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Hi! /R/crushes I need some help.
So backstory my crush moved to my town.
And I had on a crush on her since she I was in class with her. Amazing she's small but I am small too. We both are 12 I know we are young. And we both love the same soccer club. Only thing when we went to middleschool we stopped really talking because we both made new friends.
I cant really talk to her because Im shy. And dont know What to talk about. Please help me? | Crushes |
Hi /r/Crushes!
So a lot of you have been posting a lot lately! We truly enjoy reading your stories and sometimes we get a good laugh from some of them. However, many posts are very long and tend to not get any comments because a lot of people don't really want to take the time (because it takes a lot of time!) to read the text post and it's pretty understandable. You are not obliged to add a TL/DR but it's preferable and frankly, it makes everyone's lives easier! Thank you :))
> Moderation team | Crushes |
OK so 17/m here. Basically there's this girl i like and she's a grade below me right? I am also in highschool so she's a grade below me so no classes together. Last week Monday i finally talked to her in person and it was kinda awkward and up till then it's been awkward smiles and the like but no actual talking. It's possible she's interested in some other guy as well right now and for some reason I have like 0% courage to actually go up to her and talk again. Anyways today it felt like she was avoiding me and i feel like she feels that i'm a creepy. I do occasionally glance at her and look at her every now and then but idk if she notices tbh. I want to create a relationship with her because i like her but i feel like she thinks im a creep or that i've already ruined my chances by not talking to her again.
Anyways any help would appreciated.
TL;DR; I feel like i've ruined my chances with a girl, need help | Crushes |
There's this guy in my grade 11 biology class that I sort of (?) have a crush on (just an itty bitty one, though). He seems to be a bit shy, but overall he has a couple of friends that he talks to. In our biology class, he only talks to the guy next to him (I sit across from him). My only intention was to become his friend at first, but the more I think about it, I started to develop a bit of a liking to him.
ANYWAYS, so the week before March Break (on a Wednesday) while walking to the bus stop, I saw him walking towards that way too (I didn't know he used the same bus stop as I did). I spontaneously decided to go up and talk to him, because after all, I've been wanting to do this for weeks. I walked up to him, said "Hi ____", and he turned to face me, with earbuds in his ears. He quickly took them off, and it was very odd to me that he was actually SMILING/BLUSHING at me, as in class he always appears kinda sleepy/bored (he sits across from me in those 4-table desk group things). I had completely blanked out, and I didn't know what to say, so I just started blabbering about all the questions I could think of; I think I came off as either really nervous or really creepy. I was blushing really hard, stuttering, talking quickly, and this poor boy was watching me, nervously smiling/grinning and giving me one-word replies. We had finally reached the bus stop and I ran out of questions, so I just turned around and acted like nothing happened. He stood behind me, expecting a response or something, but obviously I didn't say anything else so he just walked away into a coffee shop.
It was really awkward for me the day after, as I wanted to talk to him again but I was too nervous, so I instead wrote him a small note and had given it to him on Friday, the day before the March Break. After class, I tapped his shoulder and handed him the note after class ended, quickly walking away so that he didn't have to read it within my presence. I don't know if he read it, but if you are all curious, the note went a little something like this (my friends thought it was either a little creepy or humorous/friendly):
"Sorry about the other day, it was spontaneous and wasn't really thought out well. I'm sorry if randomly approached you and came off as hyper or creepy, I was nervous and didn't know what to say, I just wanted to talk to you. If I made it awkward, I'm sorry about that too. I suck at talking, so maybe writing notes is better for now. Can I start over? I'm Sophia. You seem really interesting, and I'd like to be friends. It's totally cool if you don't want to, you don't really know me so I'd understand. Looking forward to your comment on my biology post, have a great March Break!"
Fast forward, the March Break passed, and now it's been 2-3 days since school started again. He hasn't told me his reply on the "Can we be friends?" question, and now it seems like he doesn't even acknowledge my EXISTENCE. He use to glance at me a lot and his foot use to always "accidentally" touch mine, but nowadays he doesn't even look at me and he hasn't initiated any conversation with me (I'm really shy and socially awkward). Does he hate me now, or is he creeped out? What should I do? Should I try to talk to him again? I've been thinking about this for the past two weeks. I saw him on the way to the bus stop again today, but he was talking to someone. We got on the same bus, but there was a large group of people standing in between us, so I couldn't have possibly stride over and talk to him.
TLDR; I like this shyish guy in my bio class and basically I tried to talk to him but completely humiliated myself (although he seemed happy about it?), gave him a note apologizing for the awkward encounter and asked if we could be friends, and received no reply (the note was given right before the March Break started). We use to somewhat have eye contact and his feet would sometimes touch mine (we sit across from each other and he has long ass legs), but now he doesn't even glance at me anymore and it seems like I cease to exist around him. What should I do? | Crushes |
I'm a senior at my high school and fairly recently I've developed a major crush on a freshman girl. She isn't in any of my classes, but I see her after school almost every day. Only few people know about how I feel and their advice has been to drop the whole thing because she's too young. I kind of agree, but her eyes make me want to melt and I cannot force myself to get over her....what am I supposed to do? | Crushes |
I've never met someone who could make my heart swoon as wordlessly as he did.
Our first encounter was in September 2016 at a comedy club through mutual friends, and ironically enough, I was actually a bit turned off by him. From my initial interaction with him, I figured him to be standoffish and quiet. It wasn't until I was driving back with him alone that I got to see his charming humorous side.
The car ride back to campus was filled with us nerding out on the Persona video game series which we were huge fans of. Also of me, unsuspectingly admitting I read Persona Yaoi fanfiction, which I had to cooly brush off to mask my embarrassment. I ended up teasing him a bunch while he was navigating me back.
The fun banter ended with me asking for his number before I dropped him off at his destination. I remember starting it off confidently like, "Hey, can I get your number?" and then after his pause quickly adding, "You know, so I can invite you to hangout with me and my friends next time." We ended up exchanging numbers and that was the beginning of our encounters.
For the next couple of weeks, we had this thing where we would try to hangout at least once a week. He initiated it first by inviting me to his friend's place to play his friend's Japanese import of Persona 5 with them. I remember that day we ended up going to a boba shop and talking for a while waiting until his friend came home. God, I was so awkward. He asked me about my summer and I ended up telling him a story about a starfish I found at the beach and how it died...
To be honest, at this point I didn't have a crush on him. It was when he invited me to go to an art gallery where he and his friends were performing live music when my heart started to beat a bit quicker. Amusingly, it wasn't him playing that moved my heart. It was this quick moment when a woman dropped an item, and he did this sort of smooth slide to pick it up in a reflexive act of kindness.
This was just the beginning to the extent to his kindness. He's the kind of person who would literally drive 2 hours away to buy porridge for a sick friend on request.
For the months that follow, I learned that he's a workaholic, perfectionist, who's in love with music, attentive to details, bluntly honest if asked, has a kindness that seems to have no ends, plays the flute so beautifully, and so many smaller details like the way he brushes his hair to the side with his fingers.
February, I decided to be more forward about my feelings with him. However, this was ill-timed because he was highly stressed about academics, health, and his future. I'm not sure if it was the stress or my push, but suddenly it seems like something isn't the same between us.
This really depresses me because I feel like I ruined our friendship. I know it's not fair of me to blame myself like this. His priorities always seemed to have a never ending list. He's a workaholic by nature and it showed. But he does try, and that meant a lot to me.
I'm trying to stay hopeful about where this could go, but slowly I'm letting go.
I've never come across someone with such a beautiful and heavy soul that sparkled like a sapphire in the night sky like his. His soul played a song from a far off bamboo forest where he escaped from reality to find his inner peace. If only I were able to enter that safe haven, could things have turned out to be better.
I truly wish for his happiness. That he may be strong enough to one day admit, to follow his heart rather than his mind. You deserve all the happiness and love that this world can offer you and I hope you'll one day understand that.
My heart sings for you Victor,
if only you could hear their sighs. | Crushes |
Ok so last 2 years ago, I had a crush on a guy let's call A.
One year ago, I thought I like a guy let's call B. We dated for a while but I broke up with him once I realized I didn't really like him, or really even liked him at all.
Then I went back to crushing on guy A.
Fast forward a few months later, guy A went to a different university and I gradually came to like this new guy let's call, C.
Right now, I hate myself for having a crush on a ton of different guys. I don't really know for sure if that's just how normal female teenagers feel, or am I just a really uhm... uncommitted person?
The thing is though, I'm not sure if this feeling I keep having is a admire-a-person-because-of-a-certain-skill-he/she-has crush or a like-like crush. Honestly I even had to look up for the definition of crush, like, and love. I am so clueless hahahaha | Crushes |
I had absolutely no attention from girls and then I met this one. She's beautiful, driven, passionate and caring. She gave the vibe that she wanted to speak to me before I would ever want to speak to her. I had a crush on another girl so this one was just someone I shared a bus with. Then she offered her umbrella, then I initiated a conversation a few months later, then we sat together on the bus, then we parted over Christmas break. After that she seemed distant. New bus all of a sudden "it's closer" and she "told me about it before the break"
Then I approach her, ask if she was offended by something I did and now keeps a distance. She replies with confusion, always saying she likes me.
She wants to prove it so she says she'll meet me at lunch. She shows and we end up talking, she mentions how another girl who was with us who I didn't even speak with (she was talking to my friend) that "she loves you".
Why does she do this. Among asking twice if I've had a girlfriend since we've met.
Now it's just falling apart. She blew me a kiss and waved before the march break. Yet I still feel like she has no interest in me.
What I learned is...
A girl can give many positive signals when you do interact.
But they can at the same time seem to avoid having any interaction with you.
That's what stings the most. And overpowers the positive signals.
