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I’ve been hurt in relationships before and now I’ve badly caught feels for someone on my uni course. I know that if I get to know them and they like me back too, I will end up pushing them away out of fear that this will go wrong again but I really would love to be in a good relationship again :/ I just don’t know how to navigate this shit. | Crush |
I had a crush on this girl for a couple of years. I’m beginning to think I’m in love with her. A few hours ago my friend sent me a text saying how he also had a crush on her. To make things worse I think she likes him or at the very least doesn’t like me back. I am very confused on what to do. I’ve never felt this way about someone before so the possibility of my friend dating her is quite upsetting. My hands are shaking and im at a complete loss for words. I feel like I should say something to him but I don’t know what to say. All I can hope for is that she doesn’t like him. | Crush |
So I have had a crush on someone for a year! & he is truly a fantastic friend! Probably one of my best friends!
He knows things about me my best friend of 20 years doesn’t know.
I know that he doesn’t feel the same way I do! But I need to tell him how I feel so I can move on!
I just don’t want to ruin the friendship! I treasure him as a friend and if the only way to keep him in my life if by being his friend, then that’s what i will do!
I just don’t know how to tell him without 1)sounding like a complete idiot 2)ruining a friendship or 3)ruining something that could be more.
I am really stuck and I don’t know what to do! Any advice?! How should I tell him? How do I not sound like a complete idiot?! | Crush |
So there’s this girl in my college that I just started like 3 weeks ago and from like the first day she caught my eye and I asked for her snap ever since then we’ve been snapping everyday non stop and she is so nice and like earlier this week we talked irl for the first time and it was like we clicked and I could just talk to her without a conversation topic and we could talk for ages so yesterday I asked what her relationship status was and she said it was on and off with a guy for like 2 months and she didn’t like it and that hurt so bad becasue I wanted something so bad to develop and it just seems like this random guy will just be the barrier to my happiness. This like affected me so much last night I was so sad I couldn’t sleep and today I wasn’t able to see her knowing how much I like her. Ik we’ve only known each other for a short amount but she just seems perfect and idk what to do becasue I don’t wanna ruin our friendship and she already has someone ig I just don’t know what to say because it’s killing me deep down and I can’t see her everyday | Crush |
(TW: cutting, suicidal thoughts)
hey! so, for context, i made a post like 1 month ago explaining how i had a crush on my school friend, then like two weeks later, i made another one about how i confessed to her, and she said she didn't feel the same way, but she wanted to remain friends (a response that I felt happy with) but then she just bailed and doesn't talk to me anymore, and i didn't talk to her cuz she's probably going through some stuff, I didnt want to talk to her about it, cuz it makes her uncomfortable when people she hasnt talked to just appear out of nowhere and talk about those problems, the last message i sent her, was from this Wednesday when she posted about how she cut herself, which holy shit, that single image made me cry, so i just msgd her trynna like verify that she was okay, and to reassure her she can call someone for help (i wouldve told her to call me, but that would be pretty weird to say), i just talked to her for a few minutes, trying to help as much as i could, and ig it worked? idrk
but now, to what happened yesterday, our school started reopening this week, but each class is divided by two groups of 10 people, and 1 of those groups goes to irl school one day, and then the other group goes the next day and shit, well, i applied, i went, and then i just got sent back cuz there weren't any spaces left, so, i had to go to the 2nd group, the problem is, that i would be THE ONLY PERSON that goes to a 2nd group in the whole school, obviously, i didnt accept, and i continued with taking online classes, but now im feeling like jealous asf, or idk what it is, like, its probably related to my crush, that i thought i already moved on from, or idk, maybe its just related to not being able to see my friends, and that combined with some family problems, has made me kinda depressed, ik it sounds so exaggerated, cuz like, how could i develop depression in a day? but i mean ig that i was already kinda sad and that just broke the line? idk, but now im just having suicidal thoughts and shit, so, any suggestions? | Crush |
There’s this cute girl I sit next to in class, turns out she likes me and i acted like i didn’t know so I could just see what she’s like yk. Well turns out I’ve been completely crushing on her the past couple weeks and I don’t know what to do. Should I tell her that I know she likes me and I like her too, or should I wait until she makes the first move? Please help!! | Crush |
At this point in time I only want to see my crush fully undressed for a few hours. Yet he is getting married soon. Not sure how to approach this?? Right now we are good work friends and that is it. | Crush |
I don’t even know why I like my crush tbh, but I just do, that means something right | Crush |
So I love this boy for 5 years now. We started texting again this year and eventually I realized how strong my love for him is. Long story short, he lives in America and I live in Europe.
Other then that, I know he lies about a lot of things, even unnecessary things and sometimes I even think he has NPD and all the tries to keep talking to me and „hold me warm“ are for him to get something sexual eventually.
I know that‘s a lot and that is a reason to block him everywhere and just move on. I did that 3 times and I could not forget him. I deleted the number, all photos, stopped stalking him, never every talked about him and still I couldn’t forget him after months.
Right now we are friends.
I was thinking about maybe telling him about my feelings, being honest and look what he says? I never really told him anything btw. It would be better if he breaks my heart right away, so I wouldn’t have to always wait for his text’s, calls and everything also.
So yeah, should I just tell him the whole truth, how I feel about everything? Because in the end, I can’t lose what I don’t have. | Crush |
I made a previous post about my crush, Andre. I think he’s interested in me, but I don’t know if he’d act on it, if I’d even be a priority, or if I’m even good enough for him. Some of the things that I admire about him is that he’s very hardworking, ambitious, and enterprising. However, he’s very busy and can get very tired. He works in cyber security and has some side hustles. I can understand and sympathize with that so I try to give him his space and not blow up his phone with text messages. He always seems to be happy to hear from me when I text him. So far, we seem to have similar interests and hobbies. The concerning thing is that I seem to be doing all the texting and waiting for him to respond. Is he playing games? We’re not a “thing”, I don’t want to waste my time, and I hate being toyed with. Am I being paranoid and needy? Should I confront him and tell him my feelings? Or be a lady and wait for him to approach me? | Crush |
I wanna fricking keyboard slam or something because I still have no clue how else to convey my emotions. For context there’s this really pretty non-binary person at my school who makes a lot of their own clothes and their outfits are always really unique and beautiful and I could immediately tell just by looking at them that I had a lot in common with them and they reminded me of a lot of my best friend so I was really happy to find out I had my last period class with them, fast forward like 9 fucking weeks because my lexipro only helps with my socially anxiety and not the fact that I’m a pussy and the idea of asking someone out makes me absolutely terrified. I still hadn’t become more than slight acquaintances with them and felt like an idiot for it because I sit like three seats away from them and they’ve somehow already managed to become friends with every other person who sits near them and I could have also been friends with them if I had actually made an attempt to join a conversation at literally any point in time, but anyway since it was nearing the end of the semester I was worried I had missed my opportunity to at least be friends with them and I was kicking myself for it until today when for seemingly no reason they took interest in a conversation I was having with the girl infront of me and I don’t know if she genuinely lost interest in the conversation or if she’s the worlds greatest wingwoman because as soon as the conversation was just us three she started checking her Snapchat which led to me full on having a one on one conversation with my crush and by some miracle I didn’t fuck it up, what I had expected to be a short awkward chat ended up being much more, we made each other laugh and both of us were actually having fun talking to each other. We talked until the end of class and they held the door as we were walking out. I thought they would wait for their other friends so they could walk with them but it turned out they were actually holding the door for me and we kept talking even when their friends caught up to us they still continued talking to me and the best part is they introduced me to their friends and asked my pronouns which I was really cool considering most people misgender me. I really enjoyed talking with them and I think we’re friends now! This is fucking amazing and I’m almost certain most of this post is barely coherent but I’m just really happy and I don’t know how to process this. | Crush |
So I thought I had a crush on this guy in the other class. But he acted pretty passive-aggressive against me the last time and that was a big turn-off. This is now like 2-3 weeks ago.
For 2 months I am texting this guy again, that I dumped at the beginning of the year cause he was getting too close to me when I wasn’t ready, after the situation we didn’t meet and didn’t text until now. We understand each other again and he always talks about another girl. I’m trying to help him but it doesn’t look good for him.
5 days ago we meet in person again, after 9 months or something, and idk why but since then I can’t stop thinking about him. When he was at my place he holds my hand just for a little moment and he tried to cuddle I think but I kindly made it obvious to him, that I don’t want that. Although, I didn’t feel that uncomfortable this time. And I’m thinking maybe I should of let him. The thing is: It seems as if I only have to make the first step or rather only have to be a little more responsive to the situation and he could become my boyfriend. But on the other hand, yesterday he started to talk about other girls again like what? I kinda feel like being manipulated but also I don’t think he would manipulate me on purpose. I just don’t know what to do and again I just can’t stop thinking about him in a good way. | Crush |
Well, there is this girl i like and i am very socially awkward. We are on the flirty friend stage where we both flirt and say miss u and shit. I really don't know what to do. we only met in June of this year and instantly clicked. We both share lots in common, both have social anxiety and are really good friends. We have talked about lots, kinks, and shit. But then she talked about her crush. We are in the same friendship group and if i ask her and she says no we could rick our friendship and other stuff. We have become best friends and i am quite introverted so i have decided to resort to reddit. Should i tell my crush i like her? | Crush |
So there’s this really hot guy at my school. It’s like now that I realize I like him, it like I run into him constantly. Like was he always around me this much and I just didn’t notice it??? I feel like he thinks I am imbecile because I make a COMPLETE fool out of myself when he’s around. He brings me sweet awkward. I like melt when this guy’s around and it’s quite exhilarating! I need to get rid of this crush bc I’m only going to end up hurting my own feelings… | Crush |
So there is this girl, lets call her Bob. I knew her last year, but I really didn’t have many classes with her. I am in Newspaper Class with her this year which is also lunch period. We have kind of “bonded” over being in this class together. I like Bob, and I want to tell her that, but I feel like it would just make out friendship weird if I told her that, and in a class so close like Newspaper, I am scared it would just be awkward. At a football game my friend mentioned something random about me with Bob kind of involved in this conversation. She laughed and then hugged me and said it was okay and she still loved me. I know it was probably just like how best friends say they love each-other, not really romantically but more of like best friendy. I hope someone can tell me if I should tell her how I feel and if so, how. I can provide any additional information below if needed. Thanks.
