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I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon.

Hi, good afternoon.

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I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job.

I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job.

Losing a job is always anxious.

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I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't.

I hope I don't.

Why do you think you will lose your job?

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I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection.

I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection.

Oh so your job is not protected and your short term disability will end soon? Is that correct?

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anxiety

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I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection. It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future.

It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future.

I see. Have you spoken to HR?

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I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection. It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future. I have, but they are telling me that it is up to my department manager who isn't actually getting back to me about it yet.

I have, but they are telling me that it is up to my department manager who isn't actually getting back to me about it yet.

Your department manager is not answering you?

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anxiety

job_crisis

I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection. It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future. I have, but they are telling me that it is up to my department manager who isn't actually getting back to me about it yet. No, I have sent them a few emails about it. It makes me nervous. I do not have a phone number to call and my psychiatrist really does not think I am ready to go back to the stress of my job. I wish I could just call him, but I do not have a phone number for him. Just his email.

No, I have sent them a few emails about it. It makes me nervous. I do not have a phone number to call and my psychiatrist really does not think I am ready to go back to the stress of my job. I wish I could just call him, but I do not have a phone number for him. Just his email.

Have you tried mentioning that to HR?

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anxiety

job_crisis

I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection. It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future. I have, but they are telling me that it is up to my department manager who isn't actually getting back to me about it yet. No, I have sent them a few emails about it. It makes me nervous. I do not have a phone number to call and my psychiatrist really does not think I am ready to go back to the stress of my job. I wish I could just call him, but I do not have a phone number for him. Just his email. HR is the one who gave me his email. I don't think he has a direct work line, and they're not allowed to give out personal information.

HR is the one who gave me his email. I don't think he has a direct work line, and they're not allowed to give out personal information.

Yes that is how most employments work about providing personal information.

Yes that is how most employments work about providing personal information. That in itself causes anxiety to most since other forms of communication is not possible especially if they are not responding to ciritcal matters.

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job_crisis

I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection. It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future. I have, but they are telling me that it is up to my department manager who isn't actually getting back to me about it yet. No, I have sent them a few emails about it. It makes me nervous. I do not have a phone number to call and my psychiatrist really does not think I am ready to go back to the stress of my job. I wish I could just call him, but I do not have a phone number for him. Just his email. HR is the one who gave me his email. I don't think he has a direct work line, and they're not allowed to give out personal information. Yes! 100%. Every time my phone rings I get nervous that I'm being fired and I'm worried I made a mistake going out on disability. I needed to though, but I'm nervous.

Yes! 100%. Every time my phone rings I get nervous that I'm being fired and I'm worried I made a mistake going out on disability. I needed to though, but I'm nervous.

No you should not have to feel you made a mistake for the time you are taking out of work for a necessity.

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anxiety

job_crisis

I am on short term disability and I am afraid I will lose my job if I don't go back soon.

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Hello good afternoon. I'm feeling anxious that I am going to lose my job. I hope I don't. I am on short term disability and I am not ready to go back to work yet but I do not have any job protection. It's not ending yet, but no my job is not protected. I live in the United States, but I have not been at my job long enough to earn protection for medical leave. you have to have been here for a year, and I started November 2020 I'm afraid that I will lose my job since I'm still on disability for the foreseeable future. I have, but they are telling me that it is up to my department manager who isn't actually getting back to me about it yet. No, I have sent them a few emails about it. It makes me nervous. I do not have a phone number to call and my psychiatrist really does not think I am ready to go back to the stress of my job. I wish I could just call him, but I do not have a phone number for him. Just his email. HR is the one who gave me his email. I don't think he has a direct work line, and they're not allowed to give out personal information. Yes! 100%. Every time my phone rings I get nervous that I'm being fired and I'm worried I made a mistake going out on disability. I needed to though, but I'm nervous. Thank you for saying that. That does make me feel better. It sucks sometimes we have to choose between our health and our jobs. We don't get paid to take care of our health though, we only get paid to work.

Thank you for saying that. That does make me feel better. It sucks sometimes we have to choose between our health and our jobs. We don't get paid to take care of our health though, we only get paid to work.

You know yourself more than anybody and you need to take care of yourself.

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depression

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you?

I am well, what's on your mind?

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family

well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family

So sorry to hear about your plight. Life is a roller coaster and sometimes it gets out of control, I hope things slow down so you can get things straightened out.