Maybe it's because she's a foreigner and is extremely independent and is working on her full drivers license, getting into university, and two jobs. I can only hope. I want to ask her, but I'm scared of the answer.
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Hey i need some advice
So the other day my crush added me on sc and started sending me messages, he didn't open the last snap I sent him so I told my friend and we planned for her to "accidentally" dm him something on Insta to check if he was on his phone still. He replied and they chatted for hours after that and yesterday they went and saw a movie together, and he asked her if she wanted to hook up with him. Oh and his ex girlfriend told him I liked him. So my life is pretty much over, bye | Crushes |
I thought she was the one. When i first met her everything went smoothly, everything had a reason and everything made sense. Then I heard she was a slut, and the last week just proved it. It's not just that shes pretty dumb, she couldn't even remember my name and flunked 2nd grade. Know that I'm typing this I think I just wanted an answer that I already have... | Crushes |
So backstory:
There's this guy in a few of my classes who I sorta recently realised i have a crush on, eventually my friends found out and now will constantly tease me about him.
Anyway, around Christmas, a friend of mine made cards for a bunch of us, including him. In this card, she wrote that I liked him, but luckily it was all in Japanese (cause he likes anime).
He had no idea what it said luckily and soon forgot about it.
~
Now fast forward to this last Wednesday. A different friend of mine decided to ask him if he had ever translated that card. He says no, he'd forgotten about it and had lost it. All was well in my world.
Well, Friday morning, he asks that first friend to write it down for him again so he could translate it.
We have a class together, and him and his friend are trying to figure out what it says, and failing. The one thing that makes me feel better is that google translate might be nice to me and not do it right.
Well, turns out the universe hates my guts.
After our last class, we all had to leave through the front office, totally normal. I'm waiting for a friend who's hiding in there.
I eventually decide to go find her; the line is short, and there he is with the friend from earlier.
My friend who was about to leave starts to tell me something about him that happened during their class.
He beats her to it, and, walking past me, says that it has my name on it...
I am now quietly dying inside as he walks away.
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So, that was all on Friday.
It's now Sunday afternoon, and tomorrow I have 3 out of 4 classes with him, and he's in the same block as me for the other.
Now, considering he knows it says my name, I've figured that by then he'll know what the card said.
Which is a terrifying thought.
It's not even purely because he'll know, but I just want everything to stay the same as it was cause he's one of the few guys in my class that I talk to vaguely often and i don't want it to get overly awkward.
But whatever. I just wanted to let this all out cause I've had no one to talk to all weekend.
Guess I'll see what happens tomorrow morning.
(kill me plz)
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Why would you let someone you barely know control your life?Is she this special?Do you need to have her to live?Why can't you stop thinking about her?Advices won't help you.If you don't ever change, you will remain as the piece of shit you always has been.
(All these lines couldn't motivate me to move on.) | Crushes |
Sam but moved away so yeah, I never talked to him besides bumping into him literally and a few other things. He is the most special crush I'll possibly post a story on him
Camden well he already has a girlfriend and I have no intention of hurting their relationship so I really don't even know if I wanna like him.
Joey I don't even know if I like him or not
That's possibly it, and I'm basically gonna die alone.
Ps: Twenty Øne Piløts is awesome
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I should mention that she is my classmate and I see her everyday. | Crushes |
Eh, i'm a Sophomore in high school and so is she. Her and I sit across from each other in Earth Science (We both hate the class) and I got to know her a little better and she has a pretty fucked up life. I did to. She's gorgeous, but who give a fuck about that when you can actually relate to someone that you like. Her ex is my wrestling teammate. We can talk forever I guess. I think I made things awkward when my friends pointed out that she was alone and she really needed someone to talk to. I kind of pussied out but I swallowed my pride went up to her and I asked if I can sit with her. She said yes and I asked her about her day. She asked about mine. I told her that the talent show was today and I was performing. She said it was cool. It all ended when her friends showed up. I introduced myself to one of them by giving a handshake and told my crush that it was nice talking to her. I felt like garbage after that. I kind of feel like a creep. | Crushes |
I visited another state for an entire month to work at a store. I met a woman at this store and she made me feel hopeful. I was never good at taking hints, but she smiled at me a lot. I always looked forward to seeing her and now that i'm back at my hometown i feel like i'm never going to see her again. I think she knows that i like her, but then again maybe not. She has a facebook but i think sending her a friend request would be *odd* and *creepy*. -sigh-
I wish i could go back in time so i could see her face for the first time again. I was completely mesmerized by this woman and her smile.
I don't know where i'm going with this, it's kind of all over the place. but i need to let this out. i miss you. | Crushes |
Time for a small story.
Basically, on Friday this girl who sits next to me was asking people for gum and I felt bad that she didn't have any so on Monday, I gave her a pack I had bought. Instantly she started awwing and thanking me and giggling, even put me on her Snapchat story according to a mutual friend.
I don't know why but now I've been thinking about her a lot and just like, feeling shy around her in class. I'm not sure if it was because of the feeling of being appreciated or if it's because a cheerleader put me on her Snapchat story and called me a cutie, along with awwing at me.
I swear I have a crush or something though, like she geniunely seems really nice and fun to be around!
What do I do now? Bake her a soufflé?! (I was legitimately considering this a few weeks ago because I nearly knocked her over one day but she was fine and started to laugh when I profusely apologized.)
I'm just really confused. | Crushes |
I saw an image on Pinterest today: "I want to know what goes through a boy's mind when he stars falling for a girl." I thought I'd answer that question.
You see, guys are often seen as tough, not relationshippy, makes the first move. But when it comes to the girl we love, nothing above applies. Just like girls, we get weak and crazy at their sight, we want them to know but we don't want to tell them, and we actually want you to make the first move. We're ALSO afraid that you won't like us, and we want a sign.
As for what actually goes through our minds, you'll have to be more specific. When a boy falls for a girl, we will think about them CONSTANTLY. The lyrics from "La Da Dee" describe it very well: "'All the girls are lookin' fine, but you're the only one on my mind." We absolutely melt when we see you! All we want is to hold you close, but at the same time we don't want to scare you away or seem clingy or weird. You become the only thing we have and ever will want, no matter what things may have been before. Every night, we think through all the different scenarios where we end up holding you. We get excited just at the thought of seeing you.
That - that's what goes through a boy's mind when they fall for a girl. | Crushes |
This girl that I've liked for around 3 months now has changed massively.
We used to talk everyday in and out of school through Instagram etc. I even know where she lives because I got her presents for Valentines Day!
Anyway, now she just hates me, she tells me not to speak to her, look at her, touch her (even by accident)
I called her out for it and she said that "maybe I don't speak to you because I'm not allowed or I don't like you"
I asked which one is it and she said "both so don't message me"
Sometimes I'll catch her looking at me from across the room however we no longer speak.
What should I do? | Crushes |
I met this guy a few months ago at a church retreat. We're both 17, but he's turning 18 in two weeks. He's a senior in high school and I'm a junior.
Like I said, we met at a church retreat through a mutual friend. We spent basically the whole weekend of the retreat with the same group of friends, and then at the end of the weekend he handed me his phone and had me put my number in. We texted occasionally, but it wasn't until recently that we started texting often.
He lives about an hour away from me and I don't drive, so we haven't had many chances to hang out in person, but I go to his youth group meetings whenever I can. Whenever he'd see me, he'd usually be the first out of our friend group to say hi and give me a hug and all that stuff, but obviously it didn't seem like a big deal because we were just friends.
Then a few weeks ago, we went on another church retreat together. We sat by each other as much as possible, even though our original friend group was sort of dispersed. There was one time when I was sitting on the floor in front of his chair because there weren't enough chairs for everyone, and he moved his legs so I could lean against them and be more comfortable. Another time, we were talking about our prayer time that we'd had earlier in the evening, and he told me that he had seen me praying and thought it was cute. Also, on the second night of the retreat, we were laying on the floor in a circle with our friends because we were all tired but didn't want to go to bed. Basically, we were all trying to stay awake but doing a really poor job of it. My eyelids felt heavy so I'd close my eyes to rest them, and nearly every time I opened them he was looking right into my eyes. And on our bus ride home, I woke up from a nap and noticed he was looking over at me from his seat across the aisle.
Since that retreat, he and I have texted almost every day. We're both pretty shy, so I guess texting is a way that we've been learning more about each other and bonding without all the nerves. We've talked about hanging out in the near future and in some cases, we specified things that we want to do with our friend group -- like going to see a movie -- but in other cases, he made it sound like he just wanted to hang out one-on-one.
I saw him tonight because I went to his youth group meeting. He seemed to look at me a lot, but I'm thinking it was actually mostly just the moments that I was adjusting how I was sitting, because I know the way that guys' eyes work makes them sorta wired to look at anything that moves. We made eye contact quite a few times but since eye contact makes me feel awkward, I looked away pretty fast. He also winked at me.
I don't really know what other details to include. When we text each other, it's about 60-40 in terms of who texts first (he texts first a little bit more than I do, but my texts are usually a little longer). I'm mostly just wondering if it seems like he likes me, and where I should go from here. Also, I'm getting my license today, so that will enable him and I to hang out more often. | Crushes |
Pretty much I already described in the title. I feel terrible now, the college is came to an end. The routines of last four years are changing, people are changing - I am not gonna see these crazy people around anymore. Above all I miss her terribly, I have a crush on her for almost 2 years, haven't told her about that. But I know she knows about my feeling, lately I have been started catching her looking at me. That makes me feel happy and sad at the same time, happy because she knows about my feelings and sad because I don't want her to end up with me ( I am terrible person, Introverted, can't speak up my feelings, I got bad grades in colleges). I don't know what to do. she is genuine and lively.
I am good friends with her best friend.some days ago she complained to her best friend(our common friend) that whether she will say yes if I asked her out, and she ( common friend) got really upset. I don't know why she( my crush) said that to our common friend(I am not making much sense, am I ?).