Edit: 12-20-21 We started dating!! I noticed some signs and realized she probably liked me. She’s hot as well | Crush |
So I am [17F] and he’s [17M]. I’ve had a crush on this guy for a while but honestly I have no idea what to do. I am quite awkward with men or just talking in general, so I don’t really know how to start a proper conversation. He’s friends with my close friend at school that I hang out with, and I’ve hung out with him 3 times now during our free periods at school [we were trying to study]. He’s fits all of my boxes?? He’s funny, nice, respectful, loves cats, is super intelligent, tall , clean,loves anime and reads manga ?? He also goes to the gym and he’s a bit of a dork. But he’s rlly popular with girls. The issue is he says he doesn’t date because of his religion, but we only know that because we did some digging.
Last year he wasn’t noticed but since he started going to the gym and got a glow up he’s more popular. My friend told me that he also doesn’t know how to speak to girls, but honestly I think he is doing pretty well, he doesn’t even need to try.So my close friend became friends with him only recently when he popped up to her to answer a question about an anime. She’s super pretty and sociable and it seems like he enjoys talking to her and they text kind of occasionally. She told me she kinda liked him but stopped, and now she’s kind of back to liking him again but not in a crush type way, she’s interested.
So when we hung out we kind of talked just about school and stuff and last week on Friday before the weekend we were talking and I found out he shares the same favourite anime as mine, so I had fun having a mutual conversation with him about it. We get along good but I think he gets on better with my friend. Personally I don’t think I’m pretty, so it’s just a bummer.
I found an excuse to text him as he was looking for something in tiktok so I sent it to him Friday evening and he replied in the morning. I also opened a conversation about another anime that was on his Instagram highlights but now he hasn’t replied for more than a whole day. Issue is I think he is the type to always be on his phone so I’m sure he’s airing me.
My friend knows I like him so we aren’t in a competition but I feel like she low-key feels like she has the upper hand.she is telling me to stay patient and see what happens but I dont know because he’s surrounded by a lot of girls and he seems to definitely like my friend more.
This might sounds weird but for some reason I’ve been getting like ‘signs’ from the universe. I believe in tarot and card reading and I did a reading and they both indicated that there is going to be some love in my life and that a man is going to come in that is the same age as me, although it’s not definite since I don’t have much experience with them.I’ve also been getting those weird “he likes you back” tiktoks and also gave specific detail multiple times about his appearance and zodiac sign which I never got before , so I found it weird. (If anyone wants more detail about it exactly I’ll give some)
I was considering confessing to him if our friendship develops.
Long story short, I need help pls. | Crush |
And it only makes me like her even more 😭 | Crush |
so, i have a crush on this boy that i go to school with, i know him through some other friends and have out with him outside of school. unfortunately, we don’t have any classes or lunch together. when i do talk to him it’s only texting. when i text home he sometimes doesn’t respond which is completely okay, he’s a busy person. but is there anyway i can talk to him more? | Crush |
So there's this guy I have had a crush on for like 4 years now. We live in different cities yet we meet once a year in a reunion with everyone for just 4 days. After that, we never see each other.
I am usually a shy person so talking to a crush was never an option for me. But I tried my best and tried to seize a lot of opportunities but the talking doesn't work out. I couldn't even gather the courage to ask him for a picture with me. Anyways, but apart from that, I can feel it when he casually drops hints that he might like me too. My friends agreed to this theory a few days earlier when I told them a few of our memories together. So, I've decided to finally gather up all my courage and actually talk to him. The reunion's next month, 29 days to be exact. It's 4 am as I'm writing this and I'm freaking out.
Can someone help me out with the basics so that I don't make a fool out of myself in front of him? :'D
Seriously, it's this year or never. (Or better luck next year ig?) Thanks for hearing me out ❤️ | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy. it has been for 2 years since I liked him and every time I talk to him I always do something stupid like shipping him with my best friend. obviously, they get together and I always get hurt, but during lockdown, I did the most stupidest thing I've ever done in my life by getting him away from my life because I can't bear myself getting hurt and jealousy but the more I said bad things to him the more I get hurt. But then during summer, I heard that he and my best friend broke up it kinda made me happy but at the same time hurt because when I heard them they broke up he stop messaging me and now I recently heard that he found someone and I just want to move to another school just to forget him. | Crush |
So, I'm in my first year of community college, and, well, I have no friends. Everybody is really silent and I'm already already a pretty shy guy, and sometimes I just wish someone would walk up to me and start a conversation. Well, one person did. This girl, and through the really, really, really, really, really, unlikely chance she somehow sees this post, I'm going to call her... Jane.
Anyways "Jane" randomly one day started a conversation with me about, I don't know, maybe four weeks ago at this point (we only have 1 class together mind you) she was talking to me about basically myself and whatnot but I was super awkward about it. I was uh, waiting in line to speak with my teacher after class so I didn't really say much other than "thanks" and "nice to meet you." Anyways, I left class and from there I never really talked to Jane much, well, nothing more than saying hi to her and what not every now and then. But, one day she tried another conversation with me while I was waiting to speak with my professor, and I was still super awkward. But this time at the very least I actually acknowledged her a bit more, and after that I noticed her more in class. She's kind of like me, I may not be the smartest, but to make up for it I always speak the most in class, you know, not to others but when it comes to answering questions and stuff, I'm basically the teacher's pet. Well, out of all the girls in class she's the most talkative in that way as well, and she's really smart. And, I think with her being super smart as well as kind of cute I have a crush on Jane now.
I talked to her last time I was at school which was last Wednesday, but this time I wasn't nearly as shy or meek. I ran into her while she was going for extra credit tutoring. And then I told her my name because apparently she didn't know my name, which is fine. I should also make it clear she went out of her way to speak to me here as well... I mean, I'm not saying she likes me back, but out of all the guys in class I'm certain I'm the only one she makes an effort to speak to, and she keeps speaking to me even though I'm a dork, so uh, you tell me what you think that means.
Anyways, I want to talk to this girl more. I mean, all we've talked about so far if I remember correctly is school. We don't even sit in the same place in class, I sit, like, usually three rows behind her. And yeah it's college so we don't have assigned seats, but at the same time I feel it'd be awkward if I just randomly sat next to her. But that's basically all I have to say, any advice for what to do to get to know her better? I don't think I ever liked a girl this much to be honest, well, bar any of my exes. So please, advice? | Crush |
Ok at first i learned that my crush has a girlfriend.It made me sad but i decided to be friends with him because he seemed a very nice guy, funny,caring ect.But later i foud out he flirts with other girls and is cheating on his gf.He used to flirt a lot with me too, but he ended up saying that i am a very good girl and i don't deserve to be hurt! Now we still talk...He stopped the flirting part and he is caring towards me...However our friendship is getting cold, there are times he ignores me completely, other times he is being passive-aggressive or does things to hurt me in purpose...I care about him alot and i care about our friendship too. | Crush |
So, for context, on my last post, i told u guys how i confessed to her, she said that she appreciated my honesty and wanted to continue being friends (response that i felt satisfied with), but after a few convos, i noticed how she started to talk to me coldly, and right now i dont even talk to her, i only send her like a message every 2 days (obviously i want to send her many more messages, but i dont wanna annoy her), so, i just wanna ask, how do i forget about her? or is there another thing that i can do so that i recover my relationship with her? | Crush |
My crush doesn’t like me back. She can’t stand me because of how obsessed and crazy I am over her. Last night I had a dream that I tied her up to a chair and sexually assaulted her and that I had no problem doing it and that I enjoyed it. I even woke up from it being horny. I know it’s messed up but what does this mean? | Crush |
Hey, so I like this girl I mean I really really like her. I have known her for 2 years and feeling this for almost 2 years. She a friend of my family. We see each other frequently at family get together but we r so awkwardly silent now. We had an unofficial date, we hung out at the library just the two of us. Had coffee chatted it was so good. Then there was this one time where I was Sitting alone and she came and sat with me talked and the others thought there was something going on between us lol. AMD one time I was sitting alone at the front room and she came there and we talked and when families started to come there she went I think she didn’t want them to think there was something going on between us. Presently I text her in instagram but it’s more like she’s replying and am asking question. I actually love her. And I don’t know if she’s into me.., got any advice?. Thanks. And am 21 and she’s 18 btw
And sorry forgot to add this…. I wished on her b day exactly at 12 texted a lot for like 2 hours straight. So I was kinda hoping that she likes me so I thought she was gonna wish me on my b day but she didn’t so I felt so down so as a result I was angry I unfriended her deleted all her texts and contacts didn’t talk to her since July and after that am talking to her now. I thought I was over her but clearly not. I love her a lot. | Crush |
Past (June-September 2020):
I used to like this girl a lot and we talked so much and she definitely had a crush on me. She knew I liked her and I knew she liked me. It was my first ever serious crush and I was going to officially confess my feelings for her soon. All of a sudden she started getting really distant and didn't talk unless I messaged her. (Yes, we were talking mostly on messages as in person at school was awkward and I felt like my friends would judge me and ruin it). Well one morning she said she wasn't ready to get into a relationship yet and that we could still be friends. I thought: "ok, that is fine, it is only high school anyway." She got into a relationship with another guy a week later. I didn't get that mad since it was only a high school crush. This is just the backstory so you could get to know what it was like.