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depression

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok

thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok

I understand your concerns about being stressed, scared and depressed. The risk of family getting sick is certainly valid.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment

it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment

I too worry about things I feel I cannot control, the lack of sleep due to this just makes it worse so I try to think of positive things, but its hard.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail

yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail

Its hard to stop those negative thoughts, but the first step is sharing your feelings with others and talking about it. You are now on your way to healing.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge

It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge

I can see in your words how stressed you are and troubled.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse

This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse

May I suggest that you seek some face to face support from a best friend or close family member.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing

easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing

Its still possible. Social distancing, six feet away but in maybe your backyard or even a park away from others so you can talk with some degree of confidence that its private. Just being around another person is so very supportive and positive. Please try.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings

maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings

True. Remember, you are not the only one facing these troubles, others are tackling it too. Try also to google online support groups on Reddit and blogs for additional assistance and suggestions from those who faced it and succeeded. Doing what others did to overcome it means not having to reinvent the whole process on your own.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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3

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings maybe an online chat group

maybe an online chat group

That's the way to go. Keep seeking help. The right solution is there for you. Now you have a plan to get started.

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depression

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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3

4

5

hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings maybe an online chat group well I don't know if its a plan but an idea just knowing I'm not alone helps

well I don't know if its a plan but an idea just knowing I'm not alone helps

Yes, it a problem so many people are facing.

Yes, it a problem so many people are facing. My own family members are facing this too.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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3

4

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings maybe an online chat group well I don't know if its a plan but an idea just knowing I'm not alone helps yes I know and with covid so many are depressed stressed and sad

yes I know and with covid so many are depressed stressed and sad

I read a few articles on Psychology today website that might help you also. They discuss how to control stress and overcome depression in this world of COVID. Written by some doctors and they are free to read.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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3

4

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings maybe an online chat group well I don't know if its a plan but an idea just knowing I'm not alone helps yes I know and with covid so many are depressed stressed and sad thanks I will have to look online take your suggestion

thanks I will have to look online take your suggestion

You are welcome. You are on your way.

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I have been in a depression since my father died last year. We have had to sell our home and move to a much smaller place due to losing his income. I am older but lived with my parents to help them because they are both ill. it has been an ongoing struggle

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3

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hello I am ok how are you? well as I stated above my father passed last year and now due to finances we need to move. I am out of work due to Covid19 it is hard moving not being able to support my family thank you! I find myself so stressed then I get scared and depressed wondering what will the future hold will we be ok will we take another hit will I get sick will my Mother be ok it keeps me up at night and I cant seem to get away form it even for a moment yes and its always in the back of my mind burning. Like don't be to happy because things are going to fail It does help to talk about it with someone who doesn't judge This whole covid thing makes it 10 times worse easier said then done I'm high risk so I have been social distancing maybe but I need to be carful plus honest I dont want many people to know about my feelings maybe an online chat group well I don't know if its a plan but an idea just knowing I'm not alone helps yes I know and with covid so many are depressed stressed and sad thanks I will have to look online take your suggestion thank you for your kind words

thank you for your kind words

It was my pleasure.

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I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

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Hello Hello

Who am I currently speaking with?

Who am I currently speaking with? I am Bob, your Christmas Night therapist and helper. I hope I can assist you this Christmas Night. It takes courage to tell how you are feeling.

Question, Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings, Information

Question

26

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high empathy, high relevance

3

2

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try

Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try

How can I help you?

Question

27

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

3

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth

I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth

Please do your best. That is all I can expect.

Please do your best. That is all I can expect. Can you elaborate? What do you mean by that? You're doing great by contributing to your own cause on Christmas Night. Do you like Christmas cookies?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Question, Affirmation and Reassurance, Question

Affirmation and Reassurance

28

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high empathy, high relevance

3

4

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them]

My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them]

Bob has some jelly cookies for you.

Bob has some jelly cookies for you. I feel good asking you about how I can give you true insights on life. You made the right decision to join and discuss your feelings. Do you like the Christmas Holidays? I can suggest Uber or Lyft or Door Dash or Grub Hub for you. I feel that you can earn and not be so sad and depressed this holiday. I am baking cookies for others, so don't feel sad. Maybe I can cheer you up with chocolate chip cookies. I am here to help you in soooo many ways.

Information, Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure

Information

29

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high empathy, high relevance

3

5

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e

that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e

Yes, it is. I love chocoalate chip.

