectfully tell a lady her lady part smells really bad? I’ve had girls who don’t smell and some that really stink. Is a smelly pussy normal? | AskRedditNSFW | ea2atw | 30 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | Sometimes a foul odor can be the sign of a health issue or lack of hygiene. You can approach it in that way when you bring it up and it will seem less offensive - but will still be a difficult conversation. Just focus on you wanting to keep her safe and healthy rather than it being about what you like or don’t like. | It may also be an infection. I remember once I went to the beach and got a really bad infection, I ignored it in the beginning because I was scared of going to the doctor and it got SO MUCH WORSE.
A friend of mine had to tell me that I stank even with my pants on, it was so embarrassing and horrible. But everything was fine. I went to the doctor, did the treatment and everything returned back to normal.
Sometimes we just need someone else to tell us the hard truth, for our own well being.
In my defense I was fairly young and I know I did some stupid shit at the time. | Yep to all answering that it can be an infection or something if it smells really bad but I just want to reassure and passers by that it's NORMAL THAT YOUR PUSSY SMELLS and tastes of something. The odour will change through your cycle and also through sex (just after an orgasm for exp). | Depends, sometimes it’s a hygiene issue sometimes it can just be the girl herself. If it really smells unpleasant, I would say it’s because of a lack of hygiene. The best way to tell her is really to just be honest, let her know that it’s a turn off for you and that she would be ten times sexier if she didn’t smell. (I’m a female btw, incase you were wondering) | All I'm saying is, that if it's so fucking embarrassing than clean that shit man! Don't try and make him the bad guy for not being comfortable with a smelly V. |
How horny is too horny? 🤔 | AskRedditNSFW | l18nq9 | 30 | null | true | true | 0.85 | true | You’re too horny when you’re prioritizing sex or masturbating over important things that need to be done. Or when you’re willing to risk getting in trouble or getting a charge because you wanted to have sex whenever wherever with little thought about how safe the location is. When you start losing control of things because you can’t think until you’ve busted a nut...you’re too horny | Man I am 38 and when I get that New Relationship Energy and get to the point of sex I am insatiable. For me its like the more sex I have the more I want it but as long as its not interfering with my day to day its no big deal. | You'll know you have to change something when you're prioritising it over eating and sleeping. Now don't get me wrong. When you don't have a job to do and you're in a covid lockdown it's understandable that you jack off or have more sex to numb the boredom or pain of existence. But it's important to take a long break once in a while to get your brain chemicals back to normal. | Generally, when it becomes an obsession and interferes with your responsibilities, life, or relationships. So it's not really the number of times, but whether how much it interferes with everything else. We all have been through horny phases when younger, and when I was in college, it wasn't that bad as there was so much free time. So it really depends. | The answer to your question is yes - you is way to mfking bro... |
Guys, does breast size really matter that much to you? | AskRedditNSFW | 106jffb | 27 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | Not really - I love small and big! | Nope. But if you have a nice booty, I’m in it. | I love all that I'm allowed to touch | I will take a good personality and quality human being than a nice set of boobs | Not in the least. Personality is the only thing that really matters to me. I've dated women with all shapes and sizes and I've enjoyed them all. From experience, I know that the massive sizes can actually cause intense back pain during longer sessions which neither of us liked(which she later got a reduction that helped immensely). Enjoy the moment and don't focus so much on breast size and you'll have a much better time. |
Do guys ever think about having sex with their coworkers? | AskRedditNSFW | ve2g2s | 27 | null | true | true | 0.89 | true | Guys think about fucking every age appropriate female that is even passably attractive. It's biology. | Guys think about having sex everybody. Coworkers are nothing special. | I know I do! It’s always a mistake though to act on it or let it be known | Yes | Nope, not one single guy has ever thought of this even once in the history of the entire world |
Do you ever fantasize about Fucking someone other than your S/O | AskRedditNSFW | raycu6 | 27 | null | true | true | 0.92 | true | It used to be how I masturbated 99% of the time. But now I’m with someone I feel genuine love for, and I’m trying to change my habit of fantasizing about other women. Anytime I do I yell at myself (in my head) to stop, and think about my SO. I’ve even cut back on porn by a lot! | All the time, so does she. We talk about it openly | absolutely haram | Of course, but I would never act on it even if the person was DTF and would never tell. | Sometimes. |
What is your secret kink? | AskRedditNSFW | 1118csh | 26 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | older men dominating me | My user name tells mine thanks to a high school teacher who wore skirts or dresses just about everyday and inadvertantly flashed her panties a few times that year. | Being with an older woman that isn't necessarily dominant but is telling me exactly what to do. In control. Guess this is more of a fantasy than a kink | For some reason I love when my gf wears my boxers it turns me on so much | Exhibitionist, I think is the best, fucking my wife in places we know someone might see us. An Hope they do. |
have you ever shared your nudes anonymous or with face on reddit, if yes why and how does it make you feel, also if not do you think of doing it ? | AskRedditNSFW | zsvilb | 27 | null | true | true | 0.9 | true | Yes. There is something about making someone horny.