Present:
I got over her in like 2 months and haven't had a crush on her at all since, but last night (I don't know why), I had a dream with her in it (nothing NSFW) and it ended with me hugging her (which never happened in real life - I have never hugged a girl outside of my family lol). I think that dream has brought back a bit of feelings for her. Maybe she was always at the back of my mind but I never paid attention to it. I just have no idea why I had a dream about someone that I thought I got over.
TL;DR: I had a dream about my ex-crush last night and I don't know why and I think it brought back feelings. | Crush |
It’s been a year since we first started to get in touch. Man she’s so fine!
5-6 months later I stopped message her back… I made our conversations dry on purpose? I think I was just tooo afraid that she didn’t like me back the way I liked her.
Imma be real I was soft, I was blind cus the way I acted… that wasn’t really me.
Looking back at what I wrote is… I was that pick me guy, shits hard to say but that’s the way I was then.
She’s the first one that I think I’ve actually really felt in love with (FYI I’m 18😶🌫️).
I’m still imagining scenarios of us together doin sum chill, just hanging around you know… I really think she’s the one.
Y’all don’t understand how bad I want to write to her or just say sum! She’s shy too so this ain’t easy, this ain’t even my thing writing my feelings like this on Reddit but, I can’t write to her so I might just write it to y’all. I just wanna @ her IG and show y’all how gorgeous she is! Anyways have a blessed day y’all | Crush |
Hello, 27F.
Crushing on 28M.
Met him on a trip with friends and have only known him 3 days. But we kinda clicked in terms of sense of humor and conversations.
I have a massive crush on him to the point that he’s all I think about. But we aren’t really friends. He lives in a different state.
Should I tell him I like him?
We’ve spoken a bit since the trip and while my friends think there is a spark, I can’t tell at all. He’s not a good texter in general so I don’t know?
Also, I’m not attractive, (not being modest, it’s the truth), so I’m sure that counts against me. I’m overweight and he’s skinny AF.
I don’t know what to do because I’ve barely even had any crushes before and I keep thinking about him obsessively. | Crush |
Okay so I first met my crush through a twitch stream. I like watching streamers play Apex and he just so happened to play and I really enjoyed the way he was playing. I would comment on his stream and it eventually led to me finding him on Twitter and realizing we went to high school together! So boom I follow him and we just mutually share an interest of playing Apex when we’re able to and me watching his stream. I love the way that he thinks and the way that he talks (I hope that doesn’t sound overboard weird) but it’s a way that a person carries themselves that honestly makes them so attractive. I don’t want to tell him that I’m crushing and that I find him attractive because I’m not sure how he’ll take it. So I just keep my feelings to myself and continue supporting his stream and interacting with him SOMETIMES on Twitter to let him know that I’m pretty nice and friendly :) | Crush |
I've been talking to her for a while. I asked her out. She said "as friends". Not perfect but still good. Though it's becoming more and. Ore obvious that she doesn't even want to do lunch as friends with me. Her friends are telling me to move on, and I had an epiphany that she'll never see me as more than a classmate, and once the class ends, more than nothing. I'm canceling lunch but don't how to phrase it that doesn't sound like im blaming her. | Crush |
CRUSH-GUYS HELPPP! So ive liked this guy for like a year two years ago and he found out i liked him and i think he did too but like 4 months later my "friends" told him stuff about me and were saying rumors about me to him so he started to hate me. He hated me all of last year and literally told me he didnt like me very much in front of m face???! So fast forward to this year and HES IN MY CLASS I KID U NOT, he sits next to me the firt day back he kept putting his head down at me, didnt clap for any of my presentations we did on American history purposly but he clapped for everyone else. Two weeks later and all of a sudden we started snapping again and he keeps looking at me in class ans trying to start conversations with me or like talk when me and my friends are having a conversation. Its really toxic but i feel like he likes me but he is talking to another girl and thats a whole other story like they are full on half dating. Im trying to focous on school more so i can get amazing marks and while i was studying in class hes talking rlly quietly kinda directed to me AND U WONT BELIEVE THIS he says somethinb random i turn my head to him and laugh and when i looked up we made eye contact for like 2 seconds. AWKWARD BUT THEN HE KEPT LOOKING AT ME. idk if the other girl even likes him the whole relationship stated toxic and will end so bad but idk i feel that he likes me. Do you think hes gonna ask me to homecoming? | Crush |
I had a dream that I kidnapped my crush. She’s much bigger than me and I can’t lift her but in my dream I was able to carry her when I knocked her out | Crush |
So like some backstory:
I have had a crush on a girl for like 5 years now, and like i never really talked to hee for 2 years cus we were in different classes, then i switched schools and she also went to my wchool, first year almost no contact cus different classes and in the 2nd year we were in the same class but i was closer with her best friend we rarely talked cus i kinda avoided her, my crush on her kinda disappeared that year but it came back when i saw her walking with a guy its weird cus theyre just friends and i dont even know if i like her | Crush |
Well, basicly the thing is that my crush and I are both in a whasap group (with some friends) in which we meet from time to time to go to the movies or whatever, and the other day my crush and I didnt stop answering each other with stickers and stuff. But what makes me nervous is that the other day that we spoke privately, I sent him a meme and from there he sends it every time we are in the group, it has become like a joke between the two of us, and I don't know if he using it that way is considered flirty, like he is teasing me. The funny thing is that only the two of us understand each other when he sends it and the rest just don't know what's going on lmao , also the group chat basicly looks like a conversation between him and I 💀💀 | Crush |
:) If i reach 125 upvotes a follow up post will come | Crush |
Hi, I’m 23 (M) and need perspective, single for a few years, since late 2020 while on Instagrams mutual and recommended follows looking for particular friends, I stumbled on a profile of 20 (F) girl we’ll call K who lives ~5 hrs away and shares my faith and mutual ig friends, at the time left it alone, when asked a few months back by cousins about her I found her page was private so I followed, accepted but not followed back and I couldn’t help but wanting to reach out. There’s a convention in fall and she MAY go (church related) and if she does i wouldn’t want to embarrass myself if she’s not interested, i feel it’d be odd to just DM as we haven’t met irl, if we were actually in person I it’d be different. As an Internet stranger i can’t think of a valid reason to introduce myself cause if it was me I’d reject it but idk cause i haven’t said anything….. help? Also if you have questions ask away | Crush |
I feel so ashamed of myself and embarrassed and incredibly guilty for stalking my crush. I don’t know what got ahold of me. I don’t know what led to me being so obsessed with her😫 i took it way too far. I realized it a little but I ignored and disregarded the fact that I was hurting her and making her feel so harassed to the point where she felt she needed to file a restraining order against me😩 I am so sorry 😣 it’s so unlike me to do this to someone. My friends and I would’ve never thought I’d be a stalker | Crush |
for a little back story I know this guy and we go to the same school, i met him at the target near my school but he with his friend and we’ve been friends ever since. He’s two years older then me but i’m not sure if he likes me, we don’t talk out of school but he always says that i’m short and we’ve talked only two time out of school and one time i hung out with him and his friend group before school started. i’m basically having him say this to me everyday but i’ve liked him since the moment i met him. | Crush |
My friend said to my crush that I was tryna get at her and she just laughed. He also asked about another guy and she said no, I just acted like I didn’t hear anything. And when I was about to leave I shook everybody’s hands except for hers. But then my friends said aren’t you gonna shake your crushes hand, she definirle heard it and then I shook it and she giggled and said bye. | Crush |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too!
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided for numerous reasons that I will tell him.
1. Worst case scenario is it might be a little awkward for a bit if he is not receptive, but he seems like a genuinely good guy so I don't expect it to be incredibly awkward at all. And I won't be hurt by the rejection if that's what does happen.
2. Best case scenario is we get to know each other more and maybe it develops into something more meaningful.
3. If somebody had a crush on me, I would want to know.
4. I am a very bold and straightforward person and I do not like carrying this secret around with me. Maybe that is selfish, but it is what it is.
So this Friday I want to tell him because we don't work weekends and this would give both of us some breathing room and less room for awkwardness. I am hoping maybe we run into each other on the way out of the office. Obviously this exact circumstance may not happen, so this is more a tentative plan pending a window of opportunity presents itself.
I'm nervous but also really excited. I am a pretty peppy positive person so I treat everybody with the same happy attitude so I do not think he will expect this necessarily and I hope it doesn't take him aback too much.
He's just so fucking cute and even the minimal potential that something could come of it is a really nice feeling. | Crush |
My crush is too shy to admit he likes me so he's an asshole to me. This is a grown man, btw.
