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Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.
**Your top 10 posts:**
* "[25 Upvotes and I will ask her out](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/reefw0)" by [u/South\_Original8872](https://www.reddit.com/user/South_Original8872)
* "[Based on a real story](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/r08wgw)" by [u/Exp1osiv3](https://www.reddit.com/user/Exp1osiv3)
* "[Im gonna send her this, what do y'all think?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/t8goe6)" by [u/justjay9507](https://www.reddit.com/user/justjay9507)
* "[my crush is an asshole.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ugr8y3)" by [u/Groundbreaking\_Bid51](https://www.reddit.com/user/Groundbreaking_Bid51)
* "[Can I get a few upvotes for my new gf](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qe11m0)" by [u/IOKDUCKY](https://www.reddit.com/user/IOKDUCKY)
* "[It feels weird but I'll allow it](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/rl796j)" by [u/sohamdutta1710](https://www.reddit.com/user/sohamdutta1710)
* "[finally told him i like him via meme and i hope he responds](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qtvv59)" by [u/Creepy\_Rub2882](https://www.reddit.com/user/Creepy_Rub2882)
* "[Emotional damage](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/tuvn7o)" by [u/moonmeetings](https://www.reddit.com/user/moonmeetings)
* "[I don't know what to say](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/scmglz)" by [u/fakescenarios](https://www.reddit.com/user/fakescenarios)
* "[I just told my crush that I like him](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ugelzt)" by [u/Toast\_Oven](https://www.reddit.com/user/Toast_Oven) | Crush |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too!
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided for numerous reasons that I will tell him.
1. Worst case scenario is it might be a little awkward for a bit if he is not receptive, but he seems like a genuinely good guy so I don't expect it to be incredibly awkward at all. And I won't be hurt by the rejection if that's what does happen.
2. Best case scenario is we get to know each other more and maybe it develops into something more meaningful.
3. If somebody had a crush on me, I would want to know.
4. I am a very bold and straightforward person and I do not like carrying this secret around with me. Maybe that is selfish, but it is what it is.
So this Friday I want to tell him because we don't work weekends and this would give both of us some breathing room and less room for awkwardness. I am hoping maybe we run into each other on the way out of the office. Obviously this exact circumstance may not happen, so this is more a tentative plan pending a window of opportunity presents itself.
I'm nervous but also really excited. I am a pretty peppy positive person so I treat everybody with the same happy attitude so I do not think he will expect this necessarily and I hope it doesn't take him aback too much.
He's just so fucking cute and even the minimal potential that something could come of it is a really nice feeling. | Crush |
My crush is too shy to admit he likes me so he's an asshole to me. This is a grown man, btw.
Anyway, I adore him but he's stupid. | Crush |
Guys shes nice and touchy with everyone but me 💀 ans also is mean to only me💀 but we are close friends and i liked her since we’ve met and thing is today we had a test ans one of our classmates told me to sit in front of him which also required me to sit next to my crush so i could cover him while he cheats in test i was about to sit down but my crush prevented me to sit in jokingly way and then i got on my old seat but she’s very nice and touchy with everyone but me to me shes jokingly mean and subtly touchy and she also started copying my slang couple of weeks ago and calls me nerd sometimes probably cuz one of our friend started to call me “nerd” sometimes. HELP YA BOI OUT 😈be ruthlessly realistic what you think | Crush |
Is it ok to leave someone on read if the conversation seems like it’s run it’s course? and I don’t wanna respond with an average “lol” or something like that. I don’t mean it to be toxic or ignoring her I just don’t know what to say or keep dragging it on. | Crush |
I just confessed to my crush and I’m absolutely terrified | Crush |
The place that I live in, has holidays. My family decided to go for a staycation of one night at a resort a bit away from home. Only to find my childhood crush and family there too, on the exact same days. We’re now adults (me just graduating in one year and he graduated one year ago). We don’t speak, but when we bumped into each other in the resort, his face lit up and we had a brief convo. I just loved living the time again, and he still gives me butterflies. And I know his family very well because me and his sibling are childhood friends 🙈
The coincidence was extremely weird… I am guessing its a hint 🙊 | Crush |
we met a few days ago and she invited me to a local concert last night with some of her friends. she's very flirty but she has so many friends it's hard to tell if that's just her personality or if she likes me. but we hung out like the whole time and it seemed like she was focusing much more on me than anyone else..i just don't know | Crush |
I have a long time crush on one of my college mate from college. I never had conversation with him as he is from different department. He started to notice me and got to know that I like through our mutual friend. My feelings for him didnt change for years. So I confessed to him on my 7th semester through text. He politely apologized and said that he had no such feelings towards me. I was heartbroken and took a step back. We were awkward around each other after that and to add more to it I was put along with him in a group interview. Sat next to each other. 😑 I bluffed like anything as dont know what to say in the interview as he is sitting so close to me. I failed that interview. But still that moment was something I remember till I die. 😁 I tried making convo after college days, but he ignored. After 3 years.......
I saw him on instagram, and gave request. He accepted and followed me back. I was on cloud nine. But I dont want to go again start convo again and get ignored. So he texted me back after a week or so 😬 We had a formal conversation of Hi, how are you doing, what you are to, career..etc. and thats all. After that no texts from him. He checks out my story and posts. I used to post stories that he can start conversaion with. But he didnt. I wanted to get to know him very badly. He just woke up all my shutdown emotions and I wanted him to be part of my life badly. I just cant move on from him. I cant get him out of my head. I want to know more about him and if it clicks i want to take it forever. I dont how to start a convo with him gain...its been 8 moths since his text on insta. I want to know what he feels towards me now. Is he ready for relationship or does he have any changed feelings towards me???? What should I do now? I just want to have frequent convo with him and get to know about him first before making any confession to him again. Help me out.
PS: Im 25 he is 26, both working in different places. | Crush |
I need help. I have always been the loser in school who gets made fun of until this school year (11th grade). During quarantine, I grew to 6'1, lost a lot of weight, and I'm a completely new person. This school year, IDK if I am delusional or not but it just seems like everybody likes me. I don't have any experience with girls so it just frustrates me trying to figure it out, it is like 10+ girls. Whenever I ask my friend to ask if they know me, they always say they don't know who I am which confuses me too, and all my friends call me delusional.
Signs: - stares with smiles, intimidated kind of stares, this one girl covered her face with her hair and was like looking at me, this other girl stared at me for like 20 SECONDS when she was supposed to be presenting to the class and her partner was just talking the whole time, this other girl that sits in front of me at an angle turned her torso towards me and was talking all softly, they stare at me through the door, giggle at like almost everything i say even if it's not funny, they say stuff out loud that only i would know about, i was laughing at a video with these girls and the girl i thought liked me looked like she was going to cry, another girl bumped into me in the hallway and when i was like "oh my bad" she went off giggling it looked like, i say thank you a lot, so when this girl came back from the bathroom she says "thank you" softly looks directly at me and then giggles.
All of these stuff happen, so they just make me feel like i am seeing things or there is something wrong with me. Mind you, I've never experience anything like this, so I am just very awkward and stuff. Idk if my friends are just cockblocking me heavy or I am delusional. This one girl I liked since freshman year is the president of this one club. She posted this flirty tik tok which literally described me, and when I told someone about it they said "she doesn't know who you are and she thinks you're weird". That is the guidance counselors niece btw. When I snapped her a question about the club, she told me "anyone can come" and I said "oh okay cool" and she says "yea bring your friends" and I said "sounds good". She replied EXTREMELY fast too when I texted her. For someone who apparently thinks I am "weird" I thought that was strange. This other girl I liked moved on to this other dude bc i didn't know if she really liked me or not. When i gave her eye contact in the hallway she looked almost embarrassed to be with the dude in front of me. | Crush |
We met the night before in an office team dinner. As I was helping organise the dinner event, I was tasked to come up with a game that we can all play as a team (we had around 100 people consisting of smaller teams). As I went around asking ideas from the sub-teams, I met him when I approached his team's table. I introduced myself and eventually with the help of his team members we started playing a game. It was fun until the dinner began. I was sitting alone in the front as my friends were either busy or already out to get the food from the buffet placed in the hallway. His and my eyes met and he asked me if I wanted to join him to get the food. His team and I went to get food but later I came back to join my team to eat the food. We did bump into each other a few times, when we smiled and even had a few interactions. I became friends with one of his team members and later when I was leaving, I requested them to wave at me first as I was bad at remembering people who I have met only once for a brief time. The next day in office, again twice or thrice when he went past my cubicle, we smiled at each other and waved. Later that evening, when I was having coffee with my friends in the pantry, he had also come with his team for a break. As he was coming into the pantry, our eyes met, he called out name smiling and he walked over to my table with his box of fruits (which he was going to eat to break his fast for the day) and insisted my friends and I take a fruit piece (first me and then my friends and then eventually again me... so I took two pieces). He didn't have to come over and share his fruits, but he did. Is he just a sweet guy or is he maybe interested in me? | Crush |
i have been talking to a girl that goes to my school on snapchat and we have texted a lot, we also have been facetiming until pretty late(1-3 am). i like her, i think she likes me but although we usually talk 1-2 hrs a day at least she ignores me in school. on a call with her, i asked her about it and she brushed it off. she was asking some of my friends if i liked her and they (ofc) gave neutral answers. idk if she likes me or not.
if not, i am a dumbass.
if so, i still am a dumbass. | Crush |
Ever since I met him....he was such a cool guy.. does he like me?.. | Crush |
Okay so I (18f) met this guy (19m) at a party. He asked me for my number and then we matched on tinder. He started texting me a fair amount and we smoked together once with nothing happening. He continued to text me (but he’s bad at replying so even though he’d instigate convo he’d take at least 2-4 hours to respond) and eventually asked me to smoke again. We watched a movie and it took him like 30 minutes to even grab my hand to hold it. I ended up leaving after the movie because he never made a move even though I feel like I was fairly obvious (ie, leaning close to him, eye contact, laying my legs on top of his). I thought we were not gonna happen after this so I was like whatever but now he’s added me on Snapchat. I just have no clue whether or not this guy is into me and just shy or if he does not like me at all | Crush |
As the title says... I became too obsessed. I stalk her everyday. I try so hard to hide my feelings when i'm with her. I cry myself to sleep every night. Today i liked one of her posts by mistake and i feel so bad.
I know she likes me, even the slightest. But the talking stage or whatever the f... is that scares me the most... I am extremelly boring for today's standards. I listen to weird music, I have odd hobbies, no friends, no brothers. I come from a boring family that knows only work and sleep...... no many life experiences. i sit in my room alone everyday..... Many say i'm an amazing person... but that alone, won't keep her by my side. I am tired of this loneliness.... it kills me. When im with her i just behave like a normal person..... and when im alone i feel physically ill | Crush |
Well. There is a boy I really like. and I met him in my freshman year and he liked me. but because of covid we stopped talking. Now in my junior year I don't have any classes with him but my friend does. So I spent my entire junior year having a crush on him but never talking to him. Until a month ago he invited my friend and me to see a movie. but at that time it didn't seem like a good idea to me because maybe he did it so that my friend wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I think he likes her. but in the end I went because no one forced him to invite me and if he had wanted to be a date with my friend he would have invited only her. The point is that three days ago I told him about two in the morning that I liked him. "Anthony I like you" . The next day he doesn't say anything and he just asks me. "what time did you sleep yesterday?"We have talked a bit through messages but he never touched on the fact that I told him I liked him. Yesterday I saw him after school and I tell him. "Are you mad at me?" He says no that if he had said something. I said no. he asked me if I had said something and I told him no. Then he said goodbye and that's it. I told my friend and she just laughed at me and told me. "There, he sent you to the friend zone".
She talks a lot with him and today and she told me that he's gonna travel to math next week for advisory. She said that she wanna go too. And told me to go with her. But I don't know if I should go. Would it look bad? | Crush |
Sounds dumb, I know.. but there’s this guy and he’s pretty cool. Always saw him around campus, and my friends know him. We’re not like close personally. Well, recently he has followed me on social media and on strava (we’re both runners and bikers) and he always likes my Instagram stories and what not. Well last week I spoke up in front of my school at our community meeting and after that he came to me in the parking lot at school and mentioned how I made a great point and what not which made me feel really good. But after he was like “well, have a nice day dude.” And walked off. Maybe he friend zoned me? I wanna start talking with him more or maybe invite him to go on a strava walk. Idk.. we’ve just never talked before other than occasional eye contact in the halls. What do I do? How do I start talking to someone I have just met kind of without it being weird or awkward? | Crush |
So a week ago me and this guy fucked. It was basically the first time I met him at a HP. We have been texting ever since but a lot of ppl have warned me abt him he has a lot of red flags. i can even notice it while texting him just these past couple of days. But he’s in my head. Idk what to do. i tried stopping talking w him but every time I act dry it’s like he knows what I’m doing and starts putting so much effort in the conversation yet when I act interested he barely does. | Crush |
basically i (nb they/she 20) always felt excluded growing up because i would basically pretend to have crushes on guys bc i felt like i didnt fit in, i realized that i was pan, but then as i grew older i know i dont like guys and im only attracted to non-men so i label myself as lesbian. i lost a lot of friends because i came out to them. but whenever i get a crush its ALWAYS on straight girls. ive only had one situationship and that did not last long. i had a crush on someone that ive known for a long time, but then i realized that its never going to happen so i stopped liking them. i recently met someone new and we have a friendship and have gotten really close really fast, but i do not want to fall for another straight girl. the thing is i dont even know if i even like this girl what should i do? | Crush |
original post*
This cute chick recently gives me the look now and then, even tho I haven't talked to her yet.. Be anywhere I see her giving me multiple glances and heck sometimes just staring at me .. I don't see any expressions tho and once it happened that we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds straight until she looked down. Her friends definitely know cause I've seen them looking my way as well prolly to report to her how I was looking and all...i was confident that she might be interested but it all broke down when I saw her id on Instagram and sent out a request to her to confirm my assumptions unfortunately she didn't respond to it and I retracted my request as well.. So now I'm at a place where I'm thinking if I'm over analysing this whole situation or maybe there is something really brewing...side note - I'm 5'10" , pretty fit and prolly it's the gym where she started giving me indirect signs by walking past me and being around my vicinity.. The usual
***update***
i finally broke the ice, but holy shit it was insane... I was returning from the gym and sat with my friends at the canteen until one of mates sported her just next to us .. Away 2 , 3 tables... And again staring and glancing at me... I didn't bother as it was not the ideal way to go talk as I had already been seated and would look creepy..i went off to bring my sandwich to my table and spotted her friend looking at me and her glacing over and over again obviously but i ignored it and acted as if I didn't spot them... They get done and leave while we're still eating but after a while she and her friend returned and stood literally *beside me* like no cap... To this I thought well ig I gotta talk now and as she was moving behind me(idk why tho) I just threw a casual thing like "I don't see U in the gym anymore" And she was smiling like anything and it was beautiful...anyways to which she responded that she is there "everyday except Tuesday" Before I could say anything else I could see her and her friend giggling and they ran away.. Now I was pretty confident that she's into me.. But today things became I must say wierd . .. I saw her at the gym.. She made it absolutely clear that she was around me by walking past me and all.. Glancing over and over again obviously... But when I went to talk to her.. She seemed "reserved" And "busy" Idk maybe she didn't want to be distracted from the workout.. Idk it just felt I wasn't welcome.. So I left without saying much and decided I won't react to her obvious stares (which she kept on giving after our interaction.. Ofc) and I kept my grind till the end of it she was joined by another of her friend and they moved into the washroom.. (Me and my buddy were working out near it) so we thought that's the end of it... But she left and came back to the gym fucking "thrice" And again her friend checking me out and all...the usual And hung out around me.... Idk wtf am I supposed to do now... Like wt????
*Update 2*
This was just bizarre and disrespectful honestly.. Or maybe I'm seeing into it too much..... Literally went upto her ... She was walking with her friend..... Who she seemed to hang around alot... I guessed her being with her friend mkes her comfortable cause usually she's nervous... But I struck up a convo and she again smiled and all was laughing and giggling.. Initially I thought it was working out well until her friend gave her a stare and she literally *RAN AWAY WITH HER* without saying bye Or anything and I really wanted to talk more.... This really pissed me off and now I'm so done I've done 2 approaches with limited reaction yet she still gives me the stares and all.... It's breaking my back now... Idk wt to do.. I feel embarrassment and regret | Crush |
STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫 | Crush |
Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, I should have something to prove first. Like go work, earn enough money, creating fortune too. Because really at this point, I am just barely a nobody. I mean yeah, I have work but not good enough. I really like her. I am also thinking, I wanted to confess my feelings through music. Writing a song for her. Come what may, whatever happens, that is it. She will have a job soon too. So I figured, if we ever got the chance to see again after the first meet up, it will not happen most likely. What should I do on the first meeting? I am nervous. And I really think I do not have the chance to be with her too. What do you guys think? | Crush |
she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.
And yah i accepted it.
So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.
And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.
Any thoughts? Should i take it as a sign. Cuz i was really looking for signs. | Crush |
He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁 | Crush |
For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.
She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her head on my shoulder and I reciprocated. After that she wanted to sleep for a bit and we both laid down on the couch holding each other. I eventually got up later to grab some water, and sat on a chair on the other side of the room not wanting to wake her up. She was not sleeping and opened her eyes, and invited me to go back with her on a couch (being a dumbass, I refused because I thought she would sleep better without me)
The same thing happened at one or two other parties, and we both fell asleep holding each other during new year's eve.
I precise that she does not drink alcohol, and had never cuddled with other people than her formers boyfriends, her female best-friend, and her family
So how do you guys see cuddling ? Is it something you can do with anyone you're close with or just with people you like romantically ? | Crush |
M15
Hello this is my first time posting on reddit
So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.
And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade below me in school so the chances of contact are low but i really want to talk to her and scale things up. Should i tell my friend? Should i attempt to talk to her? what should i do, any suggestions would help | Crush |
So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?
Side note: I would tell him in person given the chance, but I don’t see him often enough and we don’t share any classes. | Crush |
So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.
I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just trying my best with limits for now. I will do what i can do. Mehh.
Im the one who volunteer. To bring her home.
I have a bike so. Yah. I,ve added her on social media . But i dont want to talk to her. Cuz i know shes busy. She got alot of scheduled performance so i think its not the right time.
Ive been practicing alot btw just to impress her.
I just intended to be friend with her as of now. I need to respect the other guy aswell. | Crush |
Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.
I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant, but I guess is good background info to set the stage. I have been single since February 2021 after a six year on/off relationship and I figured I'd take years to move on, but I actually feel in a space where I feel good about the relationship ending and I am open to see who is out there.
He is new to the office, maybe like two or three weeks. But I actually went to high school with him and he was two grades below me in my younger brothers class. I realized I knew him and we chatted a little bit about it. At that point, I thought he was cute, but that was it.
Fast forward a week or so, and I have somehow formed a full-blown crush on the guy. We have had a few conversations here and there, nothing deep or crazy, but I really like his laid-back energy and gentle demeanor. I find it really attractive and would really like to get to know him more.
However, I typically stray away from office/workplace romances. We have a small office - maybe 15ish people - so we do occasionally cross each other's paths.
That being said, I am extremely cautious about approaching the topic with him of my attraction and interest in him. I don't want to make it weird or awkward for either of us. I would accept rejection if that were to happen. I just feel so weighted down with this secret. I always pursue things when I'm interested, so I am incredibly on the fence about whether to pursue my interest or just lay low and let it eventually pass.
I want to get to know him more and set the scene as friends, but I also don't want to ignore the attraction I have for him and pretend like it's not there.
What should I do?
Hope the crush passes over time?
Tell him that I'm interested in him?
Any advice appreciated 😊 | Crush |
So i was at my friends place with his girlfriend and her best friend for whome i have a crush. So we were just drinking and having fun now comes the question. So besides this one time she always engages with me wants to play thumb wars or something. We are sitting not like drunk but relaxed and she starts brushing my hair and says i look like a creator from my country afterwards she asked me if i want to make her a braid and i do it some time passes she asks me if i want to make her a bun i do that too. So our two friends leave prob to leave us alone and she puts her head in my lap and i start scratching her head and resting my other hand on her side. This will happen like three more times throughout the night. Afterwards we start watching a horror movie and we all lay in a bed. But only two pillows so me and her lay on that one and my friend and his gf on the other. I wanted to let her head rest on my arm so i ask her to sit up so i can get it under but instead of laying on my hand she puts her head on my chest and we cuddle btw we still didn't confess anything so we are supposed to be just friends. So time passes my friend and his gf fall asleep me and her stay to watch a movie a little longer. We go to sleep kinda spooning but like really awkwardly like ( ( really far apart idk why. So i wake up and my friend told his parents only him and his gf are going to be home so i wake up the girl and we go to the other room but in this one there was no heating it was broken or sum so its cold af. We lay down facing eachother like we are really cold btw we are sober at this point and she just turns after a few minutes spoons me like mi torso is on her back but i dont want to turn it sexual so i keep my hips away from hers and she picks up my hand and puts it around her waist and says cmon hug me. We sleep a little longer but now two days later we are kinda uncomfortable with eachother idk why and i hate it. Can anyone help me i feel like it was only due to alcohol but it cant be because she wrapped my hand around her while sober. If there are any girls would u do this without like it meaning nothing? Thank you dudes and dudeses | Crush |
I've actually been rejected so many times in my life, and I decided to never catch feelings again or think about love and relationships again. But it's always the same, I easily catch feelings and start loving the person passionately. Same experience over and over and over. And this year at college, I met this girl Carlie, she's really nice and She has the same interests I have, things started with a healthy friendship and good chats and researches and projects and now I feel like I love her. I don't want get my expectations high and I Don't want to suffer thinking about her. It's really sad I don't know what to do anymore. | Crush |
I’ve known this girl for years and ever since I met her I know she’s the love of my life. We’re really close with eachother and we used to have sex a few years back she even did have a crush on me at one point but this was years ago. How do I get her to develop these feelings back for me. I know if we get together rn we’re gonna stay together for life | Crush |
I’ve started hardcore falling for my boss. He’s become one of my good friends throughout the time I’ve known him, but the more I see him, spend time with him, joke with him, or even just be near him I catch myself staring. I can’t get him out of my head most of the time and worst part. I think it’s mutual. There’s many reasons why I can’t and wouldn’t want to make an advance his way and from what I notice (if it is a mutual interest) it seems like it’s the same reasons he wouldn’t either. I’m not sure how to deal, I want to at least know if he’s feeling the same as I am but that would require bringing up THAT conversation which would lead to so many complications in the work place and the friendship. Help. | Crush |
I’ve been in denial with this one guy for a few months now ever since he started working. I’m usually the shy type and he is one too so it’s hard having a conversation together alone.
Coming back from a rough break from work, he asked me to go to Seattle with him— of course I said yes, and it was with another coworker so it wasn’t just us two. I guess that’s when my feelings started sprouting.
I figured out my feelings a few weeks ago and I do like him.
Fast forward a few months later, I asked him to carpool with me on a 3 hour drive somewhere and he gladly said yes. I was so happy— not to mention we’ve been getting closer each shift.
…
Today, I wasn’t working with him but I overheard my managers in the back talking about someone quitting. Another person said my crush’s name and the manager said “he already quit”
I felt numb, I never felt numb in my life for someone. I was torn throughout the shift. Although I kind of knew why, my workplace is pretty much toxic. I am going to quit in 3 months because of college and I thought he would too… guess not.
I am so sad, but it’s reality.
I am planning to confess when I drop him off home from the vacation spot we planned. I have a feeling he likes me too, but who knows. I’ll miss working with him for sure. Nothing to lose right? :(
if i get rejected, then I move on. If not, then who knows. | Crush |
I’m 18 and I never really had noticed guys before 2 months ago. I went to a hockey game and I found the players really cute. Ever since then, it’s like there’s really cute guys everywhere. I guess I’ve just noticed it now. I even have a crush on a guy the gym. I never felt like this at 16 or anything. Apparently I’m a late bloomer. Because of the guys I’ve seen, I gained a lot of motivation to lose weight and really take care of myself in order to look good. So far, I’ve lost 10 lbs and feel better. I’m just super aware of these things now. I’m not good with eye contact but I hope I can work on that. | Crush |
I got the balls to ask for her number and I got it. Now what? What should I text her (keep in mind I have never talked to this girl ever expect when I went up to her and asked for it.) | Crush |
i’ve liked this guy for a year now and it started off as a pointless crush and we were practically strangers. We saw each other around and we said hey here and there and talked but as time progressed, we’ve developed into friends and we’re sort of in the same friend group, i see him three times a week for work (we don’t hang out outside of work unless it’s in a group setting) we don’t really text unless it’s for something. i don’t actually know if the feelings are reciprocated, i think it’s just my wishful thinking.
there was a party and i asked in our friend group gc if anyone was going, he then texted the morning of and asked me if i was going and suggested we go together? we also left together. theres no flirting but sometimes we exchange glances (may be just that)
my other friends know i like him and they make it pretty obvious so i’m pretttyyyyy sure he knows (not too sure, he can be oblivious but he’s smart). i was heading out and wanted to say bye and they told him i was looking for him to say bye and apparently he had this “huge smile” on his face but he called them liars? i said bye to him and he had the ‘i know you like me’ smile (my two friends and dad were also standing from afar watching like creeps with creepy smiles)
last i saw him, he took my phone and spammed my camera roll with photos of his friends and photos of me looking for my phone.
there’s been indication that he doesn’t see me as more than a friend so i don’t know where my heads at.
anyways, it’s been a dreadful long year, should i move on? my friends want me to tell him but i wouldn’t know how to approach that and it would ruin the dynamic of our friendship. | Crush |
Picture this : I’m in first year university , awkward, chubby, un-cute. I never felt good enough, I was never the girl that anyone paid any mind to, the DUFF if you will. I met this dude and we became friends. He comes to residence all the time , hangs out with me, watches anime with me. As a surprise to no one, I fell for him. Tall, blond hair, blue eyes, such a fucking pretty smile. And of course I had to open my big mouth and confess, told him I liked him, and of course he tells me he doesn’t feel that way towards me. Why would he? I decided to wallow in my self pity and tell him I can’t be his friend because it’s too painful for my feelings and he honestly didn’t even object.
Fast forward 3 and a half years and here I am. Got out of a two year relationship , Finishing my degree, I go to the gym , grew my hair out, learned how to dress better and I have my dream job lined up. And then I get the stupid Instagram message reply to my story about my classes. Mister is now two years bellow me in the same program and wants to hang out to chat about how I got into my specialty field so quickly. And of course I’m quick to say yea sure!!!!!1!1!!!
I’m thrilled. Excited to dress up and basically show off how much I’ve changed, how much better I am, how hot and cool and successful I am now. I’ve HAD a Boyfriend, I’ve played the field, hell, this week ALONE 2 guys from my gym asked for my number.
And yet, we meet for coffee and I’m right back in first year. Combing my fluffy hair, looking dumpy and awkward, caught up in his blue eyes and stupid humour. I just want him to like me so freaking badly. It’s humiliating. I’m all awkward, we worked out together and I’m just following him around oo-ing and ah-ing at his form, asking him to teach me how to squat. (I know the fuck how). God. Then I get this Fucking feeling of being not good enough, insignificant , unattractive. Just like in first year. As hard as I tried to distance myself, I guess I’m always going to be that un-likeable girl I was. | Crush |
So I finally got the courage to ask this girl, who I’ve had a crush on for years, for her number. She said yes and we started texting really well for like four days. I asked her if she wanted to grab food and she said she’d love to. We setup a day and then I waited for her to text first. When the day came around she said she just found out she was leaving on vacation a day early (was originally leaving the day after we were gonna go out). When she got back form vacation things just weren’t the same. She wasn’t really texting and even after I walked with her to class a few times nothing happened.
Anyway she said she was too busy to date right now.
It’s been about a month and schools about to end, and I definitely still have a massive crush on her. She never got to know me so I think I still have a real shot with her
Sooo, do I ask her to grab food now that school is over and she’ll have time? Or is there something else I should do? Either way I wanna do somthing. Any advice?? | Crush |
To start off, I’m in high school, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. There’s been this girl I’ve been interested in lately, but I’m not sure if I have a crush on her or not (probably a very small crush). I got to start talking to her through orchestra relations and being in the same club. What I know is I want to get to know her more, and see where it takes my feelings. I texted her saying I wanted to get to know her more, and she was cool with it and told me we could maybe hangout sometime. I don’t know how to take it from here tho. I don’t really want to make it a date yet, or make it awkward. I just want to have some fun time with her and get to know her more. Any ideas or advice on what I can do? Where would be a good place to “hangout”? My house? Her house? Some place? I would appreciate if someone with experience can help me out! | Crush |
Not sure if age is helpful but just in case:
Me: 13 y/o Boy
Crush: 13 y/o Girl
I apologize in advance for the super long post.
Not to long ago I asked my crush if I could tell her something at lunch in private (so I could tell her how I feel) . She says yes and we agree on a spot to meet up. She isn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I wait for her by our the place we agreed to meet at (I chose this place cause I needed to sit down and thought she would say something to me). She just walked by me and didn’t say anything. The next day I thought “ from her perspective I wasn’t exactly where we agreed to meet and maybe she got to nervous to say anything because I was with my friend” so I apologized about not being exactly where I agreed to be and asked if she wanted to meet up at the beginning of lunch and she said yes. Again she wasn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I actually waited exactly at the spot without any friends. She didn’t say anything though and I think she was avoiding me. However she has and is still showing signs of liking me. Here’s a list
1: I catch her looking at me a lot. She still does it after everything I talked about above. She did it 3 times today alone.
2: One time I got her checking me out.
3: One time she was walking to her class and stopped in the doorway with her turned toward me. She smiled when she saw me looking at her.
There are some other things that might be good but going into those would double the size of the post. But I will tell anyone that’s curious in the comments.
Any ideas on what she be could be doing? | Crush |
Let me introduce myself a bit before this story starts. My name is Ace and I'm a transgender guy. And I have a crush on a much older girl. Alright so I'm talking with this girl online, Let's call her Ivy. Ivy and I have been talking since the end of december 2021. In february I started to develop a little crush on Ivy. I struggled to accept my feelings for her but I kinda accepted it by now. We both agreed that we would meet each other in real life this year, while summer vacation or something. I started to give little hidden hints to Ivy since the end of January and till now she still hasn't found one, hopefully. But here's the thing why I'm thinking about waiting 3 yrs to confess my crush to her, I'm still a minor for 3 years. I'm 15 and she's 20. So I'm hoping that if I wait, the friendship will fade out or I'll lose feelings. I'm scared to confess my feelings to someone again because my last 3 crushes rejected me and that put me in a depressive state for 4 months. If I get in that depressive state again at the end of the year it will fuck up a big part of my life. I might be refused for transgender care because I'm not mentally stable at that moment or I'll need to stay back in 9th grade again like this year. So waiting seems like the best option for me but I could be wrong. Has anyone some advice for me? Or a reason for me to confess at the end of the year? I'm so fucking lost.. | Crush |
Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.
**Your top 10 posts:**
* "[25 Upvotes and I will ask her out](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/reefw0)" by [u/South\_Original8872](https://www.reddit.com/user/South_Original8872)
* "[Based on a real story](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/r08wgw)" by [u/Exp1osiv3](https://www.reddit.com/user/Exp1osiv3)
* "[Im gonna send her this, what do y'all think?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/t8goe6)" by [u/justjay9507](https://www.reddit.com/user/justjay9507)
* "[my crush is an asshole.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ugr8y3)" by [u/Groundbreaking\_Bid51](https://www.reddit.com/user/Groundbreaking_Bid51)
* "[Can I get a few upvotes for my new gf](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qe11m0)" by [u/IOKDUCKY](https://www.reddit.com/user/IOKDUCKY)
* "[It feels weird but I'll allow it](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/rl796j)" by [u/sohamdutta1710](https://www.reddit.com/user/sohamdutta1710)
* "[finally told him i like him via meme and i hope he responds](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qtvv59)" by [u/Creepy\_Rub2882](https://www.reddit.com/user/Creepy_Rub2882)
* "[Emotional damage](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/tuvn7o)" by [u/moonmeetings](https://www.reddit.com/user/moonmeetings)
* "[I don't know what to say](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/scmglz)" by [u/fakescenarios](https://www.reddit.com/user/fakescenarios)
* "[I just told my crush that I like him](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ugelzt)" by [u/Toast\_Oven](https://www.reddit.com/user/Toast_Oven) | Crush |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too!
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided for numerous reasons that I will tell him.
1. Worst case scenario is it might be a little awkward for a bit if he is not receptive, but he seems like a genuinely good guy so I don't expect it to be incredibly awkward at all. And I won't be hurt by the rejection if that's what does happen.
2. Best case scenario is we get to know each other more and maybe it develops into something more meaningful.
3. If somebody had a crush on me, I would want to know.
4. I am a very bold and straightforward person and I do not like carrying this secret around with me. Maybe that is selfish, but it is what it is.
So this Friday I want to tell him because we don't work weekends and this would give both of us some breathing room and less room for awkwardness. I am hoping maybe we run into each other on the way out of the office. Obviously this exact circumstance may not happen, so this is more a tentative plan pending a window of opportunity presents itself.
I'm nervous but also really excited. I am a pretty peppy positive person so I treat everybody with the same happy attitude so I do not think he will expect this necessarily and I hope it doesn't take him aback too much.
He's just so fucking cute and even the minimal potential that something could come of it is a really nice feeling. | Crush |
My crush is too shy to admit he likes me so he's an asshole to me. This is a grown man, btw.
Anyway, I adore him but he's stupid. | Crush |
Guys shes nice and touchy with everyone but me 💀 ans also is mean to only me💀 but we are close friends and i liked her since we’ve met and thing is today we had a test ans one of our classmates told me to sit in front of him which also required me to sit next to my crush so i could cover him while he cheats in test i was about to sit down but my crush prevented me to sit in jokingly way and then i got on my old seat but she’s very nice and touchy with everyone but me to me shes jokingly mean and subtly touchy and she also started copying my slang couple of weeks ago and calls me nerd sometimes probably cuz one of our friend started to call me “nerd” sometimes. HELP YA BOI OUT 😈be ruthlessly realistic what you think | Crush |
Is it ok to leave someone on read if the conversation seems like it’s run it’s course? and I don’t wanna respond with an average “lol” or something like that. I don’t mean it to be toxic or ignoring her I just don’t know what to say or keep dragging it on. | Crush |
I just confessed to my crush and I’m absolutely terrified | Crush |
The place that I live in, has holidays. My family decided to go for a staycation of one night at a resort a bit away from home. Only to find my childhood crush and family there too, on the exact same days. We’re now adults (me just graduating in one year and he graduated one year ago). We don’t speak, but when we bumped into each other in the resort, his face lit up and we had a brief convo. I just loved living the time again, and he still gives me butterflies. And I know his family very well because me and his sibling are childhood friends 🙈
The coincidence was extremely weird… I am guessing its a hint 🙊 | Crush |
we met a few days ago and she invited me to a local concert last night with some of her friends. she's very flirty but she has so many friends it's hard to tell if that's just her personality or if she likes me. but we hung out like the whole time and it seemed like she was focusing much more on me than anyone else..i just don't know | Crush |
I have a long time crush on one of my college mate from college. I never had conversation with him as he is from different department. He started to notice me and got to know that I like through our mutual friend. My feelings for him didnt change for years. So I confessed to him on my 7th semester through text. He politely apologized and said that he had no such feelings towards me. I was heartbroken and took a step back. We were awkward around each other after that and to add more to it I was put along with him in a group interview. Sat next to each other. 😑 I bluffed like anything as dont know what to say in the interview as he is sitting so close to me. I failed that interview. But still that moment was something I remember till I die. 😁 I tried making convo after college days, but he ignored. After 3 years.......
I saw him on instagram, and gave request. He accepted and followed me back. I was on cloud nine. But I dont want to go again start convo again and get ignored. So he texted me back after a week or so 😬 We had a formal conversation of Hi, how are you doing, what you are to, career..etc. and thats all. After that no texts from him. He checks out my story and posts. I used to post stories that he can start conversaion with. But he didnt. I wanted to get to know him very badly. He just woke up all my shutdown emotions and I wanted him to be part of my life badly. I just cant move on from him. I cant get him out of my head. I want to know more about him and if it clicks i want to take it forever. I dont how to start a convo with him gain...its been 8 moths since his text on insta. I want to know what he feels towards me now. Is he ready for relationship or does he have any changed feelings towards me???? What should I do now? I just want to have frequent convo with him and get to know about him first before making any confession to him again. Help me out.
PS: Im 25 he is 26, both working in different places. | Crush |
I need help. I have always been the loser in school who gets made fun of until this school year (11th grade). During quarantine, I grew to 6'1, lost a lot of weight, and I'm a completely new person. This school year, IDK if I am delusional or not but it just seems like everybody likes me. I don't have any experience with girls so it just frustrates me trying to figure it out, it is like 10+ girls. Whenever I ask my friend to ask if they know me, they always say they don't know who I am which confuses me too, and all my friends call me delusional.
Signs: - stares with smiles, intimidated kind of stares, this one girl covered her face with her hair and was like looking at me, this other girl stared at me for like 20 SECONDS when she was supposed to be presenting to the class and her partner was just talking the whole time, this other girl that sits in front of me at an angle turned her torso towards me and was talking all softly, they stare at me through the door, giggle at like almost everything i say even if it's not funny, they say stuff out loud that only i would know about, i was laughing at a video with these girls and the girl i thought liked me looked like she was going to cry, another girl bumped into me in the hallway and when i was like "oh my bad" she went off giggling it looked like, i say thank you a lot, so when this girl came back from the bathroom she says "thank you" softly looks directly at me and then giggles.
All of these stuff happen, so they just make me feel like i am seeing things or there is something wrong with me. Mind you, I've never experience anything like this, so I am just very awkward and stuff. Idk if my friends are just cockblocking me heavy or I am delusional. This one girl I liked since freshman year is the president of this one club. She posted this flirty tik tok which literally described me, and when I told someone about it they said "she doesn't know who you are and she thinks you're weird". That is the guidance counselors niece btw. When I snapped her a question about the club, she told me "anyone can come" and I said "oh okay cool" and she says "yea bring your friends" and I said "sounds good". She replied EXTREMELY fast too when I texted her. For someone who apparently thinks I am "weird" I thought that was strange. This other girl I liked moved on to this other dude bc i didn't know if she really liked me or not. When i gave her eye contact in the hallway she looked almost embarrassed to be with the dude in front of me. | Crush |
We met the night before in an office team dinner. As I was helping organise the dinner event, I was tasked to come up with a game that we can all play as a team (we had around 100 people consisting of smaller teams). As I went around asking ideas from the sub-teams, I met him when I approached his team's table. I introduced myself and eventually with the help of his team members we started playing a game. It was fun until the dinner began. I was sitting alone in the front as my friends were either busy or already out to get the food from the buffet placed in the hallway. His and my eyes met and he asked me if I wanted to join him to get the food. His team and I went to get food but later I came back to join my team to eat the food. We did bump into each other a few times, when we smiled and even had a few interactions. I became friends with one of his team members and later when I was leaving, I requested them to wave at me first as I was bad at remembering people who I have met only once for a brief time. The next day in office, again twice or thrice when he went past my cubicle, we smiled at each other and waved. Later that evening, when I was having coffee with my friends in the pantry, he had also come with his team for a break. As he was coming into the pantry, our eyes met, he called out name smiling and he walked over to my table with his box of fruits (which he was going to eat to break his fast for the day) and insisted my friends and I take a fruit piece (first me and then my friends and then eventually again me... so I took two pieces). He didn't have to come over and share his fruits, but he did. Is he just a sweet guy or is he maybe interested in me? | Crush |
i have been talking to a girl that goes to my school on snapchat and we have texted a lot, we also have been facetiming until pretty late(1-3 am). i like her, i think she likes me but although we usually talk 1-2 hrs a day at least she ignores me in school. on a call with her, i asked her about it and she brushed it off. she was asking some of my friends if i liked her and they (ofc) gave neutral answers. idk if she likes me or not.
if not, i am a dumbass.
if so, i still am a dumbass. | Crush |
Ever since I met him....he was such a cool guy.. does he like me?.. | Crush |
Okay so I (18f) met this guy (19m) at a party. He asked me for my number and then we matched on tinder. He started texting me a fair amount and we smoked together once with nothing happening. He continued to text me (but he’s bad at replying so even though he’d instigate convo he’d take at least 2-4 hours to respond) and eventually asked me to smoke again. We watched a movie and it took him like 30 minutes to even grab my hand to hold it. I ended up leaving after the movie because he never made a move even though I feel like I was fairly obvious (ie, leaning close to him, eye contact, laying my legs on top of his). I thought we were not gonna happen after this so I was like whatever but now he’s added me on Snapchat. I just have no clue whether or not this guy is into me and just shy or if he does not like me at all | Crush |
As the title says... I became too obsessed. I stalk her everyday. I try so hard to hide my feelings when i'm with her. I cry myself to sleep every night. Today i liked one of her posts by mistake and i feel so bad.
I know she likes me, even the slightest. But the talking stage or whatever the f... is that scares me the most... I am extremelly boring for today's standards. I listen to weird music, I have odd hobbies, no friends, no brothers. I come from a boring family that knows only work and sleep...... no many life experiences. i sit in my room alone everyday..... Many say i'm an amazing person... but that alone, won't keep her by my side. I am tired of this loneliness.... it kills me. When im with her i just behave like a normal person..... and when im alone i feel physically ill | Crush |
Well. There is a boy I really like. and I met him in my freshman year and he liked me. but because of covid we stopped talking. Now in my junior year I don't have any classes with him but my friend does. So I spent my entire junior year having a crush on him but never talking to him. Until a month ago he invited my friend and me to see a movie. but at that time it didn't seem like a good idea to me because maybe he did it so that my friend wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I think he likes her. but in the end I went because no one forced him to invite me and if he had wanted to be a date with my friend he would have invited only her. The point is that three days ago I told him about two in the morning that I liked him. "Anthony I like you" . The next day he doesn't say anything and he just asks me. "what time did you sleep yesterday?"We have talked a bit through messages but he never touched on the fact that I told him I liked him. Yesterday I saw him after school and I tell him. "Are you mad at me?" He says no that if he had said something. I said no. he asked me if I had said something and I told him no. Then he said goodbye and that's it. I told my friend and she just laughed at me and told me. "There, he sent you to the friend zone".
She talks a lot with him and today and she told me that he's gonna travel to math next week for advisory. She said that she wanna go too. And told me to go with her. But I don't know if I should go. Would it look bad? | Crush |
Sounds dumb, I know.. but there’s this guy and he’s pretty cool. Always saw him around campus, and my friends know him. We’re not like close personally. Well, recently he has followed me on social media and on strava (we’re both runners and bikers) and he always likes my Instagram stories and what not. Well last week I spoke up in front of my school at our community meeting and after that he came to me in the parking lot at school and mentioned how I made a great point and what not which made me feel really good. But after he was like “well, have a nice day dude.” And walked off. Maybe he friend zoned me? I wanna start talking with him more or maybe invite him to go on a strava walk. Idk.. we’ve just never talked before other than occasional eye contact in the halls. What do I do? How do I start talking to someone I have just met kind of without it being weird or awkward? | Crush |
So a week ago me and this guy fucked. It was basically the first time I met him at a HP. We have been texting ever since but a lot of ppl have warned me abt him he has a lot of red flags. i can even notice it while texting him just these past couple of days. But he’s in my head. Idk what to do. i tried stopping talking w him but every time I act dry it’s like he knows what I’m doing and starts putting so much effort in the conversation yet when I act interested he barely does. | Crush |
basically i (nb they/she 20) always felt excluded growing up because i would basically pretend to have crushes on guys bc i felt like i didnt fit in, i realized that i was pan, but then as i grew older i know i dont like guys and im only attracted to non-men so i label myself as lesbian. i lost a lot of friends because i came out to them. but whenever i get a crush its ALWAYS on straight girls. ive only had one situationship and that did not last long. i had a crush on someone that ive known for a long time, but then i realized that its never going to happen so i stopped liking them. i recently met someone new and we have a friendship and have gotten really close really fast, but i do not want to fall for another straight girl. the thing is i dont even know if i even like this girl what should i do? | Crush |
original post*
This cute chick recently gives me the look now and then, even tho I haven't talked to her yet.. Be anywhere I see her giving me multiple glances and heck sometimes just staring at me .. I don't see any expressions tho and once it happened that we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds straight until she looked down. Her friends definitely know cause I've seen them looking my way as well prolly to report to her how I was looking and all...i was confident that she might be interested but it all broke down when I saw her id on Instagram and sent out a request to her to confirm my assumptions unfortunately she didn't respond to it and I retracted my request as well.. So now I'm at a place where I'm thinking if I'm over analysing this whole situation or maybe there is something really brewing...side note - I'm 5'10" , pretty fit and prolly it's the gym where she started giving me indirect signs by walking past me and being around my vicinity.. The usual
***update***
i finally broke the ice, but holy shit it was insane... I was returning from the gym and sat with my friends at the canteen until one of mates sported her just next to us .. Away 2 , 3 tables... And again staring and glancing at me... I didn't bother as it was not the ideal way to go talk as I had already been seated and would look creepy..i went off to bring my sandwich to my table and spotted her friend looking at me and her glacing over and over again obviously but i ignored it and acted as if I didn't spot them... They get done and leave while we're still eating but after a while she and her friend returned and stood literally *beside me* like no cap... To this I thought well ig I gotta talk now and as she was moving behind me(idk why tho) I just threw a casual thing like "I don't see U in the gym anymore" And she was smiling like anything and it was beautiful...anyways to which she responded that she is there "everyday except Tuesday" Before I could say anything else I could see her and her friend giggling and they ran away.. Now I was pretty confident that she's into me.. But today things became I must say wierd . .. I saw her at the gym.. She made it absolutely clear that she was around me by walking past me and all.. Glancing over and over again obviously... But when I went to talk to her.. She seemed "reserved" And "busy" Idk maybe she didn't want to be distracted from the workout.. Idk it just felt I wasn't welcome.. So I left without saying much and decided I won't react to her obvious stares (which she kept on giving after our interaction.. Ofc) and I kept my grind till the end of it she was joined by another of her friend and they moved into the washroom.. (Me and my buddy were working out near it) so we thought that's the end of it... But she left and came back to the gym fucking "thrice" And again her friend checking me out and all...the usual And hung out around me.... Idk wtf am I supposed to do now... Like wt????
*Update 2*
This was just bizarre and disrespectful honestly.. Or maybe I'm seeing into it too much..... Literally went upto her ... She was walking with her friend..... Who she seemed to hang around alot... I guessed her being with her friend mkes her comfortable cause usually she's nervous... But I struck up a convo and she again smiled and all was laughing and giggling.. Initially I thought it was working out well until her friend gave her a stare and she literally *RAN AWAY WITH HER* without saying bye Or anything and I really wanted to talk more.... This really pissed me off and now I'm so done I've done 2 approaches with limited reaction yet she still gives me the stares and all.... It's breaking my back now... Idk wt to do.. I feel embarrassment and regret | Crush |
STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫 | Crush |
Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, I should have something to prove first. Like go work, earn enough money, creating fortune too. Because really at this point, I am just barely a nobody. I mean yeah, I have work but not good enough. I really like her. I am also thinking, I wanted to confess my feelings through music. Writing a song for her. Come what may, whatever happens, that is it. She will have a job soon too. So I figured, if we ever got the chance to see again after the first meet up, it will not happen most likely. What should I do on the first meeting? I am nervous. And I really think I do not have the chance to be with her too. What do you guys think? | Crush |
she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.
And yah i accepted it.
So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.
And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.
Any thoughts? Should i take it as a sign. Cuz i was really looking for signs. | Crush |
He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁 | Crush |
For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.
She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her head on my shoulder and I reciprocated. After that she wanted to sleep for a bit and we both laid down on the couch holding each other. I eventually got up later to grab some water, and sat on a chair on the other side of the room not wanting to wake her up. She was not sleeping and opened her eyes, and invited me to go back with her on a couch (being a dumbass, I refused because I thought she would sleep better without me)
The same thing happened at one or two other parties, and we both fell asleep holding each other during new year's eve.
I precise that she does not drink alcohol, and had never cuddled with other people than her formers boyfriends, her female best-friend, and her family
So how do you guys see cuddling ? Is it something you can do with anyone you're close with or just with people you like romantically ? | Crush |
M15
Hello this is my first time posting on reddit
So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.
And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade below me in school so the chances of contact are low but i really want to talk to her and scale things up. Should i tell my friend? Should i attempt to talk to her? what should i do, any suggestions would help | Crush |
So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?
Side note: I would tell him in person given the chance, but I don’t see him often enough and we don’t share any classes. | Crush |
So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.
I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just trying my best with limits for now. I will do what i can do. Mehh.
Im the one who volunteer. To bring her home.
I have a bike so. Yah. I,ve added her on social media . But i dont want to talk to her. Cuz i know shes busy. She got alot of scheduled performance so i think its not the right time.
Ive been practicing alot btw just to impress her.
I just intended to be friend with her as of now. I need to respect the other guy aswell. | Crush |
Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.
I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant, but I guess is good background info to set the stage. I have been single since February 2021 after a six year on/off relationship and I figured I'd take years to move on, but I actually feel in a space where I feel good about the relationship ending and I am open to see who is out there.
He is new to the office, maybe like two or three weeks. But I actually went to high school with him and he was two grades below me in my younger brothers class. I realized I knew him and we chatted a little bit about it. At that point, I thought he was cute, but that was it.
Fast forward a week or so, and I have somehow formed a full-blown crush on the guy. We have had a few conversations here and there, nothing deep or crazy, but I really like his laid-back energy and gentle demeanor. I find it really attractive and would really like to get to know him more.
However, I typically stray away from office/workplace romances. We have a small office - maybe 15ish people - so we do occasionally cross each other's paths.
That being said, I am extremely cautious about approaching the topic with him of my attraction and interest in him. I don't want to make it weird or awkward for either of us. I would accept rejection if that were to happen. I just feel so weighted down with this secret. I always pursue things when I'm interested, so I am incredibly on the fence about whether to pursue my interest or just lay low and let it eventually pass.
I want to get to know him more and set the scene as friends, but I also don't want to ignore the attraction I have for him and pretend like it's not there.
What should I do?
Hope the crush passes over time?
Tell him that I'm interested in him?
Any advice appreciated 😊 | Crush |
So i was at my friends place with his girlfriend and her best friend for whome i have a crush. So we were just drinking and having fun now comes the question. So besides this one time she always engages with me wants to play thumb wars or something. We are sitting not like drunk but relaxed and she starts brushing my hair and says i look like a creator from my country afterwards she asked me if i want to make her a braid and i do it some time passes she asks me if i want to make her a bun i do that too. So our two friends leave prob to leave us alone and she puts her head in my lap and i start scratching her head and resting my other hand on her side. This will happen like three more times throughout the night. Afterwards we start watching a horror movie and we all lay in a bed. But only two pillows so me and her lay on that one and my friend and his gf on the other. I wanted to let her head rest on my arm so i ask her to sit up so i can get it under but instead of laying on my hand she puts her head on my chest and we cuddle btw we still didn't confess anything so we are supposed to be just friends. So time passes my friend and his gf fall asleep me and her stay to watch a movie a little longer. We go to sleep kinda spooning but like really awkwardly like ( ( really far apart idk why. So i wake up and my friend told his parents only him and his gf are going to be home so i wake up the girl and we go to the other room but in this one there was no heating it was broken or sum so its cold af. We lay down facing eachother like we are really cold btw we are sober at this point and she just turns after a few minutes spoons me like mi torso is on her back but i dont want to turn it sexual so i keep my hips away from hers and she picks up my hand and puts it around her waist and says cmon hug me. We sleep a little longer but now two days later we are kinda uncomfortable with eachother idk why and i hate it. Can anyone help me i feel like it was only due to alcohol but it cant be because she wrapped my hand around her while sober. If there are any girls would u do this without like it meaning nothing? Thank you dudes and dudeses | Crush |
I've actually been rejected so many times in my life, and I decided to never catch feelings again or think about love and relationships again. But it's always the same, I easily catch feelings and start loving the person passionately. Same experience over and over and over. And this year at college, I met this girl Carlie, she's really nice and She has the same interests I have, things started with a healthy friendship and good chats and researches and projects and now I feel like I love her. I don't want get my expectations high and I Don't want to suffer thinking about her. It's really sad I don't know what to do anymore. | Crush |
I’ve known this girl for years and ever since I met her I know she’s the love of my life. We’re really close with eachother and we used to have sex a few years back she even did have a crush on me at one point but this was years ago. How do I get her to develop these feelings back for me. I know if we get together rn we’re gonna stay together for life | Crush |
I’ve started hardcore falling for my boss. He’s become one of my good friends throughout the time I’ve known him, but the more I see him, spend time with him, joke with him, or even just be near him I catch myself staring. I can’t get him out of my head most of the time and worst part. I think it’s mutual. There’s many reasons why I can’t and wouldn’t want to make an advance his way and from what I notice (if it is a mutual interest) it seems like it’s the same reasons he wouldn’t either. I’m not sure how to deal, I want to at least know if he’s feeling the same as I am but that would require bringing up THAT conversation which would lead to so many complications in the work place and the friendship. Help. | Crush |
I’ve been in denial with this one guy for a few months now ever since he started working. I’m usually the shy type and he is one too so it’s hard having a conversation together alone.
Coming back from a rough break from work, he asked me to go to Seattle with him— of course I said yes, and it was with another coworker so it wasn’t just us two. I guess that’s when my feelings started sprouting.
I figured out my feelings a few weeks ago and I do like him.
Fast forward a few months later, I asked him to carpool with me on a 3 hour drive somewhere and he gladly said yes. I was so happy— not to mention we’ve been getting closer each shift.
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Today, I wasn’t working with him but I overheard my managers in the back talking about someone quitting. Another person said my crush’s name and the manager said “he already quit”
I felt numb, I never felt numb in my life for someone. I was torn throughout the shift. Although I kind of knew why, my workplace is pretty much toxic. I am going to quit in 3 months because of college and I thought he would too… guess not.
I am so sad, but it’s reality.
I am planning to confess when I drop him off home from the vacation spot we planned. I have a feeling he likes me too, but who knows. I’ll miss working with him for sure. Nothing to lose right? :(
if i get rejected, then I move on. If not, then who knows. | Crush |
I’m 18 and I never really had noticed guys before 2 months ago. I went to a hockey game and I found the players really cute. Ever since then, it’s like there’s really cute guys everywhere. I guess I’ve just noticed it now. I even have a crush on a guy the gym. I never felt like this at 16 or anything. Apparently I’m a late bloomer. Because of the guys I’ve seen, I gained a lot of motivation to lose weight and really take care of myself in order to look good. So far, I’ve lost 10 lbs and feel better. I’m just super aware of these things now. I’m not good with eye contact but I hope I can work on that. | Crush |
I got the balls to ask for her number and I got it. Now what? What should I text her (keep in mind I have never talked to this girl ever expect when I went up to her and asked for it.) | Crush |
i’ve liked this guy for a year now and it started off as a pointless crush and we were practically strangers. We saw each other around and we said hey here and there and talked but as time progressed, we’ve developed into friends and we’re sort of in the same friend group, i see him three times a week for work (we don’t hang out outside of work unless it’s in a group setting) we don’t really text unless it’s for something. i don’t actually know if the feelings are reciprocated, i think it’s just my wishful thinking.
there was a party and i asked in our friend group gc if anyone was going, he then texted the morning of and asked me if i was going and suggested we go together? we also left together. theres no flirting but sometimes we exchange glances (may be just that)
my other friends know i like him and they make it pretty obvious so i’m pretttyyyyy sure he knows (not too sure, he can be oblivious but he’s smart). i was heading out and wanted to say bye and they told him i was looking for him to say bye and apparently he had this “huge smile” on his face but he called them liars? i said bye to him and he had the ‘i know you like me’ smile (my two friends and dad were also standing from afar watching like creeps with creepy smiles)
last i saw him, he took my phone and spammed my camera roll with photos of his friends and photos of me looking for my phone.
there’s been indication that he doesn’t see me as more than a friend so i don’t know where my heads at.
anyways, it’s been a dreadful long year, should i move on? my friends want me to tell him but i wouldn’t know how to approach that and it would ruin the dynamic of our friendship. | Crush |
Picture this : I’m in first year university , awkward, chubby, un-cute. I never felt good enough, I was never the girl that anyone paid any mind to, the DUFF if you will. I met this dude and we became friends. He comes to residence all the time , hangs out with me, watches anime with me. As a surprise to no one, I fell for him. Tall, blond hair, blue eyes, such a fucking pretty smile. And of course I had to open my big mouth and confess, told him I liked him, and of course he tells me he doesn’t feel that way towards me. Why would he? I decided to wallow in my self pity and tell him I can’t be his friend because it’s too painful for my feelings and he honestly didn’t even object.
Fast forward 3 and a half years and here I am. Got out of a two year relationship , Finishing my degree, I go to the gym , grew my hair out, learned how to dress better and I have my dream job lined up. And then I get the stupid Instagram message reply to my story about my classes. Mister is now two years bellow me in the same program and wants to hang out to chat about how I got into my specialty field so quickly. And of course I’m quick to say yea sure!!!!!1!1!!!
I’m thrilled. Excited to dress up and basically show off how much I’ve changed, how much better I am, how hot and cool and successful I am now. I’ve HAD a Boyfriend, I’ve played the field, hell, this week ALONE 2 guys from my gym asked for my number.
And yet, we meet for coffee and I’m right back in first year. Combing my fluffy hair, looking dumpy and awkward, caught up in his blue eyes and stupid humour. I just want him to like me so freaking badly. It’s humiliating. I’m all awkward, we worked out together and I’m just following him around oo-ing and ah-ing at his form, asking him to teach me how to squat. (I know the fuck how). God. Then I get this Fucking feeling of being not good enough, insignificant , unattractive. Just like in first year. As hard as I tried to distance myself, I guess I’m always going to be that un-likeable girl I was. | Crush |
So I finally got the courage to ask this girl, who I’ve had a crush on for years, for her number. She said yes and we started texting really well for like four days. I asked her if she wanted to grab food and she said she’d love to. We setup a day and then I waited for her to text first. When the day came around she said she just found out she was leaving on vacation a day early (was originally leaving the day after we were gonna go out). When she got back form vacation things just weren’t the same. She wasn’t really texting and even after I walked with her to class a few times nothing happened.
Anyway she said she was too busy to date right now.
It’s been about a month and schools about to end, and I definitely still have a massive crush on her. She never got to know me so I think I still have a real shot with her
Sooo, do I ask her to grab food now that school is over and she’ll have time? Or is there something else I should do? Either way I wanna do somthing. Any advice?? | Crush |
To start off, I’m in high school, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. There’s been this girl I’ve been interested in lately, but I’m not sure if I have a crush on her or not (probably a very small crush). I got to start talking to her through orchestra relations and being in the same club. What I know is I want to get to know her more, and see where it takes my feelings. I texted her saying I wanted to get to know her more, and she was cool with it and told me we could maybe hangout sometime. I don’t know how to take it from here tho. I don’t really want to make it a date yet, or make it awkward. I just want to have some fun time with her and get to know her more. Any ideas or advice on what I can do? Where would be a good place to “hangout”? My house? Her house? Some place? I would appreciate if someone with experience can help me out! | Crush |
Not sure if age is helpful but just in case:
Me: 13 y/o Boy
Crush: 13 y/o Girl
I apologize in advance for the super long post.
Not to long ago I asked my crush if I could tell her something at lunch in private (so I could tell her how I feel) . She says yes and we agree on a spot to meet up. She isn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I wait for her by our the place we agreed to meet at (I chose this place cause I needed to sit down and thought she would say something to me). She just walked by me and didn’t say anything. The next day I thought “ from her perspective I wasn’t exactly where we agreed to meet and maybe she got to nervous to say anything because I was with my friend” so I apologized about not being exactly where I agreed to be and asked if she wanted to meet up at the beginning of lunch and she said yes. Again she wasn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I actually waited exactly at the spot without any friends. She didn’t say anything though and I think she was avoiding me. However she has and is still showing signs of liking me. Here’s a list
1: I catch her looking at me a lot. She still does it after everything I talked about above. She did it 3 times today alone.
2: One time I got her checking me out.
3: One time she was walking to her class and stopped in the doorway with her turned toward me. She smiled when she saw me looking at her.
There are some other things that might be good but going into those would double the size of the post. But I will tell anyone that’s curious in the comments.
Any ideas on what she be could be doing? | Crush |
Let me introduce myself a bit before this story starts. My name is Ace and I'm a transgender guy. And I have a crush on a much older girl. Alright so I'm talking with this girl online, Let's call her Ivy. Ivy and I have been talking since the end of december 2021. In february I started to develop a little crush on Ivy. I struggled to accept my feelings for her but I kinda accepted it by now. We both agreed that we would meet each other in real life this year, while summer vacation or something. I started to give little hidden hints to Ivy since the end of January and till now she still hasn't found one, hopefully. But here's the thing why I'm thinking about waiting 3 yrs to confess my crush to her, I'm still a minor for 3 years. I'm 15 and she's 20. So I'm hoping that if I wait, the friendship will fade out or I'll lose feelings. I'm scared to confess my feelings to someone again because my last 3 crushes rejected me and that put me in a depressive state for 4 months. If I get in that depressive state again at the end of the year it will fuck up a big part of my life. I might be refused for transgender care because I'm not mentally stable at that moment or I'll need to stay back in 9th grade again like this year. So waiting seems like the best option for me but I could be wrong. Has anyone some advice for me? Or a reason for me to confess at the end of the year? I'm so fucking lost.. | Crush |
Idk what can I say. I’m an introvert and really quiet but talk to friends normally.Any tips?/ signs to be able to tell (yes I like her but sometimes she’s shown signs but she probs does it to all her friends | Crush |
I think I like this girl but she is with someone. It’s not someone I usually see so if I do decide to tell her I can just leave her on delivered if it goes wrong. She is kind enough to still be friends even if I do end up telling her but I feel like it would be awkward and not telling her is making me miserable I feel shit all the time because of it. So either way I’m gonna feel awful and regret my decision should I do anything and if so what are some upsides and downsides to telling her? | Crush |
so recently I dated this girl and she's the sweetest, coolest and at the same time fun girl I dated and coming from a history of failed online relationships, she's the first person I've dated in-person. we chatted and instantly connected so I took the chance to ask her if I can court her, she said yes. weeks of me visiting her at her own home and have that bond. It was amazing.. one time we went to the beach with her classmate and my classmate (our classmates are cousins), we take pictures and get to spend time with her romantically and as a bestfriend ofcourse. It was amazing! it's like butterflies around us when we're together. 2 months we had fun then suddenly the chats are getting cold and I'm not getting calls from her so for me, I don't know what's happening so I confronted her, she said she's too lazy to reply and I believed her. Fast forward to last week which is my last visit at her home before the tragedy happened, I lay on her shoulders and accidentally glanced at her messenger.. She quickly noticed that I was glancing so she swift her phone into her pocket and starred at me like she's scared. I smelled something fishy, then the next day, she said I should stop courting her.. saying that she isn't ready. I was in confusion because after all we've been through in those 4 months. She'll leave... I was confused - I thought things were going well but, cute pics and a simple smile isn't enough to tell the person if she/he is into you.
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if she is not ready, why sending me mixed signals? and if she is not ready, she should've said it in the first place when I asked her if I can court her. What do you guys think? | Crush |
I have no one to talk to because im not that close to anyone, but i just want to let it all out here. Basically, Im an introvert and this girl really put in an effort to befriend and be nice to me. She's pretty, smart and nice, the type of girl who can be called as campus crush in your local highschool, college or university because she's open and can talk to any guys like a friend, and here I am a somehow above-average-nerdy-looking type guy so naturally I was immediately drawn to her. Fast forward, to celebrate the end of our semestral exams I was invited to her place with her friends. We drink until we're drunk and talk a lot. As I grew tired of the noise, I went out to the balcony and had a smoke just to rest. Then suddenly she followed suit as well and talked to me 1-on-1. During that time she sat really close to me, that my left shoulder and elbow were in contact with hers; I thought maybe she's just that touchy type of person, and then she suddenly lays her head into my shoulder and I froze. I misinterpreted that as a sign so naturally I was so happy because this could be it, but I didn't shoot my shot yet because im afraid of rejection. As we continued to talk, one of her friends came out and teased us only for her to reply that she has a boyfriend. I was so devastated after hearing that that I immediately left her there and went to the bathroom and went home afterwards.
Im trying to move on from her by thinking of any possible negative traits or behaviors of her, watching many self-help videos, and trying to see other girls, but I can't. I really can't see any negative to her behavior, her academics, or her social life. I don't know whether im so blinded by my crush for her or she's really just an amazing person that I unfortunately cannot have. Im so in pain that its like she can live without me and choose any guy to be with, while for me I think she's the best person out there and it pains me to know that i really can't have her. Wherever I go, whatever i do, watch or listen to, it always reminds me of her. Im so lovesick that I can't focus on my studies, that every interactions with her kept on repeating in my head, and that whenever she's talking with a guy I get jealous even though I don't have no rights to be. I want to move on from her but i don't want to hate her. I still want to be friends with her and having space is not an option since we're on a same small batch studying for the same degree. Any idea how can i move on from her? | Crush |
So for about a month, ive been talking to a guy lets call him Nate. We werent really close before he invited me to a gc by accident, i joined their call and from there we hit it off, we would laugh together and tease eachother about our laugh. I never saw myself liking him until then. Nate is very humerous and likes to joke around a lot and so do I so it was obvious we'd be good friends. Foward a little bit and we would text eachother everyday for awhile, we'd ask eachother how our day went and go on call for hours just playing games and hanging out. But i upset him over something thag i send in the gc and it seems like hes ignoring me after that, he says im a bitch and that im annoying and now everytime im in call it seems like hes aggitated by just listening to my voice in call and tells me to shut up, it hurts and idk how to bring it up to him without being all awkward. Does anyone have any tips? | Crush |
Originally, I thought that I just simply liked her; Like, ‘I like this girl, and I wanna get to know her,’ type thing. Now I think that it’s evolved; Like the title says, I think I love her. I’ve started to feel different. I think about her often, I can’t imagine myself with anyone else but her, I imagine scenarios where we interact a lot, I sometimes feel a bit jealous of other people around her (which I try not to do), etc. | Crush |
I think I like this girl but she is with someone. It’s not someone I usually see so if I do decide to tell her I can just leave her on delivered if it goes wrong. She is kind enough to still be friends even if I do end up telling her but I feel like it would be awkward and not telling her is making me miserable I feel shit all the time because of it. So either way I’m gonna feel awful and regret my decision should I do anything and if so what are some upsides and downsides to telling her? | Crush |
i previously had a long term crush on one of my close friends a year ago. i eventually got distracted with another person, and told myself that i lost feelings. now that i’m starting to talk to them more, i feel like i’m regaining these feelings for him. i wouldn’t mind liking him, but he had a past of liking my best friend. i feel like whenever i look at him or talk to him, all i can think about is when he broke my heart by asking her out in front of me. he hasn’t explicitly said it, but i think he still likes her to this day. i just want to let go of this pain. i have so much experience of being rejected because the guy likes my best friend, but this has been the most painful crush by far. i don’t want to ghost him either, because we’re still really close. how do i let go of my feelings without hurting our friendship? | Crush |
I’ve never been able to make it past the talking stage. But, there is a guy that i like and we have texted a few times but the convo died out. He always responds but never starts the conversation so I stopped talking to him. I genuinely want to know him but I don’t think he’s interested ☹️☹️I don’t know how to get over it. Any advice? | Crush |
In my math there's a girl I really have feelings for. Problem is we barely ever see each other in the hallways, library, lunchroom, etc. I only have one period with her and I can almost never talk to her during math, she does know I exist and sometimes talks to me.
I was wondering if someone here can give me some helpful advice or suggestions on how I could somehow find a way to talk to her? | Crush |
He also likes to tease me, and he lets me play with his hair but not his own girlfriend??? Also when all 3 of us where in my room, he was laying on me on the bed lol… he even faked to sleep little rat, but the other day at school when it was lunch, we made eye contact for like 2 mins and I almost had a heart attack…. His eyes are like emeralds!! I’ll probably find some pics later of him but idk… when madi and him hug he barely hugs her but with me he wraps his arms around me and it’s so cute lol… when ever he walks home I call him to make sure he gets home safe… | Crush |
Okay so, d has a girlfriend now (aka my best friend) and it’s going… idk anymore. My friends and family think he likes me tho, madi said to me “yeah me and d are dating but he doesn’t act like we are” i agree… let’s say he gives me special treatment? Like he likes to play fight with me and tickle me idfk why… but he likes to pull my hair when he wants attention and slap my thigh?? It’s weird but yeah… he always stares at me… he never hits (playfully) madi but does with me??? When ever we talk, he makes full of eye contact aaaaaa…. He’s been to my house a lot of times now. Ima do an update part 2 it’s laggy lol | Crush |
I had crush on a girl who used to be in my school. I rarely talked to her but i liked her a lot. It's been 2 years since I completed my school and right now i am in college. Yesterday out of nowhere she asked me out! It turns out she had a crush on me too! I know it sounds too good to be true. Even i cant believe it. I just thought that i could share my experience with you guys. | Crush |
Title pretty much explains it, this girl started like a week ago and we've talked a little bit.
She is super nice and I really want to get to know her but there's only so much to talk about and I don't want to annoy her, especially with the other guys talking to her.
I'm going to a concert next month and I was thinking after a few weeks of getting to know her I'd ask if she'd like to go with me. Would that be a good idea?
She seems to like me in some way, she starts the conversations sometimes and I've seen her looking at me a few times but I'm not sure if that means she is into me or not.
Advice would be appreciated. | Crush |
I’ve made myself approachable a few times, if this person didn’t like me at all.. I wouldn’t catch them staring every now and then, but now being that this person doesn’t really make an effort to talk to me. I’ve caught myself also ignoring them. It makes me feel some type of way because they seem really interesting and I would like to get to know them, but again they’re not trying so what’s the point. I feel like if I keep trying then I’ll just scare them off. I guess I’ll just wait for them to come up to me🤢 | Crush |
I was the guy that posted a month ago that a girl had asked me out. Turns out she only dated me to get closer to my friend. And said this to me yesterday “I think we should break up because I never loved you I just wanted to get closer to mike everything I said meant nothing I just wanted to get close to mike”. Yeah so good luck back to my depressed self again. | Crush |