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[0.000 --> 6.240]  Hey, Chip Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com. We're talking today about some romantic things that you
[6.240 --> 12.080]  can do with the girl to make her swoon over you. Now, here's the thing. You're not going to hear
[12.080 --> 16.640]  the typical things that you usually hear. And I hope you already know that when you hear Tripp Advice,
[16.640 --> 22.240]  that we're not talking about the general advice that most people give, like giving her a compliment
[22.240 --> 29.360]  or sending her flowers or buying her stuff or opening the door for her, all these chivalrous moves.
[29.360 --> 34.160]  Yeah, some of those things are nice, but really, when you want to build deep attraction,
[34.160 --> 41.520]  if you want to make her swoon and really like you, it's about dominance. What do I mean by dominance?
[41.520 --> 46.560]  Dominance means that you are in control of the interaction that happens with the girl and you are
[46.560 --> 51.440]  leading. So there's a few things that I'm going to tell you today where you're taking the lead.
[52.080 --> 57.520]  And it is going to make her like you and even turn her on because you're going to be showing a masculine
[57.520 --> 64.480]  trait which her being the feminine is attracted to. Let's get into it. The first very simple,
[64.480 --> 70.480]  when you are dating a girl or even the first date, you pick the place where you guys are going.
[70.480 --> 77.760]  Yes, you showing that control, you showing that you are making the decision being decisive is very
[77.760 --> 82.240]  attractive and it is romantic and it doesn't matter really where you're going. I'm going to recommend
[82.240 --> 86.640]  to you if it's a first date that you grab coffee or get a drink, but you pick the place, you pick the
[86.640 --> 92.800]  time, let her know what the situation is. Lead her. She's going to like this a lot. Now,
[92.800 --> 98.960]  staying on the topic of leading, I want you to be the one to lead her to the bedroom. Of course,
[98.960 --> 105.120]  with consent, but I want you to initiate that. That is romantic, that is sexy, that is taking control,
[105.120 --> 110.080]  that is masculine, all the characteristics. I can't stop repeating to you that you need to be
[110.080 --> 116.320]  able to embody, being able to lead her to the bedroom is really an amazing thing because a woman,
[116.880 --> 123.520]  it's not really in her DNA to necessarily do that. Yes, sometimes she will, but she wants to be led.
[123.520 --> 127.360]  Now, I want to be very careful here. I know a lot of guys end up complaining like, why do we have
[127.360 --> 132.160]  to do all the work? Don't think about it as you doing all the work and her not her being lazy. Just
[132.160 --> 136.240]  think about it in terms of how the masculine and feminine work together in terms of creating
[136.240 --> 141.040]  attraction. Like I've been saying, the masculine is the one who's dominant and leads, and the woman
[141.040 --> 145.600]  is there to receive. Now, here's another one sort of related to the first one I said is, if you're
[145.600 --> 151.440]  dating a girl, have been with her for a while, doing something that they enjoy. Okay? So, something
[151.440 --> 156.880]  that she said that she likes to do, I want you to plan that. That's very romantic and also still
[156.880 --> 161.760]  staying on the topic of being dominant and leading, still that as well. Right? So, you've been talking
[161.760 --> 165.440]  to her, you've been getting to know her, she says she likes something or she likes a certain movie or
[165.440 --> 171.440]  a certain activity, whatever it is, just plan it and go for it. Okay? So, again, this is not necessarily
[171.440 --> 175.760]  going to be the first date. This is something maybe down the line, but make sure you're listening to her.
[175.760 --> 180.240]  And make sure when you know, just say, hey, we're doing something fun tonight, something spontaneous,
[180.240 --> 184.800]  something different. Are you free tonight at eight? If so, let's do this. Don't tell it what it is,
[184.800 --> 189.680]  keep it a mystery, and boom, you're again in that dominant position. And she's going to love it
[189.680 --> 193.520]  because it's something that she likes and you have been listening to her. Here's another one for
[193.520 --> 200.160]  when you're farther down into the dating process from maybe relationship. The act of actually asking her
[200.880 --> 205.440]  what her love language is. Okay? If you don't know what that is, not going to talk about in this video,
[205.440 --> 209.200]  talk about another video, but you can look it up, but there's five different ways that people receive
[209.200 --> 213.600]  love. And so, if you know what your love language is, and you can communicate that to your partner,
[213.600 --> 218.160]  they can speak your love language and then it really helps with the relationship. So, the
[218.160 --> 222.720]  act of sitting down and talking to her about that is actually going to be very romantic, because it's
[222.720 --> 225.840]  going to show that you care. And also, it's going to be good for you because you're going to
[225.840 --> 229.520]  really tell her what your love language is, and you guys are going to be able to connect on that
[229.520 --> 233.920]  level. Like I said, it's going to allow for a deeper intimacy between the two of you, and she's
[233.920 --> 239.600]  going to like it. Now, if you can't guess what the last one is, I'll just tell you. The last one
[239.600 --> 244.800]  is you're going to act on it, right? So, it's not just about having the conversation that's going to
[244.800 --> 248.320]  be romantic, but you're going to actually act on it. You're going to find out what her love
[248.320 --> 254.000]  language is and how she receives love. And then you're going to figure out how you can do that,
[254.000 --> 258.640]  right? So, I'll give you just a little tip here. You know, the five are quality time, physical
[258.640 --> 264.560]  touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, and gifts. Okay, so these are the five ones. And so,
[264.560 --> 269.200]  you're going to act on that. You're going to do something that relates to her love language.
[269.200 --> 274.320]  And then, round and round, you guys go, you're going to be very happy, and it's going to be a great
[274.800 --> 278.240]  time. Now, in number two, I told you about leaving her to the bedroom, but you might not know how to
[278.240 --> 282.960]  build that sexual tension between you and the girl. Well, I have a video that actually demonstrates
[282.960 --> 288.160]  that. You can watch that and learn how to build that tension so you can smoothly lead her to the
[288.160 --> 292.000]  bedroom. So, I'm just going to check that out. It's a free video. It's down in the description
[292.000 --> 296.880]  below. Go get that. And then in the comments, write down which one you think is something that you
[296.880 --> 302.160]  can use soon and something that you can do to be able to be more romantic and in the end of the
[302.160 --> 312.160]  day, get her more attracted to you. Let's hear from you, and I'll see you in the next video.