I love her, and I know things are going in the right way. that means someday she is gonna express her feelings , and I am afraid, what to say when that day comes. | Crushes |
SO I like this girl, and yesterday we were talking in a group then some of the people had to leave. Normally she would suggest we should go back to the main group, but it seems as if she wanted to talk to me alone/idk bc I am bad at this. Though over the past few days she has been rather shyer around me than usual. However idk since she is already pretty shy. I really like her but I don't know if she likes me. I felt like she just wanted to talk to me privately because we don't get a lot of time to do that. | Crushes |
my crush at work asked me to look in her mouth cause her tooth was sore and she wanted me to see if there's something wrong with it. so yeah am i crazy or is this a big hint | Crushes |
I met this girl last year and I fell for her. Two weeks ago I confessed and she felt the same way. All weekend we flirted and I was going to ask her out. Monday comes and I go up to her early in the morning, and it felt like she wasn't the same person. She told me she needed time because she had just ended a relationship.I didn't mind but Later that day I see that she is walking and talking with her ex and my heart sank. Next day they're back together , same day they break up once more and I went to the mall with her the following Friday and we're holding hands and hugging and I ask her out and she says "Yes , but can we wait a little? I just broke up with him again and I don't want to look bad." I understood what she was trying to say and the next day she sends me "Hey um, I don't want to date for a long time , i'm still trying to get over ***** and I just need some time." I was like " yeah its cool" and the same day i see her on his snapchat story.... really felt like she lied to me twice and now I can't stop thinking of her even though I know what she did. | Crushes |
Stupid teenager here with no clue how to talk with the opposite gender online: I was looking at facebook live when I came across this girl that was livestreaming with ~5 viewers and asked for her snap and she added me, now I'm figuring out how to start talking to her. How should I start the conversation? Should I take a selfie, or should I rather just take a picture of something else, since I am not 100% comfortable sending pics of myself to strangers? | Crushes |
I love this girl, she loves me too. She stares and her friends look at me, but her parents are strict and I can't talk to her on social media or over the phone.
Can't talk to her in person since my school is EXTREMELY strict about guys talking to girls + she always walks with my friend's ex-girlfriend.
When I tried to follow her on Instagram she didn't reply and I noticed that she suddenly started hanging around with my friend's ex and one of my girl-friends. | Crushes |
So, in 14 for the last year months I've been going to a sports camp, so let me start you at the beginning!
So, I play competitive with sports and I'm always trying to improve so, I went into a training center with it overseas, and the first 6 months I hated, I'd fake being sick, try anyway to get myself out of it until one day, I saw this girl. She wasn't like any of the others she was kind and beautiful, since I'm overseas and only speak English I couldent just go up and talk to her, she only spoke English at a preschooler level. Also I'm homeschooled to make it even more awkward!
Now that your informed on my social situation, I need help cause this is driving me insane!
So this girl is driving me absolutely crazy, I wish I had e guts to go and talk to her but I'm to big of a wallowing coward to do so, we have only spoken to each other a few times but they were very shallow and short conversations. The reason I believe she likes me in a way is that I'll always catch her looking at me and saying my name with her friends.
At this point I just wish she would come up to me and talk to me, I'm to big of a coward to start one, and it's not anything has to do with self confidence, many many people have told me I'm good looking, and since I'm not a fat little geek who stalks a beautiful girl I know if I just knew what to say I'd interest her a lot,
At this point I really don't know what to do cause I don't want this to be like other crushes I've had, where I just keep waiting and waiting for the girl to come to me and it's lost, I really feel I could have a relationship with this girl if we got to know each other.
Im just grinding my teeth of how these un intelligent idiots with gay hair can win over these women!
Please help me on this one and give me some advice! | Crushes |
So basically I added my crush on snapchat and he added me back. So, I braved it and said "hi" which he opened and didn't reply to!
I was pretty embarrassed since he is older than me and it does feel like I've been rejected!
Background info; he's one year older than me, never spoken to him before, his friends always seem to know who I am since they look at me and sometime stare?!?!?!
Any advice would be great!!! | Crushes |
I have had a crush on this girl for almost a year and it's starting to take a tole on every aspect of my life. She is my number one motivation for everything I do. I go to the gym for her, I study for her, I go to gatherings because of her. How do stop this I can't confront her because she is from the same culture as me and my family and hers meet a lot. I also see her at church and gatherings, which happen at least twice a month. My grades are doing bad I'm mentally not in good shape because of this. I just want it to end.
Some back story. I'm in college and I truly believe she is the person that I want to marry. I know that you idolize people that you have a crush on but this is the first crush I had where I don't only want to have sex with her. I want live, enjoy and be sad with her. She is two years younger and she is very smart and is heavily focused on school. That is one reason why I don't want to tell her how I feel because I'm afraid she will not understand. Or she might not be ready for a relationship.
Guys please just help with this I'm really starting to lose sight of important things in life. I need to start doing good in school or I won't graduate. | Crushes |
So I found out my crush was gay very recently and I'm in emotional shambles. I cried until I looked stoned. Some support would be nice | Crushes |
I met this guy at a church retreat back in September. He's a year older than me and really sweet, but I don't really know how he feels about me because our interactions can be a bit confusing.
I first met him at a retreat, like I said before. I was introduced to him by one of my friends, and at the time she told me she had a thing with him. I think she said that they had been on one date together. But soon after that, she started pursuing a different guy, so I'm assuming things didn't work out between them.
That weekend that we met, we spent a lot of time with the same group of friends. We stayed out late at night stargazing, and then we got up early to watch the sunrise together. To get to the spot where we were going to watch the sunrise, we had to climb a mountain, but I'm scared of heights, so I started panicking. He was really understanding about it and put his arm around me to help me calm down. Then later, when we were all getting on the bus to head home, he was going to sit next to me, but someone else sat down next to me first. I took a nap on the bus, and when I woke up he was looking over at me. Before I left to go home, he handed me his phone so I could give him my number.
We texted each other every now and then, but it wasn't until around November or December that we actually got to see each other again. We live pretty far away from each other -- about 40 minutes, which is far considering that we're in high school and I can't drive. Then in February we went on another church retreat together. We spent time with the same group of friends from the September retreat, but things were different because we knew each other a little better. We stayed out late with our friends and we were all so tired that we were essentially just lying in a circle trying to stay awake. It seemed like every time I opened my eyes, he was looking at me. And then again on the bus ride home, I woke up from taking a nap and he was looking at me.
We've texted almost every day since then. He's really sweet, like I said before. He told me I make him happy, he told me that I seem like a really genuine person, and he told me that I'm "amazing." But he hasn't really done anything I'd consider to be flirty, so I'm wondering if maybe he thinks of me as a sister more than as someone he'd date?
Any advice or opinions would be much appreciated! We're both 17 right now, but I turned 17 a few days ago and he's turning 18 in a few weeks. | Crushes |
Ok so this all started a couple of months ago my class schedule had changed and I moved to a new class. My crush is in this class as well but anyway there wasn't much interaction between us then the next time I go to this class she says hi to me and I know that sounds like I'm over thinking things but I thought it was weird because before my schedule had changed she had no idea who I was. Anyway she said hi to me for a few weeks then it stopped and now it has started again. Recently my seat got moved in this class and I now sit next to her and she is... I'm not really sure what to call it but it's like she if flirting and she keeps asking me questions about my family like she wants to get to know me. I just want to know if I'm over analyzing and reading to much into it or if this could mean that she likes me. Any answers are appreciated thanks. | Crushes |
So there's this girl, and I haven't even met her yet. I've just seen her and walked by her. I'm shy and she's shy I want to just say hello but I don't know. Sometimes I look at her and she looks over at me, any suggestions on how to start a conversation? | Crushes |
Hey. So, um. I just wanna say that, deep down in my heart. I love you. We been talking since the first day of school. I saw this cute girl. Hoping her to be in my classes. You're in 2 of my classes. You smiled to me. Talked to me when I feel alone. I wished I sat beside you.
Just wanted to tell you before I sleep. | Crushes |
There is this guy at school who I've been friends with at school for about half a year and I have a crush on him. Lately everyone has been saying he likes me back and he acts like it too. His friends will see me and be nudging him and teasing him and stuff. He's always hanging out with me and playfully teasing me and even sometimes he's a little sweet. But the only problem is it's so confusing because every time something comes up like I'll try to talk to him about what's going on and what we are. It's like he gets scared and completely tries to avoid it then the next day he acts like nothing happened and everything goes back to normal. He obviously likes me, he's said it before (I wasn't supposed to know that though) but he won't do anything about it even if the opportunity is shoved right in front of his face! Can anyone help? | Crushes |
Okay so this guy that I sort of like on and off. I see him once in a while at school. I've known him for like 6 ish years cause we had some classes together and he was in my homeroom for 2 yrs. And I know I may seem crazy for thinking this but I have his odd feeling that this guy will be part of my future. Idk how cause like we live on two different worlds now. But I have this weird optimism bout him. I know that this will never happen cause it usually doesn't for me and my love life. But hey, anything could happen. So yeah, what should I do bout this feeling? I've told myself to just move on but I saw him recently and like bam I felt so nervous when I saw him.... | Crushes |
It's not only that she likes my best friend, but she openly admitted it to us, including to my best friend. He didn't reject nor accept her feelings because he is uninterested in a relationship, and he had said he wants to stay single for quite a while. This we already knew before she told us, so her and I weren't suprised. We're all good friends and there is no awkward tension between us as of right now. I don't like the feeling I get that my crush likes my best friend. I'm afriad sharing my thoughts and feelings would cause unwanted trouble. Is there anything I can or should do? Should I tell my best friend, or is that a bad idea? Just standing there and watching is breaking me. I'm getting to a point where I just want to completely avoid them both, and the people they're associated with. | Crushes |
is what i said yesterday, guess what? never talked to her. sigh, i wish i was in her social circle or something so because it is very hard to randomly walk up to someone who you dont know with out coming off as creepy | Crushes |
Back story i only know her for less than a year,but the person in the "story" knows her for about 3 years.