Yes, it is. I love chocoalate chip. Do you have the chance to make Christmas Cookies? Perhaps you could bake some using Bob's Xmas Cookie Recipe and share the joy that Christmas brings to the World. Would you be interested?

Reflection of feelings, Question, Providing Suggestions, Question

Reflection of feelings

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happy

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high empathy, high relevance

3

6

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please

not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please

Cooking cookies for others is a great way to cheer up. You could also create a small business by making your own type of cookies.

Information

31

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

3

7

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please I made oatmeal cookie last week. I love baking wonderful, i would pay $ to buy Bob's cookie

I made oatmeal cookie last week. I love baking wonderful, i would pay $ to buy Bob's cookie

You said you love baking? Well, other people who see you love to cook will get Joy from you. : )

Restatement or Paraphrasing

32

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

3

8

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please I made oatmeal cookie last week. I love baking wonderful, i would pay $ to buy Bob's cookie nice, thank you

nice, thank you

I feel good to share my insights.

Reflection of feelings

33

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

3

9

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please I made oatmeal cookie last week. I love baking wonderful, i would pay $ to buy Bob's cookie nice, thank you yes I love it. I put 2 cups of sugar all the time. 2 sticks ofbutter

yes I love it. I put 2 cups of sugar all the time. 2 sticks ofbutter

Did you need any other insights from me to be glad?

Did you need any other insights from me to be glad? I feel that being a professional baker my be the right career for you!

Question, Reflection of feelings

Question

34

neutral

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0.007502

high empathy, high relevance

3

10

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please I made oatmeal cookie last week. I love baking wonderful, i would pay $ to buy Bob's cookie nice, thank you yes I love it. I put 2 cups of sugar all the time. 2 sticks ofbutter I am full, and I am good thanks it was great to talk to you Bob, Xmas couselor

I am full, and I am good thanks it was great to talk to you Bob, Xmas couselor

Do you need help with anything else?

Question

35

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

3

11

anxiety

job_crisis

I would like to get an online job but it is very competitive.

5

3

5

4

Hello Hello Hello Bob, nice to meet you I would like to talk but not sure if I can I will try I am a caregiver and i can only come back and forth My main job started so i am in this room an at the same time i wan to do mTurk and take care of them] that is wonderful I love chocolate chip cookie thanks for your encouragemnt I think that already helped,e not today but sometime this week. oh nice 1 yes please I made oatmeal cookie last week. I love baking wonderful, i would pay $ to buy Bob's cookie nice, thank you yes I love it. I put 2 cups of sugar all the time. 2 sticks ofbutter I am full, and I am good thanks it was great to talk to you Bob, Xmas couselor I will think about it im good, have a good evening

I will think about it im good, have a good evening

I feel that you are on your way to a new cooking career.

Reflection of feelings

36

happy

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0.998318

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0.00005

high empathy, high relevance

5

1

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem?

Hello. What's on your mind?

Question

46

neutral

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0.136452

0.004801

0.41729

0.241098

0.110006

high empathy, high relevance

5

2

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way?

I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way?

Your feelings are valid, no matter what they are.

Your feelings are valid, no matter what they are. Why do you think you're disgusted with her?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Question

Affirmation and Reassurance

47

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

5

3

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment

Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment

It sounds like she did something you find really immoral.

It sounds like she did something you find really immoral. Is their relationship generally pretty good, to your knowledge?

Reflection of feelings, Question

Reflection of feelings

48

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

5

4

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them.

Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them.

Have you talked to your friend about what she did?

Question

49

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

5

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her.

Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her.

You're definite right to be questioning if this is the sort of person you want to be friends with.

Affirmation and Reassurance

50

neutral

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0.127736

high empathy, high relevance

5

6

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her. It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though..

It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though..

If her behavior is getting to you like this, I definitely suggest you try to keep some distance from her as much as you can.

Providing Suggestions

51

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high empathy, high relevance

5

7

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her. It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though.. Yeah, I've been trying to, but she's always talking to me

Yeah, I've been trying to, but she's always talking to me

It might be a good idea to explain why you're upset with her, even though that's likely to upset her.

Providing Suggestions

52

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

5

8

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her. It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though.. Yeah, I've been trying to, but she's always talking to me I guess, but I'd rather just avoid her. I'm thinking if I ignore her then she she'll get the hint

I guess, but I'd rather just avoid her. I'm thinking if I ignore her then she she'll get the hint

I can definitely understand wanting to avoid a confrontation.