Love the attention and knowing there is a few man cumming for me rn | Gets me off to think about men not being able to resist touching themselves, solely from the sight of me alone | I share pictures on here and a few other sites along with videos, it's fun I enjoy doing it and seeing that it's all very well received feels good too! | I like knowing that men are getting off to my body :) and ew I would never share face | I post some every so often. I realized I like exhibitionism and showing off. Besides being a little thrill, any feedback is a nice confidence booster. |
masturbating to onlyfans considered part of cheating? | AskRedditNSFW | j162vm | 27 | null | true | true | 0.87 | true | I don't consider that cheating but it doesn't really matter if it is or not. You've felt uncomfortable about it and he's lied about it. If you've expressed to him that you feel disrespected by his actions and he continues without any compromise or care on his part then it would mean he's chosen to continue disrespecting you. | Onlyfans is a separate issue to paying for porn.
He's engaging in a continuous relationship with a sexworker.
I'm a guy, i know OF girls, these girls often craft a reliance relationship where they make the guys feel special in return for cash. Like any sexworker, stripper or prostitute, he is using them, they're using him...
He's lied to you about investing money in sexworkers, it's not cheating compared to an affair at work, but it's lying.
Red flag | Cheating is defined as whatever you and your partner define it as. Nothing more, nothing less.
Some people are more jealous of their partners affection, others less so. There are infinite options on that scale. Whatever it is, if you’re not comfortable being with someone who does X, talk it out and tell them how you feel. If they dismiss you then they don’t respect you. End of story.
Alternatively, maybe he’ll bring up some good things to help you change your perspective a little (or a lot) and then you can renegotiate based on that info. But at the end of the day, you get to define what bothers you and if you want to continue to have a relationship with someone who doesn’t share your views. | This is an instance where establishing boundaries is important if you want to further the relationship. Make it clear where you stand eg: "porn is fine I just don't like onlyfans".
I agree with one of the above posters that it's a bit of a red flag you've asked him to stop and he hasn't. That you've hit a point where you're self conscious because of it is ultimately unfair to you and you should weigh your options. Hope this has helped. | In my opinion, he doesn't respect you. I dated a guy similar who had loads of naughty stuff on his computer and to this day he still has my nudes he's taken of me. This was almost 10 years ago. So personally I'd never trust a guy like that. And how would he feel if you were doing the same thing?
I don't have a problem with porn (because I watch occasionally too and don't want to be a hypocrite) but I'd never be ok with onlyfans. Anything that's on a more personal level and especially paying for it seems like cheating to me. |
Have you ever masturbated at work? | AskRedditNSFW | idumqe | 26 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | Yes. Multiple times and different jobs | Once had sex with a patient in my clinic. I am now a physio. The vet society didn't think it was appropriate behaviour.
BTW, I am joking. | Yes, only in the bathroom. Aslo, used to use my lunch brake to go fap in the car. I am a compulsive masturbator. | Yes, everyday!
Disclaimer: I work from home 😬 | No and I never would. That would be very very strange and awful.
I work with disabled children... |
Surprise rubbing from your partner? | AskRedditNSFW | gqydsi | 25 | null | true | true | 0.9 | true | Woke up a few times to a surprise blowjob, was damn amazing!
She's telling me she sees my morning wood (we sleep naked) quite often but doesn't want to wake me up cause I look so comfortable (and she's very sleepy no doubt). At some point she woke up and saw it sticking high up and got a bit startled "wtf?" and then realized what it is and went back to bed. I must admit my dick is average size, I guess when you're sleepy reality can be kinda distorted.