So today we went to the book fair, as the whole school. And my crush bought a LOT of books. When we came back to school i wanted to carry her books, but i was too scared that my friends would get that i like her. But then what do i see, her other friend (guy) carries her books. Its not that bad,but still it makes me sad,so i wanted to share it with you guys/girls.
Sorry for the typos,there are a lot of them. | Crushes |
I make and mail anonymous art cards on etsy. My first series is all about your crush. Do you want to confess your love? How about flirt with the one you already have? I will be giving away an art card to the first person to like my facebook page {yup, brand new baby page with no likes yet just waiting for you} and another when I hit 100 likes. www.facebook.com/hivecard | Crushes |
There's this guy at work that I have a huge crush on, I've noticed that he always stares at me, hangs around where I do, walks slowly when he sees me, acts so shy and awkward whenever I'm around, and his coworkers always look at me. Is this all in my head or should I go talk to him/give him a signal to talk to me ? | Crushes |
So for the past month me and this girl have being eyeing eachother and smiling at eachother every day, and i mean every day theres no fail. We see each other throughout the day multiple times but for some reason i just cannot get myself to talk to her no matter what i do and im usually not even a shy person. I am confused because she has never tried to talk to me either yet but she seems really interested also. Somebody please help, thanks! | Crushes |
So I've had an interest on my classmate for the 2 school years (almost, I'm about to finish the 2nd one) but have never said a word to her, the most significant interaction we have probably had is me passing her some papers or vice versa. As far as our personalities she's an average girl or at least that's what she comes across but there can always be more to people, then there's me, I have close to no interactions with my peers because I choose music over any chance of socializing, sounds kind of mean or maybe like I'm full of myself but I've just never really been a social guy since fourth grade (high school junior now) so that's why I prefer to just clear my mind with music. I take drugs but I don't think it's visible on the outside apart from me itching or shaking sometimes, maybe I smell like cigarettes sometimes but I try to keep the smell off me. So it's normal, social, a bit mysterious because she's not exactly like other girls in the sense of socialism, (maybe she just takes her work more serious than I can see) girl over a antisocial junkie, it depresses me to think about it like that but I've never been one to reject reality. I don't know if she knows but I know she probably doesn't like me because just picture a guy who always listen ms to music by himself, rarely talks, acts weird (Like I said I may shake when I'm high), and cuts classes. I really like her...usually I get over a girl if she doesn't matter but it's been almost a year and no matter how many other girls I date or drugs I do...I just can't shake her of my mind. I only have a month left before the school year ends and I don't know if I'll still have classes with her but whenever I try to push myself to ask her I get these negative thoughts out of nowhere reminding me she'd never love a outcast junkie like me :(
I really wish she knew how I felt I don't know if I've missed anything but it's just nice to vent, if anyone read this whole thing, thank you. | Crushes |
My darling French neigbor
Hey all! I'm a 23 year old girl, recently graduated as an animator. A few months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. So I had to move out. We had been together for four and a half years, which is quite a while!
Little over a month since we broke up, I found a new appartment. It's beautiful: in the middle of the city, very modern and completely filled with light, I share it with my sister.
A neighbor kitten ran into my appartment, one thing led to another and suddenly all us new neigbors are having a barbecue together. The door next door opens, then I see him. Tall, with round glasses and one crooked tooth, big fumbling hands and a shy smile. His eyes are a lovely pale blue. He joins us and gets the fire going properly.
He's French, and recently moved here. We apparantly took each other's appartment: I called for F but got G, he called for G but got F. We talk a bit, his English isn't the best, nor is my French, but we manage. His voice is soft and quiet - I get to lean in to hear him repeat his words, sometimes still failing to understand even after repeating himself three times.
And what do you know, what are the odds: he also works in animation! In 3D modeling, while I'm an animator. The rest of the evening we all enjoy a good meal, he talks with a few of the other guys, and spends a lot of time left out of conversations. (All us other neighbors have Dutch as our native language)
My sister and I host a housewarming party for some friends. We're outside having drinks by the window, and lo and behold who gets out of his appartment, my darling Frenchman. I immediately ask him to join us and he does. We spend the night in good company, having lots of drinks and enjoying nintendoland on my WiiU. Our hands touch a few times when I hand him a wiiremote and I love it. He pets my owl (which I WISH was a euphemism) but cannot decide on a name for it. He brings along Liar's Dice and it all lasts until about 3 30 AM. He retreats to his appartment, we all go to bed.
I feel this crush growing stronger. He's so pleasant, so quiet, so handsome. After a short night of drinking, heading home at about twelve, I pass his appartment and all his windows are open. He's sitting on the windowsill smoking a cigarette and softly says hello. I open my appartment door, stop in my steps, throw my purse in and go back to invite him and his roommate for some more WiiU. They come along and we play again until bedtime. His roommate is a lot louder: most conversations are taken over, and my crush doesn't say much.
I'll keep inviting him over, keep talking to him as good as I can, but whether this will go anywhere is anyone's guess really. After all he's so shy! And he may or may not be single, for all I know he has a girl back in France.
But in the end it doesn't matter too much. I feel good, I'm happy to have a crush again, and I'm loving my new life combined with these butterflies in my stomach.
If you're French, living in a different country with a French roommate, work in 3D modeling and have an animating girl next door with a WiiU, come on by and ring the door! | Crushes |
I am a sophomore in high school and I really am falling for this girl. I have known her since I was in kindergarten and I consider her probably my best girl friend. I am pretty sure she knows I like her and she has shown before that she has some affection toward me, but I just don't know if I want to date her or not. Her last boyfriend she ended on good terms with him, but one of my two friends dated and now they are on bad terms with each other. I don't want to end on bad terms, but I also don't want to make things awkward between us right now since she is kinda distancing herself from me and we are pretty good friends. | Crushes |
So, I met this person in Marching Band, and I immediately had a crush on them. At first, I didn't really say anything, much less do anything, but later a small conversation started and I somehow managed to wiggle my way into sitting with her during practice. It wasn't much, but it was something. Later in the marching season, when we had to go competitions on charter buses, I managed to sit with her, and we became acquaintances if not friends, and she introduced me to a mobile game she was pretty good at that she played a lot (Vain Glory). As an FPS gamer, I sucked at the game which is a MOBA, but I don't know if that affects anything. Eventually, marching season ended and our friendship pretty much just stalled and we didn't talk much anymore. I think I messed up pretty bad earlier as she is the president of our anime club and I showed interest and she seemed pretty happy about me wanting to come, but being shy, I never went because I thought it was too awkward. Later, almost at the end of the school year, I finally went to a couple of club meetings, but we didn't even make eye contact much less talk, so it's kind of hopeless. I also try to play with her on Vain Glory, but she just ignores my party requests. I also tried to help her with an issue I saw she was having with her computer, but she also still just ignored me. I don't know what to do now.
Also, she's an INFJ (MBTI), I figured it out slowly. I don't know if this affects anything, but I'm and ISTP so this makes our relationship: http://www.socionics.com/rel/act.htm
TL;DR: Met girl in marching band, never went to her club, now she ignores me.
EDIT: She's also 1 grade ahead of me, so I don't have classes with her. | Crushes |
There is this girl in my class and she is the most beautiful girl ever. I don't have the balls to talk to her and I know no guy talks to her. I can see my life with her it's just that I can't talk to her. What should I do? | Crushes |
There is a girl in my math class who I truly believe to be the must beautiful girl I've ever seen. I've had a crush on her for a few weeks and ive even texted her a few times. My issue is that I can never convince myself to say something to her in class. I always get this feeling of weight on my shoulders, since I feel that it will be extremely awkward for me to just start talking to her. I feel horrible and I'm not able to focus in other classes because I feel ashamed. I have no problem talking to people over text because I have no chance of messing anything up, and more often than not its hard to be awkward over text since people can respond whenever they want. This is destroying me on the inside and I just want to break the ice and say something to her, but I just can't. I've been asking my friends for advice and I've felt confident going into class, but as soon as the opportunity arises, I feel like I'm mute. Most of the advice from this subreddit and all of my friends are the usual just say something, what is there to lose, but that's exactly what I'm afraid of. I feel as if her rejecting me will tear me apart. If I do think do anything, I'll never know. Sorry for this long post. It feels decent to be able to vent. | Crushes |
So about 5 moths ago I started crushing on this guy, let's call him Dylan , but I'm quite awkward about crushes so i was taking my time to build up the courage to tell my friends when my other friend, let's call her jen tells me she likes Dylan. This was about 2 to 3 months after i started liking him (yes I know I take a long time lol) so i decided to keep quiet about my crush cause I felt bad that we liked the same guy.
About 2 weeks ago - so 4 and a half months after it started- jen and another friend maya guessed I liked Dylan so I confessed how I didn't tell them cause I felt bad but said i dont care that much and jen was completely fine with it and understood that you can't help who you like and stuff.
The problem is that our other friend, let's say sasha, has been talking to dylan on a private DM on Instagram all weekend till about 4am each day. Sasha already has a lot of guy problems mostly revolving around 3 other ppl (I won't bother explaining) but it hurts knowing that they both talked for ages privately when there is a group DM with us all in which Sasha knows me and jen would have liked to be involved in too.
She told us she was getting "information" from him like things like that he doesn't like this other girl from the rumours and about TV shows he's into as if to be things we could both have in common with him but it just seems selfish of her to do that so secretly .
The worst part is she was even saying over DM to me and jen how their conversations the night before was really wierd and they were talking for so long as if to rub it in and make us feel worst about it and I swear that at one point she was talking to me and him at the same time separately and she told me gtg and left when usually shed tell me why she was going. Call me paranoid but I was looking on my followers bit on Instagram where you can see what people are liking and she was still liking lots of photos after she told me she was going.
Sorry this was really long but I just hope someone can help me and tell me what I should do. I know I told them I don't care much but it just seems like shes doing it on purpose cause its in a bloody private dm. And it just really upsets me. Thanks for reading anyway guys | Crushes |
So, i am in love with my bestfriend, she always makes a lot of body contact whenever we're together and she laughs and my jokes. She is really happy and fun to be around when she is with me. The thing that makes me doubt that she likes me back is that she would point out a cute guy when she is with me, or mention that one of our mutual friends is cute. She also calls me her bestfriend and i don't know if she wants to keep it that way or bring our relationship to the next level
As of right now, i have plans to tell her abt my feelings for her after the movie we are going to see. Its been about a year and a half since i have starting feeling this way for her and I can't hold it in any longer
My question is whether i should still tell her or how i should.
How i am going to tell her: If she acts all cute and touchy during the movie, i'll grab her hand and see the way she reacts and say the things i want to say when i walk her home. Or tell her by signing her yearbook with a paragraph abt how i feel abt her.
P.s. I am 15 yrs old and in gr.9 | Crushes |
Im in love with my bestfriend and he says he is not ready to date i understand and respect that i want him to go to prom with me he said he would think about it and no i dont think its just a crush i liked him all of highschool and next year will be our last year and every now and again he shows hints of liking me and today i got in a dark place where my mind was saying he is going to leave me as a friends and never talk to me again and we will never date i know he proably would date me but he is a person who has been through things and doesnt date because of that reason currently we will both be 18 this year so nothing illegal but i just need help and advice how i should go about getting over him and really moving on brcause i date people because i cant have him and it never works out | Crushes |
Okay, so I've pretty much come here to vent and seek advice because I have few friends I feel comfortable venting to, so here it goes.
I've not dated that much, I'm a sophomore. The one relationship I really had lasted about 2 years and we semi-recently ended things because I moved a few months ago. I got closer to one of my new teachers and decided to switch into their homeroom, where I met this senior who caught my eye. He is so passionate about the things he likes, and that's really really attractive to me. We talk constantly in homeroom, but that's only 3 days a week for about half an hour... and he is graduating in a few weeks. On top of all that, I'm going to Tokyo this summer for 2 months so I won't even be here. What should I do??? | Crushes |
This semester i'm enrolled in 2 classes with this chick- we essentially take the same 2 hours class from monday to thursday every week. She's a stranger to me, and I have never even spoken to her; we sit pretty far away from each other in class. She is super beautiful and i really want to get to know her. Early on in the semester i had been eye-balling her accidentally and i think she noticed that (strong eye contact). One time when her group was presenting to the whole class and she was standing in the front with her group, i stared at her directly, and she saw me staring at her. She then began to stare back at me, and we had a good 15 second solid eye contact. Funny thing is, i kept staring as if i was looking through her, and eventually - she looked away once she thought i wasn't actually looking at her. I hope she didn't stare back at me cause she thought i was creepy- because that would be the standard response.
During class sometimes i noticed she quickly glances in my direction 3-4 times; i see it from the corner of my eye but i'm just not sure if she is reciprocating IOI's, or just looking at my friend or the clock or just glancing around for no particular reason because it's unclear through the corner of my eye. Sometimes, she echoes particular words that i say in class (like when asking teacher questions, or answering questions from the teacher) during class discussion. Also, she has placed herself in close proximity to me a few times when the class ended and we left via the hallways. Whilst these sound like generally positive signs, i feel like i'm quite biased in noticing these things because i am the one crushing on her.
A friend of mine in my class actually asked her out on a date, but she said she was dating someone else (though my friend was quite skeptical about her dating someone else from the way she behaved when he asked, and thinks she said it as an excuse). Anyhow, love is fair game and i want to have a shot before the semester ends in 2 weeks; sadly, i'll be leaving the country to go back home - so that is also discouraging me.
I've been told i'm good looking many times in my life so i hope that helps in getting her attention - but i'm just lost as to what to do. Because i have not even spoken a single word to her except during class discussion (ie. when she voluntarily answers my question after her group presents an idea to the class). But that is hardly a sign of interest.
TLDR; crushing on a classmate i have never even spoken to because she is intimidatingly smart and super beautiful. Leaving in 2 weeks when semester ends - will probably never see her again. I don't want to pussy out of this. What to do? | Crushes |
Last May, he started out as “the hot guy at work” who I only saw in passing. After a couple week of screwing up in my new position, he took me to the side and, in a store full of uptight, frankly mean P.I.C’s, he very sweetly said "Here, I'll show you how to do this". He’s been my go to ever since and everyone agrees he’s the best.
Within the month I had a crush.
At first I think it was just physical and for once I was actually pretty confident in my chances. Then I noticed the ring. Since I’m going all out here, I should be honest that I was bummed but really didn’t care that much.
Then one day, I was talking to the cool office lady about her house and she mentioned his name and suddenly I felt like Chazz Palminteri at the end of the Usual Suspects when he pieces all the clues together. I went to facebook to confirm it and saw a picture of them together. (He was, in fact, Keyser Soze.)
I was immediately consumed with guilt. Immediately decided nothing would ever happen and realized nothing ever could. Immediately tried to just switch it off. Completely and utterly. Like it never happened. Like I never really cared.
After awhile I realized that was a bad decision and an impossible task. I tried ignoring him, focusing on the bad stuff that could happen for him at work and home, thinking about his wife and family, how an affair would just wreck every single thing he built up the last 30years, looking for bad habits of his...it all just made me feel worse because despite it all, I still couldn't turn off the feeling.
Ignoring him or being cold was the worst because he's probably the nicest man I've ever met and it just made me feel terrible. If I magically got over this crush tomorrow, I would still like him as a person. He’s just so damn likable, I just wish I didn’t like him…like this!
Eventually I figured there was no harm in being friendly coworkers since I knew my boundaries (especially since he is relentlessly kind and we worked pretty closely together). So we finally became work friends and I don't want to screw that up but I'm afraid the more I see him and the more I talk to him the less hope I have of getting over him/rid of this stupid crush.
In a way I really don't want to get over him. I know it would help to bring up his wife or kids in conversation but I make sure never to do that. I know it would help to find out and focus on his bad habits, but I don't care about them. I should just quit my job (it’s not that great anyway) but I can't. I want to see him. I want to talk to him.
I just want to know everything about him. There’s so much I want to ask him. I just want to listen to him talk for like three days straight. About himself. About anything. I love his stupid voice/unmistakable accent and the facial expressions he makes and his mannerisms. I love his stupid dad jokes and how he makes himself laugh after each one. I’ve never wanted to get to know someone so much or been so consumed by them.
I’ve gone a couple weeks at a time without seeing him or talking to him because of scheduling and it’s honestly the most crushing, depressing feeling. Work is hell when he’s not there. After a few days, I think I’ve grown out of it….until I see him again and it's back to square one. When he is there, my whole mood for the day depends on how our interactions go or if we even have any.
He's about 60 (I'm 21), gray and balding, married to a woman that works 50 feet from the both of us, father of three (all of whom are older than me by a couple years), he’s not my manager but he's A manager, and...a republican. A recipe for disaster.
It's rare I get to be affectionate towards something so tall, country, and German..(curb your enthusiasm reference? anyone? no? ok.)
But I like him.
I still do.
I feel like this has gone through so many stages. Sexual attraction, guilt, trying to ignore/be cold to him, acceptance, feeling like I want to melt into the floor everytime I see him, over it, and repeat.
It will be a year in May.
I look at him all the time. I make extra trips to the back when I know he's there (something he jokingly commented on before). I'm there to support all his terrible jokes. Now that I'm in a new department I don't get to work with him directly anymore but going on breaks with him are like the ultimate. It's such a relief to open the door and see him sitting there and listen to him talk for 5 minutes, 15 minutes, how ever long I can get. About whatever. Work stuff, listening to stories about his sons or wife are hard but at least I'm talking to him, things that would be uninteresting from anyone else but I'm 100% there for when he's saying them.
I have this fantasy about telling him on my last day of work. I don't know why. I'm curious if it's obvious or if I'm successfully suffering in silence over here.
I still keep my boundaries but deep down I know that if he ever initiated anything I would not say no. That's probably where my real guilt comes from and why I'm so bad at maintaining our work friendship.
I could count on one hand the amount of crushes I've had in my entire life and I just wish this one would be over. | Crushes |
There is this girl I like and I am too scared to talk to her. She does not have any social media and I'm too scared to ask for her number as she might think I am a weird. How can I just talk to her?
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They suck but I'm entertained. I get so many crushes but I'm not dating because of school and in a self-growth period. But gosh. Boys are cute. Talked to this charming and adorable and sexy dude today. Smart & blue eyes, sigh. | Crushes |
I had history class with this girl a couple years ago and we talked everyday in that class the whole time. We haven't had any classes together in the past 2 years and now I can't stop thinking about her. I rarely get a chance to talk to her and usually when I do I'm too scared to say anything. I've started cutting myself with scissors on my arms and legs for not talking to her and I still get scared. | Crushes |
Hey so I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop then later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early do you know what it means? | Crushes |
Long story (will be a TL;dr at the end):
So basically, I told my crush about something that's been bugging me about her, that being is that she reads my texts and doesn't reply back. I finally confronted her about this issue saying "Hey, can you tell me why you read my messages and don't reply back? I mean, it doesn't annoy me but it bothers me, at least tell me you're busy or can't text at the moment or something, I just wanted to tell you that" Which she replies "I'm sorry I get busy or I go out and forget to text back, my fault" And I say "Yeah, I'm sorry for saying this but it bothers me sometimes, no hard feelings" She says sorry, and I just say "It's okay but like I said, it kinda bothers me and I just wanted to let you know" So, you would think it ended there but I got on Facebook for a while to text my friend about some money, she gets online, post two images that I feel that were directly towards me, talking about losing feelings for a person you loved and I can't believe I let myself fall weak for some people, then leaves, I'm like what the fuck? What did I do? I just told her something that bother me about her and she gets all sentimental.
It's a long distance crush btw, she lives in NJ, while I live in Mexico, we've skyped and called before and she acts so sweet and nice but I've never seen her act this way before.
And she still uploads images onto Facebook, Snapchat and Instagram that I feel that are directed towards me.
She has a boyfriend by the way, just pointing that out if that means anything.
How should I approach this situation?
TL;dr: Crush gets angry over something that she does that bothers me (that being reading a text and not replying) and she goes crazy and post some controversial images on her social media that I feel were directed towards, how should I approach this situation? | Crushes |
Recently today I told a girl (My crush) that I really liked her and I feel happy with her around (Confessing). This was also face to face, a few hours later after school (High School - Late Years) she messages me on Facebook and tells me this for exact words: "Listen, you're a nice guy and all, but I'm not looking to become involved with that kind of relationship with anyone in that way. I'd still love to be your friend though." She continues to say after I asked her why, "I am just not interested in the idea of dating anyone, at the moment anyways."
What should I do now? Should I continue with waiting for her, or should I abandon ship? | Crushes |
so i was chatting with my crush and it went something like this
her: well...
me: hmm?
her:good night then?
me: kk, gn
her: gnight
me: bai ;)
her: see ya
do i have a chance with her? i also asked her who she prefers in out class but she chose people that are not me :C but do i have a chance of her liking me at all? | Crushes |
I apologize in advance for the lenght of this post and my non native English proficiency but I need a strong and objective advice on this matter that is driving me a bit nuts:
Four months ago I began receiving training at a call center for a well-known American company to become a tech support agent. During the initial period, my long term relationship had just faded and while I was hurt by it, I couldn’t help but having had an instant but strong physical crush towards one of my superiors when he gave us some workshops and it would only be limited to the professional boundaries. Shortly after, I began taking calls as the final stage of my training and since he is the person in charge of reviewing the quality of each agent’s service throughout that trainee period, he’d bring each one of the agents to his office to provide us feedback and counselling so he then took me in and while I was highly aware that he’d hold our meetings in a professional fashion I couldn’t help but notice small details that later turned into hints: he’d take any opportunity to touch my shoulder, my back and my knees or hold the door for me even if I was way behind him. I first took those details as the usual bossy body language but then, every time I’d get feedback from him at his office he began getting closer to me and ask me things like: “What are your plans for this weekend?" or “what did you do recently?" and If I answered: “I went to see the movie ____” (which occurred), he’d then ask me about my overview of the movie: “Did you enjoy it?”, “How about the main actor?”. “I happen to be a sort of geekie so I enjoyed a lot this detail about the movie”. Things quickly escalated to have more personal talks such as booze stuff like on the occasion that I went way out of formality when he asked me how I was and I told him sincerely while laughing nervously: “I’m actually coming to work with a huge hangover (which I did) so I am not sure if I want to continue having big plans for Saturday” and then he’d give me five and began talking about what kind of drinks he likes and continuously asked me what I liked to drink, to which he’d bring comments like: “I am not into wine but my sister gave me the other day this known wine …ahh…which name does it has?”, like seemingly interested. These details continued to even more personal questions such as him asking me about my family members: if I had brothers or sisters, who I lived with and then he brought the fact that he is a dad that has a daughter that lives out of town and then he was looking forward for purchasing a drawing tablet or a game console to her, regardless of the details I believe that if he went on providing me further information about him, it might be a sign of interest, because I had seen him speaking to other female agents and doesn’t portray the same traits as with me. Then, as I mentioned at the beginning, I am not exaggerating what happened. Furthermore, he’d come to my desk to say hi or he even touched my wrist once with the excuse of looking at my weird bracelet. The latest and strongest hints were when I caught him staring at me while I pass through a mezzanine to check out and when he was doing it while driving and me walking by and I, stupidly, didn’t’ return a single glance due to my extreme shyness. I recently had a dispute that got me out of it due to a stupid supervisor (the other supervisors were aware that it hadn’t been my fault but weren’t able to help me even though they tried) that left me unemployed but since I have two jobs, m income isn’t a reason to panic. I believe that my crush had suspected of this event or just loose his interest for me (if there was), because I no longer saw him greeting me or doing the usual gently things he regularly did. We have one friend in common in Facebook and I had been hesitant to add him or not, I’d be deeply embarrassed if he rejected me or find me overly creepy even though I am only looking forward to have a casual thing and recover a bit of sexual empowerment and also, I fear to regret it later as my best friend pointed out and it is a one-time chance. I am a sorry this post took this long, but by pointing out each thing, I might get the objective advice that I truly need since I don’t like being taken as a dumb girl. What is your opinion in this matter, folks? | Crushes |
My crush likes my friend and she likes him back. They barely even know each other smh🙄🙄 | Crushes |
So I've had a crush on this girl since the beginning of highschool. Now it's our senior year, we've finally become friends and I really like her. However, she just asked a guy out and clearly isn't interested. I realize moving on is the best idea, but it's tough. Any advice would be appreciated. | Crushes |
The breakup happened two months ago (on febuary 27th 2016) but i still cant get over it help me | Crushes |
I was on a school trip for a week. We were 9, 10 (only me), 11, 12 the grade. There is this girl from 12 grade that seems nice. She is beautiful, smart (as far as I can say from the contact we've had), ambitious. I don't really like her, but I wouldn't mind anything either. The thing is that she kind of treated me like a child because of the age difference. On the school trips we went out a lot. I basically hanged out with 12 the grade because there was no one from 10 grade. When we went out in the evening to bars, she would always be concerned about me, but in a motherly way. As I said, I find her attractive, but wouldn't say I have a crush on her.
What should I do?
Just wanting a second opinion. | Crushes |
Is someone willing to have a conversation that mostly consists of me saying how awesome my crush is? | Crushes |
So there's this girl who I've been super close with since about 7th grade (I'm a sophomore in college). We tried to date during our junior year of high school, but there was just enough distance between us (about an hour, and I was at boarding school) that it didn't work out. We were each other's first real significant other that we ever truly cared about, and I haven't met anyone since middle school that has made me feel the way she does. I really want to give a relationship another try because we're so much more mature now. We still keep in touch, not on a regular basis but we definitely try and keep up with each other. this comes to two of my questions:
1.) we go to school 13 hours away. Which obviously would stack the odds against us, if we were to date. Is that a good idea to try, or would it just end up doing more harm then good?
2.) We were both invited to a mutual friends' wedding. Would it be unorthodox/too strange to ask her to be my date to it, even though we are both going anyway?
I would love some input form any and all. Thank you so much, and good luck to everyone out there with their crushes. <3 | Crushes |
Okay so i have the biggest crush on this senior guy (i'm a junior) & i'm not sure how he feels about me?
At the beginning of this school year he'd caught me looking at him several times and that's when he started noticing me & he sometimes even smirked at me.
But for some reason we kinda stopped looking at each other & i started making eye contact with his friends more and more ( to the point where i even texted with oen of them for a short time ). It's so weird since his friend always look at me and my best friend & we do the same thing but thats not the point now haha,
Anyway, since last month my crush started making eye contact with me again A LOT. We went on a school trip together and he kept looking at me the whole time?Whenever we pass each other he will make eye contact for 2/3 seconds but his face is just blank? He has no expression & it's like he doesnt know what to do?
My friend keeps telling me that it's so clear that he's attracted to me but i'm not so sure..
We never really got the chance to talk to each other since he's a grade above me and we have no classes or lunch together.
I really want to start talking to him and get to know him but i dont know how? He's always with his friends & I also heard he's really insecure and he won't easily approach a girl, &i'm kinda shy too so...
Oh and also, at the beginning of the school year I sent him
(and his friends) a friend request on facebook but he never accepted it? He just ignored it but idk...
Please help me?
Is there any way i can approach him and start talking to him? Or should i just leave it? There's only 2 months of school left and its literally driving me crazy?😪
(i'm sorry this turned out kinda long lol)
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So I have a crush on a senior year girl who is leaving school in like 2 months, and I'm in junior year, I don't have a lot of time so I gotta move fast, I already knew her before and liked her a lot, but I haven't talked to her in months, she's kinda popular and always surrounded with popular people, that kinda made me shy away other times, BUT TODAY, OH TODAY
She came to sports a little early and was there completely alone, she sat there alone just waiting for like 20 minutes, my friends who know I like her told me "you have to take every single chance, so go ahead right now" and I kept making excuses and excuses and a lot of shitty bullshit excuses, lots of them, "maybe I'll bother her" I feel so fucking looser right now, I actually felt a physical urge to go ahead and meet her, but fucking let it go, i feel so low and worthless, can you guys help me out of it? and not make these same mistakes again? pls :( | Crushes |
She lives around 4 hours away from me and we have met occasionally but once i got to work with her for 2 days.She has the most beautiful energetic smile you can imagine and such glee and joy on her face and eyes.She has the most amazing soft pitched voice.What I'm not sure is if she actually does like me or even remembers me.She mentioned to someone else that i was passionate and "cute". I don't know how she meant it.
Anyways the point is that she lives far away and we don't interact at all on a daily basis.I don't know much about her life,likes or much even about her passion.Whenever we talked it was instant connection but we had to leave and go on our own ways.I miss her so much Guys and i've no way to live near her and talk to her.Everything seems so dull.It has been like this since a month and i can't get over this crush.
Also i'm quite afraid of even messaging her since we barely know each other.I might et a job even further away from here or might even be offered one abroad and i'm so conflicted.I wanna go find a job in the city she lives in and i dunno bump into her or something so i can be in her life or something.Also she's a bit taller than me i dunno how that fits into the position.
This seems hopeless but wth.i'll post it anyways.See what you guys think. | Crushes |
So, obviously there's a girl I'm highly interested in, and she's really nice, you know one of those super nice girls. So, one day I was texting her about, maybe 2-3 months ago and you know it was cool and all. Then she suddenly stopped, and left me on delivered. Sucks. I'm thinking about dropping her a text again, but I'm not sure if she's going to respond, or if she even cares anymore about me. (Oh, she stills says hi and all whenever we see each other) | Crushes |
We have hung out twice so far and she is amazing. She makes me laugh and i make her smile and i think its just because guys don't really give her the time of day because they don't see greatness. When she smiles my heart gets all warm inside and when i tell her that i dont like but she does, she will gasp and look at me as if im crazy. Well. I am, for her. Jesus that was cheesy. So my main concern is; What if I am just thinking she is into me when "shes just not into me"(you. like the movie reference.)? | Crushes |
I'm going to ask my crush this tomorrow. I have a funny meme to show her as a way to bring this stuff up tomorrow, after class lets out, when we normally talk.
So, what would you assume if you got that sorta ''third answer''? The ''silence''/''neither a yes or no''?
I've been thinking about both the yes and the no, but how about if all I get is silence tomorrow after I ask? | Crushes |
I told a girl on my swim team I like her. This is the first time I have ever told anyone I like them. I have never kissed or much less had a girlfriend. Im 15(6'4 m) I know a good amount of girls that like me and I like them but I generally throw my social life to the side for school or swimming so I never said anything. But there was something different about this girl. I assumed she liked me since she touched me when ever she had the chance ( eg: punching my abs, grabbed my butt, and just general hanging on to me in the pool), and she calls me "bae", compliments me, and her eyes are dilated when she looks at me. So today I grew a pair when she sent me a screenshot of a creepy guy I know saying she was "hot" because she was wearing jeans and a sports bra. So I joked and said she was hot wearing that and especially her one piece suit. But then she asked me for my number so I gave it to her and she asked me if I had anything to say. Being the complete fucking idiot I am I send the words to the fitnessgram pacer test. But she didn't take that, so I told her I like her. So I asked what she thought about me and she said she doesn't know. Being the pessimist I am I'm just going to assume she doesn't like me. so now things are awkward as hell.
Right after texting that I liked her I freaked out and rode my skateboard to a pond to clear my head and write this:You’re the first person to break my shield
,now I’m exposed and confused.
My adrenaline pumps though I am in no danger.
I don’t want to seem like a creep
,but those 3 empty dots are killing me.
I’m drowning
,in your dilated eyes.
But I don’t care if you feel the same way about me.
I just had to get this elephant off my chest.
Now I just hope we can stay at least friends
if not more.
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I like this girl and we've been friends for 2 months or so. She's really quiet and doesn't talk that much. We used to text a lot but in the past week or so she stopped Responding to my texts and didn't show up to school for 5 days. She looks sad a lot and talks to herself a lot. I don't really know what to do because I've tried asking her what's wrong and if she wants to talk about it but she says she's fine but I know she isn't. What do I do??
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I take an interest in this guy a grade above me. But I'm shy to talk to him. I'm popular and stuff but when it comes to guys, I just can't do it. I want to talk to him but he's always around his obnoxious friends, and I got invited to one of his friends parties and we didn't talk their either. I'm too scared to follow him on Instagram or add him on snapchat. gosh please help | Crushes |
I work with this guy and we have become relatively close. We clicked when setting up for an event at work and we have been kind of close every since.
We are in different departments, so we interact, but not on a daily basis. This is also because he happens to be part-time. Even though we may not talk in person all the time, we do kik non stop. We both start the conversation a different times, though I notice that I start most of the conversations. We have gone shopping together and he has built a bookcase for me when I asked him to. We even have plans to see a movie this weekend.
He always does stuff for me and we can talk about anything. He is always in my cubicle and he does treat me different than the other ladies at the job. Does he like me or just chop it up to a great friendship- or both?
He is a really shy guy and I know he does not have a lot of experience with women. So should I just ask him how he feels or just let it lie. He confuses me so much and I have never analyzed my actions with a guy so much. Plus, working together always adds a bit of hesitance in situations like these. Am I kidding myself?? | Crushes |
so i really like this girl cuz she's like the only asian in my school. And I'm asian too. I added her on facebook and talked to her about like everyday. Then she stopped replying to my messages and then I approached her in real life. I asked her if she thought I was annoying and she said yes. She said I was 8/10 annoying. What do I do? Just leave her alone? Don't talk to her ever again? | Crushes |
So this girl isn't my crush but I thought I could get some insight anyway. There's this girl in my class and we would talk occasionally and that would be it. The other day she comes up to me and asks if i did the homework. I start to get it out and she puts her hand on my chest. She who my girlfriend was, what grade she was in, her name etc. I kept saying I didn't have one. She wondered why I didn't and said that i was like Prince Charming or something. Then class started and i sat down. I was thinking "was that a prank?". 2 days later, same class, I'm sitting down at my desk and she walks over and sits on my desk. She puts her hand on my cheek and asks If theres a test today. I say no and then class starts. She has a boyfriend so I was thinking its just a goof or she's just like that but I've never seen her do it to other guys (besides her boyfriend) and was wondering if you guys could maybe help me out here. | Crushes |
So i met this guy like 3-4 weeks ago, so we started talking online, he is from my school but we're just talking online, we see each other but we just say "hey" and that's it. He starts conversations often online, i saw him in school like a lot but RIGHT NOW SOMETHING CHANGED, i started like him. And i dont he see me this way, i mean he's very shy when i come around and stuffs like this and he always search for me in crowds like i do, i know every little detail where i could found him in every school breaks.
So im shy and i dont know if i could tell him i like him, he is shy too but meh.
btw sorry for my english. | Crushes |
I've had a crush on this dude for a while now, and I want to get over it... I've mostly heard of people saying to make a list of what I don't like about them, but the thing is that I've exchanged like four words with him, I really don't know anything about him. It's very clear that he's not into me, and yesterday I texted him some bs question in the hopes he would tell me to stop talking to him... But didn't work. | Crushes |
Alright so I'm a senior in high school and I want to know if you guys think this girl likes me. She's a junior and I always knew who she was because she's really hot. I cant tell if she's out of my league because I'm a senior and pretty popular so I think I Have a good chance with her. I first talked to her on New Year's Eve when she had a bf which I wasn't aware of at the time. I was hammered so I don't really remember what we talked about but we talked for about an hour and the next day I saw pictures of us really close together with her kissing me on the cheek. She asked for my snapchat but we didn't really snapchat until she broke up with her bf. I always initiated the snapchats and sometimes she would rarely respond and usually she didn't. One weekend we sent a lot of snapchats because she was going to come to a party where I was but then we stopped the next day. About a week ago she went out of town with her lacrosse team and we started snapchatting every day. Just pics of her face but they looked kind of seductive and you can tell she put effort into looking good. Until yesterday she snap chatted me first and always responded but now she hasn't responded to the last two and I can't tell if it's because she is busy because we are back in school or if she moved on. I also can't tell if she is just shy/intimidated because I'm a well known senior. I see her looking at me a lot during a free period we have together too. Please tell me what you think. Thank you. | Crushes |
Okay , so I really like this girl but I never really get a chance to talk to her as she has alot of friend s (social anxiety is a bitch) and I can't really talk in group s , pleasssse I neeed advice😧
I was thinking of asking her to our formal , when is a good time | Crushes |
I'll try to keep this as short and simple as possible. We met on Tinder and quickly got her number. She's not very active on WhatsApp but we quickly met in real life. Had a nice 1st date in a pub talked for hours, had lots of fun, no kiss at the end though
One week later I was supposed to meet her and her female friend in a bar/club together with my friend. My friend actually cancelled so I went alone. I had a blast dancing with them, we all enjoyed. When her friend went to the toilet we had a small kiss, nothing too intimate, was more like a 1 second peck on the lips, but she didn't back away either.
Next day she added meet on Facebook. Now I'm wondering when to ask her again. Also wondering how much she's into me or maybe viewing me more as a friend. We didn't do share an intimate kiss yet on our 1st and 2nd date . It's hard to gage what she's thinking of me on WhatsApp. | Crushes |
For over 4 years now I want this girl. It wasn't so bad in the beginning, but it got worse. Sadly enough I wasn't in shape in the beginning, so I had low self esteem and she immediately got a new boyfriend (he actually ditched her, she was actually surprised by that, I don't know how this is possible, but oh well). She had a lot of boyfriends. To me she actually sent mixed signals, which really annoyed me, did weird things, obviously just playing around or she is very open, who knows, but still I could never really engage her. I also know that she can be a real heartbreaker. She ditched a dude and he had a really hard time, sent even letters. I don't want to end up like that. Last time I thought I can talk to her openly (just us) and maybe I could even confess somehow, but then she came with her new boyfriend. Surprise! This really destroyed my plan. Then I thought I shouldn't interfere anymore, it would just make problems I guess.. I can't really explain why I have developed these feelings or attraction, but denial is impossible, it won't stop. That's probably like saying "stop liking chocolate", it's just not going to happen. I'm wondering if it will stop? The worst thing for me is not that I can't get her, it's actually that I couldn't tell her my true thoughts, the lack of courage.. although she probably found out or guessed it already. By the way, she moved away, so a relationship wouldn't work out anyway. Other than that I'm a weird guy, a relationship wouldn't have worked out I guess. | Crushes |
So, basically I really like this girl whom I've been friend with for a while. I never said anything because she was dating somebody who is my "friend". (Well - used to be - we've sort of fallen apart in the past years and now he's more of a 'facebook friend' than a 'friend'.)
Anyway, they've recently split and I just want to tell her how I feel but am afraid of her reaction and also they've just recently split so I don't really know how she'd take it?
Ok it sounds really simple to say "just tell her" but if it was I'd probably already have done it yes? Anyway it's really messing me up. | Crushes |
So, i have this imense crush on this girl for about 4 months but things don't really progress. She is in the same year as me but we have only one class together (sport). We usually do the exercises together but outside this lesson, which is once a week, we don't see each other and therefore we have talked only 2 times outside the gym. The 2 small talks were quite nice but also quite short and also just about school topics. Now we don't see each other for 4 weaks due to holidays. I have her number, but she hasn't got mine, so I'm not sure whether to text her and what to say. I also have to admit that I have a tremendous desire to see her or just chat with her.
I'm thankful for any sort of advice from you guys :) | Crushes |
So her mum and my mum have known each other for a few years before we were born. They moved to this city at the same time, and we live within the same suburb - a few blocks away. We go to the same school, we like the same music, and I can't stop thinking about her.
Problem is, I have no idea if she likes me or not. | Crushes |
This is a girl I liked for a while now, but never acted on it. I think she has a boyfriend, at least she did a few weeks ago when I asked.
Anyway, this is really random as we don't really talk anymore. I already know she doesn't return my feelings but I don't know what I should do. | Crushes |
So here's my situation, I have a friend that I have a crush on. Her and I have been friends for about a year now and when we first became friends I was engaged. My (now ex) fiancée liked her at first but started to dislike her when she (as well as her friends) felt like my friend liked me as she was apparently always looking at me and wanting to talk to me.
About when my ex and I broke up I got locked out (ex was passed out drunk) my friend told me I can sleep at her place if it ever happens again. And about the same week we started hanging out more. We go get sushi like once a month or maybe more, we go to movies, and she comes over when she doesn't have to work for drinks and we watch movies and TV.
But what is all confusing to me is that she seems flirtatious with me, but maybe I'm over thinking it. She playfully hits me, is always sticking her tongue out at me, and we do and laugh about stupid stuff all the time. We also talk about stuff very openly with eachother that most people wouldn't (like sex and kinky stuff) and she tells me she always loves our conversations when we hang out. And for the longest time we never hugged when one of us would be leaving, and you could tell there was a lot of like tension in the air. But now we hug, and usually she goes to hug me first.
So sorry to ramble so much, it's just that normally I wouldn't think about any of this, but I have a huge crush on her. And I think she is way way way out of my league. (Which one day she looked at me like I was stupid when I said I wasn't attractive) | Crushes |
Hey Reddit,
Long story short; there's this extremely attractive Networking Tech guy who works at my school. He's in his 20's and he doesn't teach any classes so I never actually get time with him. I do, however, see him in the halls every day and we always make eye contact. A few friends and I were at the school musical this weekend and he was there to help with tech, apparently after the show he was looking me up and down. Plus he's just so nice. My mom works at the school as well in the cafeteria and he sent them flowers as a thank you for putting up with him during testing week.
I'm preeeeeeeeeeeeetttttttyyy sure I have a crush forming on him, which is bad.
What the FUCK do I do? | Crushes |
Hey reddit, firstly, I really like this girl. Last week, my friends finally motivated me enough to go for her digits. It was a successful day, super happy. Now, I've been trying to text her, but her replies are so.. Dissapointing. Her vague replies, to give you more look, here's how it would he like:
Me: Hey, its me!what's up?lol
Her: not much
Me: oh I see... Anyway what are you doing right now?
Her: hw(homework)
As you can see it feels like she's uninterested in talking to me, like there was this one time where her friends were using her phone, my friend did the same so he took my phone and tried to fit in with that friend of hers. The next day I texted her "hey.. Its me again lol.. Just wanted to say sorry about mnyg friend, he just grabbed my phone and started looking up things on it.." And then she goes like "o, idc. She's my friend" and here's where I'm stuck... I need your help... Does she really have no interest in me? Also keep in mind that we only met last week, so we only started talking to each other last week (in person). I also need your help, how do I make the conversation longer? It seems like everytime I try to start a convo, it ends super quickly.. Also, half of my friends say that she has no interest in me, the other half says that we haven't talked that much and they told me to talk to her more. What do you guys think? | Crushes |
So ever since I started working at Taco Bell about a month ago, a beautiful tall girl, small gauges just like me :), with shoulder length Amber color hair, (coincidentally her name is Amber as well xD) caught my attention. We first start talking at work with small talk, usual stuff, and she is so easy to talk to, I don't even worry about what I'm saying it just comes so naturally. She ends up complimenting a shirt I'm wearing at the time, it was a metal band I enjoy, and thought it was so awesome she has some similar interests. Some time goes by and we keep talking at work, she let me hit her vape she just got, and I find out she likes smoking weed and chilling and edm and raves and everything I like :) She at this point, a week or so into me knowing her, suddenly is upset at the loss of her boyfriend, and I feel such bittersweet joy, knowing I might actually stand a chance with her. We end up sharing snapchats and send photos of us smoking weed back and forth, and her hanging out with her friends, and every time I see her smile, my world lights up, and I get such a goofy grin on my face, I don't know how to contain myself. I went to a rave with some friends a few days ago now, and was surrounded by beautiful girls in a Molly and LSD fueled fire, and couldn't think about any of them, or the music or anything. Just Amber. I'm working up the courage to ask her to smoke and hang out, but I don't know how the whole working together thing will work out, but I won't let that stop me from at least trying to tell her how I feel. One step at a time I suppose. I had to type all this out because I couldn't keep my feelings in my head any longer. Thanks to anyone who read this, and I'd appreciate any advice <3 | Crushes |
I have this crush. We are very good friends. So good that she told me who she likes. Of course, the crush wasn't me. As you can imagine, I was heart-broken. It has been almost a year since she told me who her crush, and I'm wondering if she still has a crush on the same person.
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I am asking for help to make a decision. Should I:
&nbsp;* Tell how I feel to get it off my chest.
&nbsp;* Wait to see if her feelings change.
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Thank you in advance. | Crushes |
He is in a couple of my classes, and I asked him to prom not too long ago. He is a pretty shy kid from what I am aware of, and is not really close with anyone, although everyone gets along with him well and he is known to be funny to everyone. I think I am one of the only girls who talks to him, and I am always sure to say hello to him in the hallways. After I asked him to prom, we have been talking a lot more. The thing is, he does not really have any social media, and he is kind of mysterious since nobody knows him. I am afraid of asking for his number too quickly, and I also have trouble starting a conversation with him because I don't always know what to talk about. I never see him anywhere else except for in classes, so I never get to talk to him privately. I want to get to know more about him, and definitely want to become better friends. I constantly ask him questions because that is the only way that I can really keep a conversation. What should I do now?
Edit: I forgot to mention that because he doesn't really talk to anyone, and he has such a peculiar personality, I am kind of worried that he just won't really have a crush on anyone. I feel as if I don't have a chance because he wouldn't really like ANYONE back. | Crushes |
Yo, so i have this crush on a very cute girl at my school. I dont really know her well or talk to her. A couple of months ago i met her at a party. I dont remember much but i know for a fact that we kissed. I've been wanting to get in touch with her so i can ask her for a date. Because i dont really know her very well and i dont have the balls to just talk to her at school, i ended up with trying to add her on facebook. She didnt accept my friend request and after a week i took it back. I dont have a profile picture or anything on my profile that shows who i am. Keep in mind this is a shy girl who does not strike me as someone who uses alot of facebook. Ofc i thought i just got rejected but i didnt wanna give up like that. I had to check if she uses facebook, so i sent her a message. I sent her a message because then i can see if she has seen the message and just ignored it or if shes just not on facebook. Its been three days and she still havent seen my message. I know there is a way you can see it without leaving a trace. Do i just wait and see if she will replay or am i rejected? Help or advice are much appreciated. Thanks! | Crushes |
I think I fell in love for the first time last year. He'd leave a sweet taste in my mouth. I hate sweets. Love at this age, 16, is pointless, nothing but distracting fun that side-track you from school and more important things. The realization made me feel angry at myself for being so weak. It gnawed at me, so I got it over with. Told him I liked him but I was doing this to get over with it and he didn't have to do anything in response. This gave me a degree of closure; load of bull that did.
The mutual friend, who was the only other one I told about this, accidentally discovered I still had a video game character named after him 5 months after the incident. It shook me up, part shame part fear. We used to be in the same class for years, acquaintances that shared interests. Luckily, we no longer share any classes.
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Honestly I've always said it's one of the better/worse feelings in the world: developing a crush/interest in someone who you feel like you don't have a chance with. It started out that I hadn't really thought too much of this person, but we started talking when it was slow at work and all of a sudden I'm like "Wow, she's pretty awesome!" Like, the point where you start to think about them a lot more, and start thinking, "is she going to be working at the same time as me tomorrow? I better get some conversation starters ready!" that stuff is great, but the self-doubt/reality of the situations just sucks sometimes. I mean, I'll take some of the bad for the good/thrill of a new interest feelings. As someone who's never really been in a serious relationship, I can't wait to see what that feels like if I think these feelings are good. Whenever I get like this I start listening to feelsy love songs too lmao. Just my rambling thoughts! Anyone have similar scenarios? | Crushes |
So my crush kissed me at a birthday party and when we text he calls me cute and adorable, that could be because I'm short but idk. He makes a lot of physical contact with me and likes to talk with me sometimes. However he doesn't text me first but when I text him he seems to be a little wierd because his responses are short but nice. IDK IF HE LIKES ME HELP | Crushes |