Anyway, I adore him but he's stupid. | Crush |
Guys shes nice and touchy with everyone but me 💀 ans also is mean to only me💀 but we are close friends and i liked her since we’ve met and thing is today we had a test ans one of our classmates told me to sit in front of him which also required me to sit next to my crush so i could cover him while he cheats in test i was about to sit down but my crush prevented me to sit in jokingly way and then i got on my old seat but she’s very nice and touchy with everyone but me to me shes jokingly mean and subtly touchy and she also started copying my slang couple of weeks ago and calls me nerd sometimes probably cuz one of our friend started to call me “nerd” sometimes. HELP YA BOI OUT 😈be ruthlessly realistic what you think | Crush |
Is it ok to leave someone on read if the conversation seems like it’s run it’s course? and I don’t wanna respond with an average “lol” or something like that. I don’t mean it to be toxic or ignoring her I just don’t know what to say or keep dragging it on. | Crush |
I just confessed to my crush and I’m absolutely terrified | Crush |
The place that I live in, has holidays. My family decided to go for a staycation of one night at a resort a bit away from home. Only to find my childhood crush and family there too, on the exact same days. We’re now adults (me just graduating in one year and he graduated one year ago). We don’t speak, but when we bumped into each other in the resort, his face lit up and we had a brief convo. I just loved living the time again, and he still gives me butterflies. And I know his family very well because me and his sibling are childhood friends 🙈
The coincidence was extremely weird… I am guessing its a hint 🙊 | Crush |
we met a few days ago and she invited me to a local concert last night with some of her friends. she's very flirty but she has so many friends it's hard to tell if that's just her personality or if she likes me. but we hung out like the whole time and it seemed like she was focusing much more on me than anyone else..i just don't know | Crush |
I have a long time crush on one of my college mate from college. I never had conversation with him as he is from different department. He started to notice me and got to know that I like through our mutual friend. My feelings for him didnt change for years. So I confessed to him on my 7th semester through text. He politely apologized and said that he had no such feelings towards me. I was heartbroken and took a step back. We were awkward around each other after that and to add more to it I was put along with him in a group interview. Sat next to each other. 😑 I bluffed like anything as dont know what to say in the interview as he is sitting so close to me. I failed that interview. But still that moment was something I remember till I die. 😁 I tried making convo after college days, but he ignored. After 3 years.......
I saw him on instagram, and gave request. He accepted and followed me back. I was on cloud nine. But I dont want to go again start convo again and get ignored. So he texted me back after a week or so 😬 We had a formal conversation of Hi, how are you doing, what you are to, career..etc. and thats all. After that no texts from him. He checks out my story and posts. I used to post stories that he can start conversaion with. But he didnt. I wanted to get to know him very badly. He just woke up all my shutdown emotions and I wanted him to be part of my life badly. I just cant move on from him. I cant get him out of my head. I want to know more about him and if it clicks i want to take it forever. I dont how to start a convo with him gain...its been 8 moths since his text on insta. I want to know what he feels towards me now. Is he ready for relationship or does he have any changed feelings towards me???? What should I do now? I just want to have frequent convo with him and get to know about him first before making any confession to him again. Help me out.
PS: Im 25 he is 26, both working in different places. | Crush |
I need help. I have always been the loser in school who gets made fun of until this school year (11th grade). During quarantine, I grew to 6'1, lost a lot of weight, and I'm a completely new person. This school year, IDK if I am delusional or not but it just seems like everybody likes me. I don't have any experience with girls so it just frustrates me trying to figure it out, it is like 10+ girls. Whenever I ask my friend to ask if they know me, they always say they don't know who I am which confuses me too, and all my friends call me delusional.
Signs: - stares with smiles, intimidated kind of stares, this one girl covered her face with her hair and was like looking at me, this other girl stared at me for like 20 SECONDS when she was supposed to be presenting to the class and her partner was just talking the whole time, this other girl that sits in front of me at an angle turned her torso towards me and was talking all softly, they stare at me through the door, giggle at like almost everything i say even if it's not funny, they say stuff out loud that only i would know about, i was laughing at a video with these girls and the girl i thought liked me looked like she was going to cry, another girl bumped into me in the hallway and when i was like "oh my bad" she went off giggling it looked like, i say thank you a lot, so when this girl came back from the bathroom she says "thank you" softly looks directly at me and then giggles.
All of these stuff happen, so they just make me feel like i am seeing things or there is something wrong with me. Mind you, I've never experience anything like this, so I am just very awkward and stuff. Idk if my friends are just cockblocking me heavy or I am delusional. This one girl I liked since freshman year is the president of this one club. She posted this flirty tik tok which literally described me, and when I told someone about it they said "she doesn't know who you are and she thinks you're weird". That is the guidance counselors niece btw. When I snapped her a question about the club, she told me "anyone can come" and I said "oh okay cool" and she says "yea bring your friends" and I said "sounds good". She replied EXTREMELY fast too when I texted her. For someone who apparently thinks I am "weird" I thought that was strange. This other girl I liked moved on to this other dude bc i didn't know if she really liked me or not. When i gave her eye contact in the hallway she looked almost embarrassed to be with the dude in front of me. | Crush |
We met the night before in an office team dinner. As I was helping organise the dinner event, I was tasked to come up with a game that we can all play as a team (we had around 100 people consisting of smaller teams). As I went around asking ideas from the sub-teams, I met him when I approached his team's table. I introduced myself and eventually with the help of his team members we started playing a game. It was fun until the dinner began. I was sitting alone in the front as my friends were either busy or already out to get the food from the buffet placed in the hallway. His and my eyes met and he asked me if I wanted to join him to get the food. His team and I went to get food but later I came back to join my team to eat the food. We did bump into each other a few times, when we smiled and even had a few interactions. I became friends with one of his team members and later when I was leaving, I requested them to wave at me first as I was bad at remembering people who I have met only once for a brief time. The next day in office, again twice or thrice when he went past my cubicle, we smiled at each other and waved. Later that evening, when I was having coffee with my friends in the pantry, he had also come with his team for a break. As he was coming into the pantry, our eyes met, he called out name smiling and he walked over to my table with his box of fruits (which he was going to eat to break his fast for the day) and insisted my friends and I take a fruit piece (first me and then my friends and then eventually again me... so I took two pieces). He didn't have to come over and share his fruits, but he did. Is he just a sweet guy or is he maybe interested in me? | Crush |
i have been talking to a girl that goes to my school on snapchat and we have texted a lot, we also have been facetiming until pretty late(1-3 am). i like her, i think she likes me but although we usually talk 1-2 hrs a day at least she ignores me in school. on a call with her, i asked her about it and she brushed it off. she was asking some of my friends if i liked her and they (ofc) gave neutral answers. idk if she likes me or not.
if not, i am a dumbass.
if so, i still am a dumbass. | Crush |
Ever since I met him....he was such a cool guy.. does he like me?.. | Crush |
Okay so I (18f) met this guy (19m) at a party. He asked me for my number and then we matched on tinder. He started texting me a fair amount and we smoked together once with nothing happening. He continued to text me (but he’s bad at replying so even though he’d instigate convo he’d take at least 2-4 hours to respond) and eventually asked me to smoke again. We watched a movie and it took him like 30 minutes to even grab my hand to hold it. I ended up leaving after the movie because he never made a move even though I feel like I was fairly obvious (ie, leaning close to him, eye contact, laying my legs on top of his). I thought we were not gonna happen after this so I was like whatever but now he’s added me on Snapchat. I just have no clue whether or not this guy is into me and just shy or if he does not like me at all | Crush |
As the title says... I became too obsessed. I stalk her everyday. I try so hard to hide my feelings when i'm with her. I cry myself to sleep every night. Today i liked one of her posts by mistake and i feel so bad.
I know she likes me, even the slightest. But the talking stage or whatever the f... is that scares me the most... I am extremelly boring for today's standards. I listen to weird music, I have odd hobbies, no friends, no brothers. I come from a boring family that knows only work and sleep...... no many life experiences. i sit in my room alone everyday..... Many say i'm an amazing person... but that alone, won't keep her by my side. I am tired of this loneliness.... it kills me. When im with her i just behave like a normal person..... and when im alone i feel physically ill | Crush |
Well. There is a boy I really like. and I met him in my freshman year and he liked me. but because of covid we stopped talking. Now in my junior year I don't have any classes with him but my friend does. So I spent my entire junior year having a crush on him but never talking to him. Until a month ago he invited my friend and me to see a movie. but at that time it didn't seem like a good idea to me because maybe he did it so that my friend wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I think he likes her. but in the end I went because no one forced him to invite me and if he had wanted to be a date with my friend he would have invited only her. The point is that three days ago I told him about two in the morning that I liked him. "Anthony I like you" . The next day he doesn't say anything and he just asks me. "what time did you sleep yesterday?"We have talked a bit through messages but he never touched on the fact that I told him I liked him. Yesterday I saw him after school and I tell him. "Are you mad at me?" He says no that if he had said something. I said no. he asked me if I had said something and I told him no. Then he said goodbye and that's it. I told my friend and she just laughed at me and told me. "There, he sent you to the friend zone".
She talks a lot with him and today and she told me that he's gonna travel to math next week for advisory. She said that she wanna go too. And told me to go with her. But I don't know if I should go. Would it look bad? | Crush |
Sounds dumb, I know.. but there’s this guy and he’s pretty cool. Always saw him around campus, and my friends know him. We’re not like close personally. Well, recently he has followed me on social media and on strava (we’re both runners and bikers) and he always likes my Instagram stories and what not. Well last week I spoke up in front of my school at our community meeting and after that he came to me in the parking lot at school and mentioned how I made a great point and what not which made me feel really good. But after he was like “well, have a nice day dude.” And walked off. Maybe he friend zoned me? I wanna start talking with him more or maybe invite him to go on a strava walk. Idk.. we’ve just never talked before other than occasional eye contact in the halls. What do I do? How do I start talking to someone I have just met kind of without it being weird or awkward? | Crush |
So a week ago me and this guy fucked. It was basically the first time I met him at a HP. We have been texting ever since but a lot of ppl have warned me abt him he has a lot of red flags. i can even notice it while texting him just these past couple of days. But he’s in my head. Idk what to do. i tried stopping talking w him but every time I act dry it’s like he knows what I’m doing and starts putting so much effort in the conversation yet when I act interested he barely does. | Crush |
basically i (nb they/she 20) always felt excluded growing up because i would basically pretend to have crushes on guys bc i felt like i didnt fit in, i realized that i was pan, but then as i grew older i know i dont like guys and im only attracted to non-men so i label myself as lesbian. i lost a lot of friends because i came out to them. but whenever i get a crush its ALWAYS on straight girls. ive only had one situationship and that did not last long. i had a crush on someone that ive known for a long time, but then i realized that its never going to happen so i stopped liking them. i recently met someone new and we have a friendship and have gotten really close really fast, but i do not want to fall for another straight girl. the thing is i dont even know if i even like this girl what should i do? | Crush |
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This cute chick recently gives me the look now and then, even tho I haven't talked to her yet.. Be anywhere I see her giving me multiple glances and heck sometimes just staring at me .. I don't see any expressions tho and once it happened that we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds straight until she looked down. Her friends definitely know cause I've seen them looking my way as well prolly to report to her how I was looking and all...i was confident that she might be interested but it all broke down when I saw her id on Instagram and sent out a request to her to confirm my assumptions unfortunately she didn't respond to it and I retracted my request as well.. So now I'm at a place where I'm thinking if I'm over analysing this whole situation or maybe there is something really brewing...side note - I'm 5'10" , pretty fit and prolly it's the gym where she started giving me indirect signs by walking past me and being around my vicinity.. The usual
***update***
i finally broke the ice, but holy shit it was insane... I was returning from the gym and sat with my friends at the canteen until one of mates sported her just next to us .. Away 2 , 3 tables... And again staring and glancing at me... I didn't bother as it was not the ideal way to go talk as I had already been seated and would look creepy..i went off to bring my sandwich to my table and spotted her friend looking at me and her glacing over and over again obviously but i ignored it and acted as if I didn't spot them... They get done and leave while we're still eating but after a while she and her friend returned and stood literally *beside me* like no cap... To this I thought well ig I gotta talk now and as she was moving behind me(idk why tho) I just threw a casual thing like "I don't see U in the gym anymore" And she was smiling like anything and it was beautiful...anyways to which she responded that she is there "everyday except Tuesday" Before I could say anything else I could see her and her friend giggling and they ran away.. Now I was pretty confident that she's into me.. But today things became I must say wierd . .. I saw her at the gym.. She made it absolutely clear that she was around me by walking past me and all.. Glancing over and over again obviously... But when I went to talk to her.. She seemed "reserved" And "busy" Idk maybe she didn't want to be distracted from the workout.. Idk it just felt I wasn't welcome.. So I left without saying much and decided I won't react to her obvious stares (which she kept on giving after our interaction.. Ofc) and I kept my grind till the end of it she was joined by another of her friend and they moved into the washroom.. (Me and my buddy were working out near it) so we thought that's the end of it... But she left and came back to the gym fucking "thrice" And again her friend checking me out and all...the usual And hung out around me.... Idk wtf am I supposed to do now... Like wt????
*Update 2*
This was just bizarre and disrespectful honestly.. Or maybe I'm seeing into it too much..... Literally went upto her ... She was walking with her friend..... Who she seemed to hang around alot... I guessed her being with her friend mkes her comfortable cause usually she's nervous... But I struck up a convo and she again smiled and all was laughing and giggling.. Initially I thought it was working out well until her friend gave her a stare and she literally *RAN AWAY WITH HER* without saying bye Or anything and I really wanted to talk more.... This really pissed me off and now I'm so done I've done 2 approaches with limited reaction yet she still gives me the stares and all.... It's breaking my back now... Idk wt to do.. I feel embarrassment and regret | Crush |
STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫 | Crush |
Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, I should have something to prove first. Like go work, earn enough money, creating fortune too. Because really at this point, I am just barely a nobody. I mean yeah, I have work but not good enough. I really like her. I am also thinking, I wanted to confess my feelings through music. Writing a song for her. Come what may, whatever happens, that is it. She will have a job soon too. So I figured, if we ever got the chance to see again after the first meet up, it will not happen most likely. What should I do on the first meeting? I am nervous. And I really think I do not have the chance to be with her too. What do you guys think? | Crush |
she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.
And yah i accepted it.
So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.
And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.
Any thoughts? Should i take it as a sign. Cuz i was really looking for signs. | Crush |
He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁 | Crush |
For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.
She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her head on my shoulder and I reciprocated. After that she wanted to sleep for a bit and we both laid down on the couch holding each other. I eventually got up later to grab some water, and sat on a chair on the other side of the room not wanting to wake her up. She was not sleeping and opened her eyes, and invited me to go back with her on a couch (being a dumbass, I refused because I thought she would sleep better without me)
The same thing happened at one or two other parties, and we both fell asleep holding each other during new year's eve.
I precise that she does not drink alcohol, and had never cuddled with other people than her formers boyfriends, her female best-friend, and her family
So how do you guys see cuddling ? Is it something you can do with anyone you're close with or just with people you like romantically ? | Crush |
M15
Hello this is my first time posting on reddit
So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.
And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade below me in school so the chances of contact are low but i really want to talk to her and scale things up. Should i tell my friend? Should i attempt to talk to her? what should i do, any suggestions would help | Crush |
So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?
Side note: I would tell him in person given the chance, but I don’t see him often enough and we don’t share any classes. | Crush |
So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.
I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just trying my best with limits for now. I will do what i can do. Mehh.
Im the one who volunteer. To bring her home.
I have a bike so. Yah. I,ve added her on social media . But i dont want to talk to her. Cuz i know shes busy. She got alot of scheduled performance so i think its not the right time.
Ive been practicing alot btw just to impress her.
I just intended to be friend with her as of now. I need to respect the other guy aswell. | Crush |
Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.
I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant, but I guess is good background info to set the stage. I have been single since February 2021 after a six year on/off relationship and I figured I'd take years to move on, but I actually feel in a space where I feel good about the relationship ending and I am open to see who is out there.
He is new to the office, maybe like two or three weeks. But I actually went to high school with him and he was two grades below me in my younger brothers class. I realized I knew him and we chatted a little bit about it. At that point, I thought he was cute, but that was it.
Fast forward a week or so, and I have somehow formed a full-blown crush on the guy. We have had a few conversations here and there, nothing deep or crazy, but I really like his laid-back energy and gentle demeanor. I find it really attractive and would really like to get to know him more.
However, I typically stray away from office/workplace romances. We have a small office - maybe 15ish people - so we do occasionally cross each other's paths.
That being said, I am extremely cautious about approaching the topic with him of my attraction and interest in him. I don't want to make it weird or awkward for either of us. I would accept rejection if that were to happen. I just feel so weighted down with this secret. I always pursue things when I'm interested, so I am incredibly on the fence about whether to pursue my interest or just lay low and let it eventually pass.
I want to get to know him more and set the scene as friends, but I also don't want to ignore the attraction I have for him and pretend like it's not there.
What should I do?
Hope the crush passes over time?
Tell him that I'm interested in him?
Any advice appreciated 😊 | Crush |
So i was at my friends place with his girlfriend and her best friend for whome i have a crush. So we were just drinking and having fun now comes the question. So besides this one time she always engages with me wants to play thumb wars or something. We are sitting not like drunk but relaxed and she starts brushing my hair and says i look like a creator from my country afterwards she asked me if i want to make her a braid and i do it some time passes she asks me if i want to make her a bun i do that too. So our two friends leave prob to leave us alone and she puts her head in my lap and i start scratching her head and resting my other hand on her side. This will happen like three more times throughout the night. Afterwards we start watching a horror movie and we all lay in a bed. But only two pillows so me and her lay on that one and my friend and his gf on the other. I wanted to let her head rest on my arm so i ask her to sit up so i can get it under but instead of laying on my hand she puts her head on my chest and we cuddle btw we still didn't confess anything so we are supposed to be just friends. So time passes my friend and his gf fall asleep me and her stay to watch a movie a little longer. We go to sleep kinda spooning but like really awkwardly like ( ( really far apart idk why. So i wake up and my friend told his parents only him and his gf are going to be home so i wake up the girl and we go to the other room but in this one there was no heating it was broken or sum so its cold af. We lay down facing eachother like we are really cold btw we are sober at this point and she just turns after a few minutes spoons me like mi torso is on her back but i dont want to turn it sexual so i keep my hips away from hers and she picks up my hand and puts it around her waist and says cmon hug me. We sleep a little longer but now two days later we are kinda uncomfortable with eachother idk why and i hate it. Can anyone help me i feel like it was only due to alcohol but it cant be because she wrapped my hand around her while sober. If there are any girls would u do this without like it meaning nothing? Thank you dudes and dudeses | Crush |
I've actually been rejected so many times in my life, and I decided to never catch feelings again or think about love and relationships again. But it's always the same, I easily catch feelings and start loving the person passionately. Same experience over and over and over. And this year at college, I met this girl Carlie, she's really nice and She has the same interests I have, things started with a healthy friendship and good chats and researches and projects and now I feel like I love her. I don't want get my expectations high and I Don't want to suffer thinking about her. It's really sad I don't know what to do anymore. | Crush |
I’ve known this girl for years and ever since I met her I know she’s the love of my life. We’re really close with eachother and we used to have sex a few years back she even did have a crush on me at one point but this was years ago. How do I get her to develop these feelings back for me. I know if we get together rn we’re gonna stay together for life | Crush |
I’ve started hardcore falling for my boss. He’s become one of my good friends throughout the time I’ve known him, but the more I see him, spend time with him, joke with him, or even just be near him I catch myself staring. I can’t get him out of my head most of the time and worst part. I think it’s mutual. There’s many reasons why I can’t and wouldn’t want to make an advance his way and from what I notice (if it is a mutual interest) it seems like it’s the same reasons he wouldn’t either. I’m not sure how to deal, I want to at least know if he’s feeling the same as I am but that would require bringing up THAT conversation which would lead to so many complications in the work place and the friendship. Help. | Crush |
I’ve been in denial with this one guy for a few months now ever since he started working. I’m usually the shy type and he is one too so it’s hard having a conversation together alone.
Coming back from a rough break from work, he asked me to go to Seattle with him— of course I said yes, and it was with another coworker so it wasn’t just us two. I guess that’s when my feelings started sprouting.
I figured out my feelings a few weeks ago and I do like him.
Fast forward a few months later, I asked him to carpool with me on a 3 hour drive somewhere and he gladly said yes. I was so happy— not to mention we’ve been getting closer each shift.
…
Today, I wasn’t working with him but I overheard my managers in the back talking about someone quitting. Another person said my crush’s name and the manager said “he already quit”
I felt numb, I never felt numb in my life for someone. I was torn throughout the shift. Although I kind of knew why, my workplace is pretty much toxic. I am going to quit in 3 months because of college and I thought he would too… guess not.
I am so sad, but it’s reality.
I am planning to confess when I drop him off home from the vacation spot we planned. I have a feeling he likes me too, but who knows. I’ll miss working with him for sure. Nothing to lose right? :(
if i get rejected, then I move on. If not, then who knows. | Crush |
I’m 18 and I never really had noticed guys before 2 months ago. I went to a hockey game and I found the players really cute. Ever since then, it’s like there’s really cute guys everywhere. I guess I’ve just noticed it now. I even have a crush on a guy the gym. I never felt like this at 16 or anything. Apparently I’m a late bloomer. Because of the guys I’ve seen, I gained a lot of motivation to lose weight and really take care of myself in order to look good. So far, I’ve lost 10 lbs and feel better. I’m just super aware of these things now. I’m not good with eye contact but I hope I can work on that. | Crush |
I got the balls to ask for her number and I got it. Now what? What should I text her (keep in mind I have never talked to this girl ever expect when I went up to her and asked for it.) | Crush |
i’ve liked this guy for a year now and it started off as a pointless crush and we were practically strangers. We saw each other around and we said hey here and there and talked but as time progressed, we’ve developed into friends and we’re sort of in the same friend group, i see him three times a week for work (we don’t hang out outside of work unless it’s in a group setting) we don’t really text unless it’s for something. i don’t actually know if the feelings are reciprocated, i think it’s just my wishful thinking.
there was a party and i asked in our friend group gc if anyone was going, he then texted the morning of and asked me if i was going and suggested we go together? we also left together. theres no flirting but sometimes we exchange glances (may be just that)
my other friends know i like him and they make it pretty obvious so i’m pretttyyyyy sure he knows (not too sure, he can be oblivious but he’s smart). i was heading out and wanted to say bye and they told him i was looking for him to say bye and apparently he had this “huge smile” on his face but he called them liars? i said bye to him and he had the ‘i know you like me’ smile (my two friends and dad were also standing from afar watching like creeps with creepy smiles)
last i saw him, he took my phone and spammed my camera roll with photos of his friends and photos of me looking for my phone.
there’s been indication that he doesn’t see me as more than a friend so i don’t know where my heads at.
anyways, it’s been a dreadful long year, should i move on? my friends want me to tell him but i wouldn’t know how to approach that and it would ruin the dynamic of our friendship. | Crush |
Picture this : I’m in first year university , awkward, chubby, un-cute. I never felt good enough, I was never the girl that anyone paid any mind to, the DUFF if you will. I met this dude and we became friends. He comes to residence all the time , hangs out with me, watches anime with me. As a surprise to no one, I fell for him. Tall, blond hair, blue eyes, such a fucking pretty smile. And of course I had to open my big mouth and confess, told him I liked him, and of course he tells me he doesn’t feel that way towards me. Why would he? I decided to wallow in my self pity and tell him I can’t be his friend because it’s too painful for my feelings and he honestly didn’t even object.
Fast forward 3 and a half years and here I am. Got out of a two year relationship , Finishing my degree, I go to the gym , grew my hair out, learned how to dress better and I have my dream job lined up. And then I get the stupid Instagram message reply to my story about my classes. Mister is now two years bellow me in the same program and wants to hang out to chat about how I got into my specialty field so quickly. And of course I’m quick to say yea sure!!!!!1!1!!!
I’m thrilled. Excited to dress up and basically show off how much I’ve changed, how much better I am, how hot and cool and successful I am now. I’ve HAD a Boyfriend, I’ve played the field, hell, this week ALONE 2 guys from my gym asked for my number.
And yet, we meet for coffee and I’m right back in first year. Combing my fluffy hair, looking dumpy and awkward, caught up in his blue eyes and stupid humour. I just want him to like me so freaking badly. It’s humiliating. I’m all awkward, we worked out together and I’m just following him around oo-ing and ah-ing at his form, asking him to teach me how to squat. (I know the fuck how). God. Then I get this Fucking feeling of being not good enough, insignificant , unattractive. Just like in first year. As hard as I tried to distance myself, I guess I’m always going to be that un-likeable girl I was. | Crush |
So I finally got the courage to ask this girl, who I’ve had a crush on for years, for her number. She said yes and we started texting really well for like four days. I asked her if she wanted to grab food and she said she’d love to. We setup a day and then I waited for her to text first. When the day came around she said she just found out she was leaving on vacation a day early (was originally leaving the day after we were gonna go out). When she got back form vacation things just weren’t the same. She wasn’t really texting and even after I walked with her to class a few times nothing happened.
Anyway she said she was too busy to date right now.
It’s been about a month and schools about to end, and I definitely still have a massive crush on her. She never got to know me so I think I still have a real shot with her
Sooo, do I ask her to grab food now that school is over and she’ll have time? Or is there something else I should do? Either way I wanna do somthing. Any advice?? | Crush |
To start off, I’m in high school, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. There’s been this girl I’ve been interested in lately, but I’m not sure if I have a crush on her or not (probably a very small crush). I got to start talking to her through orchestra relations and being in the same club. What I know is I want to get to know her more, and see where it takes my feelings. I texted her saying I wanted to get to know her more, and she was cool with it and told me we could maybe hangout sometime. I don’t know how to take it from here tho. I don’t really want to make it a date yet, or make it awkward. I just want to have some fun time with her and get to know her more. Any ideas or advice on what I can do? Where would be a good place to “hangout”? My house? Her house? Some place? I would appreciate if someone with experience can help me out! | Crush |
Not sure if age is helpful but just in case:
Me: 13 y/o Boy
Crush: 13 y/o Girl
I apologize in advance for the super long post.
Not to long ago I asked my crush if I could tell her something at lunch in private (so I could tell her how I feel) . She says yes and we agree on a spot to meet up. She isn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I wait for her by our the place we agreed to meet at (I chose this place cause I needed to sit down and thought she would say something to me). She just walked by me and didn’t say anything. The next day I thought “ from her perspective I wasn’t exactly where we agreed to meet and maybe she got to nervous to say anything because I was with my friend” so I apologized about not being exactly where I agreed to be and asked if she wanted to meet up at the beginning of lunch and she said yes. Again she wasn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I actually waited exactly at the spot without any friends. She didn’t say anything though and I think she was avoiding me. However she has and is still showing signs of liking me. Here’s a list
1: I catch her looking at me a lot. She still does it after everything I talked about above. She did it 3 times today alone.
2: One time I got her checking me out.
3: One time she was walking to her class and stopped in the doorway with her turned toward me. She smiled when she saw me looking at her.
There are some other things that might be good but going into those would double the size of the post. But I will tell anyone that’s curious in the comments.
Any ideas on what she be could be doing? | Crush |
Let me introduce myself a bit before this story starts. My name is Ace and I'm a transgender guy. And I have a crush on a much older girl. Alright so I'm talking with this girl online, Let's call her Ivy. Ivy and I have been talking since the end of december 2021. In february I started to develop a little crush on Ivy. I struggled to accept my feelings for her but I kinda accepted it by now. We both agreed that we would meet each other in real life this year, while summer vacation or something. I started to give little hidden hints to Ivy since the end of January and till now she still hasn't found one, hopefully. But here's the thing why I'm thinking about waiting 3 yrs to confess my crush to her, I'm still a minor for 3 years. I'm 15 and she's 20. So I'm hoping that if I wait, the friendship will fade out or I'll lose feelings. I'm scared to confess my feelings to someone again because my last 3 crushes rejected me and that put me in a depressive state for 4 months. If I get in that depressive state again at the end of the year it will fuck up a big part of my life. I might be refused for transgender care because I'm not mentally stable at that moment or I'll need to stay back in 9th grade again like this year. So waiting seems like the best option for me but I could be wrong. Has anyone some advice for me? Or a reason for me to confess at the end of the year? I'm so fucking lost.. | Crush |
Idk what can I say. I’m an introvert and really quiet but talk to friends normally.Any tips?/ signs to be able to tell (yes I like her but sometimes she’s shown signs but she probs does it to all her friends | Crush |
I think I like this girl but she is with someone. It’s not someone I usually see so if I do decide to tell her I can just leave her on delivered if it goes wrong. She is kind enough to still be friends even if I do end up telling her but I feel like it would be awkward and not telling her is making me miserable I feel shit all the time because of it. So either way I’m gonna feel awful and regret my decision should I do anything and if so what are some upsides and downsides to telling her? | Crush |
so recently I dated this girl and she's the sweetest, coolest and at the same time fun girl I dated and coming from a history of failed online relationships, she's the first person I've dated in-person. we chatted and instantly connected so I took the chance to ask her if I can court her, she said yes. weeks of me visiting her at her own home and have that bond. It was amazing.. one time we went to the beach with her classmate and my classmate (our classmates are cousins), we take pictures and get to spend time with her romantically and as a bestfriend ofcourse. It was amazing! it's like butterflies around us when we're together. 2 months we had fun then suddenly the chats are getting cold and I'm not getting calls from her so for me, I don't know what's happening so I confronted her, she said she's too lazy to reply and I believed her. Fast forward to last week which is my last visit at her home before the tragedy happened, I lay on her shoulders and accidentally glanced at her messenger.. She quickly noticed that I was glancing so she swift her phone into her pocket and starred at me like she's scared. I smelled something fishy, then the next day, she said I should stop courting her.. saying that she isn't ready. I was in confusion because after all we've been through in those 4 months. She'll leave... I was confused - I thought things were going well but, cute pics and a simple smile isn't enough to tell the person if she/he is into you.
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if she is not ready, why sending me mixed signals? and if she is not ready, she should've said it in the first place when I asked her if I can court her. What do you guys think? | Crush |
I have no one to talk to because im not that close to anyone, but i just want to let it all out here. Basically, Im an introvert and this girl really put in an effort to befriend and be nice to me. She's pretty, smart and nice, the type of girl who can be called as campus crush in your local highschool, college or university because she's open and can talk to any guys like a friend, and here I am a somehow above-average-nerdy-looking type guy so naturally I was immediately drawn to her. Fast forward, to celebrate the end of our semestral exams I was invited to her place with her friends. We drink until we're drunk and talk a lot. As I grew tired of the noise, I went out to the balcony and had a smoke just to rest. Then suddenly she followed suit as well and talked to me 1-on-1. During that time she sat really close to me, that my left shoulder and elbow were in contact with hers; I thought maybe she's just that touchy type of person, and then she suddenly lays her head into my shoulder and I froze. I misinterpreted that as a sign so naturally I was so happy because this could be it, but I didn't shoot my shot yet because im afraid of rejection. As we continued to talk, one of her friends came out and teased us only for her to reply that she has a boyfriend. I was so devastated after hearing that that I immediately left her there and went to the bathroom and went home afterwards.
Im trying to move on from her by thinking of any possible negative traits or behaviors of her, watching many self-help videos, and trying to see other girls, but I can't. I really can't see any negative to her behavior, her academics, or her social life. I don't know whether im so blinded by my crush for her or she's really just an amazing person that I unfortunately cannot have. Im so in pain that its like she can live without me and choose any guy to be with, while for me I think she's the best person out there and it pains me to know that i really can't have her. Wherever I go, whatever i do, watch or listen to, it always reminds me of her. Im so lovesick that I can't focus on my studies, that every interactions with her kept on repeating in my head, and that whenever she's talking with a guy I get jealous even though I don't have no rights to be. I want to move on from her but i don't want to hate her. I still want to be friends with her and having space is not an option since we're on a same small batch studying for the same degree. Any idea how can i move on from her? | Crush |
So for about a month, ive been talking to a guy lets call him Nate. We werent really close before he invited me to a gc by accident, i joined their call and from there we hit it off, we would laugh together and tease eachother about our laugh. I never saw myself liking him until then. Nate is very humerous and likes to joke around a lot and so do I so it was obvious we'd be good friends. Foward a little bit and we would text eachother everyday for awhile, we'd ask eachother how our day went and go on call for hours just playing games and hanging out. But i upset him over something thag i send in the gc and it seems like hes ignoring me after that, he says im a bitch and that im annoying and now everytime im in call it seems like hes aggitated by just listening to my voice in call and tells me to shut up, it hurts and idk how to bring it up to him without being all awkward. Does anyone have any tips? | Crush |
Originally, I thought that I just simply liked her; Like, ‘I like this girl, and I wanna get to know her,’ type thing. Now I think that it’s evolved; Like the title says, I think I love her. I’ve started to feel different. I think about her often, I can’t imagine myself with anyone else but her, I imagine scenarios where we interact a lot, I sometimes feel a bit jealous of other people around her (which I try not to do), etc. | Crush |
I think I like this girl but she is with someone. It’s not someone I usually see so if I do decide to tell her I can just leave her on delivered if it goes wrong. She is kind enough to still be friends even if I do end up telling her but I feel like it would be awkward and not telling her is making me miserable I feel shit all the time because of it. So either way I’m gonna feel awful and regret my decision should I do anything and if so what are some upsides and downsides to telling her? | Crush |
I'm a noob, I've never gotten into any drama before and now I have. I'm an antisocial, shy, 8th grader who only has a few friends. I was wondering if you guys could tell me what to do because my crush (variable A) sits in front of me and his best friend behind me. I'm one of the earliest so **A** is always there and I want to know how I can get through the day... **A also know that I have a crush, but the whole thing is kind of uncertain cause my class doesn't really talk to me.** And what should I do if they approach me?
Thank you for reading...I guess 😭 the anxiety is killing me. | Crush |
I meet him a while ago and we became good friends.He has always been so nice caring and a gentleman...Until out of the blue he started being passive aggressive, he also did things behind my back that hurt me alot...He is currently flirting with another girl and he is being hot and cold to me...There are times when he is very nice to me and other times very mean...He never apologizes for anything....if we fight over something he comes later to crack jokes or try to make me laugh...I really don't understand his behavior 🥺 | Crush |
okay so this is kind of long so bare with me lol. I started liking this boy back in middle school we started talking in class and then snapping as time went on. We were best friends and talked all the time. I asked him out during quarantine 3 diff times (ik.) but he said that he was t looking for a relationship at that time and we continued on w our friendship that was in April of 2020 I’m October of 2020 we used to join his discord server to play among us and just game and talk but one of his old girl bestfriends added him back on social media and they got closer during that time and ended up dating. We were still pretty close until one day he blocked me out of no where and I didn’t know why. May of 2021 he saw my friend in the hall and they started talking and catching up only for him to say that if he wasn’t dating the girl he was now he would’ve dated me. A couple days later we all got into a call and he was talking abt how she was jealous or our friendship and thought that I would homewreck their relationship (which I would nvr do). He then told me that due to her being very manipulative he broke up with her. We would talk and FaceTime everyday and he would vent to me abt her and say how he missed me and how we would date we werent exactly dating but werent friends it was complicated. then July of 2021 he started getting distant and since I was his number 1 on snap he unadded me and readded me so that i wasnt his top spot anymore. i was hurt so i blocked him on everything. September 2021 i found out they got back together, but since we dont go to the same school my friends tell me sometimes that they catch him staring and giving them dirty looks. i still have love for him but im confused on what to do. | Crush |
So i like this girl. ALOT! and i think she likes me too, but im not sure. So im gonna tell you guys the reasons i think she likes me, and you guys let me know what you think. So sometimes she'll try to get on my back (for a piggyback ride i guess). And she flirts with me alot. And she was trying to tickle me one time (girls dont normally do that to me lol) i know this sounds kind of dumb | Crush |
So i like this girl. ALOT! and i think she likes me too, but im not sure. So im gonna tell you guys the reasons i think she likes me, and you guys let me know what you think. So sometimes she'll try to get on my back (for a piggyback ride i guess). And she flirts with me alot. And she was trying to tickle me one time (girls dont normally do that to me lol) i know this sounds kind of dumb | Crush |
This guy & I have a very confusing relationship. We’re just “friends”, but it doesn’t seem like that. Like for example, my friend m(19) puts me on his lap, and then I f(19) just hug him and cuddle with him. & we just sit like that until we decide to do something else. Like do friends typically do that shit? I like him & I know he used to like me, unsure of how he feels now, but it doesn’t make sense. We never treated eachother as just rlly good friends, but that’s what we claim to be? | Crush |
i had a crush on my friend for about 2 years now and it took such a toll on me (you can check out my previous post for all details of me crushing hard on that guy) [https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/otucde/i\_want\_to\_forget\_about\_him\_pls\_send\_support/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/otucde/i_want_to_forget_about_him_pls_send_support/)
i wanted to tell all what i felt towards him so that i could get out of my system and just move on, because i seemed to have lost a major chunk of my college life pining over him. so last night after dinner, i called him and told him i had to tell something. we met up last night and after 5-10 mins of beating around the bush, i told him that i have a crush on you and now im only telling you so that i can be free of this burden. he had no idea i had a crush on him and apologized for making me suffer these 2 years. he told that he only looks at me as a really good friend and nothing more than that. he has no plans of dating anytime soon because college is pretty stressful as is (same with me).
he told me he was really flattered that i had a crush on him and that he was super proud of my decision to tell him and get done with it. i asked him to delete all our chats and he was like let me know what else i can do to make you feel better and comfortable. we have agreed to stay as friends and he was really sweet about this whole thing (like didnt freak out or be a jerk about it, which i really appreciate)
i feel sooooo happy and relieved now! i have been smiling soo much since last night and my friends told me i was radiating with happiness. i have no absolutely no hard feelings towards him whatsoever and im simply grateful for the way he handled this whole thing. i did not want to completely cut off contact with him, because it was not his fault in any way. i was the one who went ahead and had a crush on him, and he is a very decent guy. now if he comes in front of me, i feel i can talk without feeling burdened and full of guilt, because it is all in the past now.
p.s a big big big thankyou to all those who left supportive comments on my last post, and especially those who took the time and effort to personally message me, offering some solid advice and sharing their experience with me.
with this a chapter of my life has closed and i feel so grateful for this experience as i have learnt soo much about myself in the last 2 years.
to anyone who is going through a similar situation in life, all i can share is that it gets better soo much better and dont beat yourself up over something that is human. if it is hampering your everyday life and productivity, just tell it and get done with it. it is hard sure, but dont waste your months and/or years. be prepared to accept either of their answers. it took me 2 years to come to this realization and i hope this post can motivate you to take the step you think is best for you and you alone. | Crush |
Hey! You may remember me, (Or you may not, only like 2 people saw my last post lmfao) I'm the guy who asked advice on how to stop crushing on my best friend, cuz i thought it was ruinin the relationship, well, things are going, well?
We've been talking more recently, and after some help from my friends, i did it, i confessed to her, i didn't want any relationship to come out of this, cuz i knew, that, as much as i wanted it, it would only last like 6 months, and I'd end up heartbroken, she said that, she appreciates my honesty, but she didn't feel the same, i felt happy and satisfied with the answer, but then, i felt, idk how i felt, weird? confused? cuz like, literally 2 messages after my confession, it seemed as if i never confessed, nothing changed, like, we didn't talk much today anyways, so ig i couldn't figure out if smth changed or not, but still, everything seemed so, normal, i guess i thought that when i confessed, everything was gonna go back as it was before, we talkin and callin every day non-stop, but, i guess that's not how the world works
And, what i want to know is: how do i be the guy i was before? | Crush |
not sure if i do, so you, dear redditors will maybe help me. sooo i (m) have this very close friend (f) to me. we started talkin like 6 months ago and i think theres really good chemistry between us. she helped to get trough online school, cuz shes kinda nerd. shes really smart and all and has all the notes. i must sy im also smart, perhaps smarter ;), but i do not have all the notes, so i asked her to send me and she was really nice about it , no big deal. that is how we started talking. one monnth in and we are normally conversating. at the time she was dating one of my close friends. trust me its important. his codename is mick. she dated mick which she cheated on, bc she lost her feelings. so mick was pretty mad and he started to tell everyone what bitch she is and some lies and stuff. she started to date this other guy (codename seb). meanwhile we were still taking and stuff and she had a really bad period, when her friends left her. and only i was kinda there for her. one night she sent me this ig reel that said: who saved you when you were at your lowest. she told me that i did. which really made my heart melt. i was kinda spying on mick for her. he was venting in my DMs. and i sent her screenshots, even tho she didnt see the worst ones. meanwhile we are still talkin, our friendship grows. night like every other, i was sending her screenshots and all of a sudden she said, that she really appreciates what im doing for her. im her bestie. her words, not mine. that also made my heart melt. circa 4/5 weeks later, she went on a summer camp with mick. texted her how its going there and all and she replies with hearts and idk y. i told her to casually apologize for cheating and then mind her own business. i was kinda naive i must admit. within week she dropped seb and started to date mick again. but i didnt/ still dont have balls to tell her to end it. it didnt work out first time, not is it gonna now. they look happy and all but i dont like it. idk if its because i might be jealous or i care so much about her/him. its mick first and second gf, but i know, that the second heart break will be devastating for him. even tho he was gossiping about her so much i could tell mick wants her back. he didnt get over it and so he wont when this relationship ends. and i like her so much, she is kind, pretty (recently i noticed her PERFECT lips, a bit above average tits and ass, nice legs. face-9/10 body-7/10 hair 10/10), smart, funny. we are going for lunchs at least twice a week and we can vent to each other. all-rounder. i think that word sums it up. i would not date her, because 1-she just cant stay in relationship longer than 6 months. eventually shell get bored. 2- i probably would not sacrifice our friedship for that 3- even tho i dont want her to date me (i guess...) i dont want her to have boyfriend. im prolly really mixing things up and somebody gets for sure lost i apologize. btw i got her into f1 for which im really happy. and me? im not fat, nor athletic (BMI 20 (50th percentile fo my age) exactly with metric system). my sense of humor is specific and im sarcastic. but we have some really good inside jokes. we are similiar with height. and as i mentioned im into f1. thats it i guess. our relationship is i hope good. we are close friends, we go out (on walk, to town, etc.) we have inside jokes. i can be very serious with her and so can she be with me. sometimes we bet when we are in town. last we (almost) bet if we visited this church. we should have. but i was so sure we didnt, that she didnt bet. i was right we didnt visit it. she sometimes gets "goofy " and tries to hit me even tho she knows im stronger and able to beat her up. but i would NEVER to that, or at least not on purpose. im a gentleman. not just in this situation. i literally am. i know how to behave as gentleman according to etiquette. we also experience a lot of wierd stuff together and make inside jokes from there experiences. i like spending time with her. and i can spend time with her basically whenever she wants because im not a busy person. i can arrange my schedule around our meetings shall i say? maybe i was talking off the point, but i appreciate you getting here.look... and i want to say a lot more, yet i dont know what. if i did, you dear stranger, who got here, would be here another 2 hours. thank you. feel free to ask any questions, happy to answer. btw im not native speaker so excuse me for any non-sense. P.S. she knows my reddit account so if you are reading this just know, that im not sure about my feelings, so dont expect me to know. | Crush |
ok here's the context: i'mma n o n -b e l i e v e r and he's a C h r i s t i a n. I know we are impossible but lately he's took the initiative to text me (prolly bc he's friendly) and i have been enjoying the convo so i think i may have developed a crush on him... omg (i mean he's good-looking and nice and all).
I want to continue texting him and be good friends but how do i stop liking him and also friendzone him omg please give me some real advices other than ignoring him bc he's a rly good person ;-; | Crush |
I need to gush about him.
I don’t even know how I got attracted to him. I had joined a week and a half into school (on a Thursday) and my first impression of him was that he was an asshole. I told my cousin about him (since we go to same school) and she asked about his appearance. Turns out, she had gone to elementary school with him and he was an asshole then too.
Though, the next week it shifted. I started to move past the asshole impression and I started to see more to him even though I didn’t approach him. He displays many symptoms of ADHD, and I have a sibling on the severe part of the spectrum, so I understand and usually get minor crushes on people who are different like that because they just are a little more complicated, which I like.
(I do not know if he has ADHD, I am just guessing based on his actions in classes)
This one is different. It’s not just a minor crush this time, this is a big crush, something I have never felt before, not even for anybody else.
Back to my story, that second week I started seeing him differently too, I started realizing he was in a ton of my classes (4/8 and lunch as 5) and I couldn’t help but giggle in choir a little when he had on these star shaped glasses and danced stupidly when stretching.
Third week my crush got bigger and I started getting butterflies in my stomach when I saw him around. Not too much of a difference from second week.
This week, fourth week, I couldn’t stop thinking about him. I could only go about two hours because our periods together are either one to two periods apart. I kept gradually getting bigger and I always am thinking about him.
I haven’t talked to him yet, but I’m going to start. I’m going to have to push myself a little out of my comfort zone, since I’m more shy and he’s talkative, but I’m coming up with some question to ask him. It’s going to be a little hard though it’s my friends, because he has a reputation of being annoying and getting in trouble and they think he’s more annoying. Do you think I should take it slow or go in for it. I want him to get to know me, but I also want to tell him how I feel. This is also first time I’m actually trying to be friends with some boy, too. What do you think?
EDIT: this is 7th grade, not 6th, could’ve been a little confusing. | Crush |
Hey,
I (14F) am good friends with a guy (16M) in our building. I know from 5 years. He is older than me but looks my age. He is really funny and cute. He shifted recently but in a place of mins walking distance from my house. Our families our really very close. We used to always play badminton on our terrace for 3 hours in the evening before he shifted one month ago. We decided on going to the park to walk my dog after he shifts. We went 1 day. The next day I asked him to text before leaving is he is free. He said OK but didn't go. It's been 16 days since i texted him. I want him to ask me first. His mom said that his exams r going on. So, should I text him to come or wait for him to volunteer. | Crush |
Hey, I (14F) went on a grp trip with my family and 2 more families. A boy (15M) in our grp whom I used to see before the trip in my extracurricular classes but never talked to, also came along with his family. Our parents bonded pretty well. But, I think he has a crush on me. Not that I'm complaining because he is kinda cute. But, I'm not really if he likes me. He used to always wait for me after dinner (he never did it for anyone else). He used to initiate conversations with me although there were 2 more people our age. He used to be a gentleman and always made me comfortable whenever we were talking or playing badminton with other people in the hotel. I haven't met him since 9 or 10 days after coming back. But, we'll meet this week in our classes. So, how should I act and does he like me ?? | Crush |