Several times I couldnt sleep or I got up too early so I started feeling her a bit, and then I went a bit inside her with my fingers, she turned around and gave me a sleep smile and then I fucked the shit out of her while she was laying on the side. That's like our go-to position for sleepy sex. | She normally rubs on my dick randomly just for the twitch thing cause for some reason girls love that | On our first date when we were coming back from dinner he opened the car door for me and leaned down and started kissing me and slid his hand up my dress and started fingering me in the parking garage | My partner has magic fingers and he knows it. I'm basically orgasming all day long here in quarantine and I fucking love it | I was holding her hand on the armrest of a movie theater seat. She eventually pushed up the armrest and laid her head on me and her hand in my lap. After a short while, she just started grazing her fingernails on me and felt me get hard as a result and one thing led to another. The bonus part was when I was ready to cum she knew it and had the napkin in the other hand ready to catch it all. I didn't even have to adjust myself to avoid a mess. |
Recognized naked online? | AskRedditNSFW | dm4aq7 | 26 | null | true | true | 0.87 | true | I’m a guy and found my ex’s sister on here | Yeah, I'm a photographer. I shot a young woman a few years back, that had contacted me via a photo-model site... We made a few nice images of her fully clothed, but with somewhat sexy poses, and at some point she asked me if she could take her top off. We were outdoors, and it was semi-private, but we had only talked about doing graduation style shots. It wasn't meant to be risque, and that is not what I needed for my portfolio.
Anyway, perusing here on reddit a couple years later, I saw a very brief clip of a porn. Just a gif... like literally 5 seconds or so, but I recognized her. Looked up her 'porn name' and found out that after I shot with her, she had spent the following year blowing up (among other things) her porn video career.
She was doing really well for herself as best as I was able to tell.
Anyway... I kinda followed her career for a little while but at some point she got some plastic surgery done, and after that she seems to have dropped off the scene.
I was VERY suprised to see that she was in porn tho... I wouldn't have imagined that was what she was into. | [deleted] | I’m still looking...for science. | I found a childhood friend's boyfriend. She had turned into a model and gotten a model bf and all that. I still was friends on her FB and kinda lurked on her pg for a while.
I was scrolling through here and lo and behind, there's this super recognizable thigh tattoo passing by eyes. It didn't look super sexual or anything, it kinda looked like he didn't know the photo was being taken, so I reached out to her with a link just to let her know it was out there.
Turns out his publisher or w/e was taking photos of him dressing in between outfits and selling them. |
Women of reddit, what's it like to be asked by men to do what could be considered weird stuff during sex? I.e. asking to cum on you, your face, asked to try it in a different orifice, etc. Does it get tiresome? Or is it hot to know you're doing what you can to please your partner? | AskRedditNSFW | bx805c | 27 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | Depends on the woman. My current husband is reserved and almost too respectful. I wish he’d be more kinky. I’ve also had ex’s though that were impossible to please so it was just annoying. | For me it never gets tiring. I fucking love pleasing him. I mean, orgasming is great but honestly listening to him moan when I fuck him just right is a close second to that. I love it when he tells me what he wants. Even when it's a little odd I find it very arousing to know that this I can make this "big bad man" that everyone else knows tremble beneath me. | I love it, but I have to be in the mood. Getting cum on your face is hot, but in you’re eyes isn’t, so you have to be in the mood to take the hit | Where I come from those are common stuff, but weirdly enough I don't like it. It depends from girl to girl, and how horny she is at the moment, just talk to her, and she might either like it or not, but you'll never know if you don't ask. We have a saying in my mother tongue "the "no" you already have", meaning that if you don't ask you won't do it, but if you do ask she might say yes, so just go for it. | I prefer being asked to do something specific as opposed to being expected to be a mind reader. Even if it's something that might not be my interest, if it makes my partner happy, with very few exceptions, I'll do it. |
Do you like to be naked when you're home alone? Why or why not? | AskRedditNSFW | 10hvmfe | 25 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | more half naked.. big shirt, no panties. 🤩 | Not really, I just get cold, lonely and kinda sad. I don't find being naked by myself all that fun, I'd rather do it with someone who's asked to see me that way and I feel comfortable being like that around. | My house is cold and I have roommates :( | [deleted] | Usually am except when cooking bacon |
What’s a fantasy or kink you want you want to try? | AskRedditNSFW | zg9txo | 25 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | I wanna be happy | Going online and leaving positive, support comments on subreddits. So hard thinking about it. | Getting fucked while my husband watches, or watching him fuck and then tasting him after. | I want to be loved. | I’d like to be a free use fuck puppet for my wife and a former coworker of mine, with them both wearing strap ons. |