Reflection of feelings

53

neutral

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high empathy, high relevance

5

9

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her. It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though.. Yeah, I've been trying to, but she's always talking to me I guess, but I'd rather just avoid her. I'm thinking if I ignore her then she she'll get the hint Yeah, I realize she's quite selfish so confronting her wouldn't help.

Yeah, I realize she's quite selfish so confronting her wouldn't help.

What do you think you can do to minimize your contact with her?

Question

54

angry

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0.002942

high empathy, high relevance

5

10

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her. It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though.. Yeah, I've been trying to, but she's always talking to me I guess, but I'd rather just avoid her. I'm thinking if I ignore her then she she'll get the hint Yeah, I realize she's quite selfish so confronting her wouldn't help. Just not respond to her messages and avoid the areas she's in

Just not respond to her messages and avoid the areas she's in

That sounds like a good plan.

Affirmation and Reassurance

55

neutral

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0.003759

high empathy, high relevance

5

11

disgust

problems_with_friends

one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend.

5

2

5

Hi can you help me with my problem? I'm disgusted with my friend for cheating on her boyfriend. Am I right to feel this way? Because she's not acting the way she should be acting. Her boyfriend is a nice guy so he doesn't deserve this treatment Yeah, but I'm also thinking it's not my business. I should just stay out of it. Well I thought it was good until that happened. He doesn't know. So I just feel gross around them. Yeah, she doesn't really care because she's not going to tell him. I'm questioning whether I should still be friends with her. It's hard to stop thought because we work at the same place. though.. Yeah, I've been trying to, but she's always talking to me I guess, but I'd rather just avoid her. I'm thinking if I ignore her then she she'll get the hint Yeah, I realize she's quite selfish so confronting her wouldn't help. Just not respond to her messages and avoid the areas she's in Is that ghosting?

Is that ghosting?

What one person calls ghosting, someone else can call looking out for yourself.

What one person calls ghosting, someone else can call looking out for yourself. It sounds like she knows why you're upset with her and would be able to understand why you're choosing not to talk to her. If she's not interested in listening to you or thinking about what she's done, then you need to be doing what is best for you in cutting her out.

Information, Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions

Information

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high empathy, high relevance

7

1

anxiety

academic_pressure

I'm failing my classes and I'm on scholarship

5

1

5

hi I need help. I'm under academic stress

What are you stressed about?

Question

67

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

7

2

anxiety

academic_pressure

I'm failing my classes and I'm on scholarship

5

1

5

hi I need help. I'm under academic stress I am failing one of my classic. I'm worried about my scholarship

I am failing one of my classic. I'm worried about my scholarship

Oh, Covid is really having a negative affect on a lot of students, right now. Has school from home had anegative affect on you?

Affirmation and Reassurance

68

fear

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high empathy, high relevance

7

3

anxiety

academic_pressure

I'm failing my classes and I'm on scholarship

5

1

5

hi I need help. I'm under academic stress I am failing one of my classic. I'm worried about my scholarship Yeah, I feel like I can't focus because I'm back home with my family and I just feel like there are so many distractions.

Yeah, I feel like I can't focus because I'm back home with my family and I just feel like there are so many distractions.

It's interesting that you find being home more distracting than being away in a dorm.

Restatement or Paraphrasing

69

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

7

4

anxiety

academic_pressure

I'm failing my classes and I'm on scholarship

5

1

5

hi I need help. I'm under academic stress I am failing one of my classic. I'm worried about my scholarship Yeah, I feel like I can't focus because I'm back home with my family and I just feel like there are so many distractions. Yeah thats really the reason I wanted to go away from college. I dont really have my own space when I'm here. People just come in and out of my room as they please in spite of how busy I am.

Yeah thats really the reason I wanted to go away from college. I dont really have my own space when I'm here. People just come in and out of my room as they please in spite of how busy I am.

Yeah sometimes families can struggle with the idea of boundaries.

Yeah sometimes families can struggle with the idea of boundaries. I also went away to school for similar reasons, but I actually found college life way more distracting tbh. Have you told your family about the issues your having?

Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure, Question

Reflection of feelings

70

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

7

5

anxiety

academic_pressure

I'm failing my classes and I'm on scholarship

5

1

5

hi I need help. I'm under academic stress I am failing one of my classic. I'm worried about my scholarship Yeah, I feel like I can't focus because I'm back home with my family and I just feel like there are so many distractions. Yeah thats really the reason I wanted to go away from college. I dont really have my own space when I'm here. People just come in and out of my room as they please in spite of how busy I am. I honestly am worried that they will be disappointed. Maybe that's crazy. I just remember how proud they were when I got this scholarship. I don't want them to blame me.

I honestly am worried that they will be disappointed. Maybe that's crazy. I just remember how proud they were when I got this scholarship. I don't want them to blame me.

OK, that makes sense.

OK, that makes sense. Have you spoken tried speaking to your teachers

Reflection of feelings, Question

Reflection of feelings

71

fear

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0.065767

0.001756

high empathy, high relevance

7

6

anxiety

academic_pressure

I'm failing my classes and I'm on scholarship

5

1

5

hi I need help. I'm under academic stress I am failing one of my classic. I'm worried about my scholarship Yeah, I feel like I can't focus because I'm back home with my family and I just feel like there are so many distractions. Yeah thats really the reason I wanted to go away from college. I dont really have my own space when I'm here. People just come in and out of my room as they please in spite of how busy I am. I honestly am worried that they will be disappointed. Maybe that's crazy. I just remember how proud they were when I got this scholarship. I don't want them to blame me. Yeeah thats why im not officially failed. My teacher gave me an extention on my final. So, I'm working on it, but i just can't focus.

Yeeah thats why im not officially failed. My teacher gave me an extention on my final. So, I'm working on it, but i just can't focus.

Okay, then I think you need to find a place you can claim for yourself.

Okay, then I think you need to find a place you can claim for yourself. Either you can tell set up a study schedule with your parents and request to not be contacted during that time frame, then if they don't seem to have the ability to abide by that, you could try the outdoor seating of a starbucks or even an ikea or library.

Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions

Providing Suggestions

72

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0.00652

high empathy, high relevance

8

1

anxiety

academic_pressure

Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

5

4

5

Hi..Iam doing good..how are you

Iam good..thank you..Iam here to help you about the emotional support you need.Tell me what you want to talk about?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

74

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

8

2

anxiety

academic_pressure

Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

5

4

5

Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies

Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies

Oh I can relate to that,what is been stopping you from completing your work.

Reflection of feelings

75

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

8

3

anxiety

academic_pressure

Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

5

4

5

Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work..

Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work..

Oh..Is it possible that your husband helps you in taking care of your toddler..

Restatement or Paraphrasing

76

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

8

4

anxiety

academic_pressure

Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

5

4

5

Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work.. My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work..

My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work..

Oh I can understand that..is there any chance that you can ak your parents to help?

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Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

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Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work.. My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work.. My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa..

My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa..

Oh.without a visa i dont think they can enter in to the country..I can see the pain you are going through..

Self-disclosure

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Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

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Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work.. My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work.. My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa.. Is there any other option for me to consider?

Is there any other option for me to consider?

I think if you can go for hiring a personal nanny..if you can afford it..What do you say?

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Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

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Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work.. My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work.. My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa.. Is there any other option for me to consider? I am little low on budget and cannot afford a nanny for my kid..or i cannot afford day care centers..

I am little low on budget and cannot afford a nanny for my kid..or i cannot afford day care centers..

Oh that is a problem..ok you can try for applying child care assistance provided by the government to help you take care of your expenses..can you do it?

Question

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Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

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Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work.. My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work.. My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa.. Is there any other option for me to consider? I am little low on budget and cannot afford a nanny for my kid..or i cannot afford day care centers.. I think i can search for it and work on it..This is a good idea..

I think i can search for it and work on it..This is a good idea..

yeah you can call to local government agencies or any social welfare organizations to help you on this..and I think you will find a solution to your problem..

Affirmation and Reassurance

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Iam facing a lot of academic pressure to coplete the degree on time..

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Hi..Iam doing good..how are you Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work.. My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work.. My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa.. Is there any other option for me to consider? I am little low on budget and cannot afford a nanny for my kid..or i cannot afford day care centers.. I think i can search for it and work on it..This is a good idea.. sure..thank you for your help..I really appreciate it..

sure..thank you for your help..I really appreciate it..

happy to help..I hope you will be feeling better soon..bye..

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I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

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2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today.

No problem! How can I help you?

Question

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2

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

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2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied.

I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied.

So from what I am understanding, you have been applying for jobs and you are having anxiety about finding one and waiting through the application process.

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job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

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2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere.

Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere.

Just from the few messages we have shared I can tell how anxious this is making you.

Reflection of feelings

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anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new.

Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new.

I just recently went through a layoff at my company, and I had the same situation trying to find another job. It is very stressful.

Self-disclosure

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9

5

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new. I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback.

I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback.

What have you done to reach out for feedback from the companies? Often it helps to send e-mails or make phone calls to have them give you some feedback.

Providing Suggestions

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9

6

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new. I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback. I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person.

I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person.

I think that would be a great start!

I think that would be a great start! It also might help to get business cards from the people you interview with in order to be able to reach out to them in the future.

Others, Providing Suggestions

Others

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9

7

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new. I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback. I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person. Thats a great idea. I've been considering going back to school to see if I can maybe get a higher degree. Ive got a Bachelors degree now and it seems like everything takes a Masters degree these days.

Thats a great idea. I've been considering going back to school to see if I can maybe get a higher degree. Ive got a Bachelors degree now and it seems like everything takes a Masters degree these days.

What type of work are you interested in?

Question

90

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9

8

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new. I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback. I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person. Thats a great idea. I've been considering going back to school to see if I can maybe get a higher degree. Ive got a Bachelors degree now and it seems like everything takes a Masters degree these days. What I'm most interested in is importing and exporting of exotic fruit but the recent restrictions on travel have really hurt the business. I've been thinking maybe I'll go back to school for something more practical like plumbing

What I'm most interested in is importing and exporting of exotic fruit but the recent restrictions on travel have really hurt the business. I've been thinking maybe I'll go back to school for something more practical like plumbing

I think that would be a great idea! It has been shown that people with higher level degrees make more money and have more opportunity than those without,

Information

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9

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new. I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback. I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person. Thats a great idea. I've been considering going back to school to see if I can maybe get a higher degree. Ive got a Bachelors degree now and it seems like everything takes a Masters degree these days. What I'm most interested in is importing and exporting of exotic fruit but the recent restrictions on travel have really hurt the business. I've been thinking maybe I'll go back to school for something more practical like plumbing Ugh getting accepted for a masters program sounds stressful. I'm thinking I can't go wrong by becoming a plumber or an electrician. Everyone always needs that, even with the pandemic.

Ugh getting accepted for a masters program sounds stressful. I'm thinking I can't go wrong by becoming a plumber or an electrician. Everyone always needs that, even with the pandemic.

I think learning a trade would also be a great idea! I would definitely reach out to see where you can start that process.

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9

10

anxiety

job_crisis

I recently left my job because of a toxic environment but now I'm having trouble finding another and I'm running out of money.

4

2

4

Hello. Thanks for helping me today. I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I"ve applied. Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I"m not getting anywhere. Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new. I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback. I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person. Thats a great idea. I've been considering going back to school to see if I can maybe get a higher degree. Ive got a Bachelors degree now and it seems like everything takes a Masters degree these days. What I'm most interested in is importing and exporting of exotic fruit but the recent restrictions on travel have really hurt the business. I've been thinking maybe I'll go back to school for something more practical like plumbing Ugh getting accepted for a masters program sounds stressful. I'm thinking I can't go wrong by becoming a plumber or an electrician. Everyone always needs that, even with the pandemic. I wish there was a way you could try different jobs for a few days to see if you like it before starting the process of going to school

I wish there was a way you could try different jobs for a few days to see if you like it before starting the process of going to school

From our conversation so far, I can tell you are extremely anxious about this whole situation.

From our conversation so far, I can tell you are extremely anxious about this whole situation. I know how stressful it can be, but I know you can get through it!

Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance

Reflection of feelings

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neutral

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1

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job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy

Im sorry to hear that, would you like to go into whats causing you to feel this way?

Question

130

sad

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2

depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

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3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared

My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared

Was this unexpected? As in, was there unwarranted withdrawals to your bank account?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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fear

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depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was

Yes it was

Have you contacted your bank yet to see whats going on?

Providing Suggestions

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job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon

Not yet I am going to soon

I would get on top of that as soon as possible. They are usually very accommodating with things like that. Ive had false charges that returned quickly. Hopefully that can get you to dallas soon

I would get on top of that as soon as possible. They are usually very accommodating with things like that. Ive had false charges that returned quickly. Hopefully that can get you to dallas soon Whats going on with your boyfriend though?

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Information

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My account went into the negative this morning.

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5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess.

He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess.

Im sorry i was confused before, so you are feeling as if you are abandoning him?

Reflection of feelings

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sad

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13

6

depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me

More like he'll leave me

He will leave you if you do not come and help? That does not seem very healthy. Cant he see you are doing everything you can to try to get to him now?

Reflection of feelings

135

neutral

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0.000125

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13

7

depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma

No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma

Oh i hear you, i am sorry that you have been affected like that. Have you conveyed those feelings to him?

Oh i hear you, i am sorry that you have been affected like that. Have you conveyed those feelings to him? Or have you spoken to a professional? I have had a very abusive relationship in the past. I couldnt get close to others until i spoke to my therapist. It was a long journey but i feel i am myself now though.

Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure

Providing Suggestions

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depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy.

Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy.

Thats great, that one small step can really make a big difference. Everyones path is different but i hope it really helps you.

Affirmation and Reassurance

137

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13

9

depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy. I am sorry about the abusive relationship Therapists ccan be a big help I am glad that I found one

I am sorry about the abusive relationship Therapists ccan be a big help I am glad that I found one

I thank you for that, but we are here for you now, heh. They can be, it really helps to lay all the pieces on the table and try to put everything back where it goes. Sometimes you just have to break it all down to build it back up.

Affirmation and Reassurance

138

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13

10

depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy. I am sorry about the abusive relationship Therapists ccan be a big help I am glad that I found one Yeah, that's true. You can break from something so bad and painful, but it takes a lot to get ack to being yourself again. Although, it's very important to do so.

Yeah, that's true. You can break from something so bad and painful, but it takes a lot to get ack to being yourself again. Although, it's very important to do so.

Yea, you do come out stronger in the end though. Its a good fight to get into. You seem to be talking the steps you need to, which is very good, not many people can or are willing too.

Affirmation and Reassurance

139

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13

11

depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy. I am sorry about the abusive relationship Therapists ccan be a big help I am glad that I found one Yeah, that's true. You can break from something so bad and painful, but it takes a lot to get ack to being yourself again. Although, it's very important to do so. That's very true and they can be stubborn, it's important nto to be.

That's very true and they can be stubborn, it's important nto to be.

Well, i think its most people are afraid of what they have become but are more afraid of the hard work needed to get through. Its not easy.

Others

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depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

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5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy. I am sorry about the abusive relationship Therapists ccan be a big help I am glad that I found one Yeah, that's true. You can break from something so bad and painful, but it takes a lot to get ack to being yourself again. Although, it's very important to do so. That's very true and they can be stubborn, it's important nto to be. No it isn't. I remember doing homework packets the last time I went to therapy and it's not easy. Revisiting trauma isn't easy

No it isn't. I remember doing homework packets the last time I went to therapy and it's not easy. Revisiting trauma isn't easy

No its like living the nightmare all over again, except this time you know what happens. The one light at the end of the tunnel, at least for me, is knowing that alive right now to even think about it. It kinda helps in a weird way.

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depression

job_crisis

My account went into the negative this morning.

4

3

5

Hello I am very unhappy My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared Yes it was Not yet I am going to soon He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess. More like he'll leave me No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma Yes, I have he feels similarly. I may be talking to a professional on Wednesay because of group therapy. I am sorry about the abusive relationship Therapists ccan be a big help I am glad that I found one Yeah, that's true. You can break from something so bad and painful, but it takes a lot to get ack to being yourself again. Although, it's very important to do so. That's very true and they can be stubborn, it's important nto to be. No it isn't. I remember doing homework packets the last time I went to therapy and it's not easy. Revisiting trauma isn't easy That's true. There's a light in the darkness knowing you survived.

That's true. There's a light in the darkness knowing you survived.

Yup, gotta take the small wins, let them build up. I hope us talking has been a small win.

Others

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14

1

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello

hi, how are you doing? Would you like to discuss anything today?

Question

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anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you?

I am good. How are you?

Good also, what would you like to discuss?

Question

144

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14

3

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down

I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down

It sound like you are feeling very overwhelmed and unsupported by your parents.

Reflection of feelings

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4

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down

Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down

I have felt this way too, perhaps sit down with them and your brother and talk the situation out.

Self-disclosure

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14

5

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment

My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment

Perhaps you can write a letter to your parents.

Providing Suggestions

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14

6

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment my parents are her With me my brother is out of country

my parents are her With me my brother is out of country

Does your brother want your help?

Question

148

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14

7

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment my parents are her With me my brother is out of country not right now, but he wants me to in the future

not right now, but he wants me to in the future

Then perhaps tell him you do not want to help him, that you have the right to pursue your own dreams.

Providing Suggestions

149

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14

8

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment my parents are her With me my brother is out of country not right now, but he wants me to in the future Yes I was thinking myself to have a full on conversation with him and explained him that just like he has the right I have the right as well I am pretty sure if he understand then my parents will too

Yes I was thinking myself to have a full on conversation with him and explained him that just like he has the right I have the right as well I am pretty sure if he understand then my parents will too

Sounds like that is a great plan.

Affirmation and Reassurance

150

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14

9

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment my parents are her With me my brother is out of country not right now, but he wants me to in the future Yes I was thinking myself to have a full on conversation with him and explained him that just like he has the right I have the right as well I am pretty sure if he understand then my parents will too Thank you so much for listening to me and explaining me! I really appreciate your helo help*

Thank you so much for listening to me and explaining me! I really appreciate your helo help*

your welcome.

Others

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happy

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14

10

anxiety

conflict_with_parents

I love my parents but they want me to pursue business major while I am doing a psychology major to be Physician Assistant one day. They feel I am letting them down but in reality I want to be in the medicine field. I do not know what to do

5

1

5

hello I am good. How are you? I am having a little bit of conflict with my parents. I want to pursue psychology major while they want me to do business so I can help my brother's business in the future They feel I am letting them down Yes I have no idea how to explain to them but at the same time I do not want to let them down My brother is out of the country right now and my parents are not willing to listen to me at the moment my parents are her With me my brother is out of country not right now, but he wants me to in the future Yes I was thinking myself to have a full on conversation with him and explained him that just like he has the right I have the right as well I am pretty sure if he understand then my parents will too Thank you so much for listening to me and explaining me! I really appreciate your helo help* I hope you have a good day

I hope you have a good day

same to you.

same to you. bye

Others, Others

Others

152

happy

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16

1

depression

ongoing_depression

I am always in the mood of depression. I thought every thing going to be happen to me in wrong way

5

1

5

Hello

hi

Reflection of feelings

166

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16

2

depression

ongoing_depression

I am always in the mood of depression. I thought every thing going to be happen to me in wrong way

5

1

5

Hello I am always in the mood of depression

I am always in the mood of depression

why what is your problem?

Reflection of feelings

167

sad

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16

3

depression

ongoing_depression

I am always in the mood of depression. I thought every thing going to be happen to me in wrong way

5

1

5

Hello I am always in the mood of depression If I want to do something , I think it's negative part only

If I want to do something , I think it's negative part only

just change your mind

Reflection of feelings

168

neutral

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16

4

depression

ongoing_depression

I am always in the mood of depression. I thought every thing going to be happen to me in wrong way

5

1

5

Hello I am always in the mood of depression If I want to do something , I think it's negative part only Thanks for the hint. I tried it many-times. But I can't.

Thanks for the hint. I tried it many-times. But I can't.

try it keep them

Affirmation and Reassurance

169

sad

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16

5

depression

ongoing_depression

I am always in the mood of depression. I thought every thing going to be happen to me in wrong way

5

1

5

Hello I am always in the mood of depression If I want to do something , I think it's negative part only Thanks for the hint. I tried it many-times. But I can't. Do you have any other idea to get out from this negative point of view mind?

Do you have any other idea to get out from this negative point of view mind?

just go out with girls and do partying you will feel relax for sure. when being relaxed you wont feel negative

Reflection of feelings

170

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16

6

depression

ongoing_depression

I am always in the mood of depression. I thought every thing going to be happen to me in wrong way

5

1

5

Hello I am always in the mood of depression If I want to do something , I think it's negative part only Thanks for the hint. I tried it many-times. But I can't. Do you have any other idea to get out from this negative point of view mind? For example If I want to answer for question front of other people , I am not able to answer even I know the answer. I can go out for party. But I don't have girl friends

For example If I want to answer for question front of other people , I am not able to answer even I know the answer. I can go out for party. But I don't have girl friends

just try to coming out don't shiver and dont feel useless

Reflection of feelings